Meet the Parents Session

[xiaoqiang]

Hi all bro here, CNY coming soon 1st me wishes all samsters and bro here a veri happy CNY huh...as u all can see the title of this thread is meet the parents session, Hereby It's the 1st ger Which asked her parent whether could i join em for their reunion dinner... It's the 1st time i came across this... Any bro had any stories of MTP session? I felt that it's could be our make it or break it kinda thing and could counted as a good old days 10 - 20 yrs down the road... it's something veri memorable... Hope exp bros could shares their stories here... =)

P/S: Sorry as it's not regrading abt any sexual matters :D

[aikoN79]

i met a lot of my gf parents b4... all like me lei ~

Dos : act guai guai, wear smartly, chat with them, be friendly, be respectful, offer to wash the dishes.

Donts : act ah beng, keep silent, anti-social, hide inside ya gf room all the time, dig your nose in front of them, spend the nite in ya gf room.

u will be fine ~

[SkyEvo]

i met a lot of my gf parents b4... all like me lei ~

Dos : act guai guai, wear smartly, chat with them, be friendly, be respectful, offer to wash the dishes.

Donts : act ah beng, keep silent, anti-social, hide inside ya gf room all the time, dig your nose in front of them, spend the nite in ya gf room.

u will be fine ~


Same,met up with a couple of my exgf's folks,as long as u try to be humble and friendly,things should go just fine...

Try to be spontaneous during conversations..too quiet also not very good..Good luck!! :p

[Hanxinco88]

Hi all bro here, CNY coming soon 1st me wishes all samsters and bro here

I actually attended a similiar session while in China. Simple meals but the worst situation is that I had to accompany the father to drink...and not just wine but chinese "Er guo tou".....(65% alochol)....eventually got really drunk and stay over at their place for the night......the rest is up to you to imagine.....kekeke...this was a really unforgetful experience for me.....

Cheers

[singexpat]

Piece of advice, dun bonk ur gf on ur first visit to her house..

U never know how good the parents are at listening outside the door..:D

[lam1673]

Hi,

i wonder if any brother had met the father before in some cheong place. How to handle that kind of encounter ?

[YummyBear]

Hi,

i wonder if any brother had met the father before in some cheong place. How to handle that kind of encounter ?

I did see my then gf's dad in a casino. He nodded his head in my direction and asked me "ho seh boh, wu ya lui boh?" (hows things, got win money?) :p

[oakleyeug]

Sob sob might just finished and over yesterday, firstly get some fruits don go empty handed (mandrian orange does not count as fruits). Talk to the father like a responsible man with, work with your charm and charm him with your smile (serious I have been doing this but until today still fail).

I don know but I also wanted to start another thread (something like this) to ask bros here some questions, hope people can enlighted me.

Xiao Qiang sorry use (hijack your post for a while) don angry hor...

Most of the brosthers here r married and can I ask when you guys start saving? When during ur point of getting married how much cash (also CPF) u have? Will it be always because of $$$ fight and fight? How many years (months or day anything) u plan in advance for the marriage (shotgun not included)?

Sorry please help....

Oak

[beck7777]

So far i failed in all meeting except 1... haiz... behaved damn well but guess i just cant change my beng look... no matter how i wear n behave still look like beng... so sad... i remember one of my ex dad nearly wanna break up me and my ex! haiz.... :(

but my current gf's parent do quite like me... heng ah!!!! :D

[youngboy_jb]

Till today..i met approx 3 gf's parents...and 1 fling's parent (the mum even know i have another gf)

All turn out very very well......i always follow the points below

1) Dress Smart

2) Express your care for your gf (take food for her during dinner)

3) KNOW your potential in-laws before u go over...Especially their interest

4) If her dad likes car...u better be able to tell the difference between a ferrari and a murcielago..and when he say a honda is better than a mercedes..better agree with him.....however, dun lick his boots till too obvious...

5) washing the dish is always a good gesture

6) This shld be #1, ALWAYS greet them !!!!! when u step into the house..1st thing to do is to look for the parents..go to them, and greet...dont sit there like a gong kia and wait for them to come.. when you are leaving...be sure to greet them too

7) NO vulgarities!!!!!!!!!!!!!


i guess i still have a lot of points to share...but well..these are quite important...learn and practice them well..and you will be given a "B" at least..


btw, my fling's mum told her daughter "now i know why u choose to break up with ur past bf to be his 2nd gf"

ps: i am not yandao nor charming

[singexpat]

Hi,

i wonder if any brother had met the father before in some cheong place. How to handle that kind of encounter ?

i ever met my ex's dad at one of those short time motels before..
turns out tht he's "working part time as receptionist" there..

lucky tht time only walk walk with my guy friend n no FL with me..

he didn't say anything to my ex though..:D

[wildbeast]

Good luck bro Xiaoqiang !!!!

All the advices above very valid and true. Follow and I guarantee u sure (Bao Chiak) one man!!!! :cool:

[jeronimo]

Meet the parents? Wow! Sure brings back the memories of me meeting up with my queenie's folks.

The only thing I had in mind was to assured her folks a couple of things.

Firstly, I am responsible for myself and know how to carry my life. So simple things like courtesy and etiquette must not be forgotten. Greet them, talk to them and do not avoid their stares nor looks. During eating, bring the food to them, even if you don't pick for them at least place the food for them to take first pick.
Secondly, Show your affection and care for her. At least they know what kind of guy they will be leaving their princess to and they won't need to worry about you ill-treating them.

I think that the above are the most important. But it does not mean that you have to be a different person just to pull the stunt. Show some humour and be at ease (not to the extend of slouching in the couch).

Have fun in your session

[aikoN79]

hmm.. it will also help when on the 1st day u gave ya gf father the keys to a brand new merc ~ the mother the keys to a condo ~ gifts like rolex, gucci/LV bags also will help....

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jus kidding ;)

[Rof|maoxz]

i met a lot of my gf parents b4... all like me lei ~

Dos : act guai guai, wear smartly, chat with them, be friendly, be respectful, offer to wash the dishes.

Donts : act ah beng, keep silent, anti-social, hide inside ya gf room all the time, dig your nose in front of them, spend the nite in ya gf room.

u will be fine ~

You muz be very busy, attending so many CNY reunion dinners. :)

[Castrol]

this thread reminds me of "Meet the Fockers"! :D

[aikoN79]

this thread reminds me of "Meet the Fockers"! :D

this movie is the 2 families meet together...

got another movie also... forget the title le... also comedy.. meet the parents i think....

[Castrol]

this movie is the 2 families meet together...

got another movie also... forget the title le... also comedy.. meet the parents i think....

yeah, meet the parents is part 1. the best part of the Fockers movie is when the bride said she will call herself Pamela Martha Focker after the wedding... hahaha... :D

[xiaoqiang]

Many thx to all bros wif fantastic tips =) 4 more days hehe wish me luck =P and btw to bro who say he hijack , it's okie to hijack Happy CNY in advance to all.

[ass_robber]

Send big big hamper there before CNY, buy those with many goodies inside one, big big bird nest, abalone etc, and the XO big big one also... for mum be impress with the delicacy, and dad be eyeing the huge bottle of Cognac.

If they have dogs, make sure u find out what bred it is, and spray some dog scent on your hands before going in, and let everyone see how fast you and the dog mingle.