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frillywimberly
04-07-2016, 11:32 AM
Hello all. I'm not new here as I'm a frequent visitor as a guest. It always intrigues me on how men view ladies in a general or sexual prospect. I'm in my early 30s this year and I've been married for about 5 years. However, things between hubby and I have not been great and we haven't had sex for about 3 years already. Perhaps it's our busy schedule that's hindering the sexual aspect, or perhaps we've just lost attraction for each other. In any case, we still communicate and converse occasionally. On my part, I've started to view him like my family, and not so much of a lover. I'm not asking on advice on what I can do about this situation as I've gotten used to it and is now comfortable with the current state.

Currently, I've met into a financial situation and even though it's really a small amount, I have only 2 weeks to come up with the money. Just a thought on women who 'offer' their services here, or anywhere else..does physical appearance play a big part? Or are there some who are just looking for the thrill of screwing a normal passerby, or even enjoy the fact(if) that they're screwing someone's wife? I stand at around 160CM and weight 75kg. Not your average slim, attractive woman for sure. Been looking out for part time jobs(I'm currently employed full time) but I don't suppose it can get me what I need within 2 weeks. Any advice out there from anyone? Thank you for taking the time to read my little introduction (;

ric8666
04-07-2016, 03:33 PM
Hi I will like to know u more n wat can I help u

frillywimberly
04-07-2016, 05:07 PM
Hi I will like to know u more n wat can I help u

To be frank, I'm looking for something which doesn't expose my identity. Perhaps photos requested without face, or selling of lingerie? Both I do not mind. But I guess it also depends on response rate (:

hardcoremayhem
04-07-2016, 05:14 PM
Hello and Welcome, I am sorry to hear about you having financial issues.
However, before you take the plunge is offering sexual favours for cash, have you exhausted all financial avenues? Of course, taking a loan to pay for loans is kind of like taking a step back and is a slippery slope but so is what you are considering,

That aside, to answer your question, i think that people would always be interested in offering cash to satisfy a particular kink or fetish, simple economic force of demand and supply. So despite, you saying that you are 75kg @ 160cm, there would be buyers. Of course, then there is the issue of value perception.

YakunBoy
04-07-2016, 05:56 PM
Hello and Welcome, I am sorry to hear about you having financial issues.
However, before you take the plunge is offering sexual favours for cash, have you exhausted all financial avenues? Of course, taking a loan to pay for loans is kind of like taking a step back and is a slippery slope but so is what you are considering,

That aside, to answer your question, i think that people would always be interested in offering cash to satisfy a particular kink or fetish, simple economic force of demand and supply. So despite, you saying that you are 75kg @ 160cm, there would be buyers. Of course, then there is the issue of value perception.

Agree with hardcoremayhem's post. There are some bank personal loans of interest lesser than 10%.. I guess it depends on how much cash you are looking to raise.. Personally I would say this should be like a last resort.. Having said that. If you really thought it thru and is very firm in deciding on this path, I've seen only a couple of local ladies offering their services in other threads. You may want to look at theirs as reference and have a feel of the market rate.

Just my 2 cents worth.

Elfbird
05-07-2016, 01:17 AM
I believe there is still a lot of way to solve your problem, you may borrow small amounts from your friends (50 or 100)... 10 friends will be around 1K. if still not enough, turn to your family and relatives. I believe they can lend a bit more, maybe around 150 to 500? If still not enough then go bank...

Please do not consider what you mention as an option.

ComplainKing
05-07-2016, 08:30 AM
welcome to SBF . Not surprising many are facing financial difficulties as things are becoming more expensive in this small red little dot . :mad:

Serenade
05-07-2016, 10:17 AM
4 aspects to consider :
1. How much you need to borrow
2. When will you return borrowed amount
3. How fast do you need it (2 weeks is quite short for official loans except revolving loans)
4. How much do you earn from your job? There is a minimum wage requirement

Borrow from relatives is best option. Offer to pay interest of bank TD rate of 2% and sign an IOU with repayment date to give them comfort that you fully intend to repay.

If you do not want to let relatives know you need money, and need it fast, but only for a few months, take a bank unsecured revolving loan. Approval is fast, and the interest rate is above 10% pa. Still way below that of credit cards. Avoid credit card loans at all cost due to compounding. Pay revolving loan when you can, but as long as loan is outstanding, interest is being charged.

If you need to borrow for a year or longer and medium amount, arrange for a personal term loan with bank. This takes longer to approve but interest rate is low, slightly above mortgage. Monthly repayments.

Longer term and bigger loans, arrange for a loan secured against your paid up property. Lowest interest rate

maman
05-07-2016, 02:30 PM
4 aspects to consider :
1. How much you need to borrow
2. When will you return borrowed amount
3. How fast do you need it (2 weeks is quite short for official loans except revolving loans)
4. How much do you earn from your job? There is a minimum wage requirement

Borrow from relatives is best option. Offer to pay interest of bank TD rate of 2% and sign an IOU with repayment date to give them comfort that you fully intend to repay.

If you do not want to let relatives know you need money, and need it fast, but only for a few months, take a bank unsecured revolving loan. Approval is fast, and the interest rate is above 10% pa. Still way below that of credit cards. Avoid credit card loans at all cost due to compounding. Pay revolving loan when you can, but as long as loan is outstanding, interest is being charged.

If you need to borrow for a year or longer and medium amount, arrange for a personal term loan with bank. This takes longer to approve but interest rate is low, slightly above mortgage. Monthly repayments.

Longer term and bigger loans, arrange for a loan secured against your paid up property. Lowest interest rate

I tink this already cover most possible alternatives liao. All the best TS, and hope to hear an update soon.