Ex wants to meet up

[funzguy]

My ex called me last week and want to have lunch with me after not seeing each other for at least 5 years. She is now married with 2 kids. Hmmmmm.... she is dem good at bbbj and she likes it raw. Now, I am begining to miss it......

Any advice how can I convince her to give me one when we meet next week?

[sissy]

Convince her? No need. The fact she called you to meet up is a foreshadow of good things to cum. So make the most of it and make it l...a...s...t. Don't forget to post your update of any happenings.

[dohcdohc]

Keep reminding her of your past experiences and observe her body language. If she responds positively, Bingo!

[xxpp_z]

Don't be so excited. Your Ex might just join Insurance line or maybe worst doing MLM.

[JIKED D]

er i got ex who wants to meet up but it's just for catching up sake ... i really dont think it's a sign

but then again ... if folks here got any tricks to get some actions with the exs ... pls share

[chickenpie]

Bro, your ex called you to meet up may be for the following reasons:

1. She needs your help in someway. Like what bro xxpp_z says MLM or insurance agent.

2. She wants to know how are you getting on... maybe memory of the past.

3. She is in trouble and need helps.

4. She just simply wants to maintain normal friend relations.

So better to find out the agenda before meeting up......

However if it is option2
Then try to find a private place before kicking her past memory of your loving sessions. So if the opportunity allows tell her that you still cannot forget the wonderful bbbj sessions.... still drooling.:p , who knows she may offer..

Wish you luck! Just my 2cent of advice. cheers…:)

[Lessien]

I feel u should not meet up with her...

I had one experience once ... whereby i met up with my ex ...
den u noe .. things happened... we made love but afterwards we felt so guilty for our current partners....

Til now in my 4 yr relationship with my gf .... im planning to marry her but the thought of being unfaithful to her by fking my ex always me feel damn sian man ...

Always go for paid sex ....

[combatus]

Don't be so excited. Your Ex might just join Insurance line or maybe worst doing MLM.

hahahhaha...dats wat my eX did...:( ...i runned like mad man!....whew!!!

[curiosityz]

funzguy bro, i don't suggest you meeting up with her as what Lessien bro has said...

[Mr Canon]

My humble opinion, if you are really looking for hit & run, i guess it should be all right to meet.

[Caporegime]

Exs are all trouble especially the married ones. They either want to borrow money, ask a favour or off-load some unwanted thing on you. Worst! They try to sell you insurance or investment or some multi-level marketing products! It's legal racketeering I tells you.

Exs are bad news.

[juzjoin]

whether your ex is trying to sell you anything or asking you for help, eventually it boils down to your decision. meeting up doesn't mean making up.

[sissy]

My ex called me last week and want to have lunch with me Hmmmmm.... she is dem good at bbbj and she likes it raw. Now, I am begining to miss it......

It's her bbbj that you're missing. So if you can having a - you scratch my c**k and I scratch your c**t understanding. It may even turn out to be your and her regular rendezvous.

Perhaps she is missing the good old time with you ztoo.

[unclesammi]

My ex called me last week and want to have lunch with me after not seeing each other for at least 5 years. She is now married with 2 kids. Hmmmmm.... she is dem good at bbbj and she likes it raw. Now, I am begining to miss it......

Any advice how can I convince her to give me one when we meet next week?

Its like winning a lucky draw lor. Go pick up the prize and see la.:D

[enzer88]

Personally i think not a gd lobang ....like what u said,five yrs liao why wait till now then ask u out for lunch rite....However it is still ok to go ahead as u r mental well prepared.just rememeber dun let the small head rule over ur dick head,everything should be fine.Cheerz....

[Rof|maoxz]

For me, I rather not meeting her, even for simple lunch or dinner. If possible, meet in groups. ;)

[JIKED D]

I feel u should not meet up with her...
... we made love but afterwards we felt so guilty for our current partners....

Til now in my 4 yr relationship with my gf .... im planning to marry her but the thought of being unfaithful to her by fking my ex always me feel damn sian man ...

Always go for paid sex ....

er i dont get it .. what the difference between paid sex and free sex with ex ? either ways, still being unfaithful to you gf .:eek:

[fatty_leo]

bro, i'ts KC trap in the making;) don't fall into it.

Most probably she'll come up with cock stories to bull you to the bank:rolleyes:

[YouYongku]

meet her but be smart
dont buy anything from her
insurance does not include handjob or anything

[no_faith]

as saying goes "wu shi bu deng san bao dian", wun call u for nothing.
it might be really juz a frenly meet up.

but as other bros said, mlm, insurance, finance plan, off load sumting to u...


:eek: could it be off load the kids to u???
juz kidding, no offence.



peace

[hunter1222]

Any advice how can I convince her to give me one when we meet next week?

I feel you should not meet up. Worst case is you end up with 2 kids in tow. Best case you get a FB. But as the saying says "Good Horse don't eat Behind Grass."

[dicksmith]

Don't be so excited. Your Ex might just join Insurance line or maybe worst doing MLM.

yeah , it is possible . I hate that when ppl whom next contact in the past then suddenly contact you . Any way still worth while meet up .

[LENS]

Me also have before, ex call me up to meet. For my case, it was dinner and then hotel. And then hotel, hotel and more hotel. Its a gamble you have to take. For mine, its like i struck 1st prize. Maybe i should write about it. Happened during the past few years, about the same timing as my other flings with jaime, jenny, candy.

go for it, u wont know what u get.

[TommyPingPong]

I broke up with my ex about 7 years already. I not sure wat will I do if I had the chance to meet her again. I had written a few email s to her, but I did once brought up the subject to meet up. After all, I did not know that about her status wether if she is attached or married....

I think for guys the motive to meet is more of a physical and chances of meeting ex s again, may ended in bed again.

Maybe there are real experiences encountered by brudders here, good or bad, hoped you guys can shared about it.

[starlike933]

Bro, would advise that you find out the reason of her meet up at least you are more prepared for the good or bad. As so many bros have said some ex want to meet up for past romance but some want to meet up because they need help.

Ask your personal question after when you know why is she meeting up with you. If for past romance you are like strike lottery, go straight to ask her for your favorite activity.:)

[johnymike]

Exs are all trouble especially the married ones. They either want to borrow money, ask a favour or off-load some unwanted thing on you. Worst! They try to sell you insurance or investment or some multi-level marketing products! It's legal racketeering I tells you.

Exs are bad news.

You are right bro!!! my ex called me to meet-up and told me a lot of her problems, husband not getting regular pay lah ( property agent ) no money to pay for her son child care fees lah etc etc . In the end borrow $500 from me, dinner on me also, 2 years liao, now avoiding my calls. Kiss good bye to my $500...

[Lessien]

No la what im trying to say is tt ...

There's always a chance tt ur ex might chu stunt on ur current gf...
If its paid sex ... just fuck give money and walk home a happy man

But its those ONS or whatever free sex tt will get u into trouble ...
Somemore Spore so small .. everybody know everybody lo

[soberguy]

you can meet up and see what she got to offers, but in the 1st few mintues, try to let her know that you are down and out and in desperation now because you are in debt of $200,000 due to recent stock market crash and you thought of commiting suicide. who knows she may come out with some cash for you or you can get a charity fuck to destress too.. lol.

[xmensg72]

think its still good to meet up if u are strong willed. be it insurance or MLM, just say i got liao, I buy liao, no money liao. then ok liao. one suggestion tho, make sure its a weekday, working day lunch when u meet. once meet, tell her u may have an urgent meeting soon after lunch. this is to make her get straight to the point. If thru lunch, u found that she met u without much ill intentions then u can sit thru the whole thing and see wat happens. If she try to sell u anything, half way thru lunch, jus pick up ur phone (tell her silent mode), speak to phone like meeting now bec big shot reach, then apologise profusely and leave. Even if u too pai seh to use this trick, siting thru lunch with her on a working day shuold be brief. Be strong will abt buying anything and leave as soon as lunch time up. just say boss marking u.. Hope it helps. Cheers.

[vkoolboi]

Good advice. Up you.

I met two of my ex and both times, I was made poorer.

think its still good to meet up if u are strong willed. be it insurance or MLM, just say i got liao, I buy liao, no money liao. then ok liao. one suggestion tho, make sure its a weekday, working day lunch when u meet. once meet, tell her u may have an urgent meeting soon after lunch. this is to make her get straight to the point. If thru lunch, u found that she met u without much ill intentions then u can sit thru the whole thing and see wat happens. If she try to sell u anything, half way thru lunch, jus pick up ur phone (tell her silent mode), speak to phone like meeting now bec big shot reach, then apologise profusely and leave. Even if u too pai seh to use this trick, siting thru lunch with her on a working day shuold be brief. Be strong will abt buying anything and leave as soon as lunch time up. just say boss marking u.. Hope it helps. Cheers.

[shoutcast]

if she need money she can work for it in amounts according to market rate :o

[triple h]

jus see her and what she wants.... simple.
U decide from there on.:D


My ex called me last week and want to have lunch with me after not seeing each other for at least 5 years. She is now married with 2 kids. Hmmmmm.... she is dem good at bbbj and she likes it raw. Now, I am begining to miss it......

Any advice how can I convince her to give me one when we meet next week?

[Castrol]

you can meet up and see what she got to offers, but in the 1st few mintues, try to let her know that you are down and out and in desperation now because you are in debt of $200,000 due to recent stock market crash and you thought of commiting suicide. who knows she may come out with some cash for you or you can get a charity fuck to destress too.. lol.

hahaha bro thats a good one. :D

last time an ex of mine met my friend in boat quay and asked him for my new contact. then she called me and asked me go dinner. i was so happy when she told me she was still single and just broke up with someone. i could see she was ready for me again.

but i made a bloody mistake by telling her i am married, sigh... no matter how i begged, she said - no sex please, you're married. :(

[sean69]

no matter how i begged, she said - no sex please, you're married. :(

den did you ask her:" in that case, how about a blow job??" ??? :D

[Castrol]

den did you ask her:" in that case, how about a blow job??" ??? :D

hey i didnt but should have, or at least a handjob with autoroaming... :D

[goodfun]

She is now married with 2 kids. Hmmmmm.... she is dem good at bbbj and she likes it raw. Now, I am begining to miss it......
Any advice how can I convince her to give me one when we meet next week?
u have mention that she is ur ex and she is married with two kids why try her,u like to let us try ur wife:D

[dakboyslim]

what if.... she tells you the kid is urs??? :rolleyes: :p

[Bika]

i think just meet up with her and see what's on, she's probably happily married and just wants to maintain the friendship. Like some bros said here, maybe she doing MLM or insurance and wants you to support leh? Always remember, don't let your little head do the thinking. Sometimes its more problem then pleasure.;)

[hoesay]

Bro you should meet up with her as it stands 50/50 that you might get her memory to the past romance else just ended up buying insurance or doing MLM, just prepare some excuses if you are not prepare to help in....

Do let us know the outcome of the meet up. Wish u all the best, cheers.

[tomvoyeur]

keep us posted ya!!! all the best....:)

[Derelict]

In your opening post you're already talking and thinking about her oral stimulation that she once gave you. Isnt that obvious enough for you?

But I am very sure you have already decided on what to do before ever posting your question in here. Well, thats the vibes I am getting from your post. I cant help but feel you wanted some sort of justification on your deeds that you're planning or planned. Worst still you openly seek advice in that very regards.

I think its morally wrong for you to go with an alterior motive especially if you already have a steady (I hope not). Remember she have kids of her own, if she gives in to your lust and found out or caught. It will be the kids that will pay most dearly. Because at the end of the day its all boils down to you and yours alone.

[surfer888]

Almost everytime an Ex who is single calls up to meet, it almost always ends with nostalgic sex. As for Ex-GFs who are married, don't know... they hardly call up. Only had one married ex who kept calling me up... mostly for industry tips, favors, etc. She stopped calling when I stopped giving tips.

[MMM88]

my ex...is in insurance ....but we neber talk insurance ....but sex in hotel .....
somehow, each time we meet , the feeling n sex is damn shiok .....:D
suggess u sms some kinky stuff to her , n see her reaction b4 meet up......tis way u can b sure wat is her motive in meeting u lor........ALL THE BEST ;)

[yinyang]

....Ex who is single calls up to meet, it almost always ends with nostalgic sex. As for Ex-GFs who are married, don't know... they hardly call up.
Err... how about calling them instead, when (your) need arises..:p New meaning to dun call me, I call you...

[smartdragon]

My ex called me last week and want to have lunch with me after not seeing each other for at least 5 years. She is now married with 2 kids. Hmmmmm.... she is dem good at bbbj and she likes it raw. Now, I am begining to miss it......

Any advice how can I convince her to give me one when we meet next week?

since she already married, i don't think it is good to engage in such affairs. she might be asking for out merely as friend. if she has other intentions, then you cannot be fault lor.

[emelyn]

Just tell her the truth..dont beat around the bush
she would be flattered...
No harm trying....
Don't make a big production
Don't make up an elaborate story
This will help you avoid a big dissappointment.
She will respect you for your frankness,
And honestly she'll apreciate the kind of straight foward manner
In which you told her
Unless her hubby is 12' long..haha

[PeaceCreator]

Bro, Like many bros said, ex meet up may be she needs help, or needs a lisenting ear or advisor etc, this are all ok, but you other unknow objectives may be ... not happy with marriage etc wish some help...

So would advise that you get her agenda of this meet-up. Meeting up with your ex, a married woman now, is quite risky, unless you let your intention stay clear. Wish u all the best and Good luck.:)

[Xgenre]

It's interesting to read through the comments here. A lot are thinking of sex while some are worried abt ex needing sales (insurance/mlm) or help (tips/borrow money).

I met up with an ex-gf last year, 7 years after she left me. We were together for 3 years. She left me to marry a man who was much older than her. I was a young man then so no way I can compete with the maturity, the wealth of the older man. When there is a 3rd party involved, the break ups tend to be ugly and ruthless... those kind that resembles 'I don't want you anymore' scenarios.

Now I'm not sure abt your guys but I do think abt my past relationships from time to time. How it ended and how life has been treating my ex-gfs. For this particular exgfs, we met up for closure. To see if we can be friends after the ugly breakup. To be together for 3 years isn't easy. We will probably have confided close information abt our family and friends. To be able to sit down and chat with your ex like a normal friend, that's quite nice actually.

By the way, I had sex with this ex-gf when we were together. But don't go meet her now with the hope of sex lar. Be sincere friends first. It's not easy to find a person u can click enough to make her your gf in the first place.

[surfer888]

Err... how about calling them instead, when (your) need arises..:p New meaning to dun call me, I call you...

Nah... I don't like the idea of having sex with an ex who's already married. If her marriage is happy, I see no need to destroy that. If her marriage is bad, I see no need for to burden myself with her emotional baggage. Either way, its not good for everyone.

[yinyang]

...don't like the idea of having sex with an ex who's already married. If her marriage is happy, I see no need to destroy that. If her marriage is bad, I see no need for to burden myself with her emotional baggage.
Can't agree more. Excuse my tongue in cheek, only jesting.. Your speed dial referred to was only for those with licence to autoroam (so to speak)...

Else, we also risk ourselves with those on happy status quo. And for less fortunate types, neither are we knights in shining armour..:p

[t123]

During the 11 years of wounds licking after my ex sg gf dumped me for a PRC migrant during NS (quite common), she actually called me a few times. She married that PRC migrant (now PR or citizen) whom she met during her 1st tour abroad (during my NS).

She actually snatched him or botong jalan him from a PRC Nurse. She was proud of her catch and achievement then (boasted to me happily, like flagging his underwear in front of my face to celebrate). Just months after she dumped me, she told me that she was bed hopping around when I was serving my NS. She regretted her behavior and asked me if I could become part-time lover in 1998 when I was out of NS. Me, still haven’t gotten over agreed then, but later she changed her mind and send insults and jeers over e-mails to put me down. I was much more ashamed of myself thereafter and never heard from her since.

Last year, she called me again, sounded the same wounded regrettable, apologetic gal. Saying she will received her karma, retribution blah, blah, blah. Then she saw me with my gf at Clarke Quay and she wrote me an email seemed spiteful though in words gave me blessings, then she disappeared again.

I am mystified by her actions, then again, I don’t give a fuck anymore. I suspected that whenever she called, she must have been physically hammered by her hubby because she did hint to me when she called me.

[yinyang]

..11 years of wounds licking after my ex sg gf. ...ashamed of myself thereafter and never heard from her since. Last year, she called me again, sounded the same wounded regrettable, apologetic gal. .saw me with my gf at Clarke Quay and she wrote me an email seemed spiteful though in words gave me blessings, then she disappeared again. I am mystified by her actions, then again, I don’t give a fuck anymore.
Bro, sympathise with you opening up here. Glad to know you put that sore point behind you since. Still, nobody takes any joy in her being walloped by her worse half. :o

[surfer888]

During the 11 years of wounds licking after my ex sg gf dumped me for a PRC migrant during NS (quite common), she actually called me a few times. She married that PRC migrant (now PR or citizen) whom she met during her 1st tour abroad (during my NS).

I am mystified by her actions, then again, I don’t give a fuck anymore. I suspected that whenever she called, she must have been physically hammered by her hubby because she did hint to me when she called me.

From your description. She really sounds like trouble. Extreme attention seeking and acts on emotion rather than logic. I would steer clear of women like her.

Be thankful that she broke off with you earlier. The next time she brings up the past, thank her profusely for "dumping" you and also tell her it was the best thing that could happen to you.

Hmmm... on second thoughts better not say anything, she might want you back after you thank her. Girls like that can think and do anything. Better to just avoid like the plague.

[surfer888]

And for less fortunate types, neither are we knights in shining armour..:p

Yeah... serves them right for not securing us when they had the chance.

[guruking]

talking about this, my ex of 5 yrs called just a month ago. She was in MOS while i was at home. When she called, i told her i was outside( pretending only) and she suggested i meet her in MOS. When i reached there, she started to kiss and hug me. In the end, we ended up in 81. i felt guilty after the incident. Just an hr ago, she called me a few times but i didnt want to pick up. I know what will happen if i pick up the call but I cant overcome the guilt.

[sissy]

What's there to be guilty about? Just enjoy lah!

[t123]

From your description. She really sounds like trouble. Extreme attention seeking and acts on emotion rather than logic.

She was an abused child, mentally and physically by her mum. She lost her V to her sec sch teacher, tried tell me that its one of those bike accident thingy. She doesn't appreciate you when you're good to her.

[Faidenk]

I got to know this girl ages ago when I was working in the now-closed Metro Bukit Timah. She was tall and slim, a Glenda Chong deadringer and what turns people's heads was her Farrah Fawcett mane.

There I was, a older guy at 26 and she 19. Dad's a taxicab driver and stricter with her than Mother Superior, and things weren't made better with a truck driver bf (still wondering how they met). We went out lunch a couple of times, her riding pillion on my bike, the L-plate unscrewed and under the seat. Things progressed to sending her home and that meant dropping her off 2 blocks away. We'd continue smooching on the phone for hours after. Oh, all we ever did was heavy petting, that's when I learned of the term blue balls. I was so obsessed with her despite not having gratification every time we met, I get wet just talking over the phone. Man, was I a wanker then.

I don't get to see her on weekends 'cause that's bf time. Because I was the third party, I should have no cause to complain, but deep inside I resent her bf. My manager had seen through us talked to me one day, seeing I just was'nt my usual self. I still remember his counsel - 'You're not the wronged party, if anything, you are encroaching on other's property. I'm not going to preach what is right or wrong to you but just take whatever's given, be thankful for it, then bowl out gracefully'. His words.

That woke me up. I resigned shortly, not over this matter but a better offer came along that's to shape a better part of my life. We stopped seeing each other over a petty argument and that was that.

I met her many years later at a friend's office when I visited. She was the MD's secretary, a long way from being a appliance promoter. We acknowledged each other's presense but didn't really talk. And we drifted apart again for another few years. My friend told me she was the office bitch, you know the sort, boss' secretary so can throw weight around.

Out of the blue, she called me to meet up. This was maybe 15 years after we first met. She had fallen out with the truck driver a long time ago and had gone through a few boyfriends already, new job, blah, blah, blah, and I kept wondering what has it all to do with me? Is this a courtesy call or what? Finally she asked,'What was it that you see in me?'

Now, I don't know about you guys, but a question like that is very loaded, and should be handled with extreme care. Seeing as how she had put on a fair bit of weight, all in the wrong places, and the youthful radiance that has so enchanted me once seemed to have been replaced by crow's feet that's visible from 3 paces and complimenting eyebags, I blurted,'I was young and foolish then'.

She should have up and go then, if just to retain a bit of dignity. But she didn't. And that was the last time I saw her fat arse.

[rustyartist]

She was an abused child, mentally and physically by her mum. She lost her V to her sec sch teacher, tried tell me that its one of those bike accident thingy. She doesn't appreciate you when you're good to her.

hmmm... sounds extremely serious, but i would say either go all the way as a mutual unconditioned friend/partner if not i think you should steer clear and let her decide her own circumstances and fate. just my 2 cents worth of exp.

[soberguy]

She was an abused child, mentally and physically by her mum. She lost her V to her sec sch teacher, tried tell me that its one of those bike accident thingy. She doesn't appreciate you when you're good to her.

JUst drop her off your life. She spell trouble! You may feel alot for her in the initial period after the brokeoff but after years, I am sure now you realise that was a good thing and it would be earlier to drop her off your life.

[Mr Canon]

Move on, there's many more chapter in your life

[sissy]

My ex called me last week and want to have lunch with me after not seeing each other for at least 5 years. She is now married with 2 kids. Hmmmmm.... she is dem good at bbbj and she likes it raw. Now, I am begining to miss it......

Any advice how can I convince her to give me one when we meet next week?

So what have you decided to do? Did you meet her last week?

[funzguy]

So what have you decided to do? Did you meet her last week?
Sorry bro.. she has postponed it to this Tuesday :)

[Slaver29125]

Like what many Bros said, ex calling can mean alot of things... Many Bros already mentioned alot of possibilities...

I think it really depends on your own personality, the circumtances that resulted in the breakup... how you remembered her by... (such as (1) ugly break-up, but great sex...; (2) she dumped you for a richer guy, great sex... if only you could compete...; (3) you dumped her for a prettier gal... but the ex still gives the best BJ... etc etc and the list goes on)

I guess all you can do isto keep all options open and meet up.
Stay on the "defensive" and roll with the situation.
If you feel there's a chance for some "action", and you WANT that "action",
go for it... otherwise, just keep the snake in the pouch...

- Heres my personal experience -

My ex called me up after I've gone to Australia (studies) regarding a bank account we opened up 8 years ago and asked me what I wanted to do with it... of course I said fuck it, no money inside anyway...

When we were together, to me, she's pretty (she was one of TCS many aspiring part-timer/casual actress cum freelance KJ) but the reason that caused the rift between our relationship was that she always MIA... and at the wrong time too... (now that I found this site... I won't be surprise if she was lingering in the local FL scene LOL) Anyway, she was my first "serious" relationship...

Since we broke up where I walked away from her after I decided to go to Australia, I never seen her or contact her again. Anyway its was kind of a surprise how she got my Australia number... and realised it was my silly brother :rolleyes:

I was curious as how she's doing... She said to call her if I return to Singapore to catch up, I did. We had lunch... catch-up a bit... and I DON'T EXACTLY remembered what happened (maybe the little head was calling the shots hoping for the best...), I invited her to a wedding I was attending in KL as my date... She said sure... Too cut everything short... We flew down... I fell sick (grrr) but still managed to get a decent bonk out of it...

But I realised after this bonk/catch-up trip, I can still see her old self in her... Leopard never change its spots I guess... and I told myself that THIS SHOULD be the last time we meet up. Till now, it still is :)

[surfer888]

She was an abused child, mentally and physically by her mum. She lost her V to her sec sch teacher, tried tell me that its one of those bike accident thingy. She doesn't appreciate you when you're good to her.

Not only does she sound like trouble.... sounds like BIG trouble.

You could have made her life a better one but as you mentioned, she does not appreciate. It would be best for you to walk away... trouble and heartache should you choose not to.

[RICHIE72]

Personally, I feel tat meeting up wif ur ex is never an issue if u let ur big head control ur small head. Wat-ever her intentions, ur intentions must be clear and right!
B'coz she is now a married lady, wif 2 kids, u must learn 2 treat her wif respect and dignity...

Food 4 tot: How wld u like it if u r her husband and u see ur wife meeting other guys (101)??? Whether they do anything after the open meeting behind closed doors, is another issue. But 4 me 2 juz see my wife meeting wif other guys iz something quite difficult 2 swallow...

Juz my 2 cents worth!!!

Cheers!:)

[sissy]

(2) she dumped you for a richer guy, great sex... if only you could compete...;

If it is because Funguy's ex had dumped him, then it is an opportunity for pay back. After bonking her, Funguy should dump her. Revenge is sweet:D .

I can still see her old self in her... Leopard never change its spots I guess... and I told myself that THIS SHOULD be the last time we meet up. Till now, it still is.

Should have bonked her more and dumped her at your own terms. Revenge is even sweeter:D.

[Know_yr_role]

Just to share my ex meetup with all......

I remembered clearly when my ex gf (we had a 10 yrs r/s then) called me for a meetup,well it was coming to a yr after our breakup when she suddenly called me sobbing, says she misses me and wants to meet me and demands some of her stuff back....

she said to meet her at the mac below the lion city hotel......I remembered tat place....while we were still together,we ever went there for a few weekends of fun......but at the moment in time, i never think much of her intentions.

When i met her, she changed...she had more dress sense and did a lil make up...she never had make up before....she wore a dress which she never worn in her entire life....i was surprised yet didnt want to show it...


We chatted abt our current life and jobs.....she is not attached since our break up but i was already with a new gf then.... time passed, she brought up the past, so i thought she got over the bad breakup we had, and so we were talking and laughing abt the good o'days we had.....all of a sudden she started sobbing...starts saying to me tat she misses me alot thru-out the 1yr ..

Flash back!!- We were both in sec sch when we first met and both lost our virginity to each other...we knew nothing abt sex and explored each other together..i do agree those 10 yrs were memorable but of cos the sex was all along abit one sided.....she always didnt like to had sex and i will always push her and persude her to have it..i will try anything......of cos after a while she gave in...but in her mind sex wasnt so impt...as the time went past in a r/s of cos i got fed up and having quite a high sex drive myself didnt help too.. r/s ended after 10 yrs, and of cos sex wasnt the main reason but i dun doubt its part of it..we wasnt communication as good as before...endless quarrels broke up on ends and i was frustrated.....and i felt it was a time to let go....


Cut the story short then.....She told me she had a room booked in the hotel and offered me another sex session.....I was very uncertain as I knew she wasnt those kind who would request sex for no reason at all...i refuse..

she said she missed me giving her oral and she tried other guys after me, she changed...she went for ONS and started drinking in pubs, which she previously never do... she said no men can go down on her as good as me...she said she haven reach an orgasm by any other men after me...(when we were together, i always make sure she reaches the big O)

She said she regretted and wished I could give her another chance.... She was crying non stop and people started staring at us..i was damn pai say....she say why not we go up the room then talk....no choice and to save my self the embrassement..i agreed.

Once we reached the room..she started seducing me and in one swift motion, took off her dress, she wore matching a matching set, which previously she never did, its a black bra with a Thong (which she never wore before also). I was very aroused yet setback by all these....not sure to fark or not to fark her.... I would never dream of her doing all these...but it happened...it was a simple seduce yet seems to difficult last time....

She started to move towards me and whispered, just let me feel one last orgasm from ou...tats all i ask...after this i wont call u again for this....i agreed at last....

We had sex......details not impt...... but it was same but different......i did regret after tat, not sure is she is really forgiving ......but til now after 3 yrs...she haven called me for sex ever again...so i guess its a benchmark she set for herself .....

[PS3SG]

Just wondering would you go for it if she offer again?

[sean69]

Just wondering would you go for it if she offer again?

well... he can throw in a massage and charge 100/1/1, rooms and CD not included.... :D

[seven11]

Hi Bros,

Just to relate my experience. It seems that most of the bro here is lucky and did not get hurt much, well mine is abit different and hope it will helps the rest of the bros here.

Broke off with my 4 years r/s gf. After the break off, we did not contact or see each other for the next two years. Then came one day when i was with a group of friend in a shopping centre, my friend saw a lady and signal to us. When i look, i can only see from the back that she got nice body and hair. So my friend started to whistle and she look back. i was surprised that she is my ex. she came over and say hi to me and I intro to my friends. After that, nothing happen.

About one month later, she call me saying that she is near my house and wish to meet up. As i have nothing to do, so I went to the MRT stn near my house to meet her. After some kopi, we left. I was in the afternoon shift that day and she called me during dinner time and told me to meet her at her house this evening. Haiz small head again. Agreed and went to her house after work. Had a good bonk and this happen on the following few days, then we patched back and got married after some time. Another 4 years gone and we were in for a divorce proceeding. The reasons is the same as we first broke off. She is seeing another man !! :mad:

If only I have not meet up with her, things wont have happen. Just imagine the hassle, time and money i got to spend during the divorce proceeding. I just happen to see her in the petrol stn 2 months ago after our case. That time my wife and kids around. We did not talk much but just hihi. Now, if she or other ex called me, i siam also buay hu hor let alone meeting them.

Above is just my own experience and i am not teaching or telling anyone what to do. Just want to relate or taking this as a chance for me release the anger in me after so many years.

Thank you and cheers.

[surfer888]

She started to move towards me and whispered, just let me feel one last orgasm from ou...tats all i ask...after this i wont call u again for this....i agreed at last....

We had sex......details not impt...... but it was same but different......i did regret after tat, not sure is she is really forgiving ......but til now after 3 yrs...she haven called me for sex ever again...so i guess its a benchmark she set for herself .....

I don't know why but I felt a tinge of sadness when I read your story. Maybe just me getting old and soft hearted.

[triple h]

sumtimes its jus better to let "sleeping dogs lie". Sure it may sound tempting to take another bite of the cherry but its not gonna be worth all the misunderstandings and trouble....... "play with fire and u get burn".........
jus my humble opinion..........
Even for me, i use the "kite" theory.... "sumtimes u nid to pull the string back and sumtimes u nid to let go".
:D

[funzguy]

Bro, I took your advice and siam her. had lunch and quickly got back to work. Also, told her i lost a lot of money in stock market. Dem boh lui nowadays.... so, kill off MLM, insurance and mutual fund talk..... thanks again

[Know_yr_role]

I don't know why but I felt a tinge of sadness when I read your story. Maybe just me getting old and soft hearted.


ya man...i felt really sad afterwards too.....i fail to mention..

After we had sex, she finally came after so long of not having any orgasm.. she started to weep. i was stunned....but not sure her intentions of her tears...for joy or for knowing tat it was our last n final chapter...


after all these yrs...i do regret for my doings but also glad tat she moved on afterwards....we still keep in contact, msn mostly...but she jus dun seems to be as happy as before...........

[surfer888]

After we had sex, she finally came after so long of not having any orgasm.. she started to weep. i was stunned....but not sure her intentions of her tears...for joy or for knowing tat it was our last n final chapter...

Don't you hate it when they cry after sex.

I had an ex who was begging me to screw her and started to weep when penetration occured. Immediately de-steam. Asked her why and she explained that it was tears of joy and that she can feel the love. WTF... it was not love on my part, just lust. Not only de-steam but shrink after that.

She is one pyscho bitch who till today I have trouble shaking off.

[Know_yr_role]

Don't you hate it when they cry after sex.

I had an ex who was begging me to screw her and started to weep when penetration occured. Immediately de-steam. Asked her why and she explained that it was tears of joy and that she can feel the love. WTF... it was not love on my part, just lust. Not only de-steam but shrink after that.

She is one pyscho bitch who till today I have trouble shaking off.


hur hur hur...i get wat u mean manz....gals in tears are hard to handle, let alone pyscho crying ones :D

[yinyang]

...tears of joy and that she can feel the love. WTF... it was not love on my part, just lust. Not only de-steam but shrink after that. She is one pyscho bitch who till today I have trouble shaking off.
Wah kau, hope it's not fatal attraction.. :p

[surfer888]

Wah kau, hope it's not fatal attraction.. :p

I'm always afraid of that. Don't keep rabbits now.

My friend had a much more scary experience. Half a year after he broke off with his ex, he received a call from her from his father's house in USA. She claims that she just wanted to make sure that his father was doing fine. Scary shit.

[smiler]

Any advice how can I convince her to give me one when we meet next week?

Let natural take it's course.
Tat happened to me 6 years back when I met her at Cebu when on business trip.

[life]

Let natural take it's course.
Tat happened to me 6 years back when I met her at Cebu when on business trip.


people talk abt their ex, u also wan to tell us abt u ex also :D

[smiler]

people talk abt their ex, u also wan to tell us abt u ex also :D

NBzzzzz..........U still alive?
Hehehe.............I din talk lah, just giving some advise.

[sissy]

Bro, I took your advice and siam her. had lunch and quickly got back to work.

So why does she want to meet you beside having lunch? Was there any hint?