sex with partner/ spouse - how often?

[mikestc]

how often do you have sex with your spouse / GF during this pandemic situation?

[scwong1969]

once a week . every Saturday night

[sexcision]

once a week . every Saturday night

Hahaha, same, either on Friday or Saturday. Seldom on both day. Guess I'm considered luckier than most here. I do recall a period not too long ago where I get like 3 to 5 time per year.....

[helleu]

Once a week, either Friday night or Saturday night. is that common among all?

[Penguin23]

I meet my girl at her place 3-4 times a week we usually have sex every time we meet. It's not clockwork frequency, but as and when I want it, sometimes it is her that asks me for it lol.

I'm a lucky man, I know. This has been going on for over 2 years now. Sexual compatibility and understanding is key to a long-term success and I am glad that I made it clear to my girl from the start that I have a high sex drive so please try to accommodate my frequency (and she says, she is happy to do so)

I also tell her, quite explicitly that if I don't get sex for more than 2 weeks at one stretch my brain goes a bit haywire. I can tahan for a while doing self-service but not for that long

And long-time chiongsters will understand, that ultimately it is not the frequency but the quality of the sex. A short, but explosive and damn great session can keep you sexstisfied for very long.....much better than a long fuck where you somehow feel that your partner is a bit distracted and distant....

[Majide]

Sunday night and sometimes one of the weekdays

[prizzi_65]

One Saturday night. Cannot remember which year.

[willroyce]

with my ex wife last time twice a week, sunday night and friday night.. but sometimes get some action when the kids are in school

[willroyce]

One Saturday night. Cannot remember which year.

wah once a year only?? bro got visit fl or sugarbook?

[willroyce]

I meet my girl at her place 3-4 times a week we usually have sex every time we meet. It's not clockwork frequency, but as and when I want it, sometimes it is her that asks me for it lol.

I'm a lucky man, I know. This has been going on for over 2 years now. Sexual compatibility and understanding is key to a long-term success and I am glad that I made it clear to my girl from the start that I have a high sex drive so please try to accommodate my frequency (and she says, she is happy to do so)

I also tell her, quite explicitly that if I don't get sex for more than 2 weeks at one stretch my brain goes a bit haywire. I can tahan for a while doing self-service but not for that long

And long-time chiongsters will understand, that ultimately it is not the frequency but the quality of the sex. A short, but explosive and damn great session can keep you sexstisfied for very long.....much better than a long fuck where you somehow feel that your partner is a bit distracted and distant....

this is very true.. the short ones are the most memorable ones

[willroyce]

Once a week, either Friday night or Saturday night. is that common among all?

if get some small fun during working days got la

[Yod4]

Once a week - twice at best. Old already cannot stand so much lol.

Both of us wfh which means we have quite a bit of time to ourselves during the weekdays after the kids have been dropped off at school.

[ForSomeFun]

Every Friday and Saturday at least once a day. Some days she comes over also have. Sometimes I reject because not really in the mood but feel like having someone else.

[Cheesebeast]

My girl works office hours while i work shift hours so scheduling sometimes quite challenging. But we make it a point to bang minimally twice a week - one weekday and one weekend.

[timlady]

More precise 3x a month, less her code red. Spore women in generally pre and post marriage different. There focus is around kids, house works, career and self entertainment (Korean/ jap drama & etc ). Rarely from my circle of friends there focus is on hubby. For those that do, they don't have kids.

[ahcai]

ever since WFH, my wife and i like to do it during lunch hour.
around 3X per week now

[loki1688]

seems like the consensus is ~1-2 times per wk which is the same for me as well. sometimes can go up to 3-4 times if we are both horny, i do agree to some extent those short fucks are memorable and keeps lingering in your mind, but i make it a point to make sure she orgasm minimally once before i cum so that we both enjoy the lovemaking process. else just watch porn and diy when her aunt comes to visit.

[mikestc]

ever since WFH, my wife and i like to do it during lunch hour.
around 3X per week now

lucky la you...

[Lian&Hua]

Mine is enjoyable. Living at my gf place since start of COVID till now. 1 bedroom with personal gym. Other than WFH on our computer. We will have sex while gym. Sex while cooking 3 meals per day or having sex on dining table. We are only clothed on when on conference or zoom meeting. Other than that is boxer for me and bra & thongs for my gf. Enjoying it every moment. Sometimes we forgotten to wear and open the door for delivery. Fun and embarrassing

[lancerlution2]

Reluctantly or willingly. A lot of difference woh.

[lancerlution2]

Totally true bro. Upz u.
While most bros here emphasize on the frequency, I prefer to focus on the quality of the sex.

Sure, you could be fucking your woman everyday. But she could be just lying down in bed like a dead fish too lazy to move, and all you are doing is just masturbating inside her. You might as well pay for a ML to jerk you off, or DIY.

Me and MILF prefer to have some sensual foreplay to slowly build-up the mood. So that when we start the action, we are actually making real love and not just going through the motions like what most married couples do.

And like what bro Penguin mentioned, it doesn't have to be a sex marathon where you just go on and on like an energizer rabbit. Instead of enjoying, your woman will kpkp and barking at you to stop.

We keep to solid 20-minute sessions with plenty of kissing and caressing, and she will always cum good as I can hit her sweet spot.

So always strive for quality rather than quantity.

[sexcision]

Today is Friday!! Fuck day fuck yeah! Hahaha

[hhlover]

With gf.. every two days at least 2 round..
When gf become wife.. every wk two times..
When wife become kids mother.. every month or two month once..
Tat shld be most of singaporean guy life..

[ahbang]

Got more than 1 child , and all sleep same room , worst...

With gf.. every two days at least 2 round..
When gf become wife.. every wk two times..
When wife become kids mother.. every month or two month once..
Tat shld be most of singaporean guy life..

[SBMEDSUP]

Mine is enjoyable. Living at my gf place since start of COVID till now. 1 bedroom with personal gym. Other than WFH on our computer. We will have sex while gym. Sex while cooking 3 meals per day or having sex on dining table. We are only clothed on when on conference or zoom meeting. Other than that is boxer for me and bra & thongs for my gf. Enjoying it every moment. Sometimes we forgotten to wear and open the door for delivery. Fun and embarrassing

Nice and congratulations.

[Rickey]

Mine is enjoyable. Living at my gf place since start of COVID till now. 1 bedroom with personal gym. Other than WFH on our computer. We will have sex while gym. Sex while cooking 3 meals per day or having sex on dining table. We are only clothed on when on conference or zoom meeting. Other than that is boxer for me and bra & thongs for my gf. Enjoying it every moment. Sometimes we forgotten to wear and open the door for delivery. Fun and embarrassing
I like to be your delivery man :);)...wat a sight to behold ;):o...haha

[Jjcoolidge]

While most bros here emphasize on the frequency, I prefer to focus on the quality of the sex.

Sure, you could be fucking your woman everyday. But she could be just lying down in bed like a dead fish too lazy to move, and all you are doing is just masturbating inside her. You might as well pay for a ML to jerk you off, or DIY.

Me and MILF prefer to have some sensual foreplay to slowly build-up the mood. So that when we start the action, we are actually making real love and not just going through the motions like what most married couples do.

And like what bro Penguin mentioned, it doesn't have to be a sex marathon where you just go on and on like an energizer rabbit. Instead of enjoying, your woman will kpkp and barking at you to stop.

We keep to solid 20-minute sessions with plenty of kissing and caressing, and she will always cum good as I can hit her sweet spot.

So always strive for quality rather than quantity.

Absolutely agree w Bro HansomRod here. Foreplay doesn't even need to start in the bedroom. Telling her naughty things when she's at work. Sending a suggestive post at lunchtime. Letting her know that you're thinking of her throughout the day builds up that anticipation. She'll be wet and yearning even before she steps in the door ;)

[prizzi_65]

wah once a year only?? bro got visit fl or sugarbook?
Not once a year. I meant I could not remember which year we last had sex. It is most probably a Saturday night because she is only comfortable on that night. Saturday night is a woman's thing I believe. Might has been 2019 or 2020.

[Jeffrry]

Once a week

[Soccer101]

More precise 3x a month, less her code red. Spore women in generally pre and post marriage different. There focus is around kids, house works, career and self entertainment (Korean/ jap drama & etc ). Rarely from my circle of friends there focus is on hubby. For those that do, they don't have kids.

Just curious Why would women focusing on hubbies not have kids?

[alea]

Am married, have 2 kids. About twice a month.

We both wfh, so by right lots of opportunities everyday once kids are in school. But she spends her time and energy on online shopping and YouTube. She always says tired when I suggest sex.

[Penguin23]

Just curious Why would women focusing on hubbies not have kids?

You must be quite a young fella, that's why you ask this question.

There are so many possible reasons why such women exist. The rare ones really don't want children for some reason - Type A personalities, successful and driven, and they simply don't want their lives to change. Women are natural control freaks, and having a child means you give up your entire life schedule and you sign up for many years worth of drama.

A few others are sterile or have had too many failures are IVF and natural conception to bother doing it again. Those are quite poor thing, because they hide their pain but they need to focus on something. Because the huge majority of women eventually want children, these sort of women tend to band together and if you find one then naturally you will find many others within her circle of friends.

The older ladies all eventually realize that while time with friends are fun, relationships between women seldom last as long as friendships between men and after all that is said and done their partners are always the last ones standing. So these old women wake up their idea and focus on their husbands.....and hopefully by then the husbands haven't yet focused on someone younger and prettier.

[tommylim]

Our sex life have improved considerably since last year when we started WFH most of the time. My wife & I usually have sex about 3 to 4 times a week. We normally have a shower together followed by foreplay, passionate frenching before making love and is so enjoyable. I love her moaning & she will usually have multiple orgasms......

[naan1974]

The older ladies all eventually realize that while time with friends are fun, relationships between women seldom last as long as friendships between men and after all that is said and done their partners are always the last ones standing. So these old women wake up their idea and focus on their husbands.....and hopefully by then the husbands haven't yet focused on someone younger and prettier.

Agreed, somehow women's relationship with their friends are like backups
when their love life/ marriage fails. else they will more likely to give up friendship for their spouse than men. For those women who doesn't want kids, they need a lot more effort to keep their marriage going. Majority of men had thought of divorce at some point in their marriage and had only restrain due to children. Women would want to get marry regardless whether they want kids or not but for men ..... why would men get marry if they dont want children?

[Mr Honey]

Our sex life have improved considerably since last year when we started WFH most of the time. My wife & I usually have sex about 3 to 4 times a week. We normally have a shower together followed by foreplay, passionate frenching before making love and is so enjoyable. I love her moaning & she will usually have multiple orgasms......

Your wife must be sexy and pretty. You are such a lucky man.

[BroTrustMyWords]

Agreed, somehow women's relationship with their friends are like backups
when their love life/ marriage fails. else they will more likely to give up friendship for their spouse than men. For those women who doesn't want kids, they need a lot more effort to keep their marriage going. Majority of men had thought of divorce at some point in their marriage and had only restrain due to children. Women would want to get marry regardless whether they want kids or not but for men ..... why would men get marry if they dont want children?

Agreed! Bro.

[mangoes49]

Am married, have 2 kids. About twice a month.

We both wfh, so by right lots of opportunities everyday once kids are in school. But she spends her time and energy on online shopping and YouTube. She always says tired when I suggest sex.

Oh no..She needs to wcfh (work on your cock from home), not just wfh haha. But seriously speaking I do hear of so many wives who say they’re tired. Hope it works out bro.

[tess97]

You must be quite a young fella, that's why you ask this question.

There are so many possible reasons why such women exist. The rare ones really don't want children for some reason - Type A personalities, successful and driven, and they simply don't want their lives to change. Women are natural control freaks, and having a child means you give up your entire life schedule and you sign up for many years worth of drama.

A few others are sterile or have had too many failures are IVF and natural conception to bother doing it again. Those are quite poor thing, because they hide their pain but they need to focus on something. Because the huge majority of women eventually want children, these sort of women tend to band together and if you find one then naturally you will find many others within her circle of friends.

The older ladies all eventually realize that while time with friends are fun, relationships between women seldom last as long as friendships between men and after all that is said and done their partners are always the last ones standing. So these old women wake up their idea and focus on their husbands.....and hopefully by then the husbands haven't yet focused on someone younger and prettier.

Agreed. Other than my type A personality, I really just don’t like kids in general, seeing them as just a huge financial & mental burden

[lancerlution2]

Lol agreed I can get cranky and whinny if I didn’t have sex for 2 weeks or more. Like everything all wrong, slippers never put in rack also wrong, towel never spread out also wrong, no water also wrong, etc. Practically it’s like a baby without napping. Lol
I meet my girl at her place 3-4 times a week we usually have sex every time we meet. It's not clockwork frequency, but as and when I want it, sometimes it is her that asks me for it lol.

I'm a lucky man, I know. This has been going on for over 2 years now. Sexual compatibility and understanding is key to a long-term success and I am glad that I made it clear to my girl from the start that I have a high sex drive so please try to accommodate my frequency (and she says, she is happy to do so)

I also tell her, quite explicitly that if I don't get sex for more than 2 weeks at one stretch my brain goes a bit haywire. I can tahan for a while doing self-service but not for that long

And long-time chiongsters will understand, that ultimately it is not the frequency but the quality of the sex. A short, but explosive and damn great session can keep you sexstisfied for very long.....much better than a long fuck where you somehow feel that your partner is a bit distracted and distant....

[lancerlution2]

Bro it’s normal all I can say. But when your kids get older and more independent it’s time to rekindle the forgotten passion, like go Cycling, sports, yoga, hiking, movies, and even buying her nice yoga pants and lingerie.
Am married, have 2 kids. About twice a month.

We both wfh, so by right lots of opportunities everyday once kids are in school. But she spends her time and energy on online shopping and YouTube. She always says tired when I suggest sex.

[Soccer101]

Agreed, somehow women's relationship with their friends are like backups
when their love life/ marriage fails. else they will more likely to give up friendship for their spouse than men. For those women who doesn't want kids, they need a lot more effort to keep their marriage going. Majority of men had thought of divorce at some point in their marriage and had only restrain due to children. Women would want to get marry regardless whether they want kids or not but for men ..... why would men get marry if they dont want children?

Interesting I din know that women have so much insecurities. For guys, life with children is when you looking outside for thrill

[Rickey]

Agreed. Other than my type A personality, I really just don’t like kids in general, seeing them as just a huge financial & mental burden
You r 1 of the odd ones out babe...usually females r designed for motherhood, bear n raise children which like u said would be a huge financial n mental burden ;)...but it's ok...to each her own...nothing wrong if u don't like or want :)

[IamAStoryTeller]

After my wife got pregnant and gave birth..the number of times we had sex, 1 hand can count lol

jia lat..than we planning 2nd kid..think my tadpoles by the time we have sex on a regular basis will become frogs liao

BUT prior to that, every fri sat and sun we will fuck around the house

[itguy2008]

need you guys to help me with my imagination.

imagine you travel overseas now and kenna 3 weeks quarantine. Then so heng they allow your partner and you in the same room. Two scenarios.

Scenario 1 - If your partner is your wife, how many times do you think you will get sex in 3 weeks?

Scenario 2 - If your travel partner is your FB, how many times will you f**k her a day?

3 weeks kenna lock in the room.... quite boring.... wonder if it will increase the sex count with wife. Maybe 3 weeks can beat my record with her last year. hahaha. Last year sex count with wife..... 4 for the entire year.

[loki1688]

need you guys to help me with my imagination.

imagine you travel overseas now and kenna 3 weeks quarantine. Then so heng they allow your partner and you in the same room. Two scenarios.

Scenario 1 - If your partner is your wife, how many times do you think you will get sex in 3 weeks?

Scenario 2 - If your travel partner is your FB, how many times will you f**k her a day?

3 weeks kenna lock in the room.... quite boring.... wonder if it will increase the sex count with wife. Maybe 3 weeks can beat my record with her last year. hahaha. Last year sex count with wife..... 4 for the entire year.

i cant answer the number of times for both scenario you've mentioned but i can assure you i will fug more times with my FB than with my wife if stuck in the same room for 2 to 3 weeks. :D

PS: unless my wife is those trophy wife that could stop guys in their traffic and would fantasize about then obviously i be banging my wife more than the FB.

[entering]

Wife and I used to fuck every day and she was pregnant 6 times. But twice pregnancy was unsuccessful, once my 4th daughter passed away.

So after that i got posted to Indonesia for 3 years and then Cambodia for 2 years we never had sex anymore. It just started from the death of my daughter then naturally we just stopped.

I think she knows that I'm eating outside but she also never say cuz she knows I like to fuck A LOT.

these days also cut down already. Not like those 3 a day cuz now want to make some money before retirement.

Another bro sarcastically reply me on another thread say he pity my wife. But truth is I always tell her I love her and hug her etc etc etc. But she always reject. I also don't want to force her.

[Hotstuff82]

Wife and I used to fuck every day and she was pregnant 6 times. But twice pregnancy was unsuccessful, once my 4th daughter passed away.

So after that i got posted to Indonesia for 3 years and then Cambodia for 2 years we never had sex anymore. It just started from the death of my daughter then naturally we just stopped.

I think she knows that I'm eating outside but she also never say cuz she knows I like to fuck A LOT.

these days also cut down already. Not like those 3 a day cuz now want to make some money before retirement.

Another bro sarcastically reply me on another thread say he pity my wife. But truth is I always tell her I love her and hug her etc etc etc. But she always reject. I also don't want to force her.

sorry to hear about your loss bro, it can be traumatizing for you and your wife to experience such a tragedy, but life moves on still and hope you can resolve this issue between both of you, flings and fwbs will come and go but family will always be with you.

[itguy2008]

i cant answer the number of times for both scenario you've mentioned but i can assure you i will fug more times with my FB than with my wife if stuck in the same room for 2 to 3 weeks. :D

PS: unless my wife is those trophy wife that could stop guys in their traffic and would fantasize about then obviously i be banging my wife more than the FB.

hahaha. it means your FB is a trophy FB that can stop traffic la.

My case is reverse of yours. My FB is not as pretty as my wife. But FB has a bigger urge to get intimate. Not only sex but like hold hands, hug etc. Wife is like...... winter. Cold.

[carbonatedfries]

2/3 times per week.
Sex certainly improve since start of pandemic

[loki1688]

hahaha. it means your FB is a trophy FB that can stop traffic la.

My case is reverse of yours. My FB is not as pretty as my wife. But FB has a bigger urge to get intimate. Not only sex but like hold hands, hug etc. Wife is like...... winter. Cold.

typically the FB is more wild and could be the opposite of the wife and if one is yearning for that GFE, sometimes its not looks that attacts but also the heart and character of the person. tsk tsk is your FB your neighbour who came over with her meal and watch netflix&chill’d with you hehehe

[Rickey]

typically the FB is more wild and could be the opposite of the wife and if one is yearning for that GFE, sometimes its not looks that attacts but also the heart and character of the person.
Tis is called chemistry if i m not wrong...

[LittlePawn]

gf time - 2 rounds when meetup on weekday or weekend at any location
gf become wife - 1 round everyday anywhere at home
wife become mother - 1 round friday, saturday, sunday & PH inside our room

[lancerlution2]

Curious to hear when mother becomes grandmother what will be the statistics. Wahahaha. Anyway upz u.
gf time - 2 rounds when meetup on weekday or weekend at any location
gf become wife - 1 round everyday anywhere at home
wife become mother - 1 round friday, saturday, sunday & PH inside our room

[itguy2008]

typically the FB is more wild and could be the opposite of the wife and if one is yearning for that GFE, sometimes its not looks that attacts but also the heart and character of the person. tsk tsk is your FB your neighbour who came over with her meal and watch netflix&chill’d with you hehehe

That one is not a FB yet la. Long way more to go. hahaha.

[loki1688]

Tis is called chemistry if i m not wrong...

yes bro Rickey, thats chemistry! she gal may not be fantastically hot and pretty and able to stop traffic but if you and her can click why not enjoy each other's companionship? ;)

That one is not a FB yet la. Long way more to go. hahaha.

haha will be camping at the jogging ladies thread.... akan datang :D

[Rickey]

yes bro Rickey, thats chemistry! she gal may not be fantastically hot and pretty and able to stop traffic but if you and her can click why not enjoy each other's companionship? ;)

haha will be camping at the jogging ladies thread.... akan datang :D
glad u agree bro lloki1688 :)....chemistry is the thing tat is necessary n essential in all kinds of relationships for 2 parties to click n thrive...i.e. common interest n liking for the same thing in life :)...heard of the proverb ...birds of a feather flocks tgt ???

Ok hope to see u there at the ladies jogging thread ;)

[loneyheart]

Chemistry = Right key to the right lock :p Once door opened everything goes

[IamAStoryTeller]

i cant answer the number of times for both scenario you've mentioned but i can assure you i will fug more times with my FB than with my wife if stuck in the same room for 2 to 3 weeks. :D

PS: unless my wife is those trophy wife that could stop guys in their traffic and would fantasize about then obviously i be banging my wife more than the FB.

thats a very honest answer haha

and after a few months of sexless weekend, finally on Sunday wife have sex with me. that's the first in Aug, none in July, cannot remember have or not in June. lol jia lat

[Lucytoday]

About twice a week on the weekends cause we havent gotten a house yet.

[Hotstuff82]

Chemistry = Right key to the right lock :p Once door opened everything goes

indeed, chemistry is important, of course money talks too as you can see the number of sugarbabies available now in the market.

[nellylol]

When dating timing...every meeting...

When married before kids, 5 to 6 times a week.

After kids came about, once in every few month...(dad bod)

Started Gym, cut down n lose weight, now wife want head from me every now n then...sex about 2 to 3 times a week.

[Rickey]

About twice a week on the weekends cause we havent gotten a house yet.
Then how abt weekdays sis ??...so long didn't do it n u r left high n dry :(...can tahan till the weekends meh ?? :confused:;):o

[loki1688]

glad u agree bro lloki1688 :)....chemistry is the thing tat is necessary n essential in all kinds of relationships for 2 parties to click n thrive...i.e. common interest n liking for the same thing in life :)...heard of the proverb ...birds of a feather flocks tgt ???

Ok hope to see u there at the ladies jogging thread ;)

will drop by to say Hi but that thread is so popular with all the Sis and Bros ITguy2008 and you.

thats a very honest answer haha

and after a few months of sexless weekend, finally on Sunday wife have sex with me. that's the first in Aug, none in July, cannot remember have or not in June. lol jia lat

can try to spice things up in the bedroom, have some wine and chocolates, buy her some sexy lingerie from VS or LaSenza, no right minded lady would say no to that.

When dating timing...every meeting...

When married before kids, 5 to 6 times a week.

After kids came about, once in every few month...(dad bod)

Started Gym, cut down n lose weight, now wife want head from me every now n then...sex about 2 to 3 times a week.

ya keeping fit is important and attractive to the opposite sex, it would also increases your stamina for sex too.

[IamAStoryTeller]

she now breast feeding, no alcohol, and she got a lot of lingerie from me liao haha now also don't want to wear because scare infection

[blu3fin]

Wife and I used to fuck every day and she was pregnant 6 times. But twice pregnancy was unsuccessful, once my 4th daughter passed away.

So after that i got posted to Indonesia for 3 years and then Cambodia for 2 years we never had sex anymore. It just started from the death of my daughter then naturally we just stopped.

I think she knows that I'm eating outside but she also never say cuz she knows I like to fuck A LOT.

these days also cut down already. Not like those 3 a day cuz now want to make some money before retirement.

Another bro sarcastically reply me on another thread say he pity my wife. But truth is I always tell her I love her and hug her etc etc etc. But she always reject. I also don't want to force her.

My condolences bro... losing a kid is tough.
Maybe ur wifey can't get over it. Why not you go get vasectomy.. perhaps wifey will change her mind ?

[loki1688]

she now breast feeding, no alcohol, and she got a lot of lingerie from me liao haha now also don't want to wear because scare infection

if she recently gave birth then maybe worried about pain down there, therefore less keen on sex, slowly warm her up, praise her body and looks, women esp spouses always like to be pleased and feel loved. all the best bro and wish you many many more sessions to cum! ;)

[Lucytoday]

Then how abt weekdays sis ??...so long didn't do it n u r left high n dry :(...can tahan till the weekends meh ?? :confused:;):o

Weekday DIY lor. I have toys 🤭

[Rickey]

Weekday DIY lor. I have toys 🤭
Thanks for the clarification sis :)...good tat u hv toys to turn to, to DIY when u r horny n hv the urge but he is not around :o

[Rickey]

will drop by to say Hi but that thread is so popular with all the Sis and Bros ITguy2008 and you.

Don't worry...all r welcome there to chat :)...the more the merrier ;)

[alea]

she now breast feeding, no alcohol, and she got a lot of lingerie from me liao haha now also don't want to wear because scare infection

Can totally identify with the lingerie part. My wife also has lots of lingerie from me that she asks me not to buy anymore. She says lingerie cannot be considered as gifts for her because I’m the one who ultimately benefit from them.

[IamAStoryTeller]

Can totally identify with the lingerie part. My wife also has lots of lingerie from me that she asks me not to buy anymore. She says lingerie cannot be considered as gifts for her because I’m the one who ultimately benefit from them.

sad but true lol but she enjoys wearing them while having sex..pre-pregnancy la

now..haiz..can see her naked i happy liao haha

[Shadow_warrior]

mix it up with cosplay and sex toys

sometimes might get rejected, slowly propose and find opportunities to introduce them

watched my FB enjoy the "Gatita" bullet that day in hotel, and she was so high she wanted me inside, I refused, and asked her to suck me first while she used the vibrator, can feel her need through her hungry mouth

[georgie1994]

with wife once 2 weeks, if with sugarbook babies, one every week

[georgie1994]

Weekday DIY lor. I have toys 🤭

sometimes DIY also can have fun

[georgie1994]

When dating timing...every meeting...

When married before kids, 5 to 6 times a week.

After kids came about, once in every few month...(dad bod)

Started Gym, cut down n lose weight, now wife want head from me every now n then...sex about 2 to 3 times a week.

when single when young time, really energetic

[georgie1994]

sometimes my wife happy, then he will cooperate with me role play and i love this, more fun

[georgie1994]

2/3 times per week.
Sex certainly improve since start of pandemic

you is lucky is sex improved, mine is fight improved

[georgie1994]

indeed, chemistry is important, of course money talks too as you can see the number of sugarbabies available now in the market.

yes need to have the chemistry effect

[georgie1994]

wah once a year only?? bro got visit fl or sugarbook?

visit fl or sugarbook can increase the frequency?

[georgie1994]

this is very true.. the short ones are the most memorable ones

short some girls do not like

[Nitework]

hahaha. it means your FB is a trophy FB that can stop traffic la.

My case is reverse of yours. My FB is not as pretty as my wife. But FB has a bigger urge to get intimate. Not only sex but like hold hands, hug etc. Wife is like...... winter. Cold.

Sounds like me. Ex Gf young, sexy, passionate

Wife is prettier but not good in bed... She tries though.

Most times in 24 hours goes to ex gf .... 11 times.

Damn I do miss the sex with her. Gotta find a replacement. Till then still have to service wife but have FLs to make up for when wife cannot satisfy needs.

[Nitework]

You must be quite a young fella, that's why you ask this question.

There are so many possible reasons why such women exist. The rare ones really don't want children for some reason - Type A personalities, successful and driven, and they simply don't want their lives to change. Women are natural control freaks, and having a child means you give up your entire life schedule and you sign up for many years worth of drama.

A few others are sterile or have had too many failures are IVF and natural conception to bother doing it again. Those are quite poor thing, because they hide their pain but they need to focus on something. Because the huge majority of women eventually want children, these sort of women tend to band together and if you find one then naturally you will find many others within her circle of friends.

The older ladies all eventually realize that while time with friends are fun, relationships between women seldom last as long as friendships between men and after all that is said and done their partners are always the last ones standing. So these old women wake up their idea and focus on their husbands.....and hopefully by then the husbands haven't yet focused on someone younger and prettier.

These are the words gleaned from irreplaceable years of experience... Words of wisdom

[willroyce]

you is lucky is sex improved, mine is fight improved

if always fight with wife.. maybe because u are in sugarbook.com too often :D

[willroyce]

These are the words gleaned from irreplaceable years of experience... Words of wisdom

very true bro!!

[willroyce]

visit fl or sugarbook can increase the frequency?

not frequency but on how u want it.. fl or sugarbook?

[willroyce]

When dating timing...every meeting...

When married before kids, 5 to 6 times a week.

After kids came about, once in every few month...(dad bod)

Started Gym, cut down n lose weight, now wife want head from me every now n then...sex about 2 to 3 times a week.

happy wife.. happy life haha

[willroyce]

Can totally identify with the lingerie part. My wife also has lots of lingerie from me that she asks me not to buy anymore. She says lingerie cannot be considered as gifts for her because I’m the one who ultimately benefit from them.

aiyo like that also got ah haha.. thank god I am divorced :D

[willroyce]

yes need to have the chemistry effect

if no chemistry then like sleeping with dead fish

[Grub1122]

happy wife.. happy life haha
Whoever came up with this needs to be shot.. What happen to happy husband?

[ultima]

Do you guys feel that you might ejeculate very fast with caps on for the real deal after heavy foreplay ?

[hhlover]

With wife one month 2 to 3 times, one time sure is only one round..
With my indo FB, one month only meet one time, but one time we have at least 3 to 4 round..

[Hotstuff82]

Do you guys feel that you might ejaculate very fast with caps on for the real deal after heavy foreplay ?

it depends if your very high and horny already, wearing condom or not you will still cum fast. if you PCC too much, it takes a toll on your sensitivity and you may cum faster than you really want to in order to enjoy and sextisfy your partner.

With wife one month 2 to 3 times, one time sure is only one round..
With my indo FB, one month only meet one time, but one time we have at least 3 to 4 round..

well its not quantity that matters but quality sessions :p

[Rickey]

With wife one month 2 to 3 times, one time sure is only one round..
With my indo FB, one month only meet one time, but one time we have at least 3 to 4 round..
Yes, believe there r many married couples who r experiencing tis situation like bro hhlover :o...husbands n wives having more frequency of sex at home with each other per week or per month as the home environment is conducive to them having sex anytime they want or feel the urge to..but each time ends v. fast when 1 of them cum 1st usually using just the missionary position :)...

but with their secret lovers, it is different n the other way around ;)...having sex less often as they would like as they hv a time problem to meet frequently but then each time when they meet outside to hav it, the sex is for a longer period n it is more enjoyable using multiple positions :):o


well its not quantity that matters but quality sessions :p
Yes, agree with wat bro HS82 says again :)...but then being able to hav sex with each other for a husband n wife nor matter whether it is frequent or not, is still much better than having no sex at all as many bros r experiencing a sexless marriage

[georgie1994]

depends who is the partner, if with mlif in sugarbook, everyday also no problem, energy wont use up

[georgie1994]

With wife one month 2 to 3 times, one time sure is only one round..
With my indo FB, one month only meet one time, but one time we have at least 3 to 4 round..

other girl than wife can let guy more excited

[georgie1994]

if always fight with wife.. maybe because u are in sugarbook.com too often :D

in sugarbook.com so often for what? no people interested on me

[georgie1994]

Whoever came up with this needs to be shot.. What happen to happy husband?

happy family members can form happy family

[georgie1994]

mix it up with cosplay and sex toys

sometimes might get rejected, slowly propose and find opportunities to introduce them

watched my FB enjoy the "Gatita" bullet that day in hotel, and she was so high she wanted me inside, I refused, and asked her to suck me first while she used the vibrator, can feel her need through her hungry mouth

cosplay and sex toys good companion in sex

[georgie1994]

Every Friday and Saturday at least once a day. Some days she comes over also have. Sometimes I reject because not really in the mood but feel like having someone else.

weekend not working. feeling can do bit relax

[Hotstuff82]

Yes, believe there r many married couples who r experiencing tis situation like bro hhlover :o...husbands n wives having more frequency of sex at home with each other per week or per month as the home environment is conducive to them having sex anytime they want or feel the urge to..but each time ends v. fast when 1 of them cum 1st usually using just the missionary position :)...

but with their secret lovers, it is different n the other way around ;)...having sex less often as they would like as they hv a time problem to meet frequently but then each time when they meet outside to hav it, the sex is for a longer period n it is more enjoyable using multiple positions :):o

Yes, agree with wat bro HS82 says again :)...but then being able to hav sex with each other for a husband n wife nor matter whether it is frequent or not, is still much better than having no sex at all as many bros r experiencing a sexless marriage

very true indeed bro, the sex with spouse is like anytime want can have it (if she obliges) however with FWBs its harder to meet up so wana screw longer also not wrong

[Manofwar]

With wife one month 2 to 3 times, one time sure is only one round..
With my indo FB, one month only meet one time, but one time we have at least 3 to 4 round..

Haha this 1 I agree , with my wife 1 Rd eh....

With my last indon FB 2 rounds CIP haha

[hhlover]

other girl than wife can let guy more excited

I doubt is the excitment, to be frank , my wife got nice figure n look most guy will wan n my FB beside boobs big, look is normal.
But is the attitude n way to please tat make me feel like having a few round with my fb but not wife..
Jus wondering do any guy here have the same situation. Wan have sex with wife, wife will always say working tired, look after housework tired, after sex told u, u make her tired.. but FB work 29days 6am to 11pm with 1 off day still when meet n sex they so willing to please u.. 2 or more times will oso nvr complaint tired..

[Rickey]

I doubt is the excitment, to be frank , my wife got nice figure n look most guy will wan n my FB beside boobs big, look is normal.
But is the attitude n way to please tat make me feel like having a few round with my fb but not wife..
Jus wondering do any guy here have the same situation. Wan have sex with wife, wife will always say working tired, look after housework tired, after sex told u, u make her tired.. but FB work 29days 6am to 11pm with 1 off day still when meet n sex they so willing to please u.. 2 or more times will oso nvr complaint tired..
Tis is becos, got a lot of things to do n worry for the family besides working...then if do with u every night also sian...always the same old thing n position...no fun...everyday see each other's face also sian... familiarity they say breeds contempt...

But with FB is different mah, see each other to hv sex only once in a while ..everyday want also cannot ..so, so long didn't see each other sure excited abt having sex again lor ..heard of the proverb ??...absence makes the heart grow fonder ...hehe

[cheongsteer]

I doubt is the excitment, to be frank , my wife got nice figure n look most guy will wan n my FB beside boobs big, look is normal.
But is the attitude n way to please tat make me feel like having a few round with my fb but not wife..
Jus wondering do any guy here have the same situation. Wan have sex with wife, wife will always say working tired, look after housework tired, after sex told u, u make her tired.. but FB work 29days 6am to 11pm with 1 off day still when meet n sex they so willing to please u.. 2 or more times will oso nvr complaint tired..

Definitely, FB more willing to please and more adventurous than wife

[Hotstuff82]

I doubt is the excitment, to be frank , my wife got nice figure n look most guy will wan n my FB beside boobs big, look is normal.
But is the attitude n way to please tat make me feel like having a few round with my fb but not wife..
Jus wondering do any guy here have the same situation. Wan have sex with wife, wife will always say working tired, look after housework tired, after sex told u, u make her tired.. but FB work 29days 6am to 11pm with 1 off day still when meet n sex they so willing to please u.. 2 or more times will oso nvr complaint tired..

like what bro Rickey said, having a family has alot of commitments to consider, working and looking after the needs of children and household etc. maybe you should try to spice things up with your wife, treat her to a nice staycation, pamper her with SPA (clean one hor) bring her out for a nice meal wearing a nice dress/gown, make her feel wanted and go back hotel room for sex.

[Lemonjuice]

Question: how often you all meet up with secret lover aka affair?

Mine reducing to once a month or even two months. Used to be 2-3 times a month.

[Rickey]

Question: how often you all meet up with secret lover aka affair?

Mine reducing to once a month or even two months. Used to be 2-3 times a month.
Answer : no hard n fast rules...for me, meet as often as time available n permits or whenever there is a horny urge to do so...once a week would be just nice I feel

Wat happened in your case ???...why meeting time reduced by so much ???

[the2econdlife]

with gf, been dwindling down to about once every 3 months.
with FB, once every week or once every two weeks.

[SammyLee88]

if always fight with wife.. maybe because u are in sugarbook.com too often :D

currently there is sugarbook.live whether is same not sure, not yet try

[SammyLee88]

with gf, been dwindling down to about once every 3 months.
with FB, once every week or once every two weeks.

why? you lost your interest on your girlfriend?

[SammyLee88]

Question: how often you all meet up with secret lover aka affair?

Mine reducing to once a month or even two months. Used to be 2-3 times a month.

what happened? is your wife senses something?

[SammyLee88]

not frequency but on how u want it.. fl or sugarbook?

other than sugarbook, there is one cmb, wish to try it out too

[SammyLee88]

Whoever came up with this needs to be shot.. What happen to happy husband?

one shoot a day still ok, 7 shoots a day he will become shrunken husband

[SammyLee88]

if she recently gave birth then maybe worried about pain down there, therefore less keen on sex, slowly warm her up, praise her body and looks, women esp spouses always like to be pleased and feel loved. all the best bro and wish you many many more sessions to cum! ;)

after give birth will pain abit and if is normal birth, it needs to to recover too right

[SammyLee88]

Definitely, FB more willing to please and more adventurous than wife

yes fwb the requirement is not that difficult to satisfy

[SammyLee88]

in sugarbook.live also can know more people, newbie also when get out, so single is always the better

[loki1688]

after give birth will pain abit and if is normal birth, it needs to to recover too right

agreed thats almost certain but i think his wife already given birth and abstain from sex for a long time so it may not be physical pain.

[the2econdlife]

why? you lost your interest on your girlfriend?

girlfriend like no mood. more preoccupied with scrolling on her phone. even when we're out regularly, always on the phone.

[handsomeburger]

with my current gf, every week. after our date, we would go to a budget hotel and get freaky for two hours.

[Stanleestanlee]

almost daily with my gf and no time and energy for fb.

[Shadow_warrior]

Question: how often you all meet up with secret lover aka affair?

Mine reducing to once a month or even two months. Used to be 2-3 times a month.

when we started 11 years back it was almost daily, then we both work more it became 4 times a week, then 2, then once

Now its when we can, can be once a fortnight, or once a month.