hanky_panky
25-10-2017, 01:23 AM
Not sure if any bros here have the same experience as me. If dont have, bros just take note and be aware lah. And sorry for the lengthy post.
Few weeks ago I was online in one of the online adult dating site, looking for females to chat with. Saw the profile of this lady looking for long term partner. So try to PM her and see if she wants to chat. And she replied. We chatted and she suggested we chat on Wechat. Added her on Wechat and started chatting there.
Everything went on fine. We were chatting non stop. Talking about how high drive she is..that her bf cannot satisfy her..etc. Then towards the end of the day, she asked me if she wants to chat with me, where to find me? So i told her she still can chat on Wechat. Then she told me that her bf will check her phone and normally will use her laptop at night. Then she told me she chat on HITMES. So i told her, fine I can create an account in HITMES and we can chat there.
But after I signed up in HITMES, I realised I have the be a paid member in order to view, search, add members and even chat with the members. And the cheapest membership fee is $50 PER MONTH. I told her it's not worth paying $50 just to chat and I'll find another platform to chat with her. Then she din reply.
The next day, I PM her in Wechat and initially she din reply. So I texted her again and she replied but her attitude totally changed. I told her we can use Skype to chat cos Skype is available on PC and Mobile. Then she said she never use before. And after that no more reply.
Then the following day, I texted her again. But this time, I ask if she want to meet up on the coming weekend. Then this time she said ok to meet but need me to verify my profile. Initially I thought she just want to make sure that I'm the person in the photo, I suggested that we do a video call in Wechat. Then she said video call there's no verification. I was like WTF??? Then she said she want me to verify my profile in HITMES. After my profile has been verified, we will wait for the system to match her profile with my profile. And when our profiles are matched, HITMES will guarantee have some measures if there's discrepancy in the profile which I do not understand what she meant.
And in order to verify the profile, you must be a paid member! I ask her, what info she wants to verify and how HITMES verify the data? She told me that HITMES will require me to take a photo of me holding my IC. I told her, the photo on my IC was taken 30years ago and how HITMES is going to verify that I'm the same person. She keep repeating about the guarantee and the measures HITMES has.
Then she says that since both of us are not willing to compromise, then we shall not meet cos she doesnt want to waste time going for the meet up and find that I'm not the person in the photo. I told her if she's worry that I'm not the person in the photo for my Wechat profile, then we do a video call. But still she decline. So I told her forget about the meet up. And I deleted her profile in Wechat.
The reason of writing this is not to rant my disappointment but to highlight to the bros here. I believed that she is one of those people that might be hired just to get people to become the paid members of HITMES. Recently I have noticed that there's an increase in the number of profiles with chinese wordings in the profile description. And if you sign up with HITMES, you will notice that most members are from Taiwan, HK..etc..not many form SG. SO I'm not sure what you will get after paying the $50 membership fee for 1 month.
I might be wrong but if any bros here have the same experience or have a different opinion/view, please share share.
Few weeks ago I was online in one of the online adult dating site, looking for females to chat with. Saw the profile of this lady looking for long term partner. So try to PM her and see if she wants to chat. And she replied. We chatted and she suggested we chat on Wechat. Added her on Wechat and started chatting there.
Everything went on fine. We were chatting non stop. Talking about how high drive she is..that her bf cannot satisfy her..etc. Then towards the end of the day, she asked me if she wants to chat with me, where to find me? So i told her she still can chat on Wechat. Then she told me that her bf will check her phone and normally will use her laptop at night. Then she told me she chat on HITMES. So i told her, fine I can create an account in HITMES and we can chat there.
But after I signed up in HITMES, I realised I have the be a paid member in order to view, search, add members and even chat with the members. And the cheapest membership fee is $50 PER MONTH. I told her it's not worth paying $50 just to chat and I'll find another platform to chat with her. Then she din reply.
The next day, I PM her in Wechat and initially she din reply. So I texted her again and she replied but her attitude totally changed. I told her we can use Skype to chat cos Skype is available on PC and Mobile. Then she said she never use before. And after that no more reply.
Then the following day, I texted her again. But this time, I ask if she want to meet up on the coming weekend. Then this time she said ok to meet but need me to verify my profile. Initially I thought she just want to make sure that I'm the person in the photo, I suggested that we do a video call in Wechat. Then she said video call there's no verification. I was like WTF??? Then she said she want me to verify my profile in HITMES. After my profile has been verified, we will wait for the system to match her profile with my profile. And when our profiles are matched, HITMES will guarantee have some measures if there's discrepancy in the profile which I do not understand what she meant.
And in order to verify the profile, you must be a paid member! I ask her, what info she wants to verify and how HITMES verify the data? She told me that HITMES will require me to take a photo of me holding my IC. I told her, the photo on my IC was taken 30years ago and how HITMES is going to verify that I'm the same person. She keep repeating about the guarantee and the measures HITMES has.
Then she says that since both of us are not willing to compromise, then we shall not meet cos she doesnt want to waste time going for the meet up and find that I'm not the person in the photo. I told her if she's worry that I'm not the person in the photo for my Wechat profile, then we do a video call. But still she decline. So I told her forget about the meet up. And I deleted her profile in Wechat.
The reason of writing this is not to rant my disappointment but to highlight to the bros here. I believed that she is one of those people that might be hired just to get people to become the paid members of HITMES. Recently I have noticed that there's an increase in the number of profiles with chinese wordings in the profile description. And if you sign up with HITMES, you will notice that most members are from Taiwan, HK..etc..not many form SG. SO I'm not sure what you will get after paying the $50 membership fee for 1 month.
I might be wrong but if any bros here have the same experience or have a different opinion/view, please share share.