Does being a sugarbaby equal to prostitute?

[icecream2015]

a guy scolded me as a prostitute just now. Somehow it felt insulting...

Any sis felt the same when a guy addressed or scolded you in this way?

[sean69]

let me see...

a prostitute opens her leg and and guys poke her..
a high end escort provides "GFE", opens her leg and let guys poke her..
a sugarbabe provides "GFE", opens her legs and let 1 guy poke her.. then move to the next sugardaddy after a agreed period of time or after they get sick of each other..

hmm.. guess the main difference is the price, the "GFE feeling" and the timeframe between guys, for prostitutes, could be a matter of ..erm.. 90 mins.. for escorts, probably a couple of days, for sugarbabes, maybe a few months...

so you tell me.. Does being a sugarbaby equal to prostitute?

[clapton]

let me see...

a prostitute opens her leg and and guys poke her..
a high end escort provides "GFE", opens her leg and let guys poke her..
a sugarbabe provides "GFE", opens her legs and let 1 guy poke her.. then move to the next sugardaddy after a agreed period of time or after they get sick of each other..

hmm.. guess the main difference is the price, the "GFE feeling" and the timeframe between guys, for prostitutes, could be a matter of ..erm.. 90 mins.. for escorts, probably a couple of days, for sugarbabes, maybe a few months...

so you tell me.. Does being a sugarbaby equal to prostitute?

Nowadays, some girls , being a GF, I don't see much difference against sugarbabe... :D

[ramon]

If you treat your relationship with your SD as something that is pure transactional, then you term yourself as a exclusive prostitute?

If your relationship with your SD turn out to be a happy friendly relationship with allowance involved, then you term yourself as a good friend with benefits?

If you and your married SD start to say ' I miss you or I love you ' to each other then you become his mistress?

Nobody owns your life. So please don't give any fuck shit about what other people says...you decide.

[hornyhubby]

I will tell u a TRUE story. My wife and I visited an old friend during TET ( Vietnam CNY).

She has TWO husbands. One a local and another is a foreigner who visits regularly. The Vn husband and all neighbours know. When I ask her if she is affected by gossip.......she looked at me straight in the face and said

I DONT GIVE A FUCK WHAT OTHERS THINK. I AM NOW WITH LOTS OF MONEY. MY PARENTS AMD HUSBAND ARE NOW AFRAID OF ME BECAUSE I HAVE THE MONEY.BEFORE THIS I WAS MISTREATED AND BULLIED BY MY BROTHERS AND SISTERS.

My wife said this is not that uncommon in.vietnam. So dont bother what people say.

[HeadOn]

Strictly speak , yes !

[newyorker88]

In china, this is their classification...


First tier - baoernai (包二奶)Women who act as the "second wives" of men with money and influential positions, including government officials and entrepreneurs from the mainland, as well as overseas businessmen. This practice is defined as prostitution on the grounds that women in question actively solicit men who can provide them with fixed-term accommodation and a regular allowance. Women who engage in these acts will sometimes co-habit with their "clients" and may even have ambitions to become a real wife. Illegal online “College Concubine Agencies” have appeared, charging a fee to put men in contact with female university students who wish to become mistresses.[111]Second tier - baopo (包婆 "packaged wife")Women who accompany high class clients for a fixed duration of time, for example, during the course of a business trip, and receive a set payment for doing so.




Pimps give out their business cards to potential customers. A prostitute can be sent to a hotel room upon request.
The first and second tiers have become the focus of heated public debate because they are explicitly linked to government corruption.[citation needed] Many domestic commentators contend that these practices constitute a concrete expression of "bourgeois rights".[112] The All-China Women's Federation, as one of the major vehicles of feminism in the PRC, as well as women's groups in Hong Kong and Taiwan, have been actively involved in efforts to eradicate this form of "concubinage" as practices that violate the emotional and economic surety of the marriage contract.[113]
Third tier - santing (三厅 "three halls")




A hair salon where prostitutes work in Bao'an District, Shenzhen. Brothels are often disguised as hair salons, or they operate out of working hair salons.
Women who perform sexual acts with men in karaoke/dance venues, bars, restaurants, teahouses and other venues and who receive financial recompense in the form of tips from the individual men they accompany, as well as from a share of the profits generated by informal service charges on the use of facilities and the consumption of food and beverages. A common euphemism for such hostesses is sanpei xiaojie (三陪小姐: "ladies of the three accompaniments"). In theory, the "three accompaniments" are chatting, drinking and dancing with their clients. In practice, the "three accompaniments" more often refers to dancing with, drinking with, and being publicly groped by their clients. These women often begin by allowing their clients to fondle or intimately caress their bodies, then if the client is eager, will engage in sexual intercourse.
Fourth tier - "doorbell girls" (叮咚小姐 "dingdong ladies")Women who solicit potential buyers of sex by phoning rooms in a given hotel.Fifth tier - falangmei (发廊妹 "hairdressing salon sisters")Women who work in places that offer commercial sexual services under the guise of massage or health and beauty treatments; for instance, in health and fitness centres, beauty parlours, barber shops, bathhouses and saunas. Common activities in these premises are masturbation or oral sex.Sixth tier - jienü (街女 "street girls")Women who solicit male buyers of sex on the streets.Seventh tier - xiagongpeng (下工棚 "down the work shack")Women who sell sex to the transient labour force of male workers from the rural countryside.
The lowest two tiers are characterised by a more straightforward exchange of sex for financial or material recompense. They are neither explicitly linked to government corruption, nor directly mediated through China's new commercial recreational business sector. Women who sell sex in the lowest two tiers usually do so in return for small sums of money, food and shelter.

[sammyboyfor]

a guy scolded me as a prostitute just now. Somehow it felt insulting...

Any sis felt the same when a guy addressed or scolded you in this way?

There is no difference between a sugar babe and a prostitute other than the fact that one is paid by the hour while the other is paid monthly.

[dyelook]

There is no difference between a sugar babe and a prostitute other than the fact that one is paid by the hour while the other is paid monthly.

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[Wintermelontea]

a guy scolded me as a prostitute just now. Somehow it felt insulting...

I'm no sis but yes, bottom line for a sugar baby is just that. Hope your eyes are open now.

[Pleasure_empire]

No mater how u sugarcoat it, if u have sex in return for money, that's a whore.

SB maybe a whore with lesser mileage that's all, but nonetheless, still a whore.

[kohwj]

So many bros say the same thing, then it must be true. Anyway, if you are a sugar baby and you have sex with your SD and he pays you, if you dont consider this act as a prostitute, then what do you consider it as?

[unsung80]

Answer is yes, just the word is used differently ;)

[guess67]

Is still the same, no difference :D

[Greenfrog]

In a word; YES

[sadfa]

a guy scolded me as a prostitute just now. Somehow it felt insulting...

Any sis felt the same when a guy addressed or scolded you in this way?

Haha. Ask yourself why there's a need to sugar coat it by calling it sugarbaby.

Get it thru your head that fucking even a guy you know for money or in kind like jewellery is prostitution.

I know some gers here get upset n claim theyre sb & nt whores. Well does sucking cocks only makes them less a Ho?

[TigerGeneral]

As long as you open leg for a transaction it is unfortunately still a whore no matter how many times you do it.

[newyorker88]

Nothing wrong being a whore. They don't steal/ cheat( PRC excluded)/ rob for a living. A business of their own, whom they want to serve n so on. Much better than those who lie, cheat, rob others and pretend that they are super clean, or holier than thou, or pretend to be rich when they are down right scheming n ugly n cannot look up people straight in the face.

hokkien saying " You can take/marry a whore to be your wife, but not take a wife to be a whore"

[IwantbustyKim]

There is no difference between a sugar babe and a prostitute other than the fact that one is paid by the hour while the other is paid monthly.

And being married means you pay hourly until the day you divorce or die...

[FunnyHippo]

There is no difference between a sugar babe and a prostitute other than the fact that one is paid by the hour while the other is paid monthly.

SBF boss FTW!

:D

[larue]

There is no difference between a sugar babe and a prostitute other than the fact that one is paid by the hour while the other is paid monthly.

The number of paying customers one takes in to achieve is to me the major determinant.

Professional sugar babe juggling 10 daddies is a prostitute, someone with with one or even two, in order to supplement an income or whatever, or in the case of mistress, be the only income, does not count as one.

Now if they were one and the same, why don't sugar babes just go out all and serve a lot of cocks? They'd get a hell lot more money.

Anyway, the difference between the two is best settled by IRAS since they have equally grey rules regarding what constitutes trading income, and what counts as investment income.

[FatSpider]

strictly speaking., yes

[SnowLeopards]

A whore is a whore regardless of the justifications.

Pierre.

[conquer]

let me see...

a prostitute opens her leg and and guys poke her..
a high end escort provides "GFE", opens her leg and let guys poke her..
a sugarbabe provides "GFE", opens her legs and let 1 guy poke her.. then move to the next sugardaddy after a agreed period of time or after they get sick of each other..

hmm.. guess the main difference is the price, the "GFE feeling" and the timeframe between guys, for prostitutes, could be a matter of ..erm.. 90 mins.. for escorts, probably a couple of days, for sugarbabes, maybe a few months...

so you tell me.. Does being a sugarbaby equal to prostitute?

sugarbaby = expensive prostitute
prostitute = cheap sugarbaby

Yes, this won't go wrong. :)

a guy scolded me as a prostitute just now. Somehow it felt insulting...


Please don't feel bad. It's totally fine being a prostitute, or sugarbaby (or what ever you wanna call yourself). It is just an occupation, except that you don't pay tax. :)

BTW, I love prostitute...

[larue]

sugarbaby = expensive prostitute
prostitute = cheap sugarbaby

Yes, this won't go wrong. :)

That's true actually. I am amending my position. Yes, sugar babing is a form of prostitution if we define prostitution as the provision of some form of sexual service in exchange for monetary benefits, or benefit in kind.

So it would be a sliding scale, with prostitutes (as in the generally accepted idea of one) occupying one end.

On the other end of the scale, where the element of prostitution is perhaps 'light' (defined perhaps by number of cocks served, and perhaps even an emotional attachment), would be one hell of a large number of wives and girlfriends.

Sugar babes might perhaps fall somewhere in between.

[CumExplorer]

Haha. Ask yourself why there's a need to sugar coat it by calling it sugarbaby.

Get it thru your head that fucking even a guy you know for money or in kind like jewellery is prostitution.

I know some gers here get upset n claim theyre sb & nt whores. Well does sucking cocks only makes them less a Ho?

just a exclusive whore for sometime ... just selling body :D

[Apollo]

That's true actually. I am amending my position. Yes, sugar babing is a form of prostitution if we define prostitution as the provision of some form of sexual service in exchange for monetary benefits, or benefit in kind.

So it would be a sliding scale, with prostitutes (as in the generally accepted idea of one) occupying one end.

On the other end of the scale, where the element of prostitution is perhaps 'light' (defined perhaps by number of cocks served, and perhaps even an emotional attachment), would be one hell of a large number of wives and girlfriends.

Sugar babes might perhaps fall somewhere in between.

simply put ... they are all sex service providers :D

[tambi8]

I supposed if u don't open your legs to any stranger who wants to poke you, u are not a prostitute. A loyal sugar babe only let one daddy in during the period.

[AgentSmith]

a guy scolded me as a prostitute just now. Somehow it felt insulting...

Any sis felt the same when a guy addressed or scolded you in this way?

Terminology is create to better describe specific situations.
Does his comment of terminology affects you?
If you are very sure of what you are doing or your decision is.. why bother?

End of the day, your guy friend probably will be marrying another 'Prostitute' or 'Worse than Prostitute' since the lady he is going to marry should have been 'Fucked for Free' (girlfriend) by some other guys beforehand.

So during the day of his marriage, you should congratulate him for marrying a 'Prostitute' .... Try it. He has to agreed.

[sleepygordon]

well, my ex wife gets paid monthly but there is no sex involved. Prostitute or sugarbabe, they are much more desirable than a mentally disturbed ex wife.

[singleman]

a guy scolded me as a prostitute just now. Somehow it felt insulting...

Any sis felt the same when a guy addressed or scolded you in this way?

when people said u r a prostitute, u felt insulting mean in ur mind, u urself actually feel u r pro, but u may not wan to admit and try find some reasons to differentiate between as sugarbabe or as prostitute. otherwise u dun hv to be bother or feel insulted at all even u r a sugarbabe or prostitute. u can dun hv to bother wad people call u.. do wad u think u wan to do, get wad u wan to get and live on...

to me, both sugarbabe and prostitute are the same.. guy provide S11 n girl provide service.

btw I not insulting u ok.. :D

[sadfa]

just a exclusive whore for sometime ... just selling body :D

Well a taxi driver drive exclusive for 1 guy n nt everyone is still a cabbie unless car own by the guy means he chauffeur

[sadfa]

The number of paying customers one takes in to achieve is to me the major determinant.

Professional sugar babe juggling 10 daddies is a prostitute, someone with with one or even two, in order to supplement an income or whatever, or in the case of mistress, be the only income, does not count as one.

Now if they were one and the same, why don't sugar babes just go out all and serve a lot of cocks? They'd get a hell lot more money.

Anyway, the difference between the two is best settled by IRAS since they have equally grey rules regarding what constitutes trading income, and what counts as investment income.

for gods sake, dun encourage these ppl.
A mistress who fk a man only becos of money is still a whore. Even if she choose to fk 1 instead of many, shes still a whore.

N iras I think don't tax Dick money

[erazeratious]

Today youth day xiaomeimei so free....

[inuzuka]

Yes dear, its the same...

just like u take taxi where u pay by the meter, or u hired a private chauffeur..
only difference is the money involved, commitments .. but at the end of the day taxidriver/chauffeur are still drivers... and at the end of the day, sb/prostitute still open legs for money... :p

[orangeproud]

simply put ... they are all sex service providers :D

Correct, end of the day, they r all sex service providers no matter u r fl, wl, social escort, hfj singers, sugar babe & etc. They choose to sleep with someone to get monetary reward. To be a sugar babe, shld mentally prepare to accept any kind of verbal insult or nasty comment as provide your body or flesh is part of your role.

Dun self deceiving as sugar babe is just a more nicer addressing only....if u really feel insulting or offensive then in the first place shld not take up the role of sugar babe. If to earn somebody respect is such a important thing to u, advise u quit to be sugar babe forever & just find a down to earth job, earn a honest living...but the salary u get maybe just peanut to u comparing with the sugar babe allowance u get. At the end of the day, ask yourself is money or reputation more important to u as u can't have best of both world. Most importantly, dun self deceiving, or else is very pathetic (bei ai).

[Botakhead]

I was offered money to have sex with my female customer, I'm a male prostitute.

[PPGirl]

N iras I think don't tax Dick money


Anyway, the difference between the two is best settled by IRAS since they have equally grey rules regarding what constitutes trading income, and what counts as investment income.
Dun think sugarbabe need to pay tax for allowance given by sd.
Trading income more like a business income. An income that generate from ur business. https://www.iras.gov.sg/IRASHome/Businesses/Self-Employed/Working-out-your-taxes/Calculating-and-Reporting-Business-Income/
Investment income is abit way out here. Income deprived from investment of property etc..

[pleasurehobby]

There is no difference between a sugar babe and a prostitute other than the fact that one is paid by the hour while the other is paid monthly.

Boss has said it all.

Like mobile phone plans, do you want prepaid or post paid?

[sadfa]

Strictly speaking its income.
Even if its tuition teacher, have to pay income tax

Never hear of bookie drug dealer kidnappers pay income tax bt have no doubt gov will grab the money if they see the money. But never hear of gov seize fj money

[kevinkit]

wikipedia- Prostitution is the business or practice of engaging in sexual relations in exchange for payment
merriam-webster dictionary --the act or practice of engaging in promiscuous sexual relations especially for money

Not I say one ar...:p

[porscheclub]

There is no difference between a sugar babe and a prostitute other than the fact that one is paid by the hour while the other is paid monthly.

A wife also receives monthly allowances & when it's time for divorce, they sue for half your assets. Sometimes I think a prostitute is kinder :D

[sadfa]

Wifes allowance n alimony isn't fuck money!

[tambi8]

TS sis don't worry about what others called you. If u are happy as SB stay with it. Careless about what others might say. To me it is no different as having a casual relationship with guys except you get paid in a SB/SD arrangement.

[old_yet_horny]

Technically speaking, SB=Pros. Period.

[GoldenMonkey1]

I personally dont think they are the same.

Whore: is you pay forget about it.

SB: someone who listens, someone who takes care of the SD, someone who shares your problem. Whatever the benefits is between the SD and the SB. Who says there must be sexual favours in the benefits? There can be, but nobody says there MUST be. The SD pays to pamper the SB.....its a give and take r/s.

Some may say the above is the wife job, why not just pamper the wife. Problem is not all wife listens....man most of the time needs somebody just to listen....they dun need somebody to tell them what to do.

Just my 2 cents. :p

[sadfa]

I personally dont think they are the same.

Whore: is you pay forget about it.

SB: someone who listens, someone who takes care of the SD, someone who shares your problem. Whatever the benefits is between the SD and the SB. Who says there must be sexual favours in the benefits? There can be, but nobody says there MUST be. The SD pays to pamper the SB.....its a give and take r/s. :p

Of cos which ger dun wan 3 to 5k to talk n fck once or twice or nt at all. Fact is this is a skill they lack.

You're probably thinking of the er nais in china. Even if sb in spore aren't expected 2 b on standby for sd, you can tell the sb here don't really care much abt sd other than them being flesh & blood wallets. You can tell from these gers stating they can only mt at fixed timing n studies n bf n family are priority. like that might as well find psychiatrist.

Also the sb gers' ads steal from the pros which focus on sex. That tells u all you need 2 know on the emphasis.

[ah rat]

Maybe Sugarbaby is f**k by few sugardady.
While prostitute is f**k by many ppls

[orangeproud]

I personally dont think they are the same.

Whore: is you pay forget about it.

SB: someone who listens, someone who takes care of the SD, someone who shares your problem. Whatever the benefits is between the SD and the SB. Who says there must be sexual favours in the benefits? There can be, but nobody says there MUST be. The SD pays to pamper the SB.....its a give and take r/s.

Some may say the above is the wife job, why not just pamper the wife. Problem is not all wife listens....man most of the time needs somebody just to listen....they dun need somebody to tell them what to do.

Just my 2 cents. :p

I doubt anybody will pay few thousands dollars just to find a sugar babe to listen to his problem & talk to...if so they just need a listening ears, then why state requirements like at least Cup B or above, slim, average looking & above. If really have problems, they shld look for professional counsellor. Mostly looking for sugar babe to satisfy their sexual need whereas their wive can't fulfil. But there r guy who paid for whore just for chit chat only n mostly they r lonely old man just can't stand their wife nagging.

[notanexpert]

No one forced you at gun point to accept money for benefits. So I'm not sure why you're complaining.

[Botakhead]

Wifes allowance n alimony isn't fuck money!

Yeah, its money fucked! :D

[Botakhead]

No one forced you at gun point to accept money for benefits. So I'm not sure why you're complaining.

She felt hurt with that remark.

[maxsee]

A sugar baby is definitely no different from a prostitute...except one get screw by many but the other one get screw by one person...Both boils down to the same thing...they are doing it for $$$.

Sugar baby is also not someone for you to pour out your emotional woes...coz if u want to do that ... just pay for a hooker n pour out your woes if u dun have deep pocket. You might feel better after you get it off the chest and she would still offers you some words of comfort...Important thing is u pay up after whining..

Otherwise get a counsellor if you are rich enough. At least each time u see the counsellor, she will pulls out ur medical card and try to recall what you say previously before listening to you whine again.

I am sure a prostitute don't mind being a sugar baby as well with the rite amount of money and there are takers to be their sugar daddy especially when risk from HIV and STDs are so much lower...:D:D:D

[lotsfits80]

Providing one's body sexually in terms of physical/emotional in exchange for monetary/material gains qualifies as prostitution.

[risingeast]

I think the difference is a sugar baby is usually a girl in late teens of early twentys, with good looks and a great body and charms and is teh or very teh. She will suck you dry both in bed and your money, and you won't mind at all.

[Botakhead]

One ask for money, the other just wants your money.

Just different in the way you put it, otherwise still fucking for money.

[bochapsing]

A wife also receives monthly allowances & when it's time for divorce, they sue for half your assets.

and sex isn't guaranteed hor.... :mad::o:(

[xiaoyunyun]

Base on what you all are saying.
It would mean....
1) being a girlfriend / sugar baby / whore / wife are all the same. Since we girls are just being use for sex and money.

Why i say so?
1) being a gf. Most bf will ask for sex. Some girls changes bf often and have sex only with their bf. In return, bf normally buy stuff and pamper their gf.
If you look at another point of view. It will be almost the same being a whore, sugar baby, gf or wife.

2) being a sugar baby, you will be the guy "gf" but without any relationship between the 2. But still it will have sex and money.

3) being a wife. You will still have sex and in return money for the household and stuff. The only different will be having a paper of marriage and having children.

4) being a whore, you just have fun and sex for money. Withouy any relationship

[PPGirl]

Gf is a whore? Lolz that is d 1st time i heard.
didnt know that gf is being "used" for sex n money?
There isnt any feelings involved from a sugarbabe/whore/fb.

Do u mean gf after sex with bf. Only after that then bf will buy stuff n pamper the gf? Like that more like a transaction to me rather in a bgr. Base on what you all are saying.
It would mean....
1) being a girlfriend / sugar baby / whore / wife are all the same. Since we girls are just being use for sex and money.

Why i say so?
1) being a gf. Most bf will ask for sex. Some girls changes bf often and have sex only with their bf. In return, bf normally buy stuff and pamper their gf.

[xiaoyunyun]

Gf is a whore? Lolz that is d 1st time i heard.
didnt know that gf is being "used" for sex n money?
There isnt any feelings involved from a sugarbabe/whore/fb.

Do u mean gf after sex with bf. Only after that then bf will buy stuff n pamper the gf? Like that more like a transaction to me rather in a bgr.

no lah. I mean in directly that normally happen. don't need to be before or after. when the bf chase us, they will buy this and that. after that they may want to have sex in return.

[NABOdog]

and sex isn't guaranteed hor.... :mad::o:(

hahaha very true :D

[sadsky18]

no lah. I mean in directly that normally happen. don't need to be before or after. when the bf chase us, they will buy this and that. after that they may want to have sex in return.

agreed .

when chase the girl , she wan this wan that ( play hard to get )

when get her , asking for sex is like begging , still need to pamper with gifts on special days ( all these girls are not wife material )

rather find a pro , settle liao the she go left i go right .

[kryst4l]

agreed .

when chase the girl , she wan this wan that ( play hard to get )

when get her , asking for sex is like begging , still need to pamper with gifts on special days ( all these girls are not wife material )

rather find a pro , settle liao the she go left i go right .

I think I'm the opposite. I love sex before bedtime and morning sex. I wake up beside my partner and I automatically feel aroused whereas he isn't. I pretty much play around with him till he is.

But thats the past... we no longer have sex at all......

[PPGirl]

agreed .

when chase the girl , she wan this wan that ( play hard to get )

when get her , asking for sex is like begging , still need to pamper with gifts on special days ( all these girls are not wife material )

. im the opposite lolz

[icecream2015]

I think I'm the opposite. I love sex before bedtime and morning sex. I wake up beside my partner and I automatically feel aroused whereas he isn't. I pretty much play around with him till he is.

But thats the past... we no longer have sex at all......

My sex with sugardaddy usually at some hotels around night time.

we had some fine dining at some restaurants then usually I would drink some wine to make myself getting into the high mode.

I prefer guys going hard on me so usually I would lick their tools wet until they are harden before I swallow them deepthroat.

69 position is my usual practice before I go into wild sex.

[gilacewek]

I think I'm the opposite. I love sex before bedtime and morning sex. I wake up beside my partner and I automatically feel aroused whereas he isn't. I pretty much play around with him till he is.

But thats the past... we no longer have sex at all......

haha. normal lah. but its ok as long as you and your partner have some physical intimacy. too much of everything is bad too.

[Botakhead]

im the opposite lolz

You beg for sex? :p

[dyelook]

I think I'm the opposite. I love sex before bedtime and morning sex. I wake up beside my partner and I automatically feel aroused whereas he isn't. I pretty much play around with him till he is.

But thats the past... we no longer have sex at all.....

if you need help i think alot here will be very willing...:p

[kryst4l]

if you need help i think alot here will be very willing...:p

Im slowly taking my pick.. haha..

[dyelook]

Im slowly taking my pick.. haha..

okok... btw my pick number 4134...:p

have a nice nite, sis...;)

[PPGirl]

You beg for sex? :p

For me to know, n he oredi find out :p

[VillagePeople]

we no longer have sex at all......

Why if i may ask?

[VittaMen]

I think I'm the opposite. I love sex before bedtime and morning sex. I wake up beside my partner and I automatically feel aroused whereas he isn't. I pretty much play around with him till he is.

But thats the past... we no longer have sex at all......

Reminds me of my ex. Before slp must sex. Morning wake up sex before go get ready for work. Too bad broke up le.

[sadfa]

Base on what you all are saying.
It would mean....
1) being a girlfriend / sugar baby / whore / wife are all the same. Since we girls are just being use for sex and money.

Why i say so?
1) being a gf. Most bf will ask for sex. Some girls changes bf often and have sex only with their bf. In return, bf normally buy stuff and pamper their gf.
If you look at another point of view. It will be almost the same being a whore, sugar baby, gf or wife.

3) being a wife. You will still have sex and in return money for the household and stuff. The only different will be having a paper of marriage and having children.


Whattt???????? You mean after reading all this, you conclude a wife is the same as a pros for the husband? Hahaha. Damn solid ah you!

You missed the point ppl here are saying.
Paying A pros is a commercial transaction or transaction.
Paying a wife or gf allowance or buying her presents in exchange for fucking is not a commercial transaction.

Theres a difference.

A transaction means can sue in court. Even if the court wont chap a fj contract, a transaction means if the ger dont fuck the guy, the guy can get money back. I remember some countries are so advanced, they even allow fj cases to go to court. Of cos a transaction means its the same as any other transactions, there are certain standards etc to be upheld.

If the guy buy a LV & the gf dont fuck him, he cant get it back becos its a gift n not transaction.
And dont forget hor - Theres such a thing called marital rape. So if the husband buy LV bag & the girl says tonight got headache, dont want, the husband hamtum her, he go jail. He grabbed her n stuff his cock in her, he go jail even longer. For bf, also go jail.

I know there are some fucked up gers who brainstorm to find ways to get money from their bf or husbands becos if they can spend so much on ktv ges, why cant they spend on them? These are truly fucked up women who dont want to be a wife or gf but want to be reduced to a whore but of cos if the husband bang her like he bang a whore & bang her like he bang a piece of towhu & deep throat & grab her hair & bukkake her & jam 2 fingers up her ass, they will cry n cry n cant take it & dont want to be a pros but be their wife n gf instead.

Anyway, a relationship is more than just sex. It should be more than juz sex.
If your relationships are all about sex, youre choosing the wrong guys & honestly, you could have some self esteem issues if you think your contribution to a relationship is juz your body.

[kryst4l]

Why if i may ask?

I dunno. Things just died down.

[PPGirl]

no lah. I mean in directly that normally happen. don't need to be before or after. when the bf chase us, they will buy this and that. after that they may want to have sex in return.
Somehow ur way of thinking not correct also.
My bf buy things for me becos he dote/love me not becos he want sex in return. :rolleyes:

If u have a bf , does ur bf react this way?
If so, u may want to reconsider changing ur bf.

just like what bro sadfa mentioned, a relationship is not just abt sex only. My bf mentioned to me b4 also.

[diputs1269]

Well my view is that as long as it is a commercial transactions where eexchange of money takes place, is prostitution.

[tambi8]

Somehow ur way of thinking not correct also.
My bf buy things for me becos he dote/love me not becos he want sex in return. :rolleyes:

If u have a bf , does ur bf react this way?
If so, u may want to reconsider changing ur bf.

just like what bro sadfa mentioned, a relationship is not just abt sex only. My bf mentioned to me b4 also.

Haha...your bf is good with bs girls. Any bf will dote n love their new found gf..all do that when they 1st know the girl...most will want to fcuk them asap. If all turn out well, then she can be real one n only one gf( not likely u only one). Nowadays girls are also not simple, they also do the same, fcuk behind ' bf'....think it's quite fair. Good pussy must shared just as handsome cock must also do his part to satisfy them.

[Botakhead]

I dunno. Things just died down.


Well, look for some upgrading of the service required.


Well my view is that as long as it is a commercial transactions where eexchange of money takes place, is prostitution.

There are cases whereby the prostitute looks for a particular customer whom she is on very good intimate term and after the fucking sexion, she don't want to collect the 'flesh' money, so it's free fuck given as she appreciates the customer's affection and company throughout the 'wonderful' time together. She's still a prostitute in the end.

[PPGirl]

Haha...your bf is good with bs girls. Any bf will dote n love their new found gf..all do that when they 1st know the girl...most will want to fcuk them asap. If all turn out well, then she can be real one n only one gf( not likely u only one). Nowadays girls are also not simple, they also do the same, fcuk behind ' bf'....think it's quite fair. Good pussy must shared just as handsome cock must also do his part to satisfy them.
i have been with him for near to 3 yrs so i think this is not considered as "1st know gf".
not every girls will fcuk behind their bfs.
How can a cock be handsome? lolz
Anyway back to topic..

[tambi8]

A handsome cock has to venture see the world before the cock return to the roost

[lotsfits80]

Looks like it's not bad being a sugar baby after all...

http://thoughtcatalog.com/chelsea-ridenour/2015/06/my-life-as-a-sugar-baby/

http://nextshark.com/inside-the-life-of-sugar-babies-who-make-60000-a-year/

http://www.redandblack.com/uganews/student-shares-experiences-as-a-sugar-baby-not-all-gifts/article_d862db14-28c1-11e4-97a8-001a4bcf6878.html

http://www.dailycal.org/2014/10/28/confessions-sugar-baby/

http://www.belfasttelegraph.co.uk/sunday-life/news/my-sugar-baby-life-20-yearoldbelfast-student-reveals-what-its-like-to-date-rich-older-men-who-pay-for-her-company-30976910.html

http://thebillfold.com/2014/10/how-a-sugar-baby-does-money/

http://www.styleite.com/first-person/i-went-to-a-sugar-daddy-convention-and-heres-everything-you-need-to-know-about-being-a-successful-sugar-baby-in-l-a/

http://onwardstate.com/2015/03/04/i-went-undercover-as-a-penn-state-sugar-baby/

http://www.neontommy.com/news/2014/12/life-sugar-baby-different-kind-part-time-job

http://kinky.com/sugar-baby-looking-daddies-fund-trip/

http://news.asiaone.com/news/malaysia/only-150-get-sugar-baby-malaysia