What are my options?

[Balaallen123]

I can't lie. I've always had the urge fuck every 2 days. I can go for a week without masturbating but the thought of not having sex only diverts my attention to using my hand for pleasure on a 2-3 days basis.

I'm short but lean and a little muscular. Similar to swimmer built. No girl ever approach or shown any interest in me even when I to do the leg work. so the thought of having a gf is out.

Paying for sex is fine but I don't have the money to pay for sex all the time cause leaves a dent in my wallet to be honest.

Online dating hookup... Well no one wants a short malay guy regardless if I were to be good looking or not. Tried every kind of dating app, zero no swipes, no chat. I even used a decent pic etc yet even my Chad friends are baffled at why I don't get any matches or replies when they're help me see through my profile. Yes, even the fat and unattractive ones don't reply or ghost me thereafter.

My only option at the moment is to go to a doctor and get this horniness fixed permanently like pill suppressant or vececstomy.

Or just play with my right hand until I die.

I'm not picky. Just unlucky.
No money for long term commercial sex, no gf, no fwb, no online dating but am fucking horny over the moon.

[lucuher]

I can't lie. I've always had the urge fuck every 2 days. I can go for a week without masturbating but the thought of not having sex only diverts my attention to using my hand for pleasure on a 2-3 days basis.

I'm short but lean and a little muscular. Similar to swimmer built. No girl ever approach or shown any interest in me even when I to do the leg work. so the thought of having a gf is out.

Paying for sex is fine but I don't have the money to pay for sex all the time cause leaves a dent in my wallet to be honest.

Online dating hookup... Well no one wants a short malay guy regardless if I were to be good looking or not. Tried every kind of dating app, zero no swipes, no chat. I even used a decent pic etc yet even my Chad friends are baffled at why I don't get any matches or replies when they're help me see through my profile. Yes, even the fat and unattractive ones don't reply or ghost me thereafter.

My only option at the moment is to go to a doctor and get this horniness fixed permanently like pill suppressant or vececstomy.

Or just play with my right hand until I die.

I'm not picky. Just unlucky.
No money for long term commercial sex, no gf, no fwb, no online dating but am fucking horny over the moon.

dude, a vasectomy wont help!!! Take it from me - I had it done - its to make you baby-proof, not to make you less horny. Also suppressants would mean chemical castration, which has a shit load of other health problems - no sane doctor will prescribe that. If you really cant help it - you need a shrink. Sex addiction is a real thing. They might prescribe something to keep you happy - maybe xanax or who knows what.

[newyorker88]

I can't lie. I've always had the urge fuck every 2 days. I can go for a week without masturbating but the thought of not having sex only diverts my attention to using my hand for pleasure on a 2-3 days basis.

I'm short but lean and a little muscular. Similar to swimmer built. No girl ever approach or shown any interest in me even when I to do the leg work. so the thought of having a gf is out.

Paying for sex is fine but I don't have the money to pay for sex all the time cause leaves a dent in my wallet to be honest.

Online dating hookup... Well no one wants a short malay guy regardless if I were to be good looking or not. Tried every kind of dating app, zero no swipes, no chat. I even used a decent pic etc yet even my Chad friends are baffled at why I don't get any matches or replies when they're help me see through my profile. Yes, even the fat and unattractive ones don't reply or ghost me thereafter.

My only option at the moment is to go to a doctor and get this horniness fixed permanently like pill suppressant or vececstomy.

Or just play with my right hand until I die.

I'm not picky. Just unlucky.
No money for long term commercial sex, no gf, no fwb, no online dating but am fucking horny over the moon.


Find a sport or hobby. Keep ur mind occupied. Make urself some friends n exercise. My guess is u still young.

[Siamdiu5evas]

Maybe you're in the wrong hunting ground?
Perhaps try to expand your circles, meet more people.
I think girls like guys who can carry a conversation. While most girls are superficial, I think it is character that has a greater appeal on girls in the long run.
Don't be too dejected, it is normal to feel the urge, just need to channel it in the right places.

[Balaallen123]

I play sports and go to gym on a daily basis. Cant help but see milfs and syt at the gym also. Once one milf actually caught me staring at her while my south was erected. She gave me sigh and shake head and immediately walk away from the area. And it wasn't even like I was staring at her all the time, just a brief turn and that was it

[Balaallen123]

Then what are my logical options? Unless some kind soul want to throw me a bone of a FWB for me, I see my chances close to zero for everything else

[bigmannow]

My teacher last time said go and play some sports

[p u r e]

some thoughts/suggestions/questions:

1) find other hobbies that you genuinely enjoy, that are not expensive and not difficult to start.

2) also, how do you view women in general? how are your interactions with SYT, women around your age, and MILFs? what sort of things do you talk about with them? yes, there is the primal urge of sex, but I find that having interactions/discussions about topics/interests changes your outlook towards sex.

3) make sure you get enough sleep so that you can filter your thoughts and urges.

4) how's your life looking like in general? are you happy? feeling lonely?

i was thinking maybe you could look up for psychology services but not sure if your wallet would allow. could be very helpful.

[SerflySGR]

Bro Balaallen123, if you don't mind me saying/asking:

I can't lie. I've always had the urge fuck every 2 days. I can go for a week without masturbating but the thought of not having sex only diverts my attention to using my hand for pleasure on a 2-3 days basis.

How young are you? If you are young, it's normal to have such urges. If you are much older, congratulations cos it's a rare blessing! You don't know what you have until you lose it bro!


I'm short but lean and a little muscular. Similar to swimmer built. No girl ever approach or shown any interest in me even when I to do the leg work. so the thought of having a gf is out.

No offense bro but even in today's day and age, girls will always prefer that guys approach them first, unless you are talking about cougars. You are muscular - that's a plus, you should work on your strengths. Go out more and go to different places. For sure you will hit the jackpot one day.


Paying for sex is fine but I don't have the money to pay for sex all the time cause leaves a dent in my wallet to be honest.

Nobody is asking you to go for paid sex regularly. I mean, my son loves to eat Swensen's but that doesn't mean I bring him there very weekend, am I right?


Online dating hookup... Well no one wants a short malay guy regardless if I were to be good looking or not.

You are Malay?

Wow! I don't mean to be racist but Malay girls are the horniest and I know of some Chinese girls willing to date Malay guys. Again, you are sitting on something that Chinese and Indian brothers can only dream of.

So, what are you waiting for?


Tried every kind of dating app, zero no swipes, no chat. I even used a decent pic etc yet even my Chad friends are baffled at why I don't get any matches or replies when they're help me see through my profile. Yes, even the fat and unattractive ones don't reply or ghost me thereafter.

Bro, dating apps don't 'work properly' unless you are a paying or paid member. There could be girls responding to you but because you are not a paid member, they are unable to respond to you.

Also, you need to remember that guys outnumber girls in these apps so if you refuse to pay then you have to have better 'typing skills' than the other guys out there.


My only option at the moment is to go to a doctor and get this horniness fixed permanently like pill suppressant or vececstomy.

Like one bro posted here, no point.

I have a friend who castrated his dog because vet says this will reduce its urge to 'mark territory' or hump legs.

Guess what?

The dog still does it.


Or just play with my right hand until I die.

This is a better idea! But play using your right hand, not with your right hand because I don't see how the latter could be enjoyable? Heh heh!


I'm not picky. Just unlucky.

Well, at least you know where your problem lies or like one of the brothers mentioned - you are hunting in the wrong pond. Trust us when we say this cos most of us been there and done that; you are just fishing in the wrong pond bro.

It's like you are going to a satay stall to order vegetarian meals.


No money for long term commercial sex, no gf, no fwb, no online dating but am fucking horny over the moon.

Bro, trust me when I say that gf is not the end of your problems. Unless you find a girl with an equally high sex drive.

I had one who wanted to save her virginity for marriage. Another who gets sore easily. In the end, I had to 'DIY'. And not forgetting that you need to 'maintain; your relationship with your gf.

FWBs are another issue. Might not solve your horny issue.



Just my humble opinion, Bro Balaallen123. Just don't want you to make the same mistakes as me last time, that's all. No offense.

[ipwnyou]

Did you try wearing chastity cage? Then get someone to hold the keys or I can keep for you :p

[angelle]

To be honest what I do is simply to just rub it out. Change my genre of porn once in a while to 'keep it fresh'. My horniness now is more like periodic. Sometimes I will also have the urge to fuck for a couple of weeks, sometimes I just don't have the urge, so can go a while without jerking off. FLs will also dent the wallet if for the two weeks I'm horny I keep booking FLs so I just tell myself to masturbate one time good one then I can save money for that day already.

[p u r e]

some thoughts/suggestions/questions:

1) find other hobbies that you genuinely enjoy, that are not expensive and not difficult to start.

2) also, how do you view women in general? how are your interactions with SYT, women around your age, and MILFs? what sort of things do you talk about with them? yes, there is the primal urge of sex, but I find that having interactions/discussions about topics/interests changes your outlook towards sex.

3) make sure you get enough sleep so that you can filter your thoughts and urges.

4) how's your life looking like in general? are you happy? feeling lonely?

i was thinking maybe you could look up for psychology services but not sure if your wallet would allow. could be very helpful.

just wondering if someone could bump up my reputation point if you find this post of mine thoughtful? would appreciate that!

[hi2u]

Totally agree with you bro on the changing of porn genre haha. Yes, sometimes the regret after spending is just sian. Not about affordability, more of what we could have done with the money spent.

To be honest what I do is simply to just rub it out. Change my genre of porn once in a while to 'keep it fresh'. My horniness now is more like periodic. Sometimes I will also have the urge to fuck for a couple of weeks, sometimes I just don't have the urge, so can go a while without jerking off. FLs will also dent the wallet if for the two weeks I'm horny I keep booking FLs so I just tell myself to masturbate one time good one then I can save money for that day already.

[sky_liner2]

Since you intend to go to the doctor, ask the doc if he has any medication to help you grow taller.....this will help I think.....

[LordVader]

I'm not picky. Just unlucky.


It's not the looks. You just have no game.

Read this book (https://www.amazon.sg/Game-Penetrating-Secret-Society-Artists/dp/0060554738) for reference (not guidance).

If you cannot find an e-source, PM me.

[VoicesWithin]

It's not the looks. You just have no game.

Agree. Most girls do not go for looks. They go for personality.

"No girl ever approach or shown any interest in me"

TS
Wrong., girls don't approach guys. They expect guys to approach them.

It is a numbers game. Like selling insurance. Ratios and percentages. Cold call 100. 5 will listen to you. Out of the 5, one will buy. Repeat another 100.

Forget dating apps if it does not work. Girls want guys to take the initiative. In real life. Not swipe an app. You can swipe her, you can swipe another just as quick. They know it.

You need to change your view. Enlarge your real life social circles. Learn to be humorous. Be humble. Be thick skinned. Want your pride, use your right hand for life.

[newswing]

I used to have such crazy sex urges.
Once I have them today, I thought that I will focus more on work and other stuff tomorrow but I was wrong.
Maybe I think I had an addiction but I try really hard not to think about sex and porn.

Try to do other things like exercise, watch documentaries and things of interest.
I have to constantly remind myself that any immoral thoughts I had will lead to da police if u have the money.. u can always do all sorts of sexual stuff.

I know it's difficult to find a partner for life. Girls nowadays can be quite intelligent and yet intimidating.
Think positive stuff.. your life may change for better

[johnnydsg]

Like one bro said earlier it's not about your height. Its that you have no game. Get back on those dating apps, Tinder, CMB, Bumble. Go to youtube or google and learn how to chat up girls, flirt with them, move it to a meet and more from there. Don't worry about rejection coz practice makes perfect. Just keep doing it.

I can say this with confidence coz I was out of the dating scene for ages and had to relearn from scratch last year. Took awhile and a shit ton of chats but once you get better at it gets easier. Skip all those China/Taiwan/Chinese looking profiles who look too pretty to be true, they just want to talk to you about investments and scam you.

As a final word of encouragement, if a 39 yr old dude like me can land a hot 24 yr old gf, you can do it too. Go get them!

[Kovovo]

just wondering if someone could bump up my reputation point if you find this post of mine thoughtful? would appreciate that!

Upped u.........

[Siamdiu5evas]

I'm not sure if this is right but I have heard of a concept called 'Pheromone stink' - wherein you are so in pursuit of sex that you give off pheromones that actually repel the other gender. But science or not, I think the other bros above are right, don't resort to such extreme measures and try to find an outlet. Cheers.

[expatamerican]

Girls can smell desperation through the screen. The best place to meet women is doing activities. Get involved with things. Volunteer. Take some class. Play some sports. I meet so many single women everywhere I go (I am happily attached and just do P4P for variety so I dont search for another GF). When you meet on an activity you automatically have something in common and something to talk about. Also, go with the intention just to have fun and meet people, not fuck anyone. You will be amazed at the results.

[Balaallen123]

Thanks for heads up brother. And about the me sleeping on malay girls... I don't have that much malay friends to begin with cause they don't seem to like me much. Been like this since secondary school up till now. no minah no girls interested

[Balaallen123]

some thoughts/suggestions/questions:

1) find other hobbies that you genuinely enjoy, that are not expensive and not difficult to start.

2) also, how do you view women in general? how are your interactions with SYT, women around your age, and MILFs? what sort of things do you talk about with them? yes, there is the primal urge of sex, but I find that having interactions/discussions about topics/interests changes your outlook towards sex.

3) make sure you get enough sleep so that you can filter your thoughts and urges.

4) how's your life looking like in general? are you happy? feeling lonely?

i was thinking maybe you could look up for psychology services but not sure if your wallet would allow. could be very helpful.

For 2) I act normally around both old and young. And frankly I'm surrounded by loads of girls but the problem is, I'm not interested in them cause they are younger than my age. I like older women better. But generally no one said I act out differently. In fact, I'm kinda like the social guy in the group. Just so happen my pool of friends are mostly guys and that's it.

[Balaallen123]

Problem is I don't even get to match, so I can't even talk to them in the first place

[catlord]

Problem is I don't even get to match, so I can't even talk to them in the first place

Go look up the YouTube channel 'School of Attraction' and search for videos about getting more matches. It's all about the pics.

And also you need to have game. Reading the game book as another poster mentioned earlier is a great first step, that's like an overview of the pickup scene. There are a lot of know-how that you need to learn about how to attract girls. This is the biggest thing. Actually the biggest thing is your pictures because if you get zero matches it doesn't matter how much game you have so go watch the channel above first, but after you get the matches if you don't know how to interact with girls such that they are attracted and you don't know how to lead the date to get to the sex location, you won't get what you want.

Go and study.

[catlord]

Oh and if there wasn't covid I would have suggested you to cheat and go to Manila for a week. In my experience Manila is by far the easiest city to get laid in in the world. I regularly could get 3 girls in a day there. If you can't get laid in Manila I'd say there's no hope for you anywhere. But unfortunately we can't travel now.

[Balaallen123]

Oh and if there wasn't covid I would have suggested you to cheat and go to Manila for a week. In my experience Manila is by far the easiest city to get laid in in the world. I regularly could get 3 girls in a day there. If you can't get laid in Manila I'd say there's no hope for you anywhere. But unfortunately we can't travel now.

What about orchard towers on the weekends?

[catlord]

What about orchard towers on the weekends?

That place was full of hookers pre covid. Not sure about now. Unless hookers are your thing don't waste your time there.

Oh and if there wasn't covid I would have suggested you to cheat and go to Manila for a week. In my experience Manila is by far the easiest city to get laid in in the world. I regularly could get 3 girls in a day there. If you can't get laid in Manila I'd say there's no hope for you anywhere. But unfortunately we can't travel now.

I wasn't talking about hookers here, I was talking about real results with real girls from online apps, without money involved.

[junmin95]

I can't lie. I've always had the urge fuck every 2 days. I can go for a week without masturbating but the thought of not having sex only diverts my attention to using my hand for pleasure on a 2-3 days basis.

I'm short but lean and a little muscular. Similar to swimmer built. No girl ever approach or shown any interest in me even when I to do the leg work. so the thought of having a gf is out.

Paying for sex is fine but I don't have the money to pay for sex all the time cause leaves a dent in my wallet to be honest.

Online dating hookup... Well no one wants a short malay guy regardless if I were to be good looking or not. Tried every kind of dating app, zero no swipes, no chat. I even used a decent pic etc yet even my Chad friends are baffled at why I don't get any matches or replies when they're help me see through my profile. Yes, even the fat and unattractive ones don't reply or ghost me thereafter.

My only option at the moment is to go to a doctor and get this horniness fixed permanently like pill suppressant or vececstomy.

Or just play with my right hand until I die.

I'm not picky. Just unlucky.
No money for long term commercial sex, no gf, no fwb, no online dating but am fucking horny over the moon.

you can try blowjob your own kkj. might get too addictive though.

1. buy a nice brown hair wig.
2. buy a nice sexy dress and C cup padded bra.
3. wear the dress and bra and wig.
4. stand in front of mirror then touch yourself all over and think ish the girl touching you.
5. kum your own kkj and imagine is the girl trying to blow job you.

this is not ghey, it's just another way of masturbating.

[Penguin23]

I can't lie. I've always had the urge fuck every 2 days. I can go for a week without masturbating but the thought of not having sex only diverts my attention to using my hand for pleasure on a 2-3 days basis.

I'm short but lean and a little muscular. Similar to swimmer built. No girl ever approach or shown any interest in me even when I to do the leg work. so the thought of having a gf is out.

Paying for sex is fine but I don't have the money to pay for sex all the time cause leaves a dent in my wallet to be honest.

Online dating hookup... Well no one wants a short malay guy regardless if I were to be good looking or not. Tried every kind of dating app, zero no swipes, no chat. I even used a decent pic etc yet even my Chad friends are baffled at why I don't get any matches or replies when they're help me see through my profile. Yes, even the fat and unattractive ones don't reply or ghost me thereafter.

My only option at the moment is to go to a doctor and get this horniness fixed permanently like pill suppressant or vececstomy.

Or just play with my right hand until I die.

I'm not picky. Just unlucky.
No money for long term commercial sex, no gf, no fwb, no online dating but am fucking horny over the moon.

I think you need to look at your options logically. If you're a malay guy in SG without much money for commercial sex but stuck with a damn high sex drive then your best option will be to seek out lonely Indon maids. There are many of them in SG and for many of the younger ones, virtually any Malay guy here is a huge upgrade over the Indon guys they are used to seeing back home. Most Indon ladies are actually very approachable and for them there is little downside in getting to know a local.

The other option that is (unfortunately) closed for now, is to find a gf (of sorts) in Batam. Again it is a question of relative advantage. Virtually any Singaporean Malay man is viewed positively as a prospective partner, whereas over here trying to land yourself a local Minah pussy will require you to compete with (too many) others. Ditto chasing a Chinese or Indian pussy, even tougher since you have less common ground.

Not meant to insult in any way. I understand the difficult predicament of the Singaporean Malay man. To give you an analogy - your situation is the same as a fat Indo Chinese girl seeking an eligible Indo Chinese guy. Literally an ice cube chance in hell.

[catlord]

I think you need to look at your options logically. If you're a malay guy in SG without much money for commercial sex but stuck with a damn high sex drive then your best option will be to seek out lonely Indon maids. There are many of them in SG and for many of the younger ones, virtually any Malay guy here is a huge upgrade over the Indon guys they are used to seeing back home. Most Indon ladies are actually very approachable and for them there is little downside in getting to know a local.

The other option that is (unfortunately) closed for now, is to find a gf (of sorts) in Batam. Again it is a question of relative advantage. Virtually any Singaporean Malay man is viewed positively as a prospective partner, whereas over here trying to land yourself a local Minah pussy will require you to compete with (too many) others. Ditto chasing a Chinese or Indian pussy, even tougher since you have less common ground.

Not meant to insult in any way. I understand the difficult predicament of the Singaporean Malay man. To give you an analogy - your situation is the same as a fat Indo Chinese girl seeking an eligible Indo Chinese guy. Literally an ice cube chance in hell.

That's right, but how do you get maids in the first place? 2 options, online apps or cold approach them on sundays. Cold approach is basically not very good in SG, sure you hear stories that it works sometimes but in SG there's just no culture of talking to strangers. Girls here are suspicious of strangers who talk to them unlike in the US where they'll happily chat you up if you're interesting enough. And most guys here don't have the skills to cold open women and talk to them in a way for the women to be interested. You can't get better at something by not doing it, and we just don't talk to strangers in SG. You hear stories from girls of guys just coming up to them and asking for number straight without any conversation, that's just creepy. So cold approach is not a good option for most guys because most guys don't have the skills because SG is not a good place to practice cold approach skills.

That leaves online apps. It's true that maids are definitely easier (the low hanging fruits), but they are by no means easy. Once they are online they become any regular chick. Online apps in SG are still a sausage fest where there are way more guys than girls. Even guys who are doing reasonably well (for eg me) will not pass up easy pussy if it's good looking enough (I banged a maid 2 months ago). Maids used to be much easier 2-3 years ago, now I barely get them anymore. TS also said he gets no matches even from fat girls, I'm guessing from maids too. I think as online game gets tougher, guys who didn't go for them in the past are forced to go for them. As covid drags on, more guys will flock to online apps and competition will just become more stiff, even for the low hanging fruits like maids and fat girls. You'll need to step up your game and improve your profile, i.e. watch the vids I posted above.

Online is getting harder but still the most accessible form of game in SG. There are 3 ways of getting girls: online, cold approach or social circle. Cold approach as I said above is not good in SG, plus bars and clubs are still closed. Social circle is good, but if you're no longer in school or you don't have a job that lets you know a lot of chicks then you obviously don't have a social circle to fish from. And SG is a small place, it's hard to bang multiple girls without them knowing if you got them from social circle. That leaves online, which is getting harder because it's the most accessible but still doable. Most guys can't be bothered to go to the gym, work out, improve their fashion and take good pics, so if you do those you'll still stand out.

[Penguin23]

That's right, but how do you get maids in the first place? 2 options, online apps or cold approach them on sundays. Cold approach is basically not very good in SG, sure you hear stories that it works sometimes but in SG there's just no culture of talking to strangers. Girls here are suspicious of strangers who talk to them unlike in the US where they'll happily chat you up if you're interesting enough. And most guys here don't have the skills to cold open women and talk to them in a way for the women to be interested. You can't get better at something by not doing it, and we just don't talk to strangers in SG. You hear stories from girls of guys just coming up to them and asking for number straight without any conversation, that's just creepy. So cold approach is not a good option for most guys because most guys don't have the skills because SG is not a good place to practice cold approach skills.

That leaves online apps. It's true that maids are definitely easier (the low hanging fruits), but they are by no means easy. Once they are online they become any regular chick. Online apps in SG are still a sausage fest where there are way more guys than girls. Even guys who are doing reasonably well (for eg me) will not pass up easy pussy if it's good looking enough (I banged a maid 2 months ago). Maids used to be much easier 2-3 years ago, now I barely get them anymore. TS also said he gets no matches even from fat girls, I'm guessing from maids too. I think as online game gets tougher, guys who didn't go for them in the past are forced to go for them. As covid drags on, more guys will flock to online apps and competition will just become more stiff, even for the low hanging fruits like maids and fat girls. You'll need to step up your game and improve your profile, i.e. watch the vids I posted above.

Online is getting harder but still the most accessible form of game in SG. There are 3 ways of getting girls: online, cold approach or social circle. Cold approach as I said above is not good in SG, plus bars and clubs are still closed. Social circle is good, but if you're no longer in school or you don't have a job that lets you know a lot of chicks then you obviously don't have a social circle to fish from. And SG is a small place, it's hard to bang multiple girls without them knowing if you got them from social circle. That leaves online, which is getting harder because it's the most accessible but still doable. Most guys can't be bothered to go to the gym, work out, improve their fashion and take good pics, so if you do those you'll still stand out.

I wrote my previous piece in context of TS, who is a Malay guy so clearly he has a linguistic advantage over most of us here. Being of the same religion also helps, a lot of Indon maids here are Muslim though there are also many who are Hindu (from Bali) or Christians (Mainly from Sulawesi). For Indons, like Malays if you can speak the language you are more than halfway there.

If you are talking from the context of a local Chinese guy trying to go after an Indon maid, your chances are very much lower. Yes you can just use money to buy your way, and eventually you still get the pussy, but chances are you won't get that kind of emotional connection that makes the fuck extra special.

Unless you can speak better than the "pasar" Malay that most Chinese Singaporeans manage, you won't really understand the mentality of the typical Indon maid. Their lives are mostly boring, lonely and can be quite hard. In that precious off day that they get every week they truly want to feel special and if they find someone they can connect with, you can pretty much do anything you want with them. Money helps, of course but primarily they are looking for an emotional connection, something they can look forward too every weekend.

If you ever had a Malay or Indon gf before you will know what I mean. There's something about that race that makes their sex drive super high, Malay and Indon women need regular servicing much more than the typical local Chinese girl.

[catlord]

I wrote my previous piece in context of TS, who is a Malay guy so clearly he has a linguistic advantage over most of us here. Being of the same religion also helps, a lot of Indon maids here are Muslim though there are also many who are Hindu (from Bali) or Christians (Mainly from Sulawesi). For Indons, like Malays if you can speak the language you are more than halfway there.

If you are talking from the context of a local Chinese guy trying to go after an Indon maid, your chances are very much lower. Yes you can just use money to buy your way, and eventually you still get the pussy, but chances are you won't get that kind of emotional connection that makes the fuck extra special.

Unless you can speak better than the "pasar" Malay that most Chinese Singaporeans manage, you won't really understand the mentality of the typical Indon maid. Their lives are mostly boring, lonely and can be quite hard. In that precious off day that they get every week they truly want to feel special and if they find someone they can connect with, you can pretty much do anything you want with them. Money helps, of course but primarily they are looking for an emotional connection, something they can look forward too every weekend.

If you ever had a Malay or Indon gf before you will know what I mean. There's something about that race that makes their sex drive super high, Malay and Indon women need regular servicing much more than the typical local Chinese girl.

Haha bro, I do very well with maids. Without going into specifics, due to my background I have a strong connection with Indon maids, probably stronger than local malay guys ever can. That's why I did very well with them. A few years back when my game wasn't good enough to attract locals/expats, maids were my bread and butter. I could get 1-2 new maids every week from online no problem, without paying or using money. Like I said I have a big advantage with Indon maids, so even when my game wasn't great I still did super well with them. Yes they have very strong sex drives, I am very familiar with that. These days though, even for a guy like me they are not so easy to get anymore. I can probably get 1-2 new ones a month if I try hard enough. The market has changed, competition in online apps has increased as online apps became more mainstream over the years. It's getting harder in general to get girls online, including maids too. They're still easier than normal girls, but by no means "easy" now.

Btw not trying to argue with you bro, just having a discussion for the sake of TS. I don't think advice like "seek out maids" is very helpful. What does that even mean anyway? Only swipe right on maids and swipe left on all non-maid girls? Can't be, right. Anyway I don't think TS didn't go for maids. My guess is when he swipes, he also swipes right on maids. When you're horny and you have no options, you don't pass on fuckable chicks just because they're maids. Someone comfortable doing commercial sex or going to Orchard Towers would have no problems going for maids. So I think it's reasonable to assume he was going for maids too. But TS doesn't get matches, that means he doesn't get matches even from maids. So IMO his solution is to improve his profile, so that he gets more matches with girls in general, including maids too.

Don't get me wrong, if TS wasn't swiping right on maids before he definitely should. For reasons you mentioned, maids are the low hanging fruits for him and for most guys. But I think likely he's already doing that and still not getting results.

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For 2) I act normally around both old and young. And frankly I'm surrounded by loads of girls but the problem is, I'm not interested in them cause they are younger than my age. I like older women better. But generally no one said I act out differently. In fact, I'm kinda like the social guy in the group. Just so happen my pool of friends are mostly guys and that's it.

then just keep on fapping. it's not unusual to have such a sex drive anw