married men playing Tinder , how u get around the "r u married?" question?

[justwanadoit]

When the gal ask you, how u answer. I usually just lie and say single. Sometimes I bit more honest if I find the girl already into me and say "going through divorce " .....which is also not true:o

[DevilTan4480]

Girls will always ask this question. I always say I'm single. Then can continue the conversation with them. Otherwise, if they find out I'm married then their only reply will be goodbye.

[naemlo]

When the gal ask you, how u answer. I usually just lie and say single. Sometimes I bit more honest if I find the girl already into me and say "going through divorce " .....which is also not true:o

It is a virtual world... she might hide more details than u. :D

[conquer]

I thought Tinder is only for the kids to kill time after school. :o

[sxem]

Just say the truth.

Married but bored.. I find that girls are generally curious when people say that.

If they start judging and chastising you, those arent the kind of girls you'll get anything out of anyway.

[MattJB]

I prefer to be honest.
I'm married but available :D
Of course many will stop chatting right away.
Some will advise me to take good care of wife bla bla

But once she said she dont mind, i know she is game.
Time to strike.

[labtecpaper]

I prefer to be honest.
I'm married but available :D
Of course many will stop chatting right away.
Some will advise me to take good care of wife bla bla

But once she said she dont mind, i know she is game.
Time to strike.

I see.. I have a noob question too... won’t you be running the risk of someone seeing your profile in Tinder and then bao toh to your wife because of the pictures you put up?

[FritoLay]

Always give them the MBA answer :D

[Barracuda]

I see.. I have a noob question too... won’t you be running the risk of someone seeing your profile in Tinder and then bao toh to your wife because of the pictures you put up?

I kena before, one of my gf friend saw me then bao toh me. I got hell after that.

[sexcision]

I kena before, one of my gf friend saw me then bao toh me. I got hell after that.

Haha that Friend of ur gf also no angel lor, wtf she doing there?

[boschboy]

Always give them the MBA answer :D

Does it work all the time? :)

[EasternWind]

We can be honest with them but can they be honest with us ?

[musselsmurf]

We can be honest with them but can they be honest with us ?

Fully agreed .

[aulover]

I wouldn't risk being on Tinder if I know my wife's friends uses Tinder... unless u like being on the edge of being found out all the time...


would even set up a different acct on another app like POF... OKCupid... and use different photos.. or new photos that u don't put on Facebook.

[sony2002]

It is a virtual world... she might hide more details than u. :D

true....out of my 6 FB, 3 of them already got kids (but single) and one of them still got bf...only found out when they confessed later

[RobinGibb]

It is a virtual world... she might hide more details than u. :D

Haha well said :)

[Aware66]

I see.. I have a noob question too... won’t you be running the risk of someone seeing your profile in Tinder and then bao toh to your wife because of the pictures you put up?

I've not use the site but...

How do they validate the information you provide(photos, name, age, etc.. ) ? Otherwise would it be a norm just to use the site to fish and people provide fake information?

[HelplessGal]

I prefer to be honest.
I'm married but available :D
Of course many will stop chatting right away.
Some will advise me to take good care of wife bla bla

But once she said she dont mind, i know she is game.
Time to strike.

Married men should be honest with women when it comes to mutual consent, companionship and intimacy. Otherwise unforeseen drama will happen.

[Pusspuss]

Married men should be honest with women when it comes to mutual consent, companionship and intimacy. Otherwise unforeseen drama will happen.

The woman has warned.
Do it at your own risk...

[whatgarbage]

Married men should be honest with women when it comes to mutual consent, companionship and intimacy. Otherwise unforeseen drama will happen.

Being honest means can fuck more often? :p

[benxiong]

Married men should be honest with women when it comes to mutual consent, companionship and intimacy. Otherwise unforeseen drama will happen.


Agreed. A married man usually look for FB due to unsatisfied sex life , wife dont give after birth and so on. No point lied to singles who are looking for future husband. For those women who are game are normally understanding and knows what's going on and won't sabo you normally. Nowadays, many women are being disturb by videos, movies showing third party being confront in those ugly manners. Examples are those short movie clips made in China. As in how mistress , FB being trash out. They think being with singles are better. Whereas those preferred married man are those who think married man are nore stable. As in won't have much time to play around compare to singles. Heard some said married men are more matured, more gentlemen. So if you are not going to remarry, don't lied.

[sabotage]

I prefer to be honest.
I'm married but available :D
Of course many will stop chatting right away.
Some will advise me to take good care of wife bla bla

But once she said she dont mind, i know she is game.
Time to strike.

So well said and I agree.

[Loveliz69]

Prefer married men though, guess it’s individual preference.

[afterburn]

Be upfront about it, don't waste time.

Married men are seen as better catches because obviously have some attributes that moved a lady to marry them in the first place.

Some women also might be turned on by the idea of seducing somebody else's "property", just like some guys are turned on by the idea of bedding somebody else's wife ;)

[Roadboss]

how is this tinder... can have bed encounters? i using wechat try get FB,so far so good got one staying 2 streets away from me.

[kilobarjade]

Being honest means can fuck more often? :p

This is possible :D

[giggz83]

yah, i agree, honesty is best policy, and prevents many mama-drama afterwards.

again if wanna play, be a gentlemen and not a jerk, helps to go a long way :)

[otamay]

yah, i agree, honesty is best policy, and prevents many mama-drama afterwards.

again if wanna play, be a gentlemen and not a jerk, helps to go a long way :)

I think so also, some don't mind your martial status. Only those who are conservative types will think serious. :D

[NiaoRenn]

You will be surprise how easy it is to bed local girls through tinder
They know what they are getting themselves into
As long as you are clean, they will ride you automatically

[Loveliz69]

You will be surprise how easy it is to bed local girls through tinder
They know what they are getting themselves into
As long as you are clean, they will ride you automatically

Quite true

[Aware66]

You will be surprise how easy it is to bed local girls through tinder
They know what they are getting themselves into
As long as you are clean, they will ride you automatically

Agree absolutely!

[Hooters666]

If i am single I will have a whale of a time with tinder girls because

most are friendly and chatty and some of them are pretty naughty too

but once i reveal my status....goodbye and thanks fucker!

I have not met one that is ok to waste time with me...LOL

[thedevil666]

If i am single I will have a whale of a time with tinder girls because

most are friendly and chatty and some of them are pretty naughty too

but once i reveal my status....goodbye and thanks fucker!

I have not met one that is ok to waste time with me...LOL

it depends how soon u reveal your cards (of wanting sex only). there are indeed many girls out there who doesn't mind befriending a married guy on tinder. some goes toward the extend to flirt a bit and hang out casually. make them feel comfortable then reveal your true intention. but don't overly emotional and make the other party over invest in yourself. otherwise, it will get nasty.

[unsung80]

Either honest or to be single, work both for me at least.

[Hooters666]

it depends how soon u reveal your cards (of wanting sex only). there are indeed many girls out there who doesn't mind befriending a married guy on tinder. some goes toward the extend to flirt a bit and hang out casually. make them feel comfortable then reveal your true intention. but don't overly emotional and make the other party over invest in yourself. otherwise, it will get nasty.

i only reveal much later when they start asking when are we meeting up...the issue is i put a fake pic as well....i cant risk putting my real self..haiz

then some will start asking for my insta account...that one i said i dont have

honestly if u are a swinging single dick...whole fuckin forest for u to harvest

most chicks are cool n chill except when i said i am not what i am :D

[Hooters666]

also do you guys know why are they plenty of anymo chicks and milf in tinder?

are these fake scam accounts?

[diputs1269]

You will be surprise how easy it is to bed local girls through tinder
They know what they are getting themselves into
As long as you are clean, they will ride you automatically

Really? Had not tried before, will attempt it.

[desk1]

Quite true

It needs lots of luck and patience too.

Gd luck to all.

[thedevil666]

i only reveal much later when they start asking when are we meeting up...the issue is i put a fake pic as well....i cant risk putting my real self..haiz

then some will start asking for my insta account...that one i said i dont have

honestly if u are a swinging single dick...whole fuckin forest for u to harvest

most chicks are cool n chill except when i said i am not what i am :D

That’s where u got it wrong. Tinder has FB blocking function. So your FB friends won’t find u there. Of cos u can’t discount that u may came across your wife’s friend who is not your fb friend but can recognize u. FB = Facebook.

Somehow girls cherish honesty over loyalty. Be honest to them (incl how u look like) and they are fine. Even though they probably know u are out to bed them and cheat behind your wife/gf.

Put yourself into their shoes, u also piss when u meet up someone who is different from their profile pic right?

[larue]

i only reveal much later when they start asking when are we meeting up...the issue is i put a fake pic as well....i cant risk putting my real self..haiz

then some will start asking for my insta account...that one i said i dont have

honestly if u are a swinging single dick...whole fuckin forest for u to harvest

most chicks are cool n chill except when i said i am not what i am :D

Cos you have been leading them on, no wonder they get upset. You gave them false hope. Obviously they know you were being untruthful from the start, lying by omission.

Imagine being led to a bed by a pretty girl wearing sexy lingerie, and when you get there she says you can’t touch her?

You dulan or not?

Say you are married, and say it early. Those who aren’t interested, just move along. Why waste time with them and end up with a later rejection after putting in even more ‘effort’.

Put up fake pic? That’s fucking pathetic. What were you thinking? Go for plastic surgery before meetup ah? Don’t put pic better.

If not put a blurred out pic, dress well so the inference is that whatever got blurred out looks as good as what wasn’t.