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[PipuDiiding]

Me and my boyfriend has been living together for 1 year 4 months approx. 4 months with his family and after that we've been renting a room. When we first moved out, things were normal. A few months passed and I realized, we've been having sex once a month. When I realized this, I tried to initiate but he refused.

We broke up for a week, and I had sex with another guy out of need since I haven't gotten it for 1 month plus. When we got back tgt, I decided to be honest about it. He was furious. Understandable. A few days later we sorted it out and sex was back on track.

But now, after almost 2 months, things are back to square one. I haven't gotten any for 3 weeks now. He says things like he has no mood at all. Can't stand for the time being.

Does this mean I'm undesirable?
Does no sex = no love?

Please share your opinions.

[Johnbass]

Happy Valentine!
U free on Sunday?
:D

[Taisho75]

Maybe we should see ur bed skills before making judgment on why your bf do with u once a month. We can base on what u wrote and share with u what we think, ultmately is u who knows best.

Is he the kua kua guy type? Normal if he busy with work or you too lousy that he dun want it.
Could it be he is eating outside also thats why when he back he no mood or cannot stand?

If u want, we can meet and discuss on bed.:p:D

[demonhunter]

Maybe we could meet up and share your burden ?

;)

[ah rat]

TS, your bf must have another girl to piak :)
Dump him look for one that treasure of need :D

[Hurricane88]

TS, your bf must have another girl to piak :)
Dump him look for one that treasure of need :D

I think so too...he should be cheating on you...:)

a guy will never shy away from sex if gal initiate...if you do bj and do cowgal on your bf servicing him all the way and he still no mood then really what bro ah rat and me type above is valid...:)

[ah rat]

I think so too...he should be cheating on you...:)

a guy will never shy away from sex if gal initiate...if you do bj and do cowgal on your bf servicing him all the way and he still no mood then really what bro ah rat and me type above is valid...:)

Bro, like me.I see neh neh & pussy.I will surely give in to her need :p :D

[acidicavex]

Post some pics so we can judge u are desirable or not....... a pic tell a thousand words.
Me and my boyfriend has been living together for 1 year 4 months approx. 4 months with his family and after that we've been renting a room. When we first moved out, things were normal. A few months passed and I realized, we've been having sex once a month. When I realized this, I tried to initiate but he refused.

We broke up for a week, and I had sex with another guy out of need since I haven't gotten it for 1 month plus. When we got back tgt, I decided to be honest about it. He was furious. Understandable. A few days later we sorted it out and sex was back on track.

But now, after almost 2 months, things are back to square one. I haven't gotten any for 3 weeks now. He says things like he has no mood at all. Can't stand for the time being.

Does this mean I'm undesirable?
Does no sex = no love?

Please share your opinions.

[Nordic]

If ur not having enough sex now, I dread to think what will happen after you get married.

Would love to be your discreet partner till you sort things out with your bf.

[motorsiowSG]

Me and my boyfriend has been living together for 1 year 4 months approx. 4 months with his family and after that we've been renting a room. When we first moved out, things were normal. A few months passed and I realized, we've been having sex once a month. When I realized this, I tried to initiate but he refused.

We broke up for a week, and I had sex with another guy out of need since I haven't gotten it for 1 month plus. When we got back tgt, I decided to be honest about it. He was furious. Understandable. A few days later we sorted it out and sex was back on track.

But now, after almost 2 months, things are back to square one. I haven't gotten any for 3 weeks now. He says things like he has no mood at all. Can't stand for the time being.

Does this mean I'm undesirable?
Does no sex = no love?

Please share your opinions.

Communication is always the solution. Talk and discuss with him your concerns. If it doesnt work, time to move on.

[hugs]

Post some pics so we can judge u are desirable or not....... a pic tell a thousand words.
I 2nd that!:D

[hugs]

Me and my boyfriend has been living together for 1 year 4 months approx. 4 months with his family and after that we've been renting a room. When we first moved out, things were normal. A few months passed and I realized, we've been having sex once a month. When I realized this, I tried to initiate but he refused.

We broke up for a week, and I had sex with another guy out of need since I haven't gotten it for 1 month plus. When we got back tgt, I decided to be honest about it. He was furious. Understandable. A few days later we sorted it out and sex was back on track.

But now, after almost 2 months, things are back to square one. I haven't gotten any for 3 weeks now. He says things like he has no mood at all. Can't stand for the time being.

Does this mean I'm undesirable?
Does no sex = no love?

Please share your opinions.
Is this a marriage? If it isnt, ditch this relationship.

[lickman]

even this is a marriage,must end it...
canot be saved liao...

[acidicavex]

I 2nd that!:D

Thanks love :D

[hugs]

Thanks love :D
......<3 :p.....

[acidicavex]

......<3 :p.....

Smooches Smooches :p

[Hurricane88]

Bro, like me.I see neh neh & pussy.I will surely give in to her need :p :D

exactly what I meant...if gal did self service how to reject...:)

[hugs]

Smooches Smooches :p

taking out whip. So daring?! *slap*

[acidicavex]

taking out whip. So daring?! *slap*

Oh yeah love Hmmm whip harder!!!;)

[hugs]

Oh yeah love Hmmm whip harder!!!;)

Pet..take a cold shower:o or i give cold shoulder..

[acidicavex]

Pet..take a cold shower:o or i give cold shoulder..

Omg cold shower take together than I can feel your warm.....:p:D

[PipuDiiding]

I completely agree.


Communication is always the solution. Talk and discuss with him your concerns. If it doesnt work, time to move on.

[Kenny87]

I completely agree.

i know how you feel. i had a ex like this once too.

We connected on every level except sexually. Me and my gfs even dubbed our sex time as blue moon. because it lterally was every blue moon.

I felt ugly, i felt undesirable.

End up, we broke up after nearly 2 years. I just gave up. I didnt want to feel the way you do. I didnt want to have to beg and plead for affection or sex..

So, i think u better talk to him if you love him and see if the problem can be fixed.

[PipuDiiding]

i know how you feel. i had a ex like this once too.

We connected on every level except sexually. Me and my gfs even dubbed our sex time as blue moon. because it lterally was every blue moon.

I felt ugly, i felt undesirable.

End up, we broke up after nearly 2 years. I just gave up. I didnt want to feel the way you do. I didnt want to have to beg and plead for affection or sex..

So, i think u better talk to him if you love him and see if the problem can be fixed.

I came to accept the terms and conditions of this relationship. Not all guys are into sex like how not all girls are.

I believe nowadays it's difficult to find a partner who will genuinely care for you or go an extra mile just to make you smile. But it's easy to find someone to be in a relationship with just for the sex.

Maybe long term wise we would find an amicable solution when it comes to sexual issues.


*pray hard*

[PipuDiiding]

It would be such a waste to give up the whole relationship if the problem lies with just sex.
It's like betting $100 just to gain $1.

[squiggle]

It could be the guys that you dating with they are not really with high sex drive, busy with life or something. Best is to communicate with your partner.

Sex for once a week is avg, 2-3 times a week is for those who have high sex drive.

[hugs]

Your first post said sex was once a month. You also said that when you initiated sex, he refused. You said he got no mood.

You think sex is the problem? And this relationship u can accept?

Moreover this has happened for a long time.

It would be such a waste to give up the whole relationship if the problem lies with just sex.
It's like betting $100 just to gain $1.

[Deborak]

Got happenings. Go my Sis Deborah threads. Especially her photo today, very cute.