My Wife-to-be

[BoxerYY]

Hi Bros,

Is my very first virgin post and I do not know what to contribute but all about my wife-to-be. Some bros may prefer to read as a story but some may read it as a problem to me. Whatever it is, i do hope that from this forum, i can find my true solution to me problems. Thank you !!!!

P/s : Is 100% fact !!!! Unless otherwise stated

I know a gal by the name of Karen (not her real name) and we have been together for almost a year and I am prepared to marry her but recently I realised something about her which worries me and at the same time, ironically excite me. I do not have fetish about her cheating on me and I DO NOT LIKE TO BE BETRAYED AND CHEATED !!!! But somehow, it does excite me.

I suspect that she is seeing her ex-BF thus decided to check on her. As I am staying at her house right now, is easier for me to spy on her. First, i need to know who is she talking with and who is her MSN friends. I planted a spyware in her PC and i manage to capture all infos.. ( i dun need to talk much about this) Well, I get to see her email and everything that is enough for me to know. Yes, she stil cant forget her ex. That i can foegive her as is not easy for someone to forget her past love ones as long as she did not betrayed me. All this i am least worry but recently I realised that her sex drive has increased tremendously. I juz could not satisfy her. But on the other hand, she is not those lose type of gals. She dun like to wear bras at home irregardless how thin the T she is wearing or who is in the house. Thus I am going to break my story into various parts by incidents. Pls do comments as you read on.

[ginlee888]

Hi Bros,

Is my very first virgin post and I do not know what to contribute but all about my wife-to-be. Some bros may prefer to read as a story but some may read it as a problem to me. Whatever it is, i do hope that from this forum, i can find my true solution to me problems. Thank you !!!!

P/s : Is 100% fact !!!! Unless otherwise stated

I know a gal by the name of Karen (not her real name) and we have been together for almost a year and I am prepared to marry her but recently I realised something about her which worries me and at the same time, ironically excite me. I do not have fetish about her cheating on me and I DO NOT LIKE TO BE BETRAYED AND CHEATED !!!! But somehow, it does excite me.

I suspect that she is seeing her ex-BF thus decided to check on her. As I am staying at her house right now, is easier for me to spy on her. First, i need to know who is she talking with and who is her MSN friends. I planted a spyware in her PC and i manage to capture all infos.. ( i dun need to talk much about this) Well, I get to see her email and everything that is enough for me to know. Yes, she stil cant forget her ex. That i can foegive her as is not easy for someone to forget her past love ones as long as she did not betrayed me. All this i am least worry but recently I realised that her sex drive has increased tremendously. I juz could not satisfy her. But on the other hand, she is not those lose type of gals. She dun like to wear bras at home irregardless how thin the T she is wearing or who is in the house. Thus I am going to break my story into various parts by incidents. Pls do comments as you read on.

Bro, just continue with the rest of the story.

[whitegals]

Brudder,

I think you shouldn't marry her. Not because she might be cheating on you, but becos you dun even respect her enough to give her a sense of privacy.

If you're gonna resort to these methods everytime you suspect something, you better pray she never finds out or there'll be hell to pay.

If you're gonna marry her, love and respect her always. :cool:

[elvee123]

If there's no more trust between the 2.. what's there to talk about love, and marriage, will only end up in more quarrels and unnecessary conflict..

[tryying]

Chances that your wife to be will be bonk by her ex, her ex ex, her ex ex ex etc.... after you married her. After that, she might be bonking with other guys too since she got use to it.

I got such an encounter with a married woman before. Got bonk by someone as her hubby dick too small for her. In the end, she turn to me but we didn't happen. No chemistry as she quote plus she got feeling with her ex when I allow her to met him before we meet. BIG mistake but no choice, it is fated.

To thread starter, all the best n if she really kenna bonk by him, close one eye n find someone else to bonk. Marriage are hard to come, woman are easy to get. This is the world we living in. ;)

[singexpat]

seems kinda weird tht u can still plan to get married when u dun even trust her..

wats next after spyware?? PI??:eek:

[zunbo]

IMHO, Bro.... marriage is base on Faith and trust. Like the marriage Vows.Honour and treasure.

Honour = faithful and respect. Whatever her past or misgiving u must accept it WHOLE. If u can't accept whatever she is doing now or have faith in her. Then i rather u take a step back and think of yr future.

[FA-22 Raptor]

For any relationship to work, the basic ingredient is TRUST. Without it, it cannot work. Let alone a marriage. You sounds very immature and childish by suspecting her. How about yourself, do you have other sexual relationship with FL, GF, ONS, etc?

[OceanEleven]

[QUOTE=tryying Marriage are hard to come, woman are easy to get. This is the world we living in. ;)[/QUOTE]
百世修得同船渡，千世修得共枕眠。

[edack]

most impt bf gf must have trust ,or else difficult

[WoW_LaU]

No Trust, no believe and no faith in her. Then better dun marry her.
Betrayal is a sin. :p

[Deep Blue]

You had just touch the taboo in a relationship, that is trust. So what that you had some concrete evidence that she is seeing someone or even sleeping around, what good does it do? Show her that you had been tapping on her and yes she is indeed betraying your love, trust and faith?

Give it a thought, even you are willing to forgive her and continue to be together, it will be a strain relationship for there will always be a distrust taste in it. Sooner or later both of you will get skeptical about each other's actions and behaviour. Well, enough is said. :cool:

[MahjongSiao]

冤孽! to think u still can be 'excited' abt the fact she cheated on you... but apart of her being wrong.... i think u shld 检讨 urself... fancy u spying on ur wife to be???.... cant imagine what else u wld do next time when she becomes ur official wife.... make her wear chasity belt??

[catchnoball]

Why let go a forest just to keep one flower.........

I agreed with the guys, dun be stupid....there plenty of gals out there to wait to be BONKING. Why get yourself into his kind of deep shit heartache.

cheers

[WoW_LaU]

冤孽! to think u still can be 'excited' abt the fact she cheated on you... but apart of her being wrong.... i think u shld 检讨 urself... fancy u spying on ur wife to be???.... cant imagine what else u wld do next time when she becomes ur official wife.... make her wear chasity belt??

think we should stop commenting liao. let him continue his story again. :D

[beck7777]

NO trust No need to talk much... marry her? bro i suggest u either start trusting her or find some new gf whom u can trust... :)

[niwde7]

i think he too shy to come out
no news sofar.

[dirtymonk82]

just a question, do u guys believe in marriage vow...til death do us part???

[BoxerYY]

My apology for posting now... as I am very busy for the day.

I am very surprised by the replies and comments.. well, i must admit that I should not feel excited about my wife being bio or even more than that.. I do know. I am also trying very hard to change this type of mentality. As for should she be my wife, to be honest, I am too deep into the relationship and I cant help it.. i really cant pull myself out of the relationship. I am most willing to take the gamble, gave her a chance and see if she choose to be with me or not to... I am sorry to say that I know I shouldn't monitor her and i think i will cont to do the same till i know she is faithful to me.

Well, i will start my story now. As i have said, you can read it as a story or as my encouters and maybe base on all the incidents that I am going to relate conclude my endings.

Air Con Servicing
I took a day off for that day as the aircon man is here for the servicing. I immed remind her that she better wear a bra as her nipples are too prominent under her thin layer of T-shirt. She ignore me and say that they did not see before meh? If wana see take off their own shirt and they can see already. Well thats her character. .open minded and straight forward. Well though I took a day off, i bring my work from office back to her house and do. As i am busy using the laptop and having a teleconference with my clients, the technician came and there are a total of 2 of them. I have been monitoring them and eyeing on their direction of where they are looking. It does not took them too long before they realised that she is not wearing a bra and worst of all, a loose T. They are trying so hard to bio and they are not bothered by my presence cos I am busy talking on the phone.

As one of the techincian climb out to top up the gas, the other one was stading on the ladder explaining to her wats wrong with the aircon blower and a chemical is a must. Fug, as he is explainin, is too clear cut that he is also bioing and even the tight jeans he is wearing cannot hide his hard-on. As he is washing, he request her to help him by holding onto the pail and she really did that. Which i find it a bit stupid as they are trained to handle all this by themselves. Is too obvious about his motive behind. Well, I should have step forward and assist but beside talking on an important issue and also wana see wats up his sleeves. Suddenly, I dun know how, he pointed his pipe to her standing below and she is all wet.. As she is afraid to let go of the pail, fearing that the pail of water will spill onto the floor. Thus, she cont to hold on and did not move an inch though she was wet from head to toe. her protuding nipples and the whole boobs are more prominent under the wet this sheet of T. He apologise for all this and worst of all, did not offer to hand on to the pail for her but instead, use a cloth to wipe her body for her.I have to stress one thing is that she is not a easy to get gal but in a way she is too open minded thats all .. reason is becos till today, she has not betrayed me... well read on and you will know what i meant by open minded.

[KingEros]

千世修得共枕眠。
Or as the auntie next door always say ... 相欠债. :rolleyes:

[tryying]

We are adult, not kids anymore. Married liao, must trust each other. Like my wife n I chat over the phone just now. She say she want to go to Pub n I just say "Go lor". She then tell me since I give green light, she will do it. I reply to her that up to her lor, since she want to try it. But I know that even she become bad in the end, as long the marriage stays, let her be what she want.

No freedom for each other is bad as one will want to try in the end n the result, will be very bad. Freedom is what every one wants, restriction will hurt a marriage more. FYI, me just hook up a wife yesterday in icq n she been doing it with other liao. Told me that fingers n toes also not enough to count but she is not pretty but yet, she can get man. Therefore, don't think your wife is simple looking, no one wants, heh heh! :D

[sToNeCoLd]

The basic fundamentals to keep a healthy marriage/relationships going is to have faith & trust. Not a man to pass any judgemental views; I guess morally you are doing something very wrong to your present girlfriend now. She deserves her private space as she not legally married to you and I think you should respect her privacy in that perspective.

My 2ct worth.

[BoxerYY]

Thanks Bros,

I got the message across and from now onwards, I will and wana be the happy man. I will have a good heart to heart talk with her tonight and will thrash out everything with her but of cos minue the spying issue.

If she thinks that i am the man she wana be with, i will stay with her but if she thinks tat i am not good enuf, i will force myself to say bye bye to her and leave her. I know is going to be heartache but i have to force myself to do it.

I will stop all spying activities and let nature takes its course or rather leave everything to fate. Thanks bros.. thanks for the advise.. i hope my net post will be about my happy incidents between me and my wife and not some sad sad endings...

thanks

[ricardo]

P/s : Is 100% fact !!!! Unless otherwise stated


He apologise for all this and worst of all, did not offer to hand on to the pail for her but instead, use a cloth to wipe her body for her.

boxer,

either your wife to be is stupid or u think we r. which woman in their right mind will allow that? open minded or not!

ok ok, i know we should just read this as a story and dun care if it is real or not. but writing like this and still say 100% fact is really insulting our intelligence.

story good i still can tahan but knn story so many holes somemore post so slow as if he needs a lot of time to write that few sentences.

so bro, better buck up and write a nice steam story or else when my power resume i will be the first to zap. dun worry i will leave my name when zap one.

[oakleyeug]

Bro Ricardo,

I don mean to be KPO but what he say does not mean no proof, I do have a few expamle to quote.

I was a On Site engineer for a Internet Co and my scope is to handle most of the consumer at home, there is a few incident when I saw gals going braless. Most of these ladies are good looking and I have too was having a hard on, but never once was I offered a screw (maybe I look like a monster):p .

My ex GF belongs to this cat, she usually goes around braless and don mind anyone is looking at her. So I would dare to say who and where loh, not inpossible but see ur luck lah. Maybe we have the same gf?:eek:

Oak

[Wins88]

My apology for posting now... as I am very busy for the day.

Iuse a cloth to wipe her body for her.I have to stress one thing is that she is not a easy to get gal but in a way she is too open minded thats all .. reason is becos till today, she has not betrayed me... well read on and you will know what i meant by open minded.

Bro, upon reading your two postings regarding this matter - I think your GF or fiance is a exhibitionist or displays plenty of exhibitionistic tendencies. Perhaps she is into having sex in "dangerous" public places etc. where the thril of getting caught or spied upon is a major turn on to her? I think you guys need to examine how sexually compatible you are.

[Five Stone]

Thanks Bros,

I got the message across and from now onwards, I will and wana be the happy man. I will have a good heart to heart talk with her tonight and will thrash out everything with her but of cos minue the spying issue. Thanks bros.. thanks for the advise.. i hope my net post will be about my happy incidents between me and my wife and not some sad sad endings...

I guess this is the best way out without hurting each other, just be upfront about it and iron things out. This is not the stock market, any speculation will just prolong the agony and with no returns as well. ;)

[wingnut]

well, thread turnin into some counselling thread ? but i guess it's all bros giving worthy advice. deep down we are still sheep in wolves skin ? anyways, you got to get it off your mind. or else, it's better for you to walk away. forgive is always easier than forgeting.

be well

[ass_robber]

Rent the True Lies VCD and copy how Arnold deals with it. Bug her phone, arrange for the helicopter to blast the guy the wife is seeing and make her do your bidding.

[BoxerYY]

My apology for posting so late.... cos I am stuck with my own things...

Anyway, I got all the msg and all the advises from all bros out there..

As what I have mentioned earlier on, will post this as a story but will not be updated everyday as normally by the time i come back from work, i am dead beat.

Massage

She is a massage lover as she constantly complaint about her back pain and want me to gave her the permission to have her back massage. Of cos no prob lar tats wat i reply her but she said tat she need a male thrapist. I was speechless and asked the reasom behind and she replied that she need a hard rub on her shoulder and back to relive the aching muscle.. Ok tats the fact cos unless i really use my strength if not she wont feel good as she has very tight shoulder... After much considerations and pestering, I agrees cos she agrees tat I can be around when the thrapist is around so that I can be rest assure of professionalism. Well her friends recommended her a male thrapist that can make house call and is good. I have double cfm with her friends tat is a male thrapist and no hankie pankie type...

since she is so ensuring that is a real massage and not those so call special tat we men are looking for, i did not took a day leave for tat session but instead, i place a video cam on the shelves and has tape down the whole process so tat to make sure she is not lying to me... I know is a bit despicable but before I can regain full confi in her, tats the best i can do and also see for myself wat kind of male thrapist is he.

Well from the recorded shots, i heard the door bell ring and after some light intro, both of them step into the room. (I have set the timing of the recording time as I know wat time is the appt. basically is 15mins earlier) Wah wat kind of male thrapist is that and he is so skinny and he look damn young.. I heard that my wife strike a few conversation and she stripped naked and he starts the massage session.. Everything went on smoothly and when she was asked to turn around, he start to remove the towel covering the breast and start to massage her breast.. can see tat she is shocked and asked him she dun need this but he says tat is part of the massage and the this massage can helps to relive her tension which is linked to her shoulder.. BULL SHIT !!!! I am thinking to myself.. she hesitate for a while and accpted it ... He took almost 20 mins juz to concentrate on her boobs and he slowly move down to her legs and toes and slowly up again...

He break the silence tat he is going to do massage round her sensitive area and if she dun like she can stop him immed. She nodded and he bagan to move his fingers around her V part... Ta Ma De.. is not massage anymore and basically is masterbating for her.. or fingering for her..She quiver for a while and hold his hands and signal for him to stop and says tat is not right as is should not be part of the massage. He reply tat if you look at it as a sexual intimacy, then is not massage anymore instead is a sexual harasslement... but it does helps you to relieve your muscles and achieved relaxation and is different from when you having sex.. and stress tat he can stop if she wants to but a pity as this is the best part and the last part of the session.. She can stop his service in future if he fails to relive her tight muscles.. She again hesistate for a while but decided to cont.

I can see that she has reach orgasm and is a multiple ones.. and ok they did nothing.. i mean no sexual intercourse but he kind of MOLESTED HER !!!!!

DAmn... i asked her about the session and she tell me everything.. exactly as what I saw in the video but stress tat i must not be angry after hearing the last part... I agree and she tell me about the boobs massage and the private part massage... I asked her how she feels and she says tat is GREAT !!!! tats all... hianz.. tats a lie...

will be posting the next one GATHERING