Screwed up marriage

[Huluman]

Anyone here have a screwed up marriage with a fuking crazy wife that goes crazy screaming making u really pissed ? i mean this happens at least 3 time a month ...everytime i got really stressed and couldnt handle it and started punching anything close ....today i punched the elevator door and cracked the glass window ....and got a few stitches .....my life is screwed because of a girl ...fuck! .....those single brothers ! dont fucking get fucking married ...it'll ruin your fucking lives

[milo_man]

u mean u dunoe her well b4 the marriage? or u r those blinddates or even pay 10k for vietnam bride?

[yamashikata]

Why don't divorce ? :confused:
Or maybe hire 3 idiots for $500 to pluck out her left eye and then murder her.
Cheap cheap nia :p

[devilman]

Hi bro, I have a friend with this problem. In the end get divorce. It was later discover that the family have some type of mental illness that the girl inherit but conseal so well before the marriage. Sigh...

[ahpaul25]

Well, huluman bro, kindly stated more detail......I will try to understand the situation u are facing....so far, I can't judge who right or wrong.....thanks :D

[siambee]

bro, don't be dishearted, sometime before marriage wife is one pattern, after marriage true colour come out. life still go on, try talk to her or get someone to tell her ur thoughts.. good luck. :)

[Huluman]

bro, don't be dishearted, sometime before marriage wife is one pattern, after marriage true colour come out. life still go on, try talk to her or get someone to tell her ur thoughts.. good luck. :)


Thanks man ....appreciate the encouragement....

[reacher]

If your love is artificial, then better dun get married. I know of some people who love are artificial and they hide things from their bf/gf a lot...

[Torch_Man]

the saying goes:
LOVE IS BLIND

definitely happen 2 everyone including myself.
just wish all pple not 2 blind 4 2 long.

[cabayasi]

Every story has it background. Bro, pls stat more detail for us to understand. Anyway a justy can't judge a family matter too.

[goondu2000]

Sad to hear you learned about the fact on the aftermath.

I hope your marriage is still screwed up. I mean you get to f*** your partner literally at least. Some people I know has a screwless marriage. I mean literally of course. Partner refuse to f***. Give million and one excuses or only do it once a month.

In my opinion, (dont fault me okay) it is better to be in a screwed up/down/sideward or whatever way marriage then to be in a screwless one. Your hormone cant take it.

[tanhockgin]

hey Goondu,

U are a real goondu. The answer is none of the above. I am going through his nightmare. Screwed up marriage and screwless marriage. its really fuck up.

To the thread orginator, Hu????, if no children are involved get the hell out. You owed to her and yourself to seek a marriage counselor first. If that doesnt work, fuck it. U owe it to yourself.

Wife screams at maid and kids everyday! I end up screaming at her. Guess how many maids we have changed and how many have run away???

Guess when was my last screw (with her)? 6 months ago.

So what is the use of hanging in there u say? The kids. The need a father. That is all. If you have no kids? END IT.




Sad to hear you learned about the fact on the aftermath.

I hope your marriage is still screwed up. I mean you get to f*** your partner literally at least. Some people I know has a screwless marriage. I mean literally of course. Partner refuse to f***. Give million and one excuses or only do it once a month.

In my opinion, (dont fault me okay) it is better to be in a screwed up/down/sideward or whatever way marriage then to be in a screwless one. Your hormone cant take it.

[AhYoung]

Anyone here have a screwed up marriage with a fuking crazy wife that goes crazy screaming making u really pissed ? i mean this happens at least 3 time a month ...everytime i got really stressed and couldnt handle it and started punching anything close ....today i punched the elevator door and cracked the glass window ....and got a few stitches .....my life is screwed because of a girl ...fuck! .....those single brothers ! dont fucking get fucking married ...it'll ruin your fucking lives
understand. i am going through the same... but got childrens and she is more rich than me.. need to bite the bullets. sigh! e:mad:

[poison]

does marriage really possess such threat???????? wat had made her crazy and driven u into even more crazy state? Will u eventually take a knife and kill her?
Why not 2 of u go counselling?

[reacher]

i haven't had a wife yet but just wondering why did you marry her at first? How was ur dating like?

[chlorophyll]

Anyone here have a screwed up marriage with a fuking crazy wife that goes crazy screaming making u really pissed ? i mean this happens at least 3 time a month ...everytime i got really stressed and couldnt handle it and started punching anything close ....today i punched the elevator door and cracked the glass window ....and got a few stitches .....my life is screwed because of a girl ...fuck! .....those single brothers ! dont fucking get fucking married ...it'll ruin your fucking lives

hmm, wouldnt u try to get to know the other party before marrying her?
maybe u shld seek help from those counselling agency.

[zzz^^]

Sorry 2 hear ur prob.

I do understand some women, b4 marriage behave like cat 2 hubby. But after marriage, behave like tigress!


Anyone here have a screwed up marriage with a fuking crazy wife that goes crazy screaming making u really pissed ? i mean this happens at least 3 time a month ...everytime i got really stressed and couldnt handle it and started punching anything close ....today i punched the elevator door and cracked the glass window ....and got a few stitches .....my life is screwed because of a girl ...fuck! .....those single brothers ! dont fucking get fucking married ...it'll ruin your fucking lives

[cheryl27]

Well sad to hear of ur matter, sometimes before u really wanted to tie the knot u surely have to ask whether is this the ONE u wanted to spend with for the rest of ur life? If in a relationship u found more displeasure than pleasure then better dun TIE it. Come to think of it, if that someone really was the RIGHT one for you, no matter how much she nags or piss u off u still think he/she is cute! Haha, try thinking back of the times that both of u had shared. Try catching some memories back and see if that can help, and do think why she turn this way WAS it something that makes her upset?

If those i mention cannot help then GET OFF the marriage, set u and her free then. We ppl sometimes will meet the WRONG ppl at the RIGHT time and the RIGHT ppl at the WRONG time! I can understand ur area of stress as when u can barely hold all those sadness and hatred to urself.....try go for some cousenelling and vice versa. Or sit down face to face and tell her what YOU THINK and try to work things out. If really cannot then u have to waste money and file for a divorce then...TAke caRe BrO!!!

[Lester1]

I use 2 have tat problem...den 1 day while sharing with my friend, he advice me that my wife may hv pms (post menstration sydrome). So I go 2 website an see the sydrome. To my surprise, all fits into it. So I tell her. Of course all woman the same, all deny like crazy. Den 1 day, she go to 1 website n dere was a survey 2 see if a woman got PMS. So pass all the survey with flying color. So she consulted a doc and found tat she dont jus hv post but also pre. and the worst is tat she got irregular mens period. Which mean she cn hv mens more than once a mth. each time cn last for 3-6 days. At first she took medicine 4 it, but later she drop it as it is a psychlogical problem.

She still hv PMS but now, she control her temper n she stop blaming me for spoiling her mood. And sometime she show temper again, I will tell her she is having pms n she will realise it.

Dont tink it is not a problem. Just do a simple calculation. If a woman hav pms abt 3-6 days n pre also. and worst got irregular time, she will hv bad mood for abt at least 10-14 days. That means half a mth or half a yr or half ur lifetime...

I m not say ur wife hv it, but it is good 2 take a look...for me..it turn my fate ard.

Just my sharing.

[tomby]

the saying goes:
LOVE IS BLIND

definitely happen 2 everyone including myself.
just wish all pple not 2 blind 4 2 long.

Can i correct it!!

LOVE is not blind, Lover are blind.

[alphonsus]

Bro Hula,

You have to first ask yourself how much you still want to be in this marriage.

If you still value her, go seek professional help either in a counsellor or a psychiatric (hope I get the right spelling).

When all help fails or you just don't want to carry on, then save your sanity and get yourself out of this mess.

Though, keep patience in your heart to see what can really be done. Dun let anger cloud your judgment.

[humpcheepang]

Sorry 2 hear ur prob.

I do understand some women, b4 marriage behave like cat 2 hubby. But after marriage, behave like tigress!


And that's a good quote....I have been telling all about my OC that she is a tigeress too....just don't understand, done all for the family & kids, and still rated as only slightly above the maid!? Dun know what to say, is this what our sillypore women have turned to after being successful in career, and manage to bear you one or two kids!? No peace man...no wonder (which I think more than 50%) SBF bros have to look for screws elsewhere, as ask yourself, would you want to screw someone with a FUCK face!

3 cheers to bros here....

[chick]

Hi Thread Starter,

Well, I hardly post in the forum. But, here is what I have got to say.

First, give it some serious thoughts and look into possible solutions or external aid (doctors?) to attempt to resolve the whole matter. If it still fails, u have done ur best and u should move on wif ur life, a life w/o her maybe.

Dun end up like me, wasted 8 years of youth to found out that I have been a fool, and should have moved on long ago. But nonetheless, I am guilt-free coz I have given the r/s my very best though it juz didn't worked out.

[vesfreq]

Before I broke up with my ex, I suffered from the same. wanted to bash things up, whenever she got into her moods.

3 years later, I'm a happier guy, cos' I don't ve a gf to worry about. Those silly aunties in office ask y I never get one. Because I know I can't tahan mood swing prone females. :mad:

Or unless the gal very accomodating, otherwise I think sure a lot of quarrels cos' I'm hot headed too. :(

[plain]

..TO LOVE AND TO HOLD, TILL DEATH DO US PART

Forgotten the vows already ?

[analog539]

Huluman:

I hear you brother. I've been lucky the sycho respect, my has only goen nuts on me 3 times in 4 years, and that is not bad for women. Sex life could be better but still better than your situation.

If she's driving you crazy, leave before you start to drink. If you've got kids and she does this in front of the kids, leave. The kids will understand in the long run.

I sumpathize with you man....life is messy.

:)
Jim

[Huluman]

Thanks to all the bros here ...really find it warm that sammyforum still have caring brothers....i think i dont wanna be a coward ...i will try to handle this ....and as a Man i will not resort to running away ......pray for me man ....for all the single men out there ...really think 3 times before getting into the marraige thing ....it seems to easy with the HDB application and ROM registration but it takes one crazy woman to completely screw up your life .....now i started drinking but will control ....imagine 1 bottle of vodka last night ..whoh!

[Sinfulman]

Thanks to all the bros here ...really find it warm that sammyforum still have caring brothers....i think i dont wanna be a coward ...i will try to handle this ....and as a Man i will not resort to running away ......pray for me man ....for all the single men out there ...really think 3 times before getting into the marraige thing ....it seems to easy with the HDB application and ROM registration but it takes one crazy woman to completely screw up your life .....now i started drinking but will control ....imagine 1 bottle of vodka last night ..whoh!
Take care Bro. And pls don't drink too much!!!

Sinfulman

[zhivago]

Thanks to all the bros here ...really find it warm that sammyforum still have caring brothers....i think i dont wanna be a coward ...i will try to handle this ....and as a Man i will not resort to running away ......pray for me man ....for all the single men out there ...really think 3 times before getting into the marraige thing ....it seems to easy with the HDB application and ROM registration but it takes one crazy woman to completely screw up your life .....now i started drinking but will control ....imagine 1 bottle of vodka last night ..whoh!
good for u that u've decided to face this problem and thinking of solving it...

But then, my two cents to u is drink less. Drinking won't be able to help u but may harm u, ur body and everything in ur life. It ain't worth it.

Solve the issue with a clear head and I'm sure you'll be a happy family man again. :D

Wish u all the best and may everything goes well for u.

Cheers.

[Cheri_Popper]

....imagine 1 bottle of vodka last night ..whoh!

Drinking will not solve the problem. It just make you forget about it for awhile. When you are sober, the problem will still be there.

I suggest that you sit down and have a heart to heart talk with her. Communication is a neccesity between husband & wife. Both of you are under stress and pressure from work/Family, etc.

I been married for nearly a decade. The key is the communication factor.

[The_Unrepentant]

If your love is artificial, then better dun get married. I know of some people who love are artificial and they hide things from their bf/gf a lot...

keke just like u...:rolleyes:

[blackeagle10]

You shld seek professional help before things get really bad and when the marriage can still be salvaged.

If you let things deteriorate, you will resent her & in the end when there is a big fight, the relationship will be beyond repair.

If after all the help and still find cannot live with her, divorce her. At least you hv done what you shld as a responsible husband.

Regards