Any bros here good at sweet-talking girls? Need advice.

[Rodontan]

Usually when talking to a girl about mundane things such as travel or daily happenings etc....how do you guys slowly change the topic into more flirty / sexual stuff and escalate things?

One problem I've is that when talking to girls, I tend to focus too much on the topic itself (e.g: talk about dogs, end up whole conversation about dogs life, dog maintenance, dog food, dog breeds....).

I tried to force the topic to become more sexual but it always creeps them out cos' it's too sudden and random.

I need to learn how to "transit" the topic into more personal flirty stuff. How bros? Any advice or pointers?

[w00f]

You may pm dreamzknight ! He is good!:D

[oxeso]

how do you guys slowly change the topic into more flirty / sexual stuff and escalate things?
(e.g: talk about dogs, dog breeds.....
Right after dog breeds. Happy 2018. :D

[ddog]

Talking doggy, joke about doggystyle or nonchalantly about mating or dog humping incident that happened to you

[I Love Boobs]

It's a factor of how intelligent you are.
Most locals and Malaysians are not fast enough to even follow intellectual conversation.
In hokkien, catch no balls.
If cannot even follow, don't expect to be able to manipulate conversation.

[Rodontan]

It's a factor of how intelligent you are.
Most locals and Malaysians are not fast enough to even follow intellectual conversation.
In hokkien, catch no balls.
If cannot even follow, don't expect to be able to manipulate conversation.

so how? gone case for people who are not naturally sweet-talkers? Can this be learnt somehow to a certain extent?

[MoeLanYong]

Nothing to do with the transition. Everything to do with the topic. If I were a girl that does not fancy you and you change the topic to flirty/sexual stuff, you will freak me out too.

If you can't see it, try imagining you are late on your way to work and a 90 y.o. gandma with saggy boobs and a haggard face keeps groping you in the bus. Don't tell me you will be not be freaked out too??

[Lorres]

It's a factor of how intelligent you are.
Most locals and Malaysians are not fast enough to even follow intellectual conversation.
In hokkien, catch no balls.
If cannot even follow, don't expect to be able to manipulate conversation.
Lol! Astute observation!
Furthermore, if the girl is not humorous or tune towards sex or find you sexy, it is difficult (or even dangerous) to steer the conversation towards sexual grounds.

[I Love Boobs]

Lol! Astute observation!
Furthermore, if the girl is not humorous or tune towards sex or find you sexy, it is difficult (or even dangerous) to steer the conversation towards sexual grounds.

Agreed.
Easier to direct a conversation towards sexual innuendoes.
Hard to extricate yourself should things go south.
If you cannot even control the conversation, you won't be able to pick up the nuances that the girl is getting uncomfortable.
Then comes the sexual harassment charges...

[si_glow]

Talking is a waste of time . Just go straight into action . :)

[HARPERS]

cannot talk about sex dont force la ... play along lor .. make the conversation interesting instead ... make her wanna talk to you more ... this time cannot at least the conversation was interesting and she may go out with you again ... slowly la ..... women all same one pretend pretend ... after she gets comfortable she will talk all the sex u want .... but then next question is .. after all the sex talk .. how to get into her pants ah .... she may be cock teaser nia .. talk to you until gian gian then leave u high and dry go find her FB ... :p

[unfit]

Talking is a waste of time . Just go straight into action . :)

Return 17 apples :p

[Booker]

Ask... asked open ended question. This is how u draw her responses and carry the conversation forward. It also helps to guage if she is keen to carry on talking anot.

Listen... listen to her respond... if she is giving all the one worded reply, yes / no reply... then u know she sian half already.

Talk... don’t boast... it may seem impressive, but sometimes it will bored the lady... becos the conversation ends up being all about u... worse case.. boast too much, end up kenna entrapped like the HDB guy... the gone case.

Wide view... basically, be abreast about things happening around. Don’t have to be a know it all.. u are not google.

Humour... its good if u can add humour... but dun crack lame or cold jokes.

Just chipping in from what I learnt in some workshop.


:D

[adonis]

There are videos about pick up artistes, PUAs, on YouTube. Or books about the techniques of PUAs for you to improve your game. Namely: "The Rules of the Game".

[conquer]

Some rules of thumb are here... :o

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vuG4G4BRUxQ

[conquer]

Usually when talking to a girl about mundane things such as travel or daily happenings etc....how do you guys slowly change the topic into more flirty / sexual stuff and escalate things?

One problem I've is that when talking to girls, I tend to focus too much on the topic itself (e.g: talk about dogs, end up whole conversation about dogs life, dog maintenance, dog food, dog breeds....).

I tried to force the topic to become more sexual but it always creeps them out cos' it's too sudden and random.

I need to learn how to "transit" the topic into more personal flirty stuff. How bros? Any advice or pointers?

Don't waste time on talking... If she wants to fuck you, she will fuck you eventually. If she is not interested in you, you are not going to make it even you read her the whole Bible. :o

[afterburn]

Don't waste time on talking... If she wants to fuck you, she will fuck you eventually. If she is not interested in you, you are not going to make it even you read her the whole Bible. :o

Very true. If the girl is interested, doesn't matter much what you say or not. It's just like the experience of finding gf / wife. Have to try to hook several girls before being successful. You are still being yourself, in most cases, holding conversation the same way, but different girls will react differently.

[HornyKingKong]

Vly.


:p


Credited back Six Points.


:D

[Jebuschris91]

There are two types of women:
1) Women who know what they want(e.g. I'm here to meet guys to fuck so I am looking to find a sexy male I am attracted to.)

2) Women who don't really know what they want(e.g. I'm here to make friends, I have urges but it's secondary and I only want to sleep with someone I trust, it isn't about sex, it's about connection)

Chances of you meeting number 2 are much higher as all women like to be pretentious and portray a good image, not many are willing to embrace the path of number 1 as this leads to being judged by other women as a skank, whore or slut.

So you need to build connection, be open-minded, don't give too many opinions that are too hard headed(e.g. I HATE bacon. Instead say I'm not too fond of it, too oily).

Sound flexible, portray similar interests even if you don't have(e.g. Yup, I like classical music as well, but I only listen to a few pieces)

Women love to talk about themselves, actually most people do, just that females love it more. Ask about her opinions, her thoughts on the matter, her experiences on it, they can go on and on but always listen to every damn bit, it's like a listening comprehension, also make sure you remember the important bits so you can recite them and impress her that you actually bothered.

When they feel connected you can work on building feelings.
Be nice, but not too nice. Don't go "I'll do anything for you". Be more like "Yea, I can help but I can't go all the way"
If you go all the way, you become a bro. If not you're the nice the guy that she feels a connection with.

Ask her dating questions. Do you smoke? Do you drink? Do you club?
If she asks why say you're curious and be honest about it if she asks you back. Say that's what you're looking for in a girl if she answers to your ideal answers. It steers you away from the friendzone and keeps you in her radar as potential mate.

Lastly, you can try to ask how long she's been single for, how long did her ex and her last and then if you wanna ask a weird question, you always start with "Can I ask you something personal, if you're uncomfortable you don't have to tell me"
Then with that and if she approves, ask about her sex life with her ex or with whoever.

I hope this helps, it works for me.
But always remember, you are no Casanova, so if you hit a dud, or if things don't go as planned, always know you can walk away and try another. Same as poker, it's about discipline.

[vaic]

There are two types of women:
1) Women who know what they want(e.g. I'm here to meet guys to fuck so I am looking to find a sexy male I am attracted to.)

2) Women who don't really know what they want(e.g. I'm here to make friends, I have urges but it's secondary and I only want to sleep with someone I trust, it isn't about sex, it's about connection)

Chances of you meeting number 2 are much higher as all women like to be pretentious and portray a good image, not many are willing to embrace the path of number 1 as this leads to being judged by other women as a skank, whore or slut.

So you need to build connection, be open-minded, don't give too many opinions that are too hard headed(e.g. I HATE bacon. Instead say I'm not too fond of it, too oily).

Sound flexible, portray similar interests even if you don't have(e.g. Yup, I like classical music as well, but I only listen to a few pieces)

Women love to talk about themselves, actually most people do, just that females love it more. Ask about her opinions, her thoughts on the matter, her experiences on it, they can go on and on but always listen to every damn bit, it's like a listening comprehension, also make sure you remember the important bits so you can recite them and impress her that you actually bothered.

When they feel connected you can work on building feelings.
Be nice, but not too nice. Don't go "I'll do anything for you". Be more like "Yea, I can help but I can't go all the way"
If you go all the way, you become a bro. If not you're the nice the guy that she feels a connection with.

Ask her dating questions. Do you smoke? Do you drink? Do you club?
If she asks why say you're curious and be honest about it if she asks you back. Say that's what you're looking for in a girl if she answers to your ideal answers. It steers you away from the friendzone and keeps you in her radar as potential mate.

Lastly, you can try to ask how long she's been single for, how long did her ex and her last and then if you wanna ask a weird question, you always start with "Can I ask you something personal, if you're uncomfortable you don't have to tell me"
Then with that and if she approves, ask about her sex life with her ex or with whoever.

I hope this helps, it works for me.
But always remember, you are no Casanova, so if you hit a dud, or if things don't go as planned, always know you can walk away and try another. Same as poker, it's about discipline.


Very well said . :)

[nudegal]

Very well said . :)

Fully agreed, very well said . :D