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JasonPhang
29-07-2021, 10:01 PM
I am gotta be honest here. Don’t zap me. I do spend a lot of money dating girls and impressing them.

I have bedded 36 girls from Tinder or CMB. 17 I slept with them on first dates. The other 15 I fucked on second dates. 2 on third dates. 2 more after many dates, one of it is a model, a bit dao.

On average, I spend about 600 on first date for nice dinner and drinks. The cheapest is just coffee and then go home.

I don’t know why after two dates you cannot score, chances of scoring become rather low. Anyone here can explain?

Don’t zap me. Don’t need to up me. I will share some details.

wantedbryan
29-07-2021, 11:47 PM
I am more interested in what you work as bro. 600 for a date is not easy to maintain

whelan22
30-07-2021, 12:18 AM
Don't fucking indulge this piece of shit in his multiple threads and deluded fantasies. Just a fucking loser behind a computer who keeps creating new accounts and new useless threads.

I repeat: do not feed the fucking troll.

JasonPhang
30-07-2021, 02:27 AM
I am more interested in what you work as bro. 600 for a date is not easy to maintain

Working for dad, bro

JasonPhang
30-07-2021, 02:28 AM
Don't fucking indulge this piece of shit in his multiple threads and deluded fantasies. Just a fucking loser behind a computer who keeps creating new accounts and new useless threads.

I repeat: do not feed the fucking troll.

We can agree to disagree. If they don’t ask I don’t elaborate

JasonPhang
30-07-2021, 02:39 AM
I realised something, if I tell you that I fucked a friend, you want to know the story of one time lucky. If I get lucky over last 8 years, 6 times a year, you are very jealous. Why?

evelynwong
30-07-2021, 09:56 AM
I realised something, if I tell you that I fucked a friend, you want to know the story of one time lucky. If I get lucky over last 8 years, 6 times a year, you are very jealous. Why?

just like strike toto, they cant win say its fake.

JasonPhang
30-07-2021, 02:18 PM
I really just try to remember my sweet memory

donut88
30-07-2021, 03:20 PM
It depends on what u aiming for with that gal.

Some gal, u like to slowly build the friendship before bedding. Some gals, u can just score on first date.

Those that u wan to spend more time building the friendship, u got to ask if is she worth your time and effort?

Sometimes, also no chemistry. No chemistry, just let her go. Don't waste time.



I am gotta be honest here. Don’t zap me. I do spend a lot of money dating girls and impressing them.

I have bedded 36 girls from Tinder or CMB. 17 I slept with them on first dates. The other 15 I fucked on second dates. 2 on third dates. 2 more after many dates, one of it is a model, a bit dao.

On average, I spend about 600 on first date for nice dinner and drinks. The cheapest is just coffee and then go home.

I don’t know why after two dates you cannot score, chances of scoring become rather low. Anyone here can explain?

Don’t zap me. Don’t need to up me. I will share some details.

fallen11
31-07-2021, 01:22 PM
I don’t know why after two dates you cannot score, chances of scoring become rather low. Anyone here can explain?

Don’t zap me. Don’t need to up me. I will share some details.

if you havent even figured out why "two dates you cannot score, chances of scoring become rather low", then i really doubt your story.
Guys who have bedded girls easily, all have knowledge about this already. Its a woman's thing.

wont zap you. Can keep the stories coming for entertainment in this tough period. :)

JasonPhang
01-08-2021, 04:11 AM
if you havent even figured out why "two dates you cannot score, chances of scoring become rather low", then i really doubt your story.
Guys who have bedded girls easily, all have knowledge about this already. Its a woman's thing.

wont zap you. Can keep the stories coming for entertainment in this tough period. :)

I would thought that they behave more differently. Turned out first two dates, most of them ok to fuck. Those that take 10 dates, the spell troubles

SadLoser
02-08-2021, 12:24 AM
if you havent even figured out why "two dates you cannot score, chances of scoring become rather low", then i really doubt your story.
Guys who have bedded girls easily, all have knowledge about this already. Its a woman's thing.

wont zap you. Can keep the stories coming for entertainment in this tough period. :)

QFT. I have the same experience. I noticed that for all my successful encounters, usually within the 1-2 dates will have become chummy with the gal. If after the first 2 dates still no action, then usually the subsequent dates are a pure waste of time & money, no happy endings one.

But I dun understand why. Is there some science behind this phenomenon haha? I thought gals prefer to have some chemistry, rapport-building with the guy first before going to bed. But it seems like gals now behave differently :cool:

Of cos this applies only to FWB encounters. Not those where I am chasing the gal for a proper relationship.

thor1981
02-08-2021, 01:05 AM
QFT. I have the same experience. I noticed that for all my successful encounters, usually within the 1-2 dates will have become chummy with the gal. If after the first 2 dates still no action, then usually the subsequent dates are a pure waste of time & money, no happy endings one.

But I dun understand why. Is there some science behind this phenomenon haha? I thought gals prefer to have some chemistry, rapport-building with the guy first before going to bed. But it seems like gals now behave differently :cool:

Of cos this applies only to FWB encounters. Not those where I am chasing the gal for a proper relationship.

yeah bro it is totally a science. because on tind/cmb girls are already prepared mentally to fuck and if you play cards right, 1-2 dates can get some action. weirdly it's easier to up tind girls on first date than normal dates who have to be warmed up first. but i dunno, girls on apps are in a different mindset, but its definitely a science lol :D

JasonPhang
02-08-2021, 03:07 AM
Agree. App girls no need to pretend especially if you have no common friends

JasonPhang
02-08-2021, 03:11 AM
I think Linkedin girl is high risk pursuit, but worth a try.

I have had the experience of success but way lesser than tinder would give me. 10% but it is another avenue.

#02 is 3 years older and invited me over. I brought some beer and after two cans she went wild and proven to be a great moaner. Scored on first date.

After 4 lucky months and not very selective scoring.

#12 was a PwC auditor and she is 6 years younger than me. Auditing can be a frustrating job, with a cap in income as there are many opportunities for the firm to hire foreigners. Met up at my place when parents are overseas and did it. We have many common connections.

#13 is working in DBS. Scored the next day on second date and she has a pair of lovely boobs. It was a very lucky weekedns.

#22 is a KPMG auditor. We meet up for a coffee and went to my house where it got escalated to a blow job. She went back to think for few months and finally decided to do it with me. It was only one off as auditor are citizen of high moral and it is not easy for them to have flings.

#34 is a consultant in EY. She is not your hiring auditor but not very experienced on bed. After few dates, I gave her some training in MBS.

No much luck lately as too many sis out there are calling us out for hunting on LinkedIn and I dowan my dad to find out. I

PS: I am director of my dad’s company and do willing to spend on them. I did not pay them, but I pay more for dining than FL rate.

Many unsuccessful attempts and wasted $5000 monthly when I was actively dining with LinkedIn friends.

Up me if you will, but don’t zap me bros. If you also empty your saving to attempt, you would succeed every 10 or 20 trials. I have decided that Tinder is better.

Jabba
02-08-2021, 06:00 AM
I went into Tinder and exclude the maids, most of them are degree holders

SammyLee88
05-08-2021, 06:30 PM
i do spent much time in sugarbook.com to find mate too...and 600 is not a big problem if your monthly income is superb

And is necessary to bring girl for good food at first date for good impression

SammyLee88
05-08-2021, 06:31 PM
I went into Tinder and exclude the maids, most of them are degree holders

then is high qualified girl, but is it materealistic too?

SammyLee88
05-08-2021, 06:32 PM
I would thought that they behave more differently. Turned out first two dates, most of them ok to fuck. Those that take 10 dates, the spell troubles

yey first few dates always sweet

SammyLee88
05-08-2021, 06:33 PM
I realised something, if I tell you that I fucked a friend, you want to know the story of one time lucky. If I get lucky over last 8 years, 6 times a year, you are very jealous. Why?

because you are more powerful

WinterMelonTree
06-08-2021, 01:18 AM
just like strike toto, they cant win say its fake.

True that! So many uncles, aunties jelly and say toto is fake lol

JasonPhang
06-08-2021, 01:30 AM
Actually tinder a lot of free sex. Nothing is really free, you buy them nice meals they get to upload to IG, you bring them to nice hotels

nurduh20
06-08-2021, 03:42 PM
I am gotta be honest here. Don’t zap me. I do spend a lot of money dating girls and impressing them.

I have bedded 36 girls from Tinder or CMB. 17 I slept with them on first dates. The other 15 I fucked on second dates. 2 on third dates. 2 more after many dates, one of it is a model, a bit dao.

On average, I spend about 600 on first date for nice dinner and drinks. The cheapest is just coffee and then go home.

I don’t know why after two dates you cannot score, chances of scoring become rather low. Anyone here can explain?

Don’t zap me. Don’t need to up me. I will share some details.
good, very good. u handsome/buff must be

beloving
06-08-2021, 08:33 PM
I think Linkedin girl is high risk pursuit, but worth a try.

I have had the experience of success but way lesser than tinder would give me. 10% but it is another avenue.

#02 is 3 years older and invited me over. I brought some beer and after two cans she went wild and proven to be a great moaner. Scored on first date.

After 4 lucky months and not very selective scoring.

#12 was a PwC auditor and she is 6 years younger than me. Auditing can be a frustrating job, with a cap in income as there are many opportunities for the firm to hire foreigners. Met up at my place when parents are overseas and did it. We have many common connections.

#13 is working in DBS. Scored the next day on second date and she has a pair of lovely boobs. It was a very lucky weekedns.

#22 is a KPMG auditor. We meet up for a coffee and went to my house where it got escalated to a blow job. She went back to think for few months and finally decided to do it with me. It was only one off as auditor are citizen of high moral and it is not easy for them to have flings.

#34 is a consultant in EY. She is not your hiring auditor but not very experienced on bed. After few dates, I gave her some training in MBS.

No much luck lately as too many sis out there are calling us out for hunting on LinkedIn and I dowan my dad to find out. I

PS: I am director of my dad’s company and do willing to spend on them. I did not pay them, but I pay more for dining than FL rate.

Many unsuccessful attempts and wasted $5000 monthly when I was actively dining with LinkedIn friends.

Up me if you will, but don’t zap me bros. If you also empty your saving to attempt, you would succeed every 10 or 20 trials. I have decided that Tinder is better.

wah bro, you spend $5k on girls and dating ah. Share more of your pro tips leh.

ibanezjem555
06-08-2021, 09:51 PM
The ROI is lousy.. $5000 can bed 25 FLs.. so in a year should be doing 25 x 52...
If I am not mistaken, is this the same Bro TS who uppz different shape n size, then felt guilty n unfulfilled ?

Give half to charity, still got lots left to chiong... Calculations not correct leh

sgsingaboy
06-08-2021, 10:54 PM
Different level la this bro. TS must be in the top 0.0001% top earners in SG to casually drop 5k pm for random dates.

Our ROI more like dollar per shot for working ladies. His ROI not for working ladies and he mass market do so many dates.

loneyheart
06-08-2021, 11:44 PM
Top earner ?
Nothing but a 二世祖。。Just keep his fingers cross hoping his father business doing well during Covid19 .. Maybe he not even know how hard his dad making his $$$ ... Who care
Dum ask him give to charity he may not know what is it for

Nom I read n passed with a smile .... sorry for my remark :)

JasonPhang
08-08-2021, 01:31 PM
I admit that some money is given to me by my father, but I do contribute to the growth of the company

decipher
08-08-2021, 02:09 PM
Some in this fucks without paying

Others pay to fuck

But using dad's money to pay for fucks .....

ahhahahahhahahahhaahahahahahhahaaa :D

ilovepantyhose
08-08-2021, 02:27 PM
397413

:p:p:D:D

georgie1994
09-08-2021, 08:33 PM
i do search from sugarbook and tinder but my first purpose is not to fuck them but to become friend with them

georgie1994
09-08-2021, 08:34 PM
I went into Tinder and exclude the maids, most of them are degree holders

yes so do in sbook

georgie1994
09-08-2021, 08:35 PM
just like strike toto, they cant win say its fake.

people heart is like that, cannot eat the grape then say the grape is sour

georgie1994
09-08-2021, 08:36 PM
easy or not depends on the people and how you tham the girl

memorablez
29-09-2021, 12:50 AM
Ignore. Wrong thread. Paisehs

McMahon
29-09-2021, 01:31 AM
easy or not depends on the people and how you tham the girl

Very well said

firerock1
29-09-2021, 11:25 AM
Just curious. Do you think you can bed them without spending $600 bucks per date? I.e at a lower cost.

Piledriver
29-09-2021, 12:22 PM
Just curious. Do you think you can bed them without spending $600 bucks per date? I.e at a lower cost.

Bro, why do you have to spend $600 on a date? You bring her to fine dining, or you hired a limo driver?

Seriously, if you have to spend so much, then obviously you are doing it wrong. Its all about how much sexual desire you can fire up in the woman. If you can't do that, then you can spend $1,000 and still see no action.

I did hook one local teacher a few years back from one of the popular dating websites (Not Tinder). Took me 3 meet ups to bed her. Total I spent was less than $200. Yes, we fucked at Hotel81. You don't need a 5-star hotel.

Our first meet up was at a coffee joint. You don't need to spend $600 to drink coffee. Heck, you can even plan your first meet up at your neighborhood park. That's what I did with another gal. And its free.

firerock1
29-09-2021, 02:39 PM
Bro, why do you have to spend $600 on a date? You bring her to fine dining, or you hired a limo driver?

Seriously, if you have to spend so much, then obviously you are doing it wrong. Its all about how much sexual desire you can fire up in the woman. If you can't do that, then you can spend $1,000 and still see no action.

I did hook one local teacher a few years back from one of the popular dating websites (Not Tinder). Took me 3 meet ups to bed her. Total I spent was less than $200. Yes, we fucked at Hotel81. You don't need a 5-star hotel.

Our first meet up was at a coffee joint. You don't need to spend $600 to drink coffee. Heck, you can even plan your first meet up at your neighborhood park. That's what I did with another gal. And its free.

Haha bro I did not spend $600, the thread starter did. I was curious why he had to spend so much on dates lol. Haha anyway bro how do you amp sexual desire in a woman from your honest perspective? It will be interesting to hear.

james38
29-09-2021, 03:03 PM
Aiyo bros..... is common sense lah.... of course it is easier to bed girls if u are willing to spend money on her. Bring her to expensive high class restaurant, order a bottle of wine, talk like a very rich man. Your chance of bedding her will be very high. If after 2nd try, still cannot get, it just mean that the lady belongs to those experienced type, always play hard to get type. U need to spend more time and efforts to steal their hearts in order to bed them.

However, if u only bring her to hawker centre and order beer, chances is quite low. U can only bed her if u are a damn good sweet talker.

James

monsterman91
29-09-2021, 03:19 PM
wa any tips? 😁

Bro, why do you have to spend $600 on a date? You bring her to fine dining, or you hired a limo driver?

Seriously, if you have to spend so much, then obviously you are doing it wrong. Its all about how much sexual desire you can fire up in the woman. If you can't do that, then you can spend $1,000 and still see no action.

I did hook one local teacher a few years back from one of the popular dating websites (Not Tinder). Took me 3 meet ups to bed her. Total I spent was less than $200. Yes, we fucked at Hotel81. You don't need a 5-star hotel.

Our first meet up was at a coffee joint. You don't need to spend $600 to drink coffee. Heck, you can even plan your first meet up at your neighborhood park. That's what I did with another gal. And its free.

entering
29-09-2021, 07:17 PM
Aiyo bros..... is common sense lah.... of course it is easier to bed girls if u are willing to spend money on her. Bring her to expensive high class restaurant, order a bottle of wine, talk like a very rich man. Your chance of bedding her will be very high. If after 2nd try, still cannot get, it just mean that the lady belongs to those experienced type, always play hard to get type. U need to spend more time and efforts to steal their hearts in order to bed them.

However, if u only bring her to hawker centre and order beer, chances is quite low. U can only bed her if u are a damn good sweet talker.

James

Unless.... Your date is a maid, then coffeeshop is OK. ✌️

wantedbryan
29-09-2021, 08:16 PM
If you are spending $600 per date I rather you go find FL or something.
The fun of Tinder is to fish without spending FL money.

I have fuck girls on app even without going on any dates. just chat/sext online and meet up for sex. no dates at all.

McMahon
29-09-2021, 08:17 PM
If you are spending $600 per date I rather you go find FL or something.
The fun of Tinder is to fish without spending FL money.


You make a good point there

saipot
29-09-2021, 08:18 PM
Unless.... Your date is a maid, then coffeeshop is OK. ✌️

If she is the maid of the a certain minister, you can ask her where she want to eat - hawker centre, coffee shop or food court :D

Piledriver
30-09-2021, 08:45 PM
Haha bro I did not spend $600, the thread starter did. I was curious why he had to spend so much on dates lol. Haha anyway bro how do you amp sexual desire in a woman from your honest perspective? It will be interesting to hear.

I can see that there are already some bros here giving away very useful tips on how to turn a woman on in other threads. You can go search them out.

I'll just add on some of my own tips. First impression counts, so make sure that you look sharp and smell amazing on that first meetup. And try to avoid dinner date. Waste of money, and there will be plenty of awkward moments.

Meet at some secluded place. If she is willing to meet at these kind of places, then she's definitely game. Its easier to escalate from there. And for some bros, they meet straight at the hotel. Its child's play for them.

I hate to say this, but you do need to know how to sweet talk. Women are turned on by words. Throw some sweet compliments, crack some sexy humour, initiate lots of touching. If you are not touching her, that means you are friend-zoned. From touching, you can then test water. Push your boundaries step by step. Hand, arm, waist, inner thigh.... and see how far your lady is willing to go.

Be bold. Because pussies favor the brave.

TuttiFruitti
30-09-2021, 09:10 PM
Be bold. Because pussies favor the brave.

Men are grown up sperm. Ladies are grown up eggs! The first to get into the egg wins! ;)

JasonPhang
01-10-2021, 02:19 AM
Drink a cup of coffee and kiss in the car park. Then, go to hotel next.

firerock1
01-10-2021, 04:17 PM
I can see that there are already some bros here giving away very useful tips on how to turn a woman on in other threads. You can go search them out.

I'll just add on some of my own tips. First impression counts, so make sure that you look sharp and smell amazing on that first meetup. And try to avoid dinner date. Waste of money, and there will be plenty of awkward moments.

Meet at some secluded place. If she is willing to meet at these kind of places, then she's definitely game. Its easier to escalate from there. And for some bros, they meet straight at the hotel. Its child's play for them.

I hate to say this, but you do need to know how to sweet talk. Women are turned on by words. Throw some sweet compliments, crack some sexy humour, initiate lots of touching. If you are not touching her, that means you are friend-zoned. From touching, you can then test water. Push your boundaries step by step. Hand, arm, waist, inner thigh.... and see how far your lady is willing to go.

Be bold. Because pussies favor the brave.


Thanks bro! you have summarised seduction in one simple post. Appreciate it. Up your points.

singmarine
01-10-2021, 05:51 PM
I never have such luck. In fact, is even very hard to even get their HP/Watsapp. Most girls tend to ghost you after sometime. Share more tips please!!!

bigmannow
01-10-2021, 10:04 PM
I find a lot of them want long term relationship , to be their bf and marriage.

I met one PRC last time on wechat asking for r/s but of cos i din want so later she just disappeared.

georgie1994
02-10-2021, 06:54 PM
my girl in sugarbook, sex on first date, second too long

georgie1994
02-10-2021, 06:54 PM
Men are grown up sperm. Ladies are grown up eggs! The first to get into the egg wins! ;)

if sperm meet egg then is really drastic woo haa

georgie1994
02-10-2021, 07:14 PM
If she is the maid of the a certain minister, you can ask her where she want to eat - hawker centre, coffee shop or food court :D

hmm...they not so choosy compare to other girls

georgie1994
02-10-2021, 07:15 PM
money is good way of impressing but not long term way

wantedbryan
02-10-2021, 07:23 PM
I find a lot of them want long term relationship , to be their bf and marriage.

I met one PRC last time on wechat asking for r/s but of cos i din want so later she just disappeared.

Take it as a good sign that they disappear. safe your time also. i would say that that there are more girls looking for serious r/s then those down to fuck.
The game get interesting with those half half girls, normally a good girl but become a slut when you press the correct buttons. those girls also become more sticky in the long run.

singmarine
04-10-2021, 08:41 AM
my girl in sugarbook, sex on first date, second too long

How much to pay to get into sugarbook?

Piledriver
06-10-2021, 07:09 PM
I never have such luck. In fact, is even very hard to even get their HP/Watsapp. Most girls tend to ghost you after sometime. Share more tips please!!!

What kind of tips would you like to know? Maybe I can help.

Lemonjuice
07-10-2021, 05:34 AM
If you are spending $600 per date I rather you go find FL or something.
The fun of Tinder is to fish without spending FL money.

I have fuck girls on app even without going on any dates. just chat/sext online and meet up for sex. no dates at all.

Many GCP on Tinder explicitly saying no to fwb. Should I just ignore that?

How to tell it the ladies are DTF?

singmarine
07-10-2021, 07:10 AM
What kind of tips would you like to know? Maybe I can help.

I used to have a couple of different girls colleagues. We were very close to each other share work gossips, dine alone often after work even hold hands, hug etc. One day, she decided just to stop everything claim that we should keep a distance. Totally stop talking to me, treat me as total stranger with enmity, not reply my msg etc. I also dunno what she thinking.

wantedbryan
07-10-2021, 08:47 AM
Many GCP on Tinder explicitly saying no to fwb. Should I just ignore that?

How to tell it the ladies are DTF?

I would still try but of cos test water during the conv first. I encounter profile that says NO FB, NO ONS, NO SEXT but we end up sexting and fucking on the first date.

some people put that in case their real life friends see their profile.

Piledriver
07-10-2021, 11:03 AM
I used to have a couple of different girls colleagues. We were very close to each other share work gossips, dine alone often after work even hold hands, hug etc. One day, she decided just to stop everything claim that we should keep a distance. Totally stop talking to me, treat me as total stranger with enmity, not reply my msg etc. I also dunno what she thinking.

This is very normal, bro. Is she single, attached or married? You are already holding hands and hugging her. Why don't you move in for the kiss when you hug her?

Right now, she is just testing you to see what you are made of. That's what women love to do. They are emotional creatures. They blow hot and cold.

So you stand your ground. Show her that you are not affected by this shit that she's throwing at you. Act normal in front of her. Look, you are both colleagues. Work issues will crop up, and you have to talk to each other at some point.

Smile at her. Give her that loving look. Throw some sweet compliments. But maintain a cold voice when talking to her about work to throw her off. You give her as good as you are getting. You need to warm her up again.

Piledriver
07-10-2021, 11:14 AM
I would still try but of cos test water during the conv first. I encounter profile that says NO FB, NO ONS, NO SEXT but we end up sexting and fucking on the first date.

some people put that in case their real life friends see their profile.

That's right, bro. The women can write whatever they want on their profile. It really doesn't matter what the fark they write.

Of course they won't say openly that they are DTF due to social conditioning- they don't want to be seen as a slut. Although deep down inside, most of them have that little slut in them.

The bros just need to ignore what they write, and go push the boundaries. If you never try, you'll never know. Like what the great ice hockey player Wayne Gretzky said,"I miss 100% of the shots I did not take".

unsung80
07-10-2021, 11:18 AM
I would still try but of cos test water during the conv first. I encounter profile that says NO FB, NO ONS, NO SEXT but we end up sexting and fucking on the first date.

some people put that in case their real life friends see their profile.

To avoid desperate men that's why a lot of NOs. But once click, jackpot! :D

SadLoser
09-10-2021, 02:43 AM
I'll just add on some of my own tips. First impression counts, so make sure that you look sharp and smell amazing on that first meetup. And try to avoid dinner date. Waste of money, and there will be plenty of awkward moments.

Meet at some secluded place. If she is willing to meet at these kind of places, then she's definitely game. Its easier to escalate from there. And for some bros, they meet straight at the hotel. Its child's play for them.

I hate to say this, but you do need to know how to sweet talk. Women are turned on by words. Throw some sweet compliments, crack some sexy humour, initiate lots of touching. If you are not touching her, that means you are friend-zoned. From touching, you can then test water. Push your boundaries step by step. Hand, arm, waist, inner thigh.... and see how far your lady is willing to go.

Be bold. Because pussies favor the brave.

Awesome tips bro. I literally just posted the same questions on another thread about Tinder gals.
I got no such luck. Most of the gals I matched with are the serious no-nonsense OLs in their 30s.

Maybe cos I am not good-looking, can't get matches with syts or xmms :(
Also I noticed many gals profile will highlight- "Not into ONS/FWB" or "Only serious relationships". I always thought that gals are very conservative on dating apps.

But after reading the stories here, seems like reality is a different story. Makes me so confused now :o

Are there any tips which will help my profile looks more attractive to the gals in the first place?

SadLoser
09-10-2021, 02:50 AM
For me I have not much luck on Tinder/OKC.

Most of the gals I matched are those very decent, no-nonsense OLs in their 30s. Dun seem like got any chance for a hook-up. And even they will ghost me after a few weeks of convo. Feel like always need to put in a lot of effort just to sustain the conversation. Pretty tiring and feels very one-sided for me.

Probably cos their interest level in me is low right from the start. Like always expecting me to initiate and continue the conversation. Managed to meet a few in person, but also not much chemistry and can tell they not interested in me

In the end still must spend money go spa for happy endings otherwise feel damm emo :(

LordVader
09-10-2021, 10:35 AM
And try to avoid dinner date. Waste of money, and there will be plenty of awkward moments.

This one probably depends on the comfort level you have with the lady.

Durianinthesky
09-10-2021, 11:40 AM
I can see that there are already some bros here giving away very useful tips on how to turn a woman on in other threads. You can go search them out.

I'll just add on some of my own tips. First impression counts, so make sure that you look sharp and smell amazing on that first meetup. And try to avoid dinner date. Waste of money, and there will be plenty of awkward moments.

Meet at some secluded place. If she is willing to meet at these kind of places, then she's definitely game. Its easier to escalate from there. And for some bros, they meet straight at the hotel. Its child's play for them.

I hate to say this, but you do need to know how to sweet talk. Women are turned on by words. Throw some sweet compliments, crack some sexy humour, initiate lots of touching. If you are not touching her, that means you are friend-zoned. From touching, you can then test water. Push your boundaries step by step. Hand, arm, waist, inner thigh.... and see how far your lady is willing to go.

Be bold. Because pussies favor the brave.


Thus is a pro here haha. Thumbs up for u

JasonPhang
09-10-2021, 04:00 PM
Many girls that no FWB will let you fuck within three dates.

They just don’t want their friend to know.

Roytt8
09-10-2021, 11:37 PM
Many girls that no FWB will let you fuck within three dates.

They just don’t want their friend to know.

Must be from an experienced samster. Agreed.

Roytt8
10-10-2021, 01:09 AM
Drink a cup of coffee and kiss in the car park. Then, go to hotel next.

Low cost economical. Good try !!

SammyLee88
11-10-2021, 09:19 PM
you can try sugarbook.live, perhaps you get better result and not that hurt

SammyLee88
11-10-2021, 09:20 PM
Low cost economical. Good try !!

first date like this, hard to get second date

SammyLee88
11-10-2021, 09:21 PM
Just curious. Do you think you can bed them without spending $600 bucks per date? I.e at a lower cost.

why not? you pay for the quality

SammyLee88
11-10-2021, 09:21 PM
all girls depends on their character, cannot conclude one in all girls

Olympig2014
12-10-2021, 01:55 AM
all girls depends on their character, cannot conclude one in all girls

Of course, all girls have different pussies too.

romanx24
12-10-2021, 02:46 AM
If cannot fck on first date, then second, or else no need waste time... can wait till swipe the one down to fck... catch the one who is horny mode, differnt gal will be in heat each week, when not horny they ignore but when find one in heat, she will want more than u

Piledriver
12-10-2021, 01:30 PM
But after reading the stories here, seems like reality is a different story. Makes me so confused now :o

Are there any tips which will help my profile looks more attractive to the gals in the first place?

For your primary pic, make sure you look your best with neatly styled hair and a nice outfit. You can take a selfie or ask your friend to take for you. Half-body will do. And make sure you SMILE.

Add in another 3 or 4 pics of you engaging in some outdoor activities. The women would want to know that you are living an active lifestyle, and not someone who's boring like deadwood.

Yes, it can be confusing. It can be frustrating. That's because women cannot think logically or rationally like men. They go by emotions.

For me I have not much luck on Tinder/OKC.

Most of the gals I matched are those very decent, no-nonsense OLs in their 30s. Dun seem like got any chance for a hook-up. And even they will ghost me after a few weeks of convo. Feel like always need to put in a lot of effort just to sustain the conversation. Pretty tiring and feels very one-sided for me.

Probably cos their interest level in me is low right from the start. Like always expecting me to initiate and continue the conversation. (

What kind of convos are you engaging the women with? If you are engaging them with "Hi, how's your day?", "How's your work?", or "Have you taken your dinner?", then chances are they will happily ghost you and never to return. Because 99 other guys have done the same thing as you, and failed.

If you want to stand out from the crowd, you need to do something different that 99 other guys are not doing. Make sense?

bigmannow
12-10-2021, 06:09 PM
Sounds like a match making guru …

spawnic
20-10-2021, 10:50 AM
all girls depends on their character, cannot conclude one in all girls

Yup...depends on your luck and skill. If the girls shows off their best side in their pics....you stand a higher chance....

Enjoy Bro!

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jokespi
20-10-2021, 10:53 AM
Nice share bro....any stories to go along?


Yup...depends on your luck and skill. If the girls shows off their best side in their pics....you stand a higher chance....

Enjoy Bro!

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LordVader
20-10-2021, 11:45 AM
Yup...depends on your luck and skill. If the girls shows off their best side in their pics....you stand a higher chance....

Enjoy Bro!


Girls pic, dime a dozen from google. What's the context with the pics? Or are you posting cos you think it might increase your 'points'?

If you like posting pics so much, there is a pic exchange link. Don't just post and clutter up the discussion unless there is some context to it?

spawnic
20-10-2021, 12:29 PM
Piledriver;20880297 you hit the nail with what you said :) :) :)

spawnic
20-10-2021, 12:32 PM
romanx24 Yes bro....plenty of targets to go around. :)

If cannot fck on first date, then second, or else no need waste time... can wait till swipe the one down to fck... catch the one who is horny mode, differnt gal will be in heat each week, when not horny they ignore but when find one in heat, she will want more than u

Grimfell
20-10-2021, 12:45 PM
What kind of tips would you like to know? Maybe I can help.

What kind of content do you write in your profile?

JasonPhang
20-10-2021, 03:09 PM
They feel like slut if they let you fuck on first date

georgie1994
20-10-2021, 09:22 PM
tinder girl, sugarbook girl, cmb girl mostly same, similar type if girl

georgie1994
20-10-2021, 09:24 PM
all girls depends on their character, cannot conclude one in all girls

i do meet girl in sugarbook.live so often and my dating out rate is also high

georgie1994
20-10-2021, 09:25 PM
if you leave people with good impression, there is no reason they do not want to continue date with you

georgie1994
20-10-2021, 09:26 PM
If she is the maid of the a certain minister, you can ask her where she want to eat - hawker centre, coffee shop or food court :D

which choice would you continue for a second date?

georgie1994
20-10-2021, 09:26 PM
Many girls that no FWB will let you fuck within three dates.

They just don’t want their friend to know.

is it that easy?

Piledriver
22-10-2021, 08:59 PM
What kind of content do you write in your profile?

Check your PM, bro :)

SadLoser
23-10-2021, 12:37 AM
Check your PM, bro :)

Bro do u mind sharing the contents of what to include inside my profile too...

Trying to uppz my profile to see if got better luck with scoring a date or fling :o

JasonPhang
23-10-2021, 02:05 AM
is it that easy?

Quite easy. Kiss them after drinks

Fuckjasonphang
23-10-2021, 02:24 PM
Quite easy. Kiss them after drinks

Easy like your mum, bloody bastard.

Fuckjasonphang
23-10-2021, 02:26 PM
Quite easy. Kiss them after drinks

You shall burn in hell for all the woman you cheated. Bloody bastard.

JasonPhang
23-10-2021, 02:36 PM
Why you hate me

Fuckjasonphang
23-10-2021, 04:03 PM
Why you hate me

You will know it very soon. I will personally ensure that your photos are over Internet. For all that you have done, I hope that there will be retribution for your offspring. Bloody idiot

jokespi
23-10-2021, 05:00 PM
Why so angry bro? Sounds like Jason mess with your girl/wife? Or did he cut yr moves?

You will know it very soon. I will personally ensure that your photos are over Internet. For all that you have done, I hope that there will be retribution for your offspring. Bloody idiot

firerock1
23-10-2021, 08:20 PM
You will know it very soon. I will personally ensure that your photos are over Internet. For all that you have done, I hope that there will be retribution for your offspring. Bloody idiot

Lol bro what did Jason did that you have to create another account to scold him and how you know its the same person?

spawnic
26-11-2021, 12:39 PM
After the nights deed you wake at the crack of dawn to admire your masterpiece in the dark...

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JasonPhang
26-11-2021, 01:57 PM
After the nights deed you wake at the crack of dawn to admire your masterpiece in the dark...

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Nice. Some tinder girls really let us record video. So crazy.

Up u bro

zetrio2002
26-11-2021, 02:27 PM
Wow her figure is really good. Boobs and buttoms are huge.

JustRandomGUY
26-11-2021, 10:32 PM
Is it a must to subscribe to gold member/upgrade membership to be successful?tinder said i got a few like but i muat pay to see

CheesEGGer
27-11-2021, 12:57 AM
Check your PM, bro :)

Hey bro you mind sharing too? Haha!

Danetan19
27-11-2021, 01:59 PM
Chatted up with a match last night and fast game arranged to meet today for lunch. Thought gonna get laid alr in the end turned to be a good innocent mainland girl only🙄 (we both used fake photos which I thought she wanted to be discreet)

Keep saying oni friends friends

JasonPhang
20-02-2022, 03:20 PM
I think the trick is to invite her over. Like go out for two drinks and ask to continue at your place.

Those foreigners with employment pass that only rent at HDB love to hang out at nice apartments.

Once in your house, mai tu liao.

Any similar experience?

jokespi
20-02-2022, 03:37 PM
I think the trick is to invite her over. Like go out for two drinks and ask to continue at your place.

Those foreigners with employment pass that only rent at HDB love to hang out at nice apartments.

Once in your house, mai tu liao.

Any similar experience?

Yup definitely....had a similar rendezvous with tinder girls...with same strategy...so far success rate been good

Damade
21-02-2022, 12:47 AM
Yup definitely....had a similar rendezvous with tinder girls...with same strategy...so far success rate been good

Very spot on. Even local gals too. The moment they willing go your place it is 90% on. Worst off, you can try heavy kissing or petting.

JasonPhang
21-02-2022, 02:11 PM
Yup definitely....had a similar rendezvous with tinder girls...with same strategy...so far success rate been good

Can share details like going out with two girls a week and out of 8 girls in a month, 3 ok to go to your place and you fucked 2 and get bj from another?

Quite cute they say I cannot let you fuck, I help you suck can?

JasonPhang
21-02-2022, 02:11 PM
Very spot on. Even local gals too. The moment they willing go your place it is 90% on. Worst off, you can try heavy kissing or petting.

How often you find local girls like to go or your place ?

UncleHasBeen
21-02-2022, 02:17 PM
You will know it very soon. I will personally ensure that your photos are over Internet. For all that you have done, I hope that there will be retribution for your offspring. Bloody idiot

What the?
U created the username just for him?
Your tone makes me incline to think u are actually a female.

Damade
21-02-2022, 03:57 PM
How often you find local girls like to go or your place ?

Well i only have 2 strikes with local sg gals. Two came my place and we did it. So ya 100% heh. But i live alone, renting a one bedder. One came after her muay thai .. sweaty and tight. Another we had dinner, then i said i hv japanese gin and asked if she would like to try at my place. She said ok and she drove me back ( i hv no car, only grab ).

Damade
21-02-2022, 04:03 PM
Can share details like going out with two girls a week and out of 8 girls in a month, 3 ok to go to your place and you fucked 2 and get bj from another?

Quite cute they say I cannot let you fuck, I help you suck can?

No or most girls wanna look or sound like a slut. Almost all will say no or compensate. But once alcohol and you give them reasons to fuck or you play with their pussies, sure no prob. Once i had girl tinder matched in kl. She said she will only play around, no fucking. But alcohol and i rubbed her pussy while she sucked me, she suddenly take off her panty, asked if im safe, and put my dick intp her pussy herself. Blamed me after , soi said well you had fun right..and we continued second round

SammyLee88
21-02-2022, 07:35 PM
sugarbook.com is better, no need to pay for knowing people

SammyLee88
21-02-2022, 07:36 PM
No or most girls wanna look or sound like a slut. Almost all will say no or compensate. But once alcohol and you give them reasons to fuck or you play with their pussies, sure no prob. Once i had girl tinder matched in kl. She said she will only play around, no fucking. But alcohol and i rubbed her pussy while she sucked me, she suddenly take off her panty, asked if im safe, and put my dick intp her pussy herself. Blamed me after , soi said well you had fun right..and we continued second round

alcohol made people mind a bit blurry

SammyLee88
21-02-2022, 07:37 PM
How often you find local girls like to go or your place ?

usually i will go out with guy that give me good impression

jokespi
21-02-2022, 07:38 PM
Can share details like going out with two girls a week and out of 8 girls in a month, 3 ok to go to your place and you fucked 2 and get bj from another?

Quite cute they say I cannot let you fuck, I help you suck can?

A few....recent ones was a preschool teacher married looking to explore. Invited her over after dinner to continue drinking. One thing led to another she ended soakingthe bed sheet. Very vocal and wet experience.

Another was an investment consultant with a bank along battery road. Chated for sometime and one find day made a joke when she said was bored to come over to my place. As 2 bored people will be much more fun than one...and I can order her favourite food and drinks.

She ened spending the night and was utterly exhausted ...lol

Having your place definitely has its perks.

secretlurker88
21-02-2022, 07:42 PM
guys, how much do you pay to rent your own place? or did you buy? how much..

SammyLee88
21-02-2022, 07:47 PM
Well i only have 2 strikes with local sg gals. Two came my place and we did it. So ya 100% heh. But i live alone, renting a one bedder. One came after her muay thai .. sweaty and tight. Another we had dinner, then i said i hv japanese gin and asked if she would like to try at my place. She said ok and she drove me back ( i hv no car, only grab ).

you are so lucky to get this sexy girl

GaryRatface
21-02-2022, 08:20 PM
sugarbook.com is better, no need to pay for knowing people

You get a few girls for me to fuck first then I'll believe you

Damade
21-02-2022, 10:06 PM
alcohol made people mind a bit blurry

Blurr is a fake word. It just take out their inhibitions and make them or us braver, succumb to out body feeling than our mind controlling

Damade
21-02-2022, 10:10 PM
you are so lucky to get this sexy girl

Lucky is the right word. In singapore because of choices available, guys need to work so much harder. Handsome is one but at least gotta be funny or look presentable. Both at least haih. My another friend who is good looking, gets so many hot chicks matches.

embracez
23-02-2022, 12:15 AM
Quick check

Do you put real photo on sugarbook live?

If not , what photo to put?

huangxiaolung
23-02-2022, 03:27 AM
Quick check

Do you put real photo on sugarbook live?

If not , what photo to put?

Err.... Andy Lau? :D

jokespi
23-02-2022, 09:52 AM
Quick check

Do you put real photo on sugarbook live?

If not , what photo to put?

Maybe a pic you holding...stack of $100 bill besides a ferrari that shld get you some good responses....lol

crayb
23-02-2022, 10:11 AM
all the bros here so solid one ah?

i barely get any matches let alone hook ups. :(

embracez
23-02-2022, 12:34 PM
Haha I think all the bro here solid , can sugar so many girls


Thanks for the photo comments. I asked cos some are married and also if you put a fake photo, won’t it be weird when the meet up happen? Lol

JasonPhang
24-02-2022, 04:59 PM
Haha I think all the bro here solid , can sugar so many girls


Thanks for the photo comments. I asked cos some are married and also if you put a fake photo, won’t it be weird when the meet up happen? Lol

If you can spend a lot of money when meet up they will forgive you.

9pokes
15-03-2022, 09:16 AM
I can see that there are already some bros here giving away very useful tips on how to turn a woman on in other threads. You can go search them out.

I'll just add on some of my own tips. First impression counts, so make sure that you look sharp and smell amazing on that first meetup. And try to avoid dinner date. Waste of money, and there will be plenty of awkward moments.

Meet at some secluded place. If she is willing to meet at these kind of places, then she's definitely game. Its easier to escalate from there. And for some bros, they meet straight at the hotel. Its child's play for them.

I hate to say this, but you do need to know how to sweet talk. Women are turned on by words. Throw some sweet compliments, crack some sexy humour, initiate lots of touching. If you are not touching her, that means you are friend-zoned. From touching, you can then test water. Push your boundaries step by step. Hand, arm, waist, inner thigh.... and see how far your lady is willing to go.

Be bold. Because pussies favor the brave.

Hi bro mind sharing what's the rationale behind preferring lunch over dinner? Isn't it easier to propose drinks and lead to more over dinner rather than lunch :confused:

thedevil666
15-03-2022, 02:26 PM
Hi bro mind sharing what's the rationale behind preferring lunch over dinner? Isn't it easier to propose drinks and lead to more over dinner rather than lunch :confused:

Then might as well just meet for drinks. U can skip step 1 which is not important.

Piledriver
15-03-2022, 08:54 PM
Hi bro mind sharing what's the rationale behind preferring lunch over dinner? Isn't it easier to propose drinks and lead to more over dinner rather than lunch :confused:

Maybe I am not clear enough. What I mean is stay away from a meals-only meetup i.e lunch, breakfast, supper, etc. You can always treat your lady to a good meal as a reward after you've fucked her.

Better to just meet for coffee or straight to drinks. Or meet at some secluded spot that's perfect for escalation.

9pokes
17-03-2022, 05:54 PM
Then might as well just meet for drinks. U can skip step 1 which is not important.

So in a way use her willingness to solely meet up for drinks as a siever first?

9pokes
17-03-2022, 05:56 PM
Maybe I am not clear enough. What I mean is stay away from a meals-only meetup i.e lunch, breakfast, supper, etc. You can always treat your lady to a good meal as a reward after you've fucked her.

Better to just meet for coffee or straight to drinks. Or meet at some secluded spot that's perfect for escalation.

Ahh i see, i was always of the mentality to go for dinner like a normal date first then move on to drinks and find chances for escalation afterwards

Damade
18-03-2022, 07:41 AM
[QUOTE=Piledriver;21155601] Be Bold . Pussy favors the brace

This is so true! Definitely while looks help, it is the words and comfort that the chicks get from you that will make them stay and repeat.

Be confident even if you have to fake it. But not arrogant unless it is used to dare her to stuffs. I find a lot of sg ladies cannot be dared. Somehow they need to shownthat they can and wants your approval. Compare to other countries. Try like - i bet you can’t finish even a few sips of absinthe .. i bet you can’t do 2 wine and whisky in 1 min etc etc.. then i bet you cannot hug me with your arms or after long night, say i heard girls with lips like yours are good kissers - are you because i dont hink so. Or whisper i bet you cannot stand being high if i kiss your neck.. you all get the drift

nathansee
22-03-2022, 12:55 PM
Just like to share an experience with a Japanese lady that I met on the tennis app R*** who has already returned to her country...

Used to play with her every 1-2 weeks while secretly fantasizing about her with her short tennis skirts and leggings. Tried going after her - went out with her for a meal twice but she's clearly into ang mohs instead of local guys.

My friend from the UK happened to match with her on Tinder when he was here in Singapore. Such coincidence came as a huge surprise for the 3 of us. Anyway he told me that piaking someone like her was going to be a walk in the park, as much as I didn't believe.

A few days after they matched, my UK friend invited me last minute to play tennis with them (apparently their second date) at his apartment promising some 'eye candy'. True enough, this time the Japanese lady was in a new shorter than normal skirt and body hugging top that was clearly designed to attract. She didn't expect that I'd be joining the game. The sight of her slender legs were so beautiful and teasing as she played.

After that, my friend suggested her going up to his apartment to wash up and have a quick bite. Understandably he didn't even ask whether I wanted to head up too :(

Adhered to the bro code and didn't intervene. I let them have their fun although I was feeling very jealous, sore and with blue balls. He showed me short snippet videos of them doing the XXX on that day... just amazing!

secretlurker88
22-03-2022, 02:05 PM
nice share.

thanks for this. dammit, some angmohs really get it easier.

but in some context, I think locals also have an edge over angmohs.

Just like to share an experience with a Japanese lady that I met on the tennis app R*** who has already returned to her country...

Used to play with her every 1-2 weeks while secretly fantasizing about her with her short tennis skirts and leggings. Tried going after her - went out with her for a meal twice but she's clearly into ang mohs instead of local guys.

My friend from the UK happened to match with her on Tinder when he was here in Singapore. Such coincidence came as a huge surprise for the 3 of us. Anyway he told me that piaking someone like her was going to be a walk in the park, as much as I didn't believe.

A few days after they matched, my UK friend invited me last minute to play tennis with them (apparently their second date) at his apartment promising some 'eye candy'. True enough, this time the Japanese lady was in a new shorter than normal skirt and body hugging top that was clearly designed to attract. She didn't expect that I'd be joining the game. The sight of her slender legs were so beautiful and teasing as she played.

After that, my friend suggested her going up to his apartment to wash up and have a quick bite. Understandably he didn't even ask whether I wanted to head up too :(

Adhered to the bro code and didn't intervene. I let them have their fun although I was feeling very jealous, sore and with blue balls. He showed me short snippet videos of them doing the XXX on that day... just amazing!

unsung80
22-03-2022, 04:12 PM
Used to play with her every 1-2 weeks while secretly fantasizing about her with her short tennis skirts and leggings. Tried going after her - went out with her for a meal twice but she's clearly into ang mohs instead of local guys.


It was just her preference to have ang moh rod than asian rod.

nathansee
22-03-2022, 04:46 PM
nice share.

thanks for this. dammit, some angmohs really get it easier.

but in some context, I think locals also have an edge over angmohs.

More often than not they have the edge from what I've seen. My UK friend also piak piak quite a few hot locals during the few months he was here.

Anyway the Japanese lady was really attractive during the tennis game, zaogeng once in while when she stretches making me steam quite a lot. Kept on pretending to be thirsty go drink water by the side but secretly ogling her.

Would like to admit that once they went up to the apartment I felt so rejected and horny... buay tahan went to the condo bathroom to PCC :D

Quite a waste, thinking back I should have asked my UK friend to get hold of her panties or something for my sinful indulgence... shouldn't have been too difficult for him.

secretlurker88
22-03-2022, 04:54 PM
yes, very unfortunate. dammit man. chui

but its like us going bkk or Viet and they like us more than locals.

Piledriver
25-03-2022, 04:28 PM
Just like to share an experience with a Japanese lady that I met on the tennis app R*** who has already returned to her country...

Used to play with her every 1-2 weeks while secretly fantasizing about her with her short tennis skirts and leggings. Tried going after her - went out with her for a meal twice but she's clearly into ang mohs instead of local guys.

My friend from the UK happened to match with her on Tinder when he was here in Singapore. Such coincidence came as a huge surprise for the 3 of us. Anyway he told me that piaking someone like her was going to be a walk in the park, as much as I didn't believe.

A few days after they matched, my UK friend invited me last minute to play tennis with them (apparently their second date) at his apartment promising some 'eye candy'. True enough, this time the Japanese lady was in a new shorter than normal skirt and body hugging top that was clearly designed to attract. She didn't expect that I'd be joining the game. The sight of her slender legs were so beautiful and teasing as she played.

After that, my friend suggested her going up to his apartment to wash up and have a quick bite. Understandably he didn't even ask whether I wanted to head up too :(

Adhered to the bro code and didn't intervene. I let them have their fun although I was feeling very jealous, sore and with blue balls. He showed me short snippet videos of them doing the XXX on that day... just amazing!

Why didn't you ask your Japanese lady friend to intro some of her other female friends to you?

If one door is closed, another will open. And if you are good enough, many more will open for you.