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sharpshooter_8
21-10-2018, 11:36 PM
Not sure if any bro heard of this app called “good night”.

Caught my wife using this app to talk to strangers. And she has the tendency to easily fall prey to guys who can sweet talk or connect with her regardless. Especially now she doesn’t work due to “depression” issue and stay at home most of the time (feeing bored while I am at work)

She claimed she felt deprived because I not a good communicator and doesn’t really talk a lot to her (as I am shag from work and trying to hold the fort). I wonder if she will ever cuckold(saw her line msg that she add another guy to watch movie!)

Any bros here experienced the similar fate and advise/sharing will be appreciated!

sexcision
22-10-2018, 07:14 AM
Sorry to hear what u had been experiencing. More info like what’s ur sexlife like? Frequencies? Changes in attitude towards u?

Bullshitlar
22-10-2018, 09:14 AM
Talk to her, listen to her. Then let her listen to how u feel.

Woman in any relationship always feel the men is having a wonderful time, not a care in the world or is unable to have any emotions.

Sometimes they hurt their man but dont realize since they think all man is heartless n no emotions.

If she is human she would have some empathy as well for u. If all she think about is herself then i suggest u tell her to move out find another man to feed her if those men are better than you. Straight away kick her out of the hse with her clothes. If she dont beg to come in then consider her love, respect and dependence on you is lost.

No matter what u do. Dont pay for the divorce fee, she has no money, she cant pay for the lawyer. So she cant divorce u.

Let see which man will feed her long term

Bullshitlar
22-10-2018, 09:17 AM
Remember, the man is the prize because you are giving her food, money and a roof over her head just for being a woman

Let the woman pamper you not the other way around. you are the provider, the master of the house and your destiny. You are not an atm nor a slave. Your parents didn't slog to bought u up into an adult to be a slave to an undeserving woman

We dont slog and work so hard everyday just to let the woman enjoy life then look down on you when they get greedy and self entitled.

If the woman herself work then do dutch

Mgtow movement. Read it up

And for men who prey on married Women. You will get your karma one day

sharpshooter_8
22-10-2018, 10:16 AM
Sorry to hear what u had been experiencing. More info like what’s ur sexlife like? Frequencies? Changes in attitude towards u?

Sorry to hear what u had been experiencing. More info like what’s ur sexlife like? Frequencies? Changes in attitude towards u?

We have frequent quarrel after moving in tgt few months back, so our sex is not exactly fantastic. 1-2 times per week perhaps.

I believe her condition plus marriage has make her unhappy. She someone who don’t like mundane stuffs which has create evil thought in my head that she don’t mind having multiple partner to satisfy her if she couldn’t get it from me.

surreal
22-10-2018, 10:51 AM
TS, i feel for you.

You need to improve if you want to keep up with her.

sexcision
22-10-2018, 11:21 AM
We have frequent quarrel after moving in tgt few months back, so our sex is not exactly fantastic. 1-2 times per week perhaps.

I believe her condition plus marriage has make her unhappy. She someone who don’t like mundane stuffs which has create evil thought in my head that she don’t mind having multiple partner to satisfy her if she couldn’t get it from me.

I dunno much about depression. But just saw a talkshow on depression recently that it can be quite a serious condition which cannot be completely cured and need Long term medication. Hope both of u had take the necessary medical consultation for that. Patients, support and tender loving care is required from your side. Maybe a hug from you when she began to be unreasonable may help? Just so suggestions
Recently married and moved in together?

tianjin
22-10-2018, 11:23 AM
We have frequent quarrel after moving in tgt few months back, so our sex is not exactly fantastic. 1-2 times per week perhaps.

I believe her condition plus marriage has make her unhappy. She someone who don’t like mundane stuffs which has create evil thought in my head that she don’t mind having multiple partner to satisfy her if she couldn’t get it from me.

Bro,

You may want to consult fengshui master about your new house.

The yin yang and chi of the house have negative effects on human.

cavemanng
22-10-2018, 11:34 AM
Bro,

You may want to consult fengshui master about your new house.

The yin yang and chi of the house have negative effects on human.

Fucker la. If everything can be solve by febgshui, won’t have so many divorce etc

FirstJedi
22-10-2018, 11:52 AM
Bro,

You may want to consult fengshui master about your new house.

The yin yang and chi of the house have negative effects on human.

Better to engage a priest to get rid of angmo devil :rolleyes:

budoo
22-10-2018, 12:34 PM
Bro,

You may want to consult fengshui master about your new house.

The yin yang and chi of the house have negative effects on human.

Promoting your business? Must pay advertising fees you know?

sharpshooter_8
22-10-2018, 12:39 PM
I dunno much about depression. But just saw a talkshow on depression recently that it can be quite a serious condition which cannot be completely cured and need Long term medication. Hope both of u had take the necessary medical consultation for that. Patients, support and tender loving care is required from your side. Maybe a hug from you when she began to be unreasonable may help? Just so suggestions
Recently married and moved in together?

Yes it is a complication matters, one that I haven’t managed to grasp at. I tried my best to comfort her and accomaihning during my off days but somehow it felt never enough. As my absence is long while I am at work. If only I am a big boss and have my own time then it might be different haha.

Thanks for your advice bro.

sharpshooter_8
22-10-2018, 12:45 PM
I think is more on her emotional feeling than fengshui. No offense ya.

As she have a lot of ex before and reason being she easily get suck in when guy pampered her with TLC thus she get cheated on before etc.

larue
22-10-2018, 02:51 PM
I think is more on her emotional feeling than fengshui. No offense ya.

As she have a lot of ex before and reason being she easily get suck in when guy pampered her with TLC thus she get cheated on before etc.

Did you know she was so emotionally insecure when you decided to marry her?

Cm80
23-10-2018, 12:22 AM
I think is more on her emotional feeling than fengshui. No offense ya.

As she have a lot of ex before and reason being she easily get suck in when guy pampered her with TLC thus she get cheated on before etc.

You must be good in your own way for her to marry you.
Also why did you choose to marry her given her history? It's really tough to give advice as we do not know the full story.

Maybe you should have more trust in your wife after all and remind her and yourself of the vows that both made during marriage.

Marriage is never easy. It's a lifelong journey and all the best to you.

RinxRin
23-10-2018, 05:26 AM
If she is really dealing with depression. Its really up to you to decide how much more you can give. Its a very tiring journey. And maybe shes like me, she gets bored of mundane stuff and everyday life.

Why not start off with small surprises? Date her. Buy her small gifts. Suggest new stuff sexually instead of wondering if shes outsourcing.

I get frustrated when life becomes boring. And when i dont get the sex from my partner. But i dont outsource. I simply channel my energy to gaming n eating instead. So maybe she channeled her energy to the app. I cant find the app in my play store... but i guess most of these random chat apps doesnt have much local ppl? Maybe she just needed someone to talk to without a worry.

When im younger and single i also download random chat app to kpkb to strangers.

sharpshooter_8
23-10-2018, 12:13 PM
If she is really dealing with depression. Its really up to you to decide how much more you can give. Its a very tiring journey. And maybe shes like me, she gets bored of mundane stuff and everyday life.

Why not start off with small surprises? Date her. Buy her small gifts. Suggest new stuff sexually instead of wondering if shes outsourcing.

I get frustrated when life becomes boring. And when i dont get the sex from my partner. But i dont outsource. I simply channel my energy to gaming n eating instead. So maybe she channeled her energy to the app. I cant find the app in my play store... but i guess most of these random chat apps doesnt have much local ppl? Maybe she just needed someone to talk to without a worry.

When im younger and single i also download random chat app to kpkb to strangers.

But she input her emotional attachment (and guys being guys will surely sugarcoat) and sometimes that may lead to meetup (which I found out she almost did meet up with local stranger guy and they added on line to continue their chatting)

One more incident is she did sex chat (using the same app) with another stranger guy (not local)to allow him to jerk off. She confessed this to me after feeing guilty

Dilemma if this marriage really helps her or make her feel lonelier.

RinxRin
23-10-2018, 02:53 PM
But she input her emotional attachment (and guys being guys will surely sugarcoat) and sometimes that may lead to meetup (which I found out she almost did meet up with local stranger guy and they added on line to continue their chatting)

One more incident is she did sex chat (using the same app) with another stranger guy (not local)to allow him to jerk off. She confessed this to me after feeing guilty

Dilemma if this marriage really helps her or make her feel lonelier.

Reply ur pm liao

Slaveatwork
24-10-2018, 01:53 PM
Bro,

You may want to consult fengshui master about your new house.

The yin yang and chi of the house have negative effects on human.


I read this and laugh until I fall off the chair.

RinxRin
24-10-2018, 04:04 PM
I read this and laugh until I fall off the chair.


Actually dunno about fengshui but sometimes putting some crystals in the house reslly does help harmonize the energies and improve relationships. Heard it from many customers so.. yah. But i personally rather believe in stones den some 我不要你8888, 只要你888 de fengshui master.