Sex for married couples

[tungsten]

Sometimes I wonder how many married guys are frustrated with wife on the lack of interest in sex.

Comments like "You do this just for sex", "All day you just think about sex", "Sex is the only thing on your mind"... Totally pissed...

To guys out there who are married...

If you got a wife who give you sex on regular and frequent basis, please treasure her and stop patronising sex from outside if possible. It just cause unnecessary trouble. A new piece of ass is not worth the trouble if you are already well fed (1-2 times a week min)

If you got a wife who lack sex drive or ignoring your needs... You are not the only one out there. Go out and fuck if that cause less problems.

To ladies out there...

Please do not punish your guy by withholding sex. Once the man start to realise that the best way out of quarrel is to avoid talking about his needs for sex... You can bet that he is likely to have found another supplier and a bigger problem will be created through this mutual destruction move.

[twinresist2]

Very true Bro...

[TreeTrunks]

Haizz what to do :(

[nilmar123]

And to all the single lads about there...

Have all the fun, fuck all the women and get them out of the system before getting married and settling down. You don't want to cheat and sniff office skirts if you have a woman who have your kids.

[LeePaiLong]

You can bet that he is likely to have found another supplier

Welcome to capitalism :D

[conquer]

I don't like the tone TS used which sounds kinda threatening the women to fulfill all the men needs, else the women deserve a cheating husband.

A happy marriage is not only about making a happy husband. Mutual caring and mutual understanding are the keys. ;)

[tungsten]

I don't like the tone TS used which sounds kinda threatening the women to fulfill all the men needs, else the women deserve a cheating husband.

A happy marriage is not only about making a happy husband. Mutual caring and mutual understanding are the keys. ;)

Its not a threat. Its a fact.

If one do not have food for days... what will happen. Hunger is the result.

If the supplier still do not wish to supply despite doing the stuff that is being demanded... then what? Roll over and die?

It takes 2 hands to clap. And please read my post again carefully. I DO NOT encourage that as a first resort. Its more like a final resort. Meaning despite trying to be caring and understanding and etc...

Lets not pretend to be saints that most of us are not.

[tungsten]

Realise my tone in the reply might seems harsh... However if every samster ask themselves this question...

"If your wife and you have a happy marriage and sexually fulfilled to the max. Will you still want to take the chance to have an affair knowing that the happy marriage will be ruined?"

Most samsters will answer no.

If I rephrase the question.

"If your wife and you have a happy marriage BUT you are NOT sexually fulfilled DESPITE trying your best to romance and etc. Will you still want to take the chance to have an affair knowing that the happy marriage will be ruined?"

There will be more people who will fall. Sex is a basic need. Please do not pretend that it does not. And while it is not as BASIC as air and food in Maslow heirarchy of Needs, it is nearly as important as self esteem and having circle of friends.

If want to sound more gender equality. Then man please spend time to talk with your wife, least they find other man to talk. Does this sound threatening or is it a fact?

[Johnbass]

Tiagong some married couples like to take care of dogs' needs and happily ever after...
:D

[MacDD]

Tiagong some married couples like to take care of dogs' needs and happily ever after...
:D

Why DO you go round trolling and spoiling threads with inane and irreverent comments. WHY?!

[MakeYouBark]

Tiagong some married couples like to take care of dogs' needs and happily ever after...
:D

We know you suck your dog off whenever IT (pun not intended) is horny...
Why you have to tell everyone what you did, sicko...
:D


awaiting your bark ....

[conquer]

Its not a threat. Its a fact.

If one do not have food for days... what will happen. Hunger is the result.

If the supplier still do not wish to supply despite doing the stuff that is being demanded... then what? Roll over and die?

It takes 2 hands to clap. And please read my post again carefully. I DO NOT encourage that as a first resort. Its more like a final resort. Meaning despite trying to be caring and understanding and etc...

Lets not pretend to be saints that most of us are not.

Don't worry bro. It's alright with me.

My point being is nothing in this world is perfect, including the marriage. There might be times the wife couldn't fulfill the husband desire. But two wrongs will not make a right, it will take a lot of communication and understanding to get the problem over.

Personal experience, I had a gf before. I told her directly I cheong. She adviced me stop doing that for not hurting her feeling, but even if I insisted, she can only tolerate a hj and bbbj, fj is restricted.

[tungsten]

Not seeking perfection like 2 x sex every day.

More like a 2 x per week which is a reasonable frequency. Remember need to minus those days on red and either one is sick... not that many days.

Not talking about situatuon like mrt break down once a month... but breakdown of the entire system where it only works a few times per year

[Jiaobin]

Tiagong some married couples like to take care of dogs' needs and happily ever after...
:D

Go back to your kennel..... Where your owner? Why he never put you on a leash? Why you anyhow go around barking? Bad dog

[TrustNoDog]

Go back to your kennel..... Where your owner? Why he never put you on a leash? Why you anyhow go around barking? Bad dog

Yea, bad dog .... TrustNoDog :D

[conquer]

Use PAP carrot & stick approach to buy votes and fix opposition.

If no sex, then no allowance, no handbag, no this and that for her. Instead you will fix her by denying her material wealth and goodies.

It always work with Singaporeans for 30 years. Try it.

But then, trading with your own wife and talking terms with own wife do not sound very intimate and friendly. More like intimidation and threats to get sex.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=24iC4uMyEyM

wtflol...

But does a wife have the right to select a new husband every 5 years? :D

[tungsten]

Guys,

Please GE is over. Come out again to rant 3 years later. I know GE is 5 years... If want to sway the ground, its still too early to do it now.

This is not a political forum.

[EcixMarte]

Sometimes I wonder how many married guys are frustrated with wife on the lack of interest in sex.

Comments like "You do this just for sex", "All day you just think about sex", "Sex is the only thing on your mind"... Totally pissed...

To guys out there who are married...

If you got a wife who give you sex on regular and frequent basis, please treasure her and stop patronising sex from outside if possible. It just cause unnecessary trouble. A new piece of ass is not worth the trouble if you are already well fed (1-2 times a week min)

If you got a wife who lack sex drive or ignoring your needs... You are not the only one out there. Go out and fuck if that cause less problems.

To ladies out there...

Please do not punish your guy by withholding sex. Once the man start to realise that the best way out of quarrel is to avoid talking about his needs for sex... You can bet that he is likely to have found another supplier and a bigger problem will be created through this mutual destruction move.

dont focus on sex.

Focus on creating the atmosphere or environment to have sex.

And You have what you want

[takashi31400]

Bro Ts

Totally agree with you .


Realise my tone in the reply might seems harsh... However if every samster ask themselves this question...

"If your wife and you have a happy marriage and sexually fulfilled to the max. Will you still want to take the chance to have an affair knowing that the happy marriage will be ruined?"

Most samsters will answer no.

If I rephrase the question.

"If your wife and you have a happy marriage BUT you are NOT sexually fulfilled DESPITE trying your best to romance and etc. Will you still want to take the chance to have an affair knowing that the happy marriage will be ruined?"

There will be more people who will fall. Sex is a basic need. Please do not pretend that it does not. And while it is not as BASIC as air and food in Maslow heirarchy of Needs, it is nearly as important as self esteem and having circle of friends.

If want to sound more gender equality. Then man please spend time to talk with your wife, least they find other man to talk. Does this sound threatening or is it a fact?

[tungsten]

dont focus on sex.

Focus on creating the atmosphere or environment to have sex.

And You have what you want

If despite doing that it still not working?

[tungsten]

GE is never over. Politics affect our lives everyday.

PAP started work on GE2015 immediately after GE2011 was over.

You think the LKY Funeral, One Year Propaganda, SG50, PGP Card, Thick Glossy Election Materials, WP TC Smearing, Upgrading Threats can be done with a snap of fingers?

GE2020 will see the repeat of such election tactics again. Maybe GCT Funeral, SG55, One Year Propaganda, PGP Card, Thick Glossy Election Materials, WP TC Smearing, Upgrading Threats . PAP knows voters are shallow and knows such tactics work best on shallow voters. Singaporean voters are educated but not intelligent.

Nobody wants to sway the ground here. It is a cynical satire how election tactics can be use in any relationships too. This is a sad fact for 70% of Singaporeans.

PAP started work on GE2015 immediately after GE2011 was over.
- So you rather prefer the PAP to suck thumb and do nothing?

You think the LKY Funeral, One Year Propaganda, SG50, PGP Card, Thick Glossy Election Materials, WP TC Smearing, Upgrading Threats can be done with a snap of fingers?
- Seriously I do not know what is this an issue?
1) LKY funeral - So whats the problem with that?
2) One year propaganda - Which point exactly? Is there anything false about what they state?
3) PG card - What is wrong with giving benefits to old?
4) Thick glossy election materials - And why should a political party not do so?
5) WP TC Smearing - If WP cannot survive a smearing campaign (state by you), they do not deserve to be government. Similarly, if PAP still lose control of the government, despite being the incumbent... They deserve to lose. Why? Because if they cannot survive in an environment like Singapore, I do not think they can survive in an international environment.
6) Upgrading threats - So why should the PAP not give those people who support them? This is politics.


GE2020 will see the repeat of such election tactics again. Maybe GCT Funeral, SG55, One Year Propaganda, PGP Card, Thick Glossy Election Materials, WP TC Smearing, Upgrading Threats . PAP knows voters are shallow and knows such tactics work best on shallow voters. Singaporean voters are educated but not intelligent.

- Perhaps. But that is nature of politics. And again, they screwed up in 2011 and have reverse a lot of their screw ups. Why should they not be rewarded with better vote performance?


Nobody wants to sway the ground here. It is a cynical satire how election tactics can be use in any relationships too. This is a sad fact for 70% of Singaporeans

- Why can't it be a sad fact that 30% of the Singaporeans are being made use by the opposition tactics of first world democracy, credible opposition and etc?Again. This is democracy. One can bitch about the 70% over and over again. The fact is 70% is still higher than 30%. Lets respect each other stand in politics and not call one another shallow and not intelligent.

- At the same time, election tactics and marriage is different. What is permissible in one should not mean that it is to be done in the other. Personally, I feel we should not use these tactics in marriage. Though that is really up to individual.

[sleepygordon]

GE is never over. Politics affect our lives everyday.

PAP started work on GE2015 immediately after GE2011 was over.

You think the LKY Funeral, One Year Propaganda, SG50, PGP Card, Thick Glossy Election Materials, WP TC Smearing, Upgrading Threats can be done with a snap of fingers?

GE2020 will see the repeat of such election tactics again.

Maybe GCT Funeral, SG55, One Year Propaganda, PGP Card, Thick Glossy Election Materials, WP TC Smearing, Upgrading Threats .

PAP knows voters are shallow and knows such tactics work best on shallow voters. Singaporean voters are educated but not intelligent.

Nobody wants to sway the ground here. It is a cynical satire how election tactics can be use in any relationships too. This is a sad fact for 70% of Singaporeans.

You must be minion for PAP isnt it? It is obvious that you are being a nuisance but yet you persisted to spam this forum, thus causing ill-will towards the opposition. GE is over so please take your political shitstirring to some other forums.

[tungsten]

Well, you said it.

Politics is like that, it is good politics to cheat, lie and smear to win elections regardless how much taxpayers money are being used solely for the benefit of only one political party. When you see the logos behind the thick glossy election materials, there are PA and TC logos, paid by taxpayers money. This is call abuse of power and funds.

- Again. You think that 70% of people vote for it just becos of that?

Propaganda is call propaganda because it is never total truth. Maybe only 50% true which is the good side. The other 50% is the bad side but never shown.

- And yah. Does opp tell their own screw ups? Every party will say they are best. Vote for me. Duh.

Voting a WP candidate means do not want national programmes? Your logic is skewed. This means WP voters also reject minister salaries, national taxes, COEs, ERPs, NS, GST etc. WP voters can stop paying for all these? Base on what you said, now we know PAP is the real bastard by threatening voters every GE.

- So applying your logic. Does voting for PAP means support them on everything? It means most of policies is being seen as correct by the majority. And seriously, you are just being naïve if you think that does not apply in other democracy. Truth is benefits flow to supporters and pain shared by all.

Life is unfair anyway. Life is like that. So if you get robbed or murdered, just take it you are unlucky. Life is like that anyway. Resign to fate. No need to report police. This only encourages wrongdoing and will turn Singapore into a Wild Wild West.

- Again. The warped opposition logic. If you think it is unfair politics, stand up against it and let the population judge in the ballot box.

This was why humans invented rules and regulations because they know life is unfair but it does not mean they leave it as it is. People always strife to close the gap as much as possible to make life more fair. This is why there is Government, Police, Audit, Parliament, Democracy etc.

- That is why there is democracy via ballot box. 70% vote for it. That is call majority rule.

I guess you should know the PAP removing the screw ups of pre-GE2011 was because of GE2011 results. Maintenance of power balance is like investing in train maintenance. Lack of train maintenance for too long lead to huge frequent train breakdowns and a giant one soon happened.

- Yup. And what is the problem with it? Or do you prefer a government that does not do anything despite knowing that there is a screw up?

For Government to work hard consistently and not react to only specific GE results, only maintenance of a two party consistently can prevent the return of pre-GE2011 days. But now with good mandate again like GE2001, PAP will return to old ways and voters will suffer again. Wait for the next GE2011 in 10 years time at GE2025. Voters got many 10 years to burn.

- Again. You think that 2 party is best? Please go and take a look at US, UK and other 2 party mature democracies. It becomes a situation of who can limbo rock lower into welfare.

This is why you trying to improve your marriage sex life. You could have leave it as it is and say marriage is like that, life is unfair anyway, resign to fate.

- Government can be changed at end of every GE. Wife is technically life long contract. Big difference.

[Maxlion]

Knn...everywhere quarrels and politics..

U all not sianz meh?

Then what the purpose of this forum anymore huh?:mad:

[cktfrancis]

fuck just look at Malaysia boleh,,shit can be turned to gold

[porscheclub]

Well. My wife often trade sex with me for her benefits. Not bags or other luxuries, those she'll get & she said I'm her baby. She claims to reward me for being a good boy like our parents reward kids for good results. Bah....I'm blackmailed.

[maxman]

Well. My wife often trade sex with me for her benefits. Not bags or other luxuries, those she'll get & she said I'm her baby. She claims to reward me for being a good boy like our parents reward kids for good results. Bah....I'm blackmailed.

What sort of beneficial acts or behaviour does she want or expect from you such that she will give you sex?

[lasupkia]

I'm a lucker fucker. My wife has been researching ways on the net to make more shiok. Better than winning 4D. Yesterday she asked me what is BJ?

[ah rat]

I'm a lucker fucker. My wife has been researching ways on the net to make more shiok. Better than winning 4D. Yesterday she asked me what is BJ?

Bro ,then how u replied her.Or u just took out yr too & asked her BJ..Then told her this id BJ :)

[tungsten]

[QUOTE=kuasimi;13688969]Elections can change Government every 5 years but wife can change any year. I am sure many divorcees here would agree. Let us only talk about Singapore. Singapore did not change Government for 50 years but every year got Singaporeans divorce. Does it match your theory that Government can change every GE and marriage is lifelong?

- Again. Contractual government can be change every 5 years. The fact that it has not been changed means that majority is still in favour of the government. Like it or not, that is how democracy works.

I am not like you who felt One Party System is the best. I did not say 2 Party System is the best but is the lesser evil to One Party System.

- Please point to where I say that one party system is the best. But it is better than a non-functional two party system especially when the potential 2nd party is not yet a firm manifesto that is economically workable in the long run. Which has not involve spending more money?

Base on your logic, the entire world is incapable except PAP because the world leaders are paid less than PAP.

- Again. When did I said that?

The entire world has no families to feed because they are paid less than PAP.
The entire world is jealous because they are paid less than PAP.

- Again. When did I said that?

Please stop using Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Internet, Nike, BMW, Toyota, Wechat etc because all these products came from 2-party nations and incapable nations. Have you lived in those nations that you complained about before? Then why many Foreign Talents that came to Singapore hope to migrate to those nations you mentioned?

- As far as I know, I have colleagues and friends from those traditional 2 party nations migrate to Singapore. And again. Failure of the government does not mean the people is a failure too. Just not so far from us is a screw up government that still has decent folks.

Looks like base on your logic, the higher the pay , the less accountable, less responsible and less transparent Singapore need to be. Please ask all the Health Ministers to step down if you are so self-righteous.

- Obviously you have when did I say that? Obviously you are trolling so many threads that you do not even know who you are replying to.

Nobody wish Government to fail but when PAP fails, it does not equate to Government failing. Like you said, change Government at GE but so far past 50 years, even if PAP screws up, did Singaporeans changed Government? Take note PAP is not equal to Government all the time. Do not talk like they are in the same breadth.

- Again. I said that they deserve to be punished if they screw up. If they screw up badly enough then the population will vote them out. If they improve obviously their shares will improve. Like it or not, another reason why their share of votes improve is also because some previous voters who vote for opp is just out of frustration and not to change government. When there is a real possibility of changing government, they still vote PAP. That is still the majority voice.

Yes, 70% voted for PAP but it was how PAP got the votes that disgusted many Singaporeans. Nobody is disputing the result. It was the underhanded methods of how PAP won that were wrong. If Singaporeans approved PAP's underhanded methods, Singapore will become a Wild Wild West soon enough and Singaporeans values will be no different from cheaters and liars. Singapore political scene will be no different from Malaysia's whereby the Powerful will always be right and the Powerless will always be wrong.

- Then seriously, all the democracies will have become wild wild west. Obviously you do not have sufficient knowledge of how democracies function in the REAL world.

It is not warped Opposition logic. It was your logic that you argue as reality of life so resign to fate. You said it is normal that life is unfair and underhanded methods are normal. Live with it.

- I can live with my wife still as she is still a good mother to my kids. However it does not mean that I think she is perfect. Did not divorce her does not mean that she is perfect. Divorcing her does not mean that she is 100% failure. Obviously you are just someone who is warp.

The fact is propaganda was everywhere for a year non stop using taxpayers money to benefit only one single party. Even MSM was unreliable. Dont you find the blatant abuse of power, space and funds worrying? Next time, if PAP has a Hitler-like member as leader, all these unlimited power will be in his hands.

- And you think that the MSM in the matured democracies is fully neutral? Oh please! Yah... And what if the Hitler arise from opp? Study your history. Hitler arise from opposition party.

It was not my logic. It was your logic that whoever that did not vote PAP rejected PAP Plans and thus should be discriminated. I included more PAP Plans for you to reject. Now you switch logic again. Dont twist and turn leh.

- Again. When did I switch logic? I said benefit to reward supporters, pain is to be shared. I said pork barrel politics exist. That is a fact which applies to democracies. Stop pretending that it does not exist.