Caught partner using social web

[jadelady]

What will you do if you caught your partner using a social web that he has never use before, to follow girls profile and when you ask what is that he said its nothing. Or guys, why do you do that? Is it the thrill or the temptation?

I am lost, I never like my partner to use social web to know more girls. I be thinking, why then need to know more girl am I not enough for you? Damn it.:mad:

[3Dragon]

Why the insercurity? U can download it and use it as well.

[acidicavex]

confusing you wrote somewhere u also using social website and have a scandal with a older guy leh.

Hmmm... so u should know better when your guy is using it.

Whether why u are good or no good enough for him well only u know and he know. The rest will just be i don't know and speculate stuff.

[SnowLeopards]

Men are horny and visual creatures.

Nothing is going to stop them.

Pierre.

[jadelady]

I have stopping doing what I did after I got into a relationship with my current partner because I treasure him.

[fion.18]

I have stopping doing what I did after I got into a relationship with my current partner because I treasure him.

everyone will need their personal space even in a relationship.

if he doesn't wanna be faithful nothing u do can hold him. if he wants to be faithful, nothing u do can tempt him. just fly him like a kite lo. let him loose when you need to. if it's meant to be he will come back.

hold on too tightly, the line will snap and your kite will be gone, forever.

[johnnybravoyo]

everyone will need their personal space even in a relationship.

if he doesn't wanna be faithful nothing u do can hold him. if he wants to be faithful, nothing u do can tempt him. just fly him like a kite lo. let him loose when you need to. if it's meant to be he will come back.

hold on too tightly, the line will snap and your kite will be gone, forever.



very very good advice. I've always hold onto this kite example if in a relationship.

[purepulp]

What will you do if you caught your partner using a social web that he has never use before, to follow girls profile and when you ask what is that he said its nothing. Or guys, why do you do that? Is it the thrill or the temptation?

I am lost, I never like my partner to use social web to know more girls. I be thinking, why then need to know more girl am I not enough for you? Damn it.:mad:

You said that he 'follow girls profile' and to you that is to 'know more girls'…

Firstly, has he got to know the girls he follow in real life? Gone on dates etc? Following girls profile (I'm guessing Tumblr) is pretty common and shouldn't make you feel insecure. An example is that if he watches porn from a certain actress, would that make you feel like he is cheating on you? Would you think that you are sexually inferior to the actress thats why he's watching her?

Women drool after male korean stars too so should men become jealous also? :cool:

[acidicavex]

u treasure him than have a good sit down heart to heart talk to him. to see what went wrong.

If he still doing it than u decide what u want to do next the ball is in your hand. at least u try communication and if that doesn't work. Well there is always the button to launch a nuclear arsenal on him.

important

no double standard
communicate
talk
try

all don't press the red button

[nitecrawllerr]

Sometime i see my sister in law watsapp away. Kind of wondering who she watsapp with. Shes working in a bank. Not self employed or doing business. So many friends to watsapp meh? ;)

[bombweister]

Sister

Maybe you can look at it this way

1) look see look see no hanky panky then you open 1 eye close 1 eye
2) look see look see but got hanky panky then maybe you can consider looking into the problem.

I don't know how you are like or how is your relationship like with your bf, but this is my 2 cents worth of advice.

You also got guy friends who will Want to flirt with you. End of the day no hanky panky I think it is okay.

Cheers

[MaraGuru]

I have stopping doing what I did after I got into a relationship with my current partner because I treasure him.

U can't micromanage a relationship. This is bad, one day it will burst off - "POP".
Everyone on earth has its own privacy corner, guys are still guys. If you want your bf to be those guai guai, gong gong type, I think you will find him boring in no time.
I believe sometimes on the street, you also "peek" at handsome guy too.
Also, if you notice, if the girl tell the bf, that guy is handsome and charming, most bf is fine with the statement. But if the guy tell the gf, that girl got nice figure, long sexy leg....the result will be totally different. All because girls get jealous over small thing.

[Cumaster]

I have stopping doing what I did after I got into a relationship with my current partner because I treasure him.

Cant beat them? Join them...

Whats ur wechat id? lol

[hi2u]

Dear sis,
I think the best would be a heart to heart talk with him.
Find out what's wrong, what prompted him to use the app.
Are there issues? Is there anyway to go about handling the issues?

[taureanwoman08]

What will you do if you caught your partner using a social web that he has never use before, to follow girls profile and when you ask what is that he said its nothing. Or guys, why do you do that? Is it the thrill or the temptation?

I am lost, I never like my partner to use social web to know more girls. I be thinking, why then need to know more girl am I not enough for you? Damn it.:mad:

Men are like this. You can never keep them from another woman, especially if she is beautiful and sexy. This is despite you being a beautiful sexy woman yourself.

[orchad]

Cant beat them? Join them...

Whats ur wechat id? lol

Love your comment hehe :D

[ExBro]

What will you do if you caught your partner using a social web that he has never use before, to follow girls profile and when you ask what is that he said its nothing. Or guys, why do you do that? Is it the thrill or the temptation?

I am lost, I never like my partner to use social web to know more girls. I be thinking, why then need to know more girl am I not enough for you? Damn it.:mad:

Hi Jade,

You know something, ur Bf might be like me... when ex said she doesn't like to Bj/ bbbj and suggest I get from "outside", dream girl right guys?

All the more I wouldn't do it, but try to convince her to give at least once a month. Still when due for it, she still suggest I do it with someone else but I still didn't.

However, when I tried to convince her to swing MMFF or 3P. Her reply was NO, I can do it (3P, 4P, GB) but without her. She is against anyone else seeing her naked, her beautiful body is exclusive for me only!

Wahlau, she is 36C-24-36, 170/ 49-50 fair, waist length jet black hair and well manicured with flawless skin.

Meets 6x a week, fucks 2-3 time per meet, once upon a time 8x in 6hours. I think we average 600-700x a yr. How to be unfaithful to such a 仙女下凡?!

I confidently wechat other gals in front of her (to look see look see) and vice versa... but like you. I was her older man... I should be the one who is worried.

Be confident La! If he leaves u, he doesn't deserve u right?



Cant beat them? Join them...

Whats ur wechat id? lol

Lol! Beat me to it!

I call it "don't get mad... get even... " I'm an older man with something you've been searching for before.. massage for females lo!

Maybe he get jealous lo! But the side effect is you have a couple of explosive, mind numbing O's.

No harm right?!

[owen10]

What will you do if you caught your partner using a social web that he has never use before, to follow girls profile and when you ask what is that he said its nothing. Or guys, why do you do that? Is it the thrill or the temptation?

I am lost, I never like my partner to use social web to know more girls. I be thinking, why then need to know more girl am I not enough for you? Damn it.:mad:

There are all sorts of people in social apps.

One i've seen in Tinder is this lady, who described herself as already attached and only want to make friends over coffee.

If it's a lady, people might nt frown upon so much. But if it's a guy, I think he'll get a lot of eggs hurled at him.

[Astreme]

There are all sorts of people in social apps.

One i've seen in Tinder is this lady, who described herself as already attached and only want to make friends over coffee.

If it's a lady, people might nt frown upon so much. But if it's a guy, I think he'll get a lot of eggs hurled at him.

Very true bro, this is life!

[blueferret]

What will you do if you caught your partner using a social web that he has never use before, to follow girls profile and when you ask what is that he said its nothing. Or guys, why do you do that? Is it the thrill or the temptation?

I am lost, I never like my partner to use social web to know more girls. I be thinking, why then need to know more girl am I not enough for you? Damn it.:mad:

Did you do enough to make him so happy that there is no need for him to look at other women ?

[reading]

I have stopping doing what I did after I got into a relationship with my current partner because I treasure him.

u never stop visiting sbf so how to treasure him ... or u know him from here ?

[fringe929]

What will you do if you caught your partner using a social web that he has never use before, to follow girls profile and when you ask what is that he said its nothing. Or guys, why do you do that? Is it the thrill or the temptation?

I am lost, I never like my partner to use social web to know more girls. I be thinking, why then need to know more girl am I not enough for you? Damn it.:mad:

Such a simple issue... Since he says its nothing... why don't you join the game... go pick your "best" pic, create a profile in the social web and see who gets more attention. If he doesn't give a fish about what you do and the numerous attention you receiving, then it may be time for you to reconsider your relationship liao. Usually if he still loves you, but backside itchy only, he will tend to get jealous very fast...

[PPGirl]

Mostly guys will never be contented with just 1 woman.
The other side of the land is greener.

So what u caught him using social app & he uninstall or deleted the app infront of u. He will start to use again out of curiosity. Let him use all he want & of coz the temptation is there in all these apps.

If he meant to be yours, he will be yours.
No point tying or control what he likes to do.
The more u tell him dun use, the more he will use.

[WalkingAlone]

Did you do enough to make him so happy that there is no need for him to look at other women ?

A very impt question

[naturegreen]

Everyone has their own dark secrets. Don't you?

[strikeback4]

As long don't "eat outside" can liao

[Cumaster]

Cant beat them? Join them...

Whats ur wechat id? lol

TS, how is it?

My wechat id is cumster55. Looking forward to her from you. Lol.

[JAVgent]

What will you do if you caught your partner using a social web that he has never use before, to follow girls profile and when you ask what is that he said its nothing. Or guys, why do you do that? Is it the thrill or the temptation?

I am lost, I never like my partner to use social web to know more girls. I be thinking, why then need to know more girl am I not enough for you? Damn it.:mad:

you should be glad he didn't swipe right for guys' profiles.

[CheapoNetwork]

TS, how is it?

My wechat id is cumster55. Looking forward to her from you. Lol.

Please provide FR bro :D