Rather cheat than marry...

[Acidman]

I really wonder why some PRC rather cheat your money than choose to marry you, after you have suggest marriage. Isn't life in Singapore way better than staying in their hometown. Isn't life with a Singapore husband way better than a PRC husband?

[mebirdie]

If they intend to cheat, marry is also intend to cheat.

It is easier to cheat a few times than cheating forever.
Furthermore marriage will reveal many of their personal details.:D

[spidey69]

I really wonder why some PRC rather cheat your money than choose to marry you, after you have suggest marriage.

the simple reason being : they love your $$$, they dun love you.. so why do they still want to marry you after taking your $$

[yanki]

they nev wan to stay here anyway. they just wan to make $ here. if its a french or angmo, then diff story.:cool:

[curious75]

I really wonder why some PRC rather cheat your money than choose to marry you, after you have suggest marriage. Isn't life in Singapore way better than staying in their hometown. Isn't life with a Singapore husband way better than a PRC husband?

BROS;

to them,they feel singaporean are "frog in the well".still remember a taiwanese said to the media,singapore are stupid.i think a chinese feel that way,so these some how smart PRC will not prefer singaporean but singapore note.:)

[GLHunter]

I really wonder why some PRC rather cheat your money than choose to marry you, after you have suggest marriage. Isn't life in Singapore way better than staying in their hometown. Isn't life with a Singapore husband way better than a PRC husband?

Cheat you then they can move on to cheat more man. Their appettite are much bigger than you can imgaine. Cheats are unlikely to give up the whole forest for one lallang unless you look like Jin Cheng Wu.

[cupid128]

Agree with most bros ..... the gals like your $$$$ .... most times they dont luv you one. I remember one newspaper article about a stall holder, told the gal he businessman (makan stall hehe), gal come down, sian half liao .... so sure kena dump ...., unless you really can gif them a good life, unlimited access to cash .... :D

[d(^_^)b]

They are juz like vampires. They gain Ur trust, get close to U, then suck U dry.
The moment they suck U dry, U've got no use for them n they move to the next target. Never ending.

1 other possible reason is, they do it once, they find that the thrill is there, then they do it again. Juz like an addiction.

[tomvoyeur]

...Coz sporean men r generally boring compared to PRC.....Sporean men are easily malleable n thus not as 'men' as their counterparts in other countries.....Thus its easy to get our money but boring to stay with us for the remainder of their lives.....Little wonder which path the PRC gals will choose....:rolleyes:

[no_faith]

money is their top priority.
they dun love u.
love and marriage is nothing to them. they could have married few times in mainland.
furthermore, their family is in mainland not sg.
dey wan to suck more money as possible. hit and run.

[littleme]

I really wonder why some PRC rather cheat your money than choose to marry you, after you have suggest marriage. Isn't life in Singapore way better than staying in their hometown. Isn't life with a Singapore husband way better than a PRC husband?

Actual fact... prc women find sgp men ugly though sgp men win on the character side.. but most prc women still prefer looks over money.. so when one has money and the other has looks.. the prc woman will go for both...

[dirtyhairy]

[QUOTE=tomvoyeur;2107225]...Coz sporean men r generally boring compared to PRC.....Sporean men are easily malleable n thus not as 'men' as their counterparts in other countries.....Thus its easy to get our money but boring to stay with us for the remainder of their lives.....Little wonder which path the PRC gals will choose....QUOTE]

Like the coin, there are two sides, my fellow bros d horny,
so like the PRC ladies, there are good and bad ones , same as Sporean didis
there are also those guys who cheated the ladies, bonk them and flee
let alone talk about them they wanna marry,
so if there are PRC cheats, there are also local guys who can ill treat
In the end, it boils down to a very basic ingredient called chemistry
Once this is flowing freely,
geewhiz even a crow bar will not pry losse the didi from the pussy
regardless gals are Pinoy, Viet, AngMoh, Polack and even the dreaded PRC!:D

DirtyHairy aka Laobaby...hopefully soon to be oso lao-daddy:p

[Castrol]

Isn't life in Singapore way better than staying in their hometown. Isn't life with a Singapore husband way better than a PRC husband?

it seems like a no brainer, but unfortunately many of them want to have something more after being more familiar with the spore way of life.

there's something about the prc woman. msian, viet, thai, indo, filipino women marrying spore men got many success stories. but prc women's failure rate is how alarming i'm also not so sure but i myself already come across a few bad cases from friends.

[dbrudder]

Why do people still think life in Singapore is better than life in China? Many guys went China to work and chose not to come back. A lot of PRCs I have come across say they don't like Singapore. Plus PRC already formed a certain impression in SG.

Most PRCs come here because of our stronger currency and spending power. Before marriage they can get multiple sources of income. After marriage, probably still can, but harder. $$ makes the PRC eyes go bright :D

I hope I got your situation right. Just my 2 cents worth.

[TCSG]

I really wonder why some PRC rather cheat your money than choose to marry you, after you have suggest marriage. Isn't life in Singapore way better than staying in their hometown. Isn't life with a Singapore husband way better than a PRC husband?
Brother, a lot of these dragonlady has a small white face(小白脸) back at home. They come here because they like their small white face so much they just willing to sacrifice themselves to make more money to let the other party have a better life.
A lot of PRC girls are very naive. They are sweet talk to come over here to make money. These PRC will never fall in love with you.
Then a lot of other PRC girls are very materialistic. See their friends make a lot of money, they also want to come over. These PRC will only fall in love with money not you.

[Agos]

If they have intention to cheat, after getting marriage it may be worse as they may openly ask for more money to buy land and build house in China. More Damage.

Worse still even when filing for divorce still got to support her. So caution is the word about marrying.

Just my 2-cent of suggestions.

[LeDivorcee]

Most PRC who come here are mainly for the purpose of making money, either with their corporate skills or with their pussy skills. Very few and in between PRC girls are willing to lead a quiet life here in Singapore. They feel it is too restrictive. As for $ face, I beg to difer. There are a lot of PRC girls out there who really want to make a mark here. However, the ultimate target is either go back to PRC as a rich person or somehow manage to skip to USA where they think the road is paved with gold. My advise, go for PRC girls for the sake of fun. Don't intend to make it permanent. Only do so at your own risk... :D

[Lord Imperious]

I really wonder why some PRC rather cheat your money than choose to marry you, after you have suggest marriage. Isn't life in Singapore way better than staying in their hometown. Isn't life with a Singapore husband way better than a PRC husband?

Simple, marry a local and you got to slave away for him living on an average income. Cheat him of his money and return to china you become a rich person with your PRC beau. Also, how much can they trust you to marry you?

[~|@|~]

remember most of them are here to earn money... thats it :cool:

[Acidman]

it seems like a no brainer, but unfortunately many of them want to have something more after being more familiar with the spore way of life.

What is more than having somebody to take care of you forever. Unless of course they are not confident that will happen.

[Acidman]

Simple, marry a local and you got to slave away for him living on an average income. Cheat him of his money and return to china you become a rich person with your PRC beau. Also, how much can they trust you to marry you?


That's where their economics fail I guess. Let's say you have a above average income. By staying with you all the way their life will surely be better. The money they cheat sure will used up one what. They are only in their early 20's still have 50 more years to go man.

[Niceman]

hi Acidman...
Let me guess you are in ur early 20s. No offence , but i think u r tooooooooo naive. Any PRC ger can sweet talk u and u most probably will give her all ur saving.

Most, NOT ALL, i say again, NOT ALL, are here to make quick bucks and convert to RMB and go home be kings and queens. Being here, they are still average. Gone back, their lives and livelihood will change, drastically... go china and see for yourself.

Is about experiences. If u dun experience yourself, is hard for us to explain also. Be there and done that.

Is just like frog in a the well, if u dun jump out of the well, no matter how others explain or describe, you still will believe that the sky in your eyes is only that big.

[西门吹雪]

Isn't life in Singapore way better than staying in their hometown. Isn't life with a Singapore husband way better than a PRC husband?
no offence bro, this is only what you think or at least, you like to think that it's this way. obviously, prc's do not.

read some remarks from some chinese sites:
为何要被拘泥在新加坡这样弹丸的地方？
新加坡吃虧的地方在於它不在美國，結果引來國人心底的歧視(現在中國人很厲害，等閒日本、英法之流都看不上 ，何況新加坡彈丸之地).

[Niceman]

WestDoorBlowSnow Bro.

Ya man... u r right...Sillypore land is such a small piece of cake... no wonder alot of bros gone China to work.

[西门吹雪]

WestDoorBlowSnow
so many 4-letter words? :eek:

just joking, england version is Simon Blowsnow. :D

[tomvoyeur]

What is more than having somebody to take care of you forever. Unless of course they are not confident that will happen.

How confident can u be of forever marriage nowadays??? :confused:

That's where their economics fail I guess. Let's say you have a above average income. By staying with you all the way their life will surely be better. The money they cheat sure will used up one what. They are only in their early 20's still have 50 more years to go man.

Would u accept a promise of an above average income for the rest of ur live or b given the flexibility to job hop n shoulder the downside of the risk as well?? If u accept the former, then u r risk-adverse while the chinese r generally more risk-taking as their economy grows exponentially....On a separate note, if u r content on being above average for the rest of ur life, then u r likely to lose out on the rat race very soon.......

[Acidman]

I'm saying from the PRCs prospective. Their youth is only a few years how much money they make will also use up one day right?

[Saltiga]

all, every single of them are here purely for money but there will be some who got caught in a emotional relationship locally, they're human just like all of us, they do fall in love when the someone whom they felt sincere enough touch their heart but majority of them will hold back their feeling just so that they can make more money while at the same time thinking to themselves why/how would anyone loves them wholeheartedly given that they got to know each other at place where loves shouldn't have started, (even we doubt them if they tells us that they loves us, don't we?) was once told by a PRC gal that any reasonable looking PRC gal got had almost a new guy courting them everyday they are in Singapore, some offer to buy them lunch, bring them shopping, show them around, fetch them to & fro work..etc, so ultimately it makes them think how could there be so much true love in Singapore? so it does makes sense for them to make "Robert" out of some of those whom gave them the chances to be a "Robert"..

[soberguy]

I'm saying from the PRCs prospective. Their youth is only a few years how much money they make will also use up one day right?

If they can realise that, they probably won't attempt to cheat too. Bro, are you falling for a PRC or too KC with one liao?


There are 2 perspective. One from the PRC woman and one from the Sg guy.

PRC woman: Marry you, they got to find a job and help share in contributing the mortgage. If they dun, the guy pay more, and less money to spend too. UNless they guy is really rich and can give her like at least 5k a month to spend and go back to CHina 4 times a year (each trip cost 15k). While not many guys can afford that, they rather cheat, take the money and go back to China. Once and for all. Beside, they speak no english and definitely don't like to be stupid in situation where they have to speak english.

SG Guy: Marry them, you got to consider if you can afford the mortgage alone. Technically, you will be downgraded as they don't have CPF. They may have cash from the FL job, but that is theirs and probably pay for their house in PRC. Marry them, you probably work like a dog too since you have to pay and support them and to the never ending demands. Of course there are good ones but not easy to find, definitely not much from the FL, rite? If married, they probably want to go back to China (see it from your grandparent, uncles etc where in olden days, they die die want to go back to China), and you end up divorce and pay alimony. End up poorer too.

[Acidman]

I'm too KC with one now. I know the easy answer is sober up and don't fall deeper into the trap. Anyway I'm still trying to stay sober and see if it's worth it. My prc girl scared I bluff her and don't dare to commit. Can see that she is very troubled. Afraid after all the sacrifice she made in the end comes to nothing.

So I also don't know in the end she will want to marry me or not. She hardly ask me for money. Actually I'm also getting quite tired to assure her I'm true to her. She always check my handphone and ask me lots of question. What happens in the end remains to be seen.

[cupid128]

I'm saying from the PRCs prospective. Their youth is only a few years how much money they make will also use up one day right?

Haha, hv u been to GL, 40+ also jioing old man ..

[cupid128]

After all is said n done ... there are still gems to be uncovered. Maybe yours is the one, Good Luck to threadstarter, not to pour cold water ... :)

[D I E D]

I'm too KC with one now. I know the easy answer is sober up and don't fall deeper into the trap. Anyway I'm still trying to stay sober and see if it's worth it. My prc girl scared I bluff her and don't dare to commit. Can see that she is very troubled. Afraid after all the sacrifice she made in the end comes to nothing.

So I also don't know in the end she will want to marry me or not. She hardly ask me for money. Actually I'm also getting quite tired to assure her I'm true to her. She always check my handphone and ask me lots of question. What happens in the end remains to be seen.

Bro, maybe its true .... think you can proceed with caution. Just watch out lor, and be prepared for the worse ... then u will be fine.

[Castrol]

What is more than having somebody to take care of you forever. Unless of course they are not confident that will happen.

3 room flat + daihatsu charade is take care.

condominium with security guards + toyota camry is also take care.

she's not going to live forever. :D

[reuters]

3 room flat + daihatsu charade is take care.

condominium with security guards + toyota camry is also take care.

she's not going to live forever. :D

GCB + LP640 is also take care. :D

[no_faith]

bro acidman, it seems u have make a decision in u. i tink no point trying hard to pull u out.
imho, i tink sumtimes u know u will get cheated but still wana try.
why?
becuz u never know when tis feeling may come again.

honestly, do u enjoy the time wif her? do u feel happy and free when wif her?
u are buying the time of happiness, do u tink worth it?
if ur answer is yes. den go for it.

such feeling might not come by everyday. life is so short, why not enjoy the happiness? doesnt mean u get a sg gal, u have such feelings.

i wish u all the best but remember if u committed and fall, pls get up youself.


my 0.02:)

[nycaloth66]

I must say that after having spent almost 5 years working and living in China not all PRC women are out to cheat you money or your feelings. There are also decent ones around. But like some of our local girls, if they want to marry a foreigner they would prefer a angmoh as they are perceived to be rich and generous. Its true that Singapore men are not their first choice, alot of PRC women i know think we are not "man" enough, heh perhaps they enjoy being abused by men? who knows. But really i think cheating, especially in the sense of sleeping around is perceived as a very normal thing here. In fact my gf here was surprised that I put so much weight on faithfulness and honesty...

Anyway marry a PRC woman? sure why not? but just make sure she is worth it...

[Niceman]

personally I know 1 yandao bro from irc married with 1 chio bu prc, looks like finoa xie, and now live happily together, but this guy is not tupid and damn smart, and knows what he doing.

But for this young boy, let him be. As mentioned, a frog refused to jump out of the well to see the world, wont understand a single bit of what we trying to put across.

[tomvoyeur]

I'm saying from the PRCs prospective. Their youth is only a few years how much money they make will also use up one day right?

They will earn more now then retire later when they c a big fish...Either u r not the big fish or its not the rite time now.....

But for this young boy, let him be. As mentioned, a frog refused to jump out of the well to see the world, wont understand a single bit of what we trying to put across.

Guess his mind is already set, so good luck bro....Anyway, its better to b bitten urself than to b told about other ppl's bite experiences.....Hope u can come out from it a stronger man....:)

[no_faith]

our advice is of good will.
we do not know each other but we dun wish another to get cheated.

itz your life, u make decision. watever the decision resulted, u face the consequences. can u face it?

would you trade ur time, feelings, money for the illusion happiness?

as long u r happy, ttz important. dun live for other, live for yourself.


my 0.02.
hope itz not offensive or sensitve:)

[Acidman]

bro acidman, it seems u have make a decision in u. i tink no point trying hard to pull u out.
imho, i tink sumtimes u know u will get cheated but still wana try.
why?
becuz u never know when tis feeling may come again.

honestly, do u enjoy the time wif her? do u feel happy and free when wif her?
u are buying the time of happiness, do u tink worth it?
if ur answer is yes. den go for it.

such feeling might not come by everyday. life is so short, why not enjoy the happiness? doesnt mean u get a sg gal, u have such feelings.

i wish u all the best but remember if u committed and fall, pls get up youself.


my 0.02:)


I guess you sort of sums up my feelings. Guess I'm at an age now where I think I don't have much time to find real happiness liao, so just enjoy the moment when I can. And you're right sg gal have not given me such feelings.

[Acidman]

I guess man make alot of bad decisions in marriage. Some marry out of responsibility, some out of convenience. If man spent most of their time making ends need, then all is fine. But when they have some money and found someone they really fall in love with, that's where all the troubles start to come.
Can this be called mid life crisis? C'est la Vie.

[soberguy]

Can this be called mid life crisis? C'est la Vie.

Only time will tell. Meantime, I guess you can only let time to test her sincerity and for you to prove yours too. Stick to your belief until it is tested and then pick up from there where to head. Cheers!

[candidfan]

They r actress. They r paid to act. As long as they r paid, they'll carry on with whatever role that is needed for them to earn their pay. You r the paymaster, as long as u pay them, they'll act for u. Once u stop paying them, naturally they'll stop acting too.Can they act for other paymasters? As long as there is no binding contract, of course they can & even if there is one, as long as they r not caught, they can still try it.

[Chinapuss]

To pursue true happiness, one does hav to fall many times before achievin tat happiness...search deep within ur heart wat realli makes u happi Bro Acidman :)

[no_faith]

i dun tink bro acidman is going to test her sincerity.
it seems that even bro acidman know he will be cheated, he will rather to chose to take the gamble wif her.

he go fight his happiness even it is an illusion in the end.

i dun encourage such actions
eg this thread http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=70450
our bro also fall in love wif an FL.

at least one knows wat he wants.

[Castrol]

GCB + LP640 is also take care.

sorry bro, what are GCB and LP640? :D

[Microsoft]

sorry bro, what are GCB and LP640?

Lamborghini Murciélago LP640 Roadster? :D

Got dis type of car KC stick 2 u like super glue leow... :D

[Acidman]

They r actress. They r paid to act. As long as they r paid, they'll carry on with whatever role that is needed for them to earn their pay. You r the paymaster, as long as u pay them, they'll act for u. Once u stop paying them, naturally they'll stop acting too.Can they act for other paymasters? As long as there is no binding contract, of course they can & even if there is one, as long as they r not caught, they can still try it.

The interesting thing recently I treat her much better than before. Last time not so serious. Now buy quite a few things for her, SKII, phone, etc. But she treat me worse than before. That's why I doubt she's cheating me, more like scare I'll dump her one day.
If she's acting then champion liao. Play reverse psychology. But she continue like that I also feel like giving up. If she treat me nice, then surely I would lose more money.

[soberguy]

The interesting thing recently I treat her much better than before. Last time not so serious. Now buy quite a few things for her, SKII, phone, etc. But she treat me worse than before. That's why I doubt she's cheating me, more like scare I'll dump her one day.
If she's acting then champion liao. Play reverse psychology. But she continue like that I also feel like giving up. If she treat me nice, then surely I would lose more money.

So she is on ROI mode now?

[candidfan]

The interesting thing recently I treat her much better than before. Last time not so serious. Now buy quite a few things for her, SKII, phone, etc. But she treat me worse than before. That's why I doubt she's cheating me, more like scare I'll dump her one day.
If she's acting then champion liao. Play reverse psychology. But she continue like that I also feel like giving up. If she treat me nice, then surely I would lose more money.

Does buying her stuff show that she'll love u more? Nope. Just show's that u love her. If she love's u, she'll buy stuff for u too.
So what's she treating u worse than before? Demanding u buy her more stuff or demanding more of ur time & attention?
If she demanding more time & attention, then I suggest u go library & borrow books on how to manage a relationship liao. It might be she doesn't trust u enough or that she's just a power hungry queen like wu zhe tian. :D

[Acidman]

She didn't demand to buy anything. Sometimes very emotional and gets frustrated easily, saying things like difficult to marry here, all alone, not worthy of me, will I love her forever, etc.

[no_faith]

as a couple, very emotional and gets frustrated easily, not worthy of me, will I love her forever, these very common from a gals mouth.

the prob is if u have the strong will power at the first plc to know playing outside is juz a game, u wun get controlled emotionally.

the other prob is u are a too compassionate person, easily manipulate by emotions.
as long sum1 in ur life treats u better than any1, u crumble.

now u only can wish tat the gal is truely to you.

[candidfan]

That's normal for a boy-girl relationship. Go read a book on it, it'll help.As u progress, u'll learn & try out more stuff.It's all about trying, how many women have u met that don't worry about something? If it doesn't work out, just tell her & let her go find someone else.

[BuNs]

I really wonder why some PRC rather cheat your money than choose to marry you, after you have suggest marriage. Isn't life in Singapore way better than staying in their hometown. Isn't life with a Singapore husband way better than a PRC husband?

From my encounter with PRCs so far, I concluded that majority of them come here for $$$, particularly S$$$ (S$1 = RMB4.97), unless you can provide them with both $$$ and marriage-with-comfortable-life. Otherwise, they will still prefer to earn S$$$ here and spend in China. Even some PRCs who got their PR status, they still send money back to buy property and assets, preparing to retire in their homeland one day. Isn't life in Singapore way better than staying in their hometown? If you compare apple to apple (if S$1 = RMB1) and taken into consideration of their salary (basic salary ranging from RMB600 - RMB1200 in various cities), I think their living standard is higher than us, ie taxi fare starts from RMB5 - RMB12 depending on which city you are in.

[Lord Imperious]

That's where their economics fail I guess. Let's say you have a above average income. By staying with you all the way their life will surely be better. The money they cheat sure will used up one what. They are only in their early 20's still have 50 more years to go man.

Well they depends on how they spend their money. The clever ones buy apartments and stores to live off the rent. The not so clever ones save it in a bank. Then there are those that open shops and do business. Most however end up living it up for a few years and then go back to selling.

[curious75]

hi Acidman...
Let me guess you are in ur early 20s. No offence , but i think u r tooooooooo naive. Any PRC ger can sweet talk u and u most probably will give her all ur saving.

Most, NOT ALL, i say again, NOT ALL, are here to make quick bucks and convert to RMB and go home be kings and queens. Being here, they are still average. Gone back, their lives and livelihood will change, drastically... go china and see for yourself.

Is about experiences. If u dun experience yourself, is hard for us to explain also. Be there and done that.

Is just like frog in a the well, if u dun jump out of the well, no matter how others explain or describe, you still will believe that the sky in your eyes is only that big.

bros,well said

when i was in china,from there i realised the prc in singapore tell us a different story.in china especially these not high educated prc,they are just like a slave some even beg(where i ever met 2 young ladies ard twenties come to me ask for food n $) the prc are so damn desperate for $ where they can do anything to get you hooked.

for bros that are still single n never go to china,it will be the better to fly there have fun n see the very true color of PRC.then you will know what's the actual PRICE for them.dont think too high for them........

no offence,just to share.....

[curious75]

She didn't demand to buy anything. Sometimes very emotional and gets frustrated easily, saying things like difficult to marry here, all alone, not worthy of me, will I love her forever, etc.

its all abt acting in life,is there true love forever?bros,its all depends where or how you meet your gal.if she is from ktv,then forget it because she might be cheating on you or if she is true to you,your future life of cheonging will be not easy like now.just a point of sharing..........:)

[reuters]

sorry bro, what are GCB and LP640? :D

Sure you dont know? :D

[reuters]

Lamborghini Murciélago LP640 Roadster?

Got dis type of car KC stick 2 u like super glue leow... :D

You driving one? :eek:

[Microsoft]

You driving one?

Yes! Lastnite when i work part time as parking attendent. :D :p

[Jkin]

Many factors lah -

1. They may not like you very much

2. If you met her in KTV, they feel that after marriage you will continue going to KTV and meet a more SYT. Afterall this is how she met you. They don't feel that your love is genuine so they rather get a lump sum from you than commit their life to you.

3. They have seen too many cases of husbands who met their wives in KTV no happy ending because in the husband's eyes they are forever ex-working girl. Will his love still last after her looks become jaded? So they would rather go back home and start afresh with someone who don't know her history.


For decent PRCs, there are lots of successful marriages to Singaporean men lah.

[reuters]

Yes! Lastnite when i work part time as parking attendent. :p

Like that must intro me the job too. :D

[Microsoft]

Like that must intro me the job too.

Drive is fun :D but scratch mus pay...:(

U sure u 1? kekeke.

[Acidman]

Sometimes the feeling is priceless. And money becomes secondary liao. But I think my problem is more complex than that. Even I want to be with her also cannot liao.

1. Was just told, she told her parents about it. Heavy objections from them.
2. She is here on someone else passport.

Any brothers advice to solve the above two problems?

[curious75]

bros acidman,

have you ever been to her hometown with her seeing her family members,who knows maybe she got a husband or bf there,nobody knows.if your gf is here on someone's passport,i think she kena caught b4 in singapore.she is not a easy prc to handle,think twice and wish you all the best.....

[Acidman]

Is it true she surely get caught before that's why came on someone else passport? She told me she came on her own passport before on social visit pass, but her student pass got rejected that's why use someone's else.
I told her I can accept her past, but I still feel some truth are still hidden from me.

[Chinapuss]

1. Was just told, she told her parents about it. Heavy objections from them.
2. She is here on someone else passport.

Any brothers advice to solve the above two problems?


Bro Acidman

In my opinion :- 1. Mostly likely, she will ask for money or material things to be sent to her parents juz to appease them. The amount asked usually is not cheap or little. Remember, tis appeasin of parents trick will onli stop when she suck u dry of your savings.

2. If she's here on someone else passport meanz u dont realli knoe her true identity. She can juz vanish into thin air without a trace.

My advise is not to get urself too emotionally involve cause end up u will get hurt deeper. There are many fishes in de sea, y get entangled with juz one fish?? Take care Bro...

[西门吹雪]

花褪残红青杏小。
燕子飞时，绿水人家绕。
枝上柳绵吹又少，
天涯何处无芳草。

天涯何处无芳草，何必单恋一枝花? :cool:

[curious75]

Is it true she surely get caught before that's why came on someone else passport? She told me she came on her own passport before on social visit pass, but her student pass got rejected that's why use someone's else.
I told her I can accept her past, but I still feel some truth are still hidden from me.

bros acidman;

if she use someone passport she got to pay,just think abt it.overall is it she find you not a high salary pay personal that why she rejecting you.where she from.if you really fallen in her,maybe you try to go to her hometown with her n see it yourself.if she reject you then something wrong liao.bros,its not you can accept her past but will you accept the future if you finds out more.we can marry a bitch to be wife but we cant marry a wife to be bitch.

just to share.......:)

[Castrol]

Drive is fun but scratch mus pay...:(

U sure u 1? kekeke.

dont worry if scratched, just scratch the other side also and it will look nice. :D

[Microsoft]

dont worry if scratched, just scratch the other side also and it will look nice.

Wow! U got potential in top car insurance sales! Jus tell me which co u working for i make sure i siam far far. :D :p

[Castrol]

Wow! U got potential in top car insurance sales! Jus tell me which co u working for i make sure i siam far far. :D

yes but only insurance for car paint hor... :D

[Swastikanian]

sad to say nwadays $ makes the world go round and round...