How to Get F buudy?

[fishingman]

Hi, i'm new to this forum. Read up quite alot and im really curious how to get sex partner? Money? Really good in sex? Sweet talker?

[takelooongtime]

My F Buddy is my Ex-gf...

It's not about money...definitely not, never paid her for sex...

We were once an item...many many years ago...we broke up because of a misunderstanding...we were young then...but I was her first man in bed...when we met again after many years...she has a bf...and I'm married...nothing happened...we remained platonic friends...very close platonic friends...

Then she broke up with her bf...She called me...I went out with her...spend the night with her outside...but nothing happen...OC knows but did not question me...then she found a new bf...still nothing happened...she broke up again...same thing repeats...then she broke down in front of me...after some alcohol...told me she miss the time when we were together...I remind her I already married and there is nothing I can give her...

One night I quarrel with OC over my kid, called her up for drinks...drank quite a bit...but think still sober enough to know what I doing...but think she drunk...she suddenly tells me she miss making love to me...Actually...me too...she quite a looker with a nice body...and we can click in bed...but I already got OC...I know I only have lust for her but no BF/GF feelings...but I did it that night...think did it out of spite...

In the morning...it was quite arkward...dun know what to say...told her frankly that I only have lust for her...as she is a very good sex partner...she quite dissapointed...but remain silent...avoided her for 3 weeks...

Things between me and OC turns bad again because of my kid, character issues and financial issues...not earning as much as I used to be...then she called me...again we did it....but this time it's different...she say she knows I dun have that special feeling for her...she also dun have that feeling for me but she miss making love to me...she feels that it's different with me...

After that we meet up about once a week just to bonk...and we are still friends...we continued even after I'm divorced...has been 2 years...got a break inbetween...for about 6 months...when she found a new bf...dun want to ruin her future just for bonking sake...but end up she broke up with him...so we went back to our old habits...but still we both know that it is only lust that we are after...no commitments...she also knows that I visit GL and bonk other girls...but I still give her prioity when she wants me...

Now she posted overseas to work for 3 years...I'm still in sillypore...has been 1 month...begin to miss her already...she is still the best partner I have had...no FL can make up to our compatibility in bed...:( But bobian...got high sex drive so nowadays depend on GL and FLs...driving my $$$ very low...haiz...

[Castrol]

Hi, i'm new to this forum. Read up quite alot and im really curious how to get sex partner? Money? Really good in sex? Sweet talker?

you just came out from the cave or what? :D

[dohcdohc]

I think it's all about fate. Same goes to relationship and marriage

[_AXL_]

Hi, i'm new to this forum. Read up quite alot and im really curious how to get sex partner? Money? Really good in sex? Sweet talker?

really? then still ask? hmm... so many bros here offer advice on various subjects. u r expecting them to repost those long, long strategies and frs for yr benefit here? i suggest u go trawl through the threads. all of us have to go through that. cheers.

[dirtymonk82]

I think it's all about fate. Same goes to relationship and marriage

I agree with you on this

[frog69]

Alot depends on luck.. but becareful some gal mite jus fall for u after too much sex and hanging out together.. :)

[CoolBlack]

You can't just go out and find a FB.
Alot depends on timing, opportunity, luck, chemistry, needs and fate.

Used to have a FB who is a young and high calibre career women. We just clicked and things just happened. Lasted for about 2 years till she got married.

Had the opportunity with an ex-colleague who we just started due to a crazy nite out during a company gathering.Feeling was strange when she brought her family out and i brought mine during company gatherings....but boy she gave the best out-of this world BJ!

Then there was this PDMM who I met at a KTV, from the onset we just simply became FBs (no monetary involved what so ever).When time permits, we just meet and have a good session. Come to think of it, we only spend time together in hotels.....:D Till date we still meet once awhile.

So, the conclusion is......if it happens it happens.
If it doesn't, there's nothing that you can do.

Just my 2 cents.

[velvetghost]

My personal take on having a F**k Buddy is that there must be NO strings attached watsoever...it has to be stated clearly from the beginning and it has to be a mutual thing between both parties.

I have 2 f**k buddies currently...one is married with a kid. We knew each other since University and just before she got married, we somehow ended in bed together. We cooled off after her marriage but somehow or rather, we always end up together...we spoke about it and we both agreed that we will not have any feelings involved. We were jus attracted to each other and we enjoy having sex with each other. She still loves her husband and kid very much. Eversince she had her kid, we started seeing less of each other. Nowadays, its more like an afternoon rendezvous when our work schedule permits, around once a month.

My next f**k buddy is a good friend of mine...we have always liked each other but we never really talked about it...we are jus very closed to each other. Whenever she was having problems with her relationships, I'm always there for her and vice versa...Initially, we would often go out drinking and end up at her place or mine and we are completely sober. Eventually, we would jus hang out at each other's place in bed, even when we are attached. There is totally no strings attached between us.

Another piece of important advice...always use protection...

Cheers! ;)

[KK_Klan]

Alot depends on luck.. but becareful some gal mite jus fall for u after too much sex and hanging out together.. :)

Hahaha talk about happy endings. FUCK = Friends U Can Keep! Won't mind it myself.

KK_Klan

[tk-king]

no way to get 1
it comes and go naturally ;)

[desk13]

Used to have a flings with a colleague who's single but I'm married. After 2 years of bonking, she decided to settle down after getting a bf. The relationship didn't last and we meet up again for satisfying our needs, till now. It's been about 4 years already.

[Fortunestar]

Let nature takes it course, and fate does play a part too.

[ok69]

my first FB is during my NS time.
me was VERT FIT that time, 6pacs and tann

... hit the gym 4 times a week / 6 meals a day / ssbay every weekend
and i got to know her at ssbay

many yrs liao .. now me CMI liao
HAHAHa :D

[fishingman]

really? then still ask? hmm... so many bros here offer advice on various subjects. u r expecting them to repost those long, long strategies and frs for yr benefit here? i suggest u go trawl through the threads. all of us have to go through that. cheers.

Sorry about it, I went through the ex-postings, but can't find them. So i just posted a new one.

[fishingman]

my first FB is during my NS time.
me was VERT FIT that time, 6pacs and tann

... hit the gym 4 times a week / 6 meals a day / ssbay every weekend
and i got to know her at ssbay

many yrs liao .. now me CMI liao
HAHAHa :D

Thanks for the replies. Guess its really up to fate and timing. I do have pacs now, money, looks. But unfortunately, never had sex before, and F buddy also.

And no i did not come out from cave or village or mountain. It just happen that my ex-gf all wanted to keep their virgin till marriage. I'm still wondering why i keep on getting these type of gf.

And now that im 23 plus i still don't have any experience, i guess that makes it even harder to get a F buddy.

[triple h]

its all about fate..........if its meant to be, it'll materialise.
and of course, the chemistry between the two of u.

Me had 3 fb, but 1 walked out bcos of guilty feelings to her husband.
Me, i take only married ones with children.....with no strings attached.
WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOooo:D

[spidey69]

[QUOTE=fishingman;1927385]

And no i did not come out from cave or village or mountain. It just happen that my ex-gf all wanted to keep their virgin till marriage. I'm still wondering why i keep on getting these type of gf.

Bro fishingman

Its not your gf that want to keep her virginity til marriage.. it is u that dunno how to make her give it to u. :D u should plan something together lah.. like overseas trip, romantic dinner + stay overnite in hotel, sleep over at yours or her place..

anyway too late liao.. :D i suggest u look other treads for FL or GL Cats.. u sure can get to release your urges..

[augustablue]

Well bros, if you spend time observing ... you will be surprises that there are many ladies out there are willing partners ... though many of them try to protray the barrier resistance.

You will be surprises ... 2 main categories to catch that will make good FB.

Cat# A - Single - you have to home in on those a little playful but shy, those talk cock-type (Big Voice not accurate type)
Gal: ... no ... no ... cannot lah ... need to keep V till marriage
My actions: Get them stimulated ... show some intimacy ... movies or after a few drinks ... steal some rubba ...
Gal: ... oh yes oh yes ... fuck me but be gentle ... I am a V !!

Cat# B - Married type (IT, Bankers, Lawyers) - ladies that worked long hours - easy meat!!
Gal: ... no lah ... i am married lah ... never flirt one ... I am not loose huh ... have husband liao ...
My actions: ... go straight to the point after a few drinks ... get an opportunities to whisper into their ears ... nothing but sexy and sweet things about her ... nap-shot !!
Gal: ... oh yes ... Oh yes ... fuck me... fuck me. the old man is not home yet ... quick fuck me ...

Trust me ... I have my fair shares ... start sourcing !!

:D

[geckoSG]

Threadstarter... perhaps you wanna try writing a big billboard and stand at orchard road... maybe you can get lucky, to increase your chances, try being topless and show ur abs... :D

[trooper]

Threadstarter... perhaps you wanna try writing a big billboard and stand at orchard road... maybe you can get lucky, to increase your chances, try being topless and show ur abs...

Hahaha... Brudder, this is damn funny leh. :D

I also got 1 FB, married with 3 kids. Currently trying to hook another one. ;)

[CoolBlack]

Threadstarter... perhaps you wanna try writing a big billboard and stand at orchard road... maybe you can get lucky, to increase your chances, try being topless and show ur abs... :D

Great idea! But window of opportunity is pretty short.....i.e. before the police arrive!:D

[fishingman]

[QUOTE=fishingman;1927385]

And no i did not come out from cave or village or mountain. It just happen that my ex-gf all wanted to keep their virgin till marriage. I'm still wondering why i keep on getting these type of gf.

Bro fishingman

Its not your gf that want to keep her virginity til marriage.. it is u that dunno how to make her give it to u. :D u should plan something together lah.. like overseas trip, romantic dinner + stay overnite in hotel, sleep over at yours or her place..

anyway too late liao.. :D i suggest u look other treads for FL or GL Cats.. u sure can get to release your urges..


Hey Bro,

We had been to quite alot of countries together alone, romantic dinner, overnite hotel etc etc. But still no sex. Haha.

[fishingman]

Well bros, if you spend time observing ... you will be surprises that there are many ladies out there are willing partners ... though many of them try to protray the barrier resistance.

You will be surprises ... 2 main categories to catch that will make good FB.

Cat# A - Single - you have to home in on those a little playful but shy, those talk cock-type (Big Voice not accurate type)
Gal: ... no ... no ... cannot lah ... need to keep V till marriage
My actions: Get them stimulated ... show some intimacy ... movies or after a few drinks ... steal some rubba ...
Gal: ... oh yes oh yes ... fuck me but be gentle ... I am a V !!

Cat# B - Married type (IT, Bankers, Lawyers) - ladies that worked long hours - easy meat!!
Gal: ... no lah ... i am married lah ... never flirt one ... I am not loose huh ... have husband liao ...
My actions: ... go straight to the point after a few drinks ... get an opportunities to whisper into their ears ... nothing but sexy and sweet things about her ... nap-shot !!
Gal: ... oh yes ... Oh yes ... fuck me... fuck me. the old man is not home yet ... quick fuck me ...

Trust me ... I have my fair shares ... start sourcing !!

:D

Hm, I will try that out. But your making it sound too easy. Hope i can get Cat B. Haha, Im always a fan of OLs.

[bonkers69]

Hm, I will try that out. But your making it sound too easy. Hope i can get Cat B. Haha, Im always a fan of OLs.

Cat B is quite true but ....NEVER GOT STRING ATTACT RELATION HOR.
or else u end up under the knife which u derserve too.

[shaggerific]

Threadstarter... perhaps you wanna try writing a big billboard and stand at orchard road... maybe you can get lucky, to increase your chances, try being topless and show ur abs... :D
Haha... maybe can advertise on the net also - guy losing V for the first time - and make some money on the side also. :p

[bonkers69]

Haha... maybe can advertise on the net also - guy losing V for the first time - and make some money on the side also. :p

how about asking him going to changi village ....i think can solve his problem. ....maybe still get 2 oranges and ang po from Ba poh:D

[secret75]

Well bros, if you spend time observing ... you will be surprises that there are many ladies out there are willing partners ... though many of them try to protray the barrier resistance.

You will be surprises ... 2 main categories to catch that will make good FB.

Cat# A - Single - you have to home in on those a little playful but shy, those talk cock-type (Big Voice not accurate type)
Gal: ... no ... no ... cannot lah ... need to keep V till marriage
My actions: Get them stimulated ... show some intimacy ... movies or after a few drinks ... steal some rubba ...
Gal: ... oh yes oh yes ... fuck me but be gentle ... I am a V !!

Cat# B - Married type (IT, Bankers, Lawyers) - ladies that worked long hours - easy meat!!
Gal: ... no lah ... i am married lah ... never flirt one ... I am not loose huh ... have husband liao ...
My actions: ... go straight to the point after a few drinks ... get an opportunities to whisper into their ears ... nothing but sexy and sweet things about her ... nap-shot !!
Gal: ... oh yes ... Oh yes ... fuck me... fuck me. the old man is not home yet ... quick fuck me ...

Trust me ... I have my fair shares ... start sourcing !!

:D

How do you bros actually start off, especially if she's married etc? Might actually spoil a friendship...

[fishingman]

Haha... maybe can advertise on the net also - guy losing V for the first time - and make some money on the side also. :p

Haha, bro, if guy's V also worth money i don't mind advertising also. But don't think guys worth a cent.

[tomvoyeur]

Well bros, if you spend time observing ... you will be surprises that there are many ladies out there are willing partners ... though many of them try to protray the barrier resistance.

You will be surprises ... 2 main categories to catch that will make good FB.

Cat# A - Single - you have to home in on those a little playful but shy, those talk cock-type (Big Voice not accurate type)
Gal: ... no ... no ... cannot lah ... need to keep V till marriage
My actions: Get them stimulated ... show some intimacy ... movies or after a few drinks ... steal some rubba ...
Gal: ... oh yes oh yes ... fuck me but be gentle ... I am a V !!

Cat# B - Married type (IT, Bankers, Lawyers) - ladies that worked long hours - easy meat!!
Gal: ... no lah ... i am married lah ... never flirt one ... I am not loose huh ... have husband liao ...
My actions: ... go straight to the point after a few drinks ... get an opportunities to whisper into their ears ... nothing but sexy and sweet things about her ... nap-shot !!
Gal: ... oh yes ... Oh yes ... fuck me... fuck me. the old man is not home yet ... quick fuck me ...

Trust me ... I have my fair shares ... start sourcing !!

:D

But how do u start off by chancing upon the 2nd type??any fave locations??

[HamSapLow]

see this thread a bit quite liao

I'm Interested in getting a f buddy too. anyone tried wif adultfriendfinder?