Married wife as FWB/FB

[sleepy80]

My fwb told me her husband found out about us and we ended our relationship of many years. Any one have similar experience to share and how you started. Will share my story later when free.

[JacqueMerlin]

My fwb told me her husband found out about us and we ended our relationship of many years. Any one have similar experience to share and how you started. Will share my story later when free.

I avoid married women because I was also a victim of infidelity. The only married woman I shagged was a PRC whose husband took our sovereignty with contempt.

Found out about my ex wife during our marriage that she had been sleeping with other men when she came back one day to demand for divorce and alimony. Being a goody two shoe I was, I attempted to salvage the broken marriage. Her relationship with her bf didn't work out but that didn't stop her from trying out others over the years. It happened for a few times until I could no longer take it. Emotionally hijacked, I attempted suicide after having a huge quarrel with her at a coffeeshop. A stranger stepped forward and tried to talk me out as I was crying along the road. He introduced me to sammyboyforum and encouraged me to continue living my life.

Although I survived that, I will not be automatically optimistic when a man discovers his wife has cheated on him especially if he married a Singaporean woman. Because that will also mean imminent financial ruin and possible suicide.

[sleepy80]

Just want to find out is it common for local wives to have FWB outside and how many have experience and story to share.. And how many husbands found out and can accept it and carry on with life.. Is it the husband issue that the wife wanted sex elsewhere??

[FreebiezWanker]

I attempted suicide after having a huge quarrel with her at a coffeeshop..

Bro, no loose slut is worth ur life. I hope u have moved on.

[TuttiFruitti]

I have been having a lot of ONS, FWB, plain fuck around etc. There are reasons why I have been able to stay away from legal troubles for so long. And one of them is that I avoid Singaporean women.

Luckily you managed to survive and moved on already! Cheers!

[fatuncle]

I avoid married women because I was also a victim of infidelity. The only married woman I shagged was a PRC whose husband took our sovereignty with contempt.

Found out about my ex wife during our marriage that she had been sleeping with other men when she came back one day to demand for divorce and alimony. Being a goody two shoe I was, I attempted to salvage the broken marriage. Her relationship with her bf didn't work out but that didn't stop her from trying out others over the years. It happened for a few times until I could no longer take it. Emotionally hijacked, I attempted suicide after having a huge quarrel with her at a coffeeshop. A stranger stepped forward and tried to talk me out as I was crying along the road. He introduced me to sammyboyforum and encouraged me to continue living my life.

Although I survived that, I will not be automatically optimistic when a man discovers his wife has cheated on him especially if he married a Singaporean woman. Because that will also mean imminent financial ruin and possible suicide.

Wa bro, ur ang mo sibei chim.
I abit catch no ball. Like can catch cannot catch feeling when reading your experience.

Can simplify abit for ppl like me?

Gum sia gum sia.

[TuttiFruitti]

Wa bro, ur ang mo sibei chim.
I abit catch no ball. Like can catch cannot catch feeling when reading your experience.

Can simplify abit for ppl like me?

Gum sia gum sia.

Uncle, he kana 戴绿帽 and almost 殉情 because of her. Understand?

[JacqueMerlin]

Just want to find out is it common for local wives to have FWB outside and how many have experience and story to share.. And how many husbands found out and can accept it and carry on with life.. Is it the husband issue that the wife wanted sex elsewhere??

Yes it is not uncommon. But largely depends on your wealth, race and her expectations. I know of some local women who have illicit affairs and bumped into some of them during my trysts with my girls at car parks near the love hotels, even ran into one in Australia with a caucasian when I am certain her husband is an Asian.

Why did they do that? Mostly to do with unmet expectations including those unreasonable ones. Singaporean women enjoy impunity apart from societal judgement whenever they come to divorce so they basically are a protected breed that gives them no qualms about cheating. It does not even have to be the husband's fault. You will be shocked with the sort of excuses the cheating wife has; Innovation redefined.
I think how the husbands cope depends on the husband's level of epiphany reached. I almost died because I could not cope with it mentally thinking the marriage I worked so hard for has collasped. But when I realized that if I decided to be happy, I will overcome the pains and mental destruction. This Sammyboyforum opened an avenue in life I never thought existed just like taking the red pill.

Bro, no loose slut is worth ur life. I hope u have moved on.

Thank you. Yes. You are right. No slut is worth my life.

Luckily you managed to survive and moved on already! Cheers!

I still have to thank that mysterious man. He was like my Abbé Faria. Maybe he lurks in the forum and prefers anonymity but I will never forget that man who saved my life by introducing me to Sammyboyforum so many many years ago. Now I pay it forward by sharing the wisdom I acquired to other fellow forummers

Wa bro, ur ang mo sibei chim.
I abit catch no ball. Like can catch cannot catch feeling when reading your experience.
Can simplify abit for ppl like me?
Gum sia gum sia.

1. Ex wife fucks around and demand divorce + alimony + maintenance from good husband.
2. Good husband wanted to commit suicide
3. Good Husband convinced not to die by a stranger who also introduced good husband to Sammyboyforum.
4. Very risky to marry Singaporean women

[r.fowler]

Just want to find out is it common for local wives to have FWB outside and how many have experience and story to share.. And how many husbands found out and can accept it and carry on with life.. Is it the husband issue that the wife wanted sex elsewhere??

my former FB is a married and successful lady. her reason for doing so is she feel neglected and she feel she is more capable than her hubby. we have had mindblowing sex for that year or two till i exited slowly.

[MisterBig]

Just want to find out is it common for local wives to have FWB outside and how many have experience and story to share

Yes. I would say it is common. I have been with a number of local married wives. From housewives to those with successful careers.

And I think there are various reasons why they 'eat outside'. From revenge fucks on finding their hubbies having affairs, not feeling fulfilled, to feeling bored or wanting some excitement in their lives. I've even taken overseas trips with a few of them where they give excuses like going for work or with their gal friends.

So I would say it more common than one might think.

[sleepy80]

Yes. I would say it is common. I have been with a number of local married wives. From housewives to those with successful careers.

And I think there are various reasons why they 'eat outside'. From revenge fucks on finding their hubbies having affairs, not feeling fulfilled, to feeling bored or wanting some excitement in their lives. I've even taken overseas trips with a few of them where they give excuses like going for work or with their gal friends.

So I would say it more common than one might think.

I always think that Singapore wives are more conservative unlike those in Taiwan or even China Chinese. Never expect it but how many sg husbands can accept it after find out about his wife affairs outside. Maybe more samsters can share here

[JacqueMerlin]

I always think that Singapore wives are more conservative unlike those in Taiwan or even China Chinese. Never expect it but how many sg husbands can accept it after find out about his wife affairs outside. Maybe more samsters can share here

Because divorce is a costly affair.
I endured that because I don't want to go into financial ruin that quickly.

[Continental]

I always think that Singapore wives are more conservative unlike those in Taiwan or even China Chinese. Never expect it but how many sg husbands can accept it after find out about his wife affairs outside. Maybe more samsters can share here
Husband's tolerance level when knowing their wives secret affairs, i think is just the same as the wives if not worse. They will file for divorce. But some husbands tend to give their wives a chance to redeem themselves but this is not to say no wives would do the same for their straying husbands.

[TuttiFruitti]

Because divorce is a costly affair.
I endured that because I don't want to go into financial ruin that quickly.

Actually, since she was eager for divorce, you could have not agreed to sign on the divorce paper and don't need to give her anything. Instead, you could demand that she gave you monies instead if she wanted a divorce so urgently! ;)

Like that, you no need to worry about financial ruin and she can pay you to go look for another woman to replace her. :rolleyes:

[JacqueMerlin]

Actually, since she was eager for divorce, you could have not agreed to sign on the divorce paper and don't need to give her anything. Instead, you could demand that she gave you monies instead if she wanted a divorce so urgently! ;)

Like that, you no need to worry about financial ruin and she can pay you to go look for another woman to replace her. :rolleyes:


I was lucky I was able to secure a no maintenance clause. Because my lawyer did advise that since she resigned from her job, nevermind even if it's rage quit, I stand to lose if i continue fighting. I lost almost everything but the clause of no maintenance set me free. Also, legal fees are also costly. Lawyers win, she wins, I am the only loser in it. Count my losses and bail myself out when i could. Looking back, I am glad I survived. A costly lesson.

[georgie1994]

we consider lucky and know how to hide
after we meet in sugarbook.live, she already married, we continue date out, she is using a spare phone when come to contact me and hide in the safety box that her husband would not aware of.

[georgie1994]

Luckily you managed to survive and moved on already! Cheers!

can survive, fwb is not wrong, just friends with some special benefit

[georgie1994]

I avoid married women because I was also a victim of infidelity. The only married woman I shagged was a PRC whose husband took our sovereignty with contempt.

Found out about my ex wife during our marriage that she had been sleeping with other men when she came back one day to demand for divorce and alimony. Being a goody two shoe I was, I attempted to salvage the broken marriage. Her relationship with her bf didn't work out but that didn't stop her from trying out others over the years. It happened for a few times until I could no longer take it. Emotionally hijacked, I attempted suicide after having a huge quarrel with her at a coffeeshop. A stranger stepped forward and tried to talk me out as I was crying along the road. He introduced me to sammyboyforum and encouraged me to continue living my life.

Although I survived that, I will not be automatically optimistic when a man discovers his wife has cheated on him especially if he married a Singaporean woman. Because that will also mean imminent financial ruin and possible suicide.

i always think married woman has some kind of attractive, but your points made me rethink

[georgie1994]

why some people needs fwb, mostly you will get this answer...not happy or satisfied in current relationship

[georgie1994]

Wa bro, ur ang mo sibei chim.
I abit catch no ball. Like can catch cannot catch feeling when reading your experience.

Can simplify abit for ppl like me?

Gum sia gum sia.

english too good, normal people like us cannot understand full

[entering]

i always think married woman has some kind of attractive, but your points made me rethink

For me I've to be fair to my wife. If one day she come back and tell me she's fucking someone, actually I'll be very happy for her.

After our daughter passed away I think she really just don't want it. If not previously, we fuck almost everyday.

If she can find a FB outside, actually I don't mind as long as she doesn't get any serious STD and she doesn't neglect the children.

Only a few years more our kids all independent already. And we are early 40s. So she's got quite a lot of good fucking years left.

[zhenghuaboys]

I've heard of many wives cheating behind the husband's back. Quite common nowadays. Remember woman are always looking to level up. They can never settle.

[MisterBig]

I always think that Singapore wives are more conservative unlike those in Taiwan or even China Chinese. Never expect it but how many sg husbands can accept it after find out about his wife affairs outside. Maybe more samsters can share here

I didn't say that the hubbies knew... In fact, on the contrary, the hubbies of my FBs didn't know because they trust their wives. I would add... too much.

I remember once we were in HK and my FB's hubby called when we were in bed, and she took the call very calmly and I took it as a cue to fuck her even harder. From what I've seen... women can definitely lie with a straight face and their men are either naive or gullible.

Don't mean to offend any bros here who had their partners doing this to them... just saying as it is.

[Piledriver]

I was lucky I was able to secure a no maintenance clause. Because my lawyer did advise that since she resigned from her job, nevermind even if it's rage quit, I stand to lose if i continue fighting. I lost almost everything but the clause of no maintenance set me free. Also, legal fees are also costly. Lawyers win, she wins, I am the only loser in it. Count my losses and bail myself out when i could. Looking back, I am glad I survived. A costly lesson.

Thanks bro JacqueMerlin for your valuable sharing.

I am in my mid-40s now, and still not married. After reading your story, I hope to keep it that way :D

Just wondering, how did you almost lost everything? I thought you are still entitled to 50% of the monies when you sell your house?

[TuttiFruitti]

I remember once we were in HK and my FB's hubby called when we were in bed, and she took the call very calmly and I took it as a cue to fuck her even harder. From what I've seen... women can definitely lie with a straight face and their men are either naive or gullible.

I believe for woman, having more / many men is a trophy / entertainment rather than a need because they already have a husband and wants others only.

[audioslave666]

I too was cheated but my ex wife 6 months ago after together with her for 10 years & married for 7 months. throw all the blames to me and never admit her affair. now she move on with her affair partner and im left all alone struggling to move on.

i'm sure not all women are the same when come to unsatisfied condition not met. But be very aware that some will show their true self when facing hardship in a marriage.

pardon my english bros

[JacqueMerlin]

I too was cheated but my ex wife 6 months ago after together with her for 10 years & married for 7 months. throw all the blames to me and never admit her affair. now she move on with her affair partner and im left all alone struggling to move on.

i'm sure not all women are the same when come to unsatisfied condition not met. But be very aware that some will show their true self when facing hardship in a marriage.

pardon my english bros

Unmet expectations are mere excuses for infidelity. What about the situation when she married him when he's rich but by no fault of his own he loses everything? Does thta constitute as a justification for infidelity?

[MisterBig]

I too was cheated but my ex wife 6 months ago after together with her for 10 years & married for 7 months. throw all the blames to me and never admit her affair. now she move on with her affair partner and im left all alone struggling to move on.

i'm sure not all women are the same when come to unsatisfied condition not met. But be very aware that some will show their true self when facing hardship in a marriage.

pardon my english bros

Bro... I'm with you. I can understand when you say your woman putting all the blame on the hubby, and not herself.

I had an married FB some time back and she was quite a willing partner. Couple of months after we started, she discovered her hubby was having an affair. And she started blaming the hubby for everything, kick up a storm, etc., while she was still actively having an affair (with me). Saying things like she married the wrong man... I was like WTF?!

I tried talking to her about it. But there's no talking to her about her share of infidelity. Cos she just didn't see it that way. So her version of reality is quite warped.

Just hang in there bro...

[spaman7]

I didn't say that the hubbies knew... In fact, on the contrary, the hubbies of my FBs didn't know because they trust their wives. I would add... too much.

I remember once we were in HK and my FB's hubby called when we were in bed, and she took the call very calmly and I took it as a cue to fuck her even harder. From what I've seen... women can definitely lie with a straight face and their men are either naive or gullible.

Don't mean to offend any bros here who had their partners doing this to them... just saying as it is.

Indeed, I have encountered 2FBs which behave the same as yours.

[Ahboy111]

For me I've to be fair to my wife. If one day she come back and tell me she's fucking someone, actually I'll be very happy for her.

After our daughter passed away I think she really just don't want it. If not previously, we fuck almost everyday.

If she can find a FB outside, actually I don't mind as long as she doesn't get any serious STD and she doesn't neglect the children.

Only a few years more our kids all independent already. And we are early 40s. So she's got quite a lot of good fucking years left.

Oh no...i am really sorry to hear about your story. I hope this would not affect your marriage too drastically. Try speaking to her, hopefully time heals all wounds and you both can close this chapter and move on slowly with your life.

[MisterBig]

Indeed, I have encountered 2FBs which behave the same as yours.

They fuck around, nothing wrong. Their partners fuck around, absolutely not! :confused: Lol

[spaman7]

They fuck around, nothing wrong. Their partners fuck around, absolutely not! :confused: Lol

haha true.

[JacqueMerlin]

Thanks bro JacqueMerlin for your valuable sharing.

I am in my mid-40s now, and still not married. After reading your story, I hope to keep it that way :D

Just wondering, how did you almost lost everything? I thought you are still entitled to 50% of the monies when you sell your house?

Joint tenancy by default but it is also a chip on the table for her to demand for 100% of the flat in exchange for a 'No maintenance clause'. Otherwise she will fight tooth and nail to get you to pay her maintenance if you refuse to let go of that 50%.

50% with $1 maintenance or 0% with no maintenance. I choosed the latter. Painful loss one time off.

[TuttiFruitti]

Joint tenancy by default but it is also a chip on the table for her to demand for 100% of the flat in exchange for a 'No maintenance clause'. Otherwise she will fight tooth and nail to get you to pay her maintenance if you refuse to let go of that 50%.

50% with $1 maintenance or 0% with no maintenance. I choosed the latter. Painful loss one time off.

Did your lawyer even suggest not signing the divorce papers and let her consider dropping her demands if she was the one who insisted on divorcing? She wanted it impatiently / urgently right? Then let her wait if she wants everything immediately at that time...

[JacqueMerlin]

Did your lawyer even suggest not signing the divorce papers and let her consider dropping her demands if she was the one who insisted on divorcing? She wanted it impatiently / urgently right? Then let her wait if she wants everything immediately at that time...

He was very professional. He listed down the risks and let me make the choice. I choosed the safer one which is to lose everything one time and then be done with it. Because she was insistent on it and was prepared to fight tooth and nail to make a killing out of me. Singapore just cannot give enough confidence that the man can make it out of the divorce without losing more than you can.

Just look at the gag orders issue. I didn't want to take the risk.

[bignehneh]

I cheong using the principle of “no touch wife by any Singaporean”. So far, some issues happened to my friends. Those married very horny wives have a lot of problem. Those who fuck a lot before marriage continue fucking a lot after marriage (but with other guys). Those who are pretty and maintain their body and dress sexily also kana fucked a lot (continue target by other tiko bros). The group who married plain Jane bo taiji (those ladies who are too busy and taking care of kids and in the end totally cannot make it). The group that marries rich, cui and hippo wives are the best. Wives much richer than them so even if divorced, wife truly fuck it. Furthermore, hippo and look cui usually not desirable unless meet someone with special taste. Husband always eat out but still go home accompany hippo wife (need their financial support). Happy marriage group. Lol!

The best group is the single group. I have some friends who remained single and they just fucked around. All you need is a fancy car and a nice 2 bedroom condo. This group of cb kia is the smartest. Usually all high level scholars

[TuttiFruitti]

Singapore just cannot give enough confidence that the man can make it out of the divorce without losing more than you can.

Just look at the gag orders issue. I didn't want to take the risk.

Singapore law if you don't want to sign divorce papers, wife can sue you until bankrupt for not divorcing meh???!!!

Boh lah... u kidding right?

[JacqueMerlin]

Singapore law if you don't want to sign divorce papers, wife can sue you until bankrupt for not divorcing meh???!!!

Boh lah... u kidding right?

You neglected the part that I wanted a divorce too.

[Bustea]

I always think that Singapore wives are more conservative unlike those in Taiwan or even China Chinese. Never expect it but how many sg husbands can accept it after find out about his wife affairs outside. Maybe more samsters can share here

Local law protects the women well, taojiak or jiak openly also can get husband's 50% asset

[megachiongster]

we consider lucky and know how to hide
after we meet in sugarbook.live, she already married, we continue date out, she is using a spare phone when come to contact me and hide in the safety box that her husband would not aware of.

where do you guys meet your married-women to have affairs?
sugarbook? AFF? where else? im curious about this.

[donut88]

where do you guys meet your married-women to have affairs?
sugarbook? AFF? where else? im curious about this.

Colleagues.....

[donut88]

Joint tenancy by default but it is also a chip on the table for her to demand for 100% of the flat in exchange for a 'No maintenance clause'. Otherwise she will fight tooth and nail to get you to pay her maintenance if you refuse to let go of that 50%.

50% with $1 maintenance or 0% with no maintenance. I choosed the latter. Painful loss one time off.

I don't know the background of your divorce but a women cannot anyhow ask for everything and get everything. The court looks at the man's affordability and do a fair judgment. We are not like USA where ppl can get millions from a divorce or lawsuit.

The court does not want to bankrupt a person from a divorce.

I'm speaking from my interactions from divorced women. They went through all sorts of negotiations. They also wanted everything but the court is not stupid.

So I'm surprised that u gave up your flat $$. 🤔

[JacqueMerlin]

I don't know the background of your divorce but a women cannot anyhow ask for everything and get everything. The court looks at the man's affordability and do a fair judgment. We are not like USA where ppl can get millions from a divorce or lawsuit.

The court does not want to bankrupt a person from a divorce.

I'm speaking from my interactions from divorced women. They went through all sorts of negotiations. They also wanted everything but the court is not stupid.

So I'm surprised that u gave up your flat $$. 🤔

Yes true. There is a fighting chance. But what are the chances of you winning? And if you lose, what are the consequences?

If i lost that gamble, I will be tied down for life with a maintenance order that i can go to jail for if i couldn't make it.

It was a couple of hundred grands. A 1 Time pain to rid myself of a bottomless pit that will kill me faster while she continues to fuck around.

Getting a no maintenence clause is a God-send.

[xiaoboy1990]

Having a Prenup may solve the problem. If people truly marry for 'love' and fully 'trust' each other, it shouldn't be a problem signing one. Sign and forget about it until such time it's required.

Seems to be ever more important given the state of marriages these days.

[JacqueMerlin]

Having a Prenup may solve the problem. If people truly marry for 'love' and fully 'trust' each other, it shouldn't be a problem signing one. Sign and forget about it until such time it's required.

Seems to be ever more important given the state of marriages these days.

Prenup not recognized in Singapore

[xiaoboy1990]

Prenup not recognized in Singapore

It is if it fulfills certain contractual requirements and if it is within the boundaries of certain laws as drafted by an experienced family lawyer. But I'm not a lawyer so maybe any lawyers can chime in?

I think this option is not commonly explored cause people think it's a hassle, a presumed lack of trust in the partner, an additional cost or simply pantang.

[JacqueMerlin]

It is if it fulfills certain contractual requirements and if it is within the boundaries of certain laws as drafted by an experienced family lawyer. But I'm not a lawyer so maybe any lawyers can chime in?

I think this option is commonly explored cause people think it's a hassle, a presumed lack of trust in the partner, an additional cost or simply pantang.

The enforceability of prenups in Singapore
In Singapore, prenups are not enforceable in and of themselves.

This is because marriages in Singapore are governed by a combination of written laws and the principles established in court decisions (“Singapore’s Matrimonial Laws”).

[dadbod40]

The enforceability of prenups in Singapore
In Singapore, prenups are not enforceable in and of themselves.

This is because marriages in Singapore are governed by a combination of written laws and the principles established in court decisions (“Singapore’s Matrimonial Laws”).

I think like another bro mentioned, if drafted correctly, certain mechanisms can be valid... Not under matrimonial law but under contract law.

I'm not a lawyer but have some exposure due to work related matters. Maybe the professional lawyers here can provide more insight. :o

[xiaoboy1990]

The enforceability of prenups in Singapore
In Singapore, prenups are not enforceable in and of themselves.

This is because marriages in Singapore are governed by a combination of written laws and the principles established in court decisions (“Singapore’s Matrimonial Laws”).

I would suggest for everyone to read a little deeper instead of taking the first thing you see when you Google 'prenup Singapore'.

But I may be wrong and prenups may not be recognized and enforceable in Singapore. In any case, the odds are usually stacked against Singaporean men, which is unfortunate.

[JacqueMerlin]

I would suggest for everyone to read a little deeper instead of taking the first thing you see when you Google 'prenup Singapore'.

But I may be wrong and prenups may not be recognized and enforceable in Singapore. In any case, the odds are usually stacked against Singaporean men, which is unfortunate.

Were thrre pecedence where prenups were enforced to the men's advantage? Or simply just where the man can walk out of a marriage without having to pay?

[xiaoboy1990]

Were thrre pecedence where prenups were enforced to the men's advantage? Or simply just where the man can walk out of a marriage without having to pay?

Precedence of enforcing a Prenup to a man's advantage is not relevant and will never be. That should not be the intention of drawing a Prenup because it will never be enforced by the court of law, at least in Singapore. prenups were never meant to dissolve a man of his responsibilities.

The clauses within the agreement agreed by both man and woman, and their respective lawyers, will have to be within the perimeters of the law, guidelines within the woman's charter etc., and enforcement of the clause, when required, is dependent on the court. They may strike it out depending on circumstances.

But again, Prenup or not, odds are usually stacked against the man and that's one thing I believe we can all agree on.

Anyway, we side tracked a little here, Let's move on from talking about proceedings and more on having married ladies as fwb/fb, shall we.

[HonkyTonkyMan]

50% with $1 maintenance or 0% with no maintenance. I choosed the latter. Painful loss one time off.

Smart of you to chose the second option, even how tempting the $1 maintenance looks, one day it will come back to bite you in the ass if she exercise her rights to vary it and make you pay more...

[HonkyTonkyMan]

Having a Prenup may solve the problem.

Pre-nup is not enforceable here, our kangaroo courts don't recognize such things, only the west believes in such thing...

[sleepy80]

Anyone have stories to share about your married FWB here?

[r.fowler]

Anyone have stories to share about your married FWB here?

most of the reasons married FWBs goes astray is being neglected, husband took the first step by eating outside or cannot perform

at least this is what my ex FWB told me last time.

[spaman7]

most of the reasons married FWBs goes astray is being neglected, husband took the first step by eating outside or cannot perform

at least this is what my ex FWB told me last time.

Heard from some friends on the same too. Wife took as revenge.

[spaman7]

Anyone have stories to share about your married FWB here?

Seconded.:)

[Lucifer666]

Normally when a woman look outside of her marriage for sex (mostly) mean there are some problems with the marriage.
The most common reasons in my humble opinion tend to be 1) husband having affairs 2) financial matters 3) lost emotional support and feeling for the husband due to some reasons.
I would said most women look for emotional support or relationships rather than sex. Unlike men, we look for sex and the best thing is to have many ladies to have to sex the better.

[spaman7]

Normally when a woman look outside of her marriage for sex (mostly) mean there are some problems with the marriage.
The most common reasons in my humble opinion tend to be 1) husband having affairs 2) financial matters 3) lost emotional support and feeling for the husband due to some reasons.
I would said most women look for emotional support or relationships rather than sex. Unlike men, we look for sex and the best thing is to have many ladies to have to sex the better.

Good analysis on the 3points, bro.

[leuor]

Was reading this from page 1 and thought of sharing my experience, although it did not materialize into fb.

This happened few months after i ord, while i was working somewhere in the industrial area in the west. At that time wechat nearby was new and i was just exploring it and trying to see who i can add. And this lady accepted my request and we started to chat. She looked young and have that slutty cfm look which was one of the reason i added her. I will always flirt with her calling her those cute nickname, which she really like and would always asked me to call her that. I would flirt with her and make things and hot and sexual, because i can tell she is quite open. She would told me that she want me to cuddle and kiss her, and i took the opportunity to asked her out.

That's when she told me she is actually married. She is only using wechat nearby because her husband always fly overseas for business, and she was bored. She is around 29 while her husband is in his 30s then, and maybe back home 1-2 days a week kind. For someone who just ord, banging a married women is like a fantasy. Asked her when she is free so that we can meet somewhere nearby for coffee. Told me her husband is back and she cannot meet, and that she cannot msg me at night since her husband is at home.

We did continued to chat for few days before she mia and blocked me. Either she felt guilty or she found someone new already. In the end my fantasy was never fulfiled.

[r.fowler]

Heard from some friends on the same too. Wife took as revenge.

they see this as an excuse for their infidelity

[spaman7]

they see this as an excuse for their infidelity

That's true and they assumed no wrongdoings.

[SammyLee88]

after married is hard to maintain fwb relationship as mine in SB, hard to contact, scare being realised by hubby

[SammyLee88]

I think like another bro mentioned, if drafted correctly, certain mechanisms can be valid... Not under matrimonial law but under contract law.

I'm not a lawyer but have some exposure due to work related matters. Maybe the professional lawyers here can provide more insight. :o

under the contract law then need to abide the law

[SammyLee88]

They fuck around, nothing wrong. Their partners fuck around, absolutely not! :confused: Lol

everyone hope their partner loyalty but they do not give their first

[SammyLee88]

Uncle, he kana 戴绿帽 and almost 殉情 because of her. Understand?

uncle faces something serious and so kolian

[KimSiew769]

My fwb told me her husband found out about us and we ended our relationship of many years. Any one have similar experience to share and how you started. Will share my story later when free.

I had several FB who are married. Most of them didnt have sex with their husband, some- their husband cheats, while some are not satisfied by their husband.

a compilation of my married woman FB
- Ex-boss 48 yrs old who is married to my other boss (both running a business together) they have 3 kids oldest 22 yrs old
- PRC (Sg PR) 46 yrs old - husband is local , 1 kid age 14
- Local 42 yrs old - husband is local, 2 kids age 11 and 13
- My ex (we broke up, she got married) 36 yrs old - 1 kid age 3
- Neighbor 44-48 yrs old local, 3 kids age 9,12, 13
- Neighbour 52 yrs old local, 2 kids age 24, 28
- my ex-colleague 26 yrs old, no kids (we are still seeing each other)

the pros of having married woman as FWB or FB, they are discreet. i once met one of them and her family (i was with another FB) in a shopping mall and she just pretended she didnt know me and walked right pass me like a stranger. After that when we meet, she didnt bring up the incident of me with another girl - like if its a single FB, she will be making noise that i am fucking around etc

Most married woman have been through enough and are generally more open and better in sex. In fact none of the married woman i was with never think there is anything wrong with my panty fetish and i honestly think that a married woman makes a better FB

[blu3fin]

I had several FB who are married. Most of them didnt have sex with their husband, some- their husband cheats, while some are not satisfied by their husband.

a compilation of my married woman FB
- Ex-boss 48 yrs old who is married to my other boss (both running a business together) they have 3 kids oldest 22 yrs old
- PRC (Sg PR) 46 yrs old - husband is local , 1 kid age 14
- Local 42 yrs old - husband is local, 2 kids age 11 and 13
- My ex (we broke up, she got married) 36 yrs old - 1 kid age 3
- Neighbor 44-48 yrs old local, 3 kids age 9,12, 13
- Neighbour 52 yrs old local, 2 kids age 24, 28
- my ex-colleague 26 yrs old, no kids (we are still seeing each other)

the pros of having married woman as FWB or FB, they are discreet. i once met one of them and her family (i was with another FB) in a shopping mall and she just pretended she didnt know me and walked right pass me like a stranger. After that when we meet, she didnt bring up the incident of me with another girl - like if its a single FB, she will be making noise that i am fucking around etc

Most married woman have been through enough and are generally more open and better in sex. In fact none of the married woman i was with never think there is anything wrong with my panty fetish and i honestly think that a married woman makes a better FB

I suppose those are HSD women whose husbands are LSD... or lost interest.

[sleepy80]

Any husband here can accept his wife having another FB outside?

My story about my FB is that both she and husband are still loving, have a young toddler but their sex life was dull and hubby cannot last long in bed. FB is always tired after went home to make toddler sleep therefore they seldom have sex. Husband dun initiate sex and she’s the reactive type lady. But she hungrily msg me for sex every week. She will meet me for hot sex before going home to take care of kid. She give very good bj and much better than any other lady I had before. Also we sexting a lot which she dun do it with her husband.

I think many married couple does not have the chemistry way before when they are dating couple. This is what we can do with FB but not with our own wife I think.

[bigmannow]

I had several FB who are married. Most of them didnt have sex with their husband, some- their husband cheats, while some are not satisfied by their husband.

a compilation of my married woman FB
- Ex-boss 48 yrs old who is married to my other boss (both running a business together) they have 3 kids oldest 22 yrs old
- PRC (Sg PR) 46 yrs old - husband is local , 1 kid age 14
- Local 42 yrs old - husband is local, 2 kids age 11 and 13
- My ex (we broke up, she got married) 36 yrs old - 1 kid age 3
- Neighbor 44-48 yrs old local, 3 kids age 9,12, 13
- Neighbour 52 yrs old local, 2 kids age 24, 28
- my ex-colleague 26 yrs old, no kids (we are still seeing each other)

the pros of having married woman as FWB or FB, they are discreet. i once met one of them and her family (i was with another FB) in a shopping mall and she just pretended she didnt know me and walked right pass me like a stranger. After that when we meet, she didnt bring up the incident of me with another girl - like if its a single FB, she will be making noise that i am fucking around etc

Most married woman have been through enough and are generally more open and better in sex. In fact none of the married woman i was with never think there is anything wrong with my panty fetish and i honestly think that a married woman makes a better FB

married women make bette FBs as they circumstances are more favourable as they are married already. Just have to be discreet.

[spaman7]

married women make bette FBs as they circumstances are more favourable as they are married already. Just have to be discreet.

That's true. Have to be discreet.

Anyone cum (CIP) in their married FB before?

[georgie1994]

is normal, i do have fluctuate relationship with girls in sugarbook.live and we are get used to it

[georgie1994]

uncle faces something serious and so kolian

betrayal in relationship do occur often

[georgie1994]

Did your lawyer even suggest not signing the divorce papers and let her consider dropping her demands if she was the one who insisted on divorcing? She wanted it impatiently / urgently right? Then let her wait if she wants everything immediately at that time...

such a good trick to let her lost patience

[georgie1994]

Husband's tolerance level when knowing their wives secret affairs, i think is just the same as the wives if not worse. They will file for divorce. But some husbands tend to give their wives a chance to redeem themselves but this is not to say no wives would do the same for their straying husbands.

most men cannot endure as compared to women

[georgie1994]

men can forget but never forgive, women can forgive but never forget

[teki]

is normal, i do have fluctuate relationship with girls in sugarbook.live and we are get used to it

is normal, your first of multiple posts is always about sugarbook

[piichai]

my former FB is a married and successful lady. her reason for doing so is she feel neglected and she feel she is more capable than her hubby. we have had mindblowing sex for that year or two till i exited slowly.

It seems quite common that married woman have EMA.
Personally I know 3 and they all well to do and making lots of money or receive money from husband but they still steal eat outside. Many juicy stories.

For those who are married unhappily, are you afraid of the same fate that your wife steal eat outside?

[ballack99]

My fwb in her 40s is a GP from the panel of clinic, found out GPs work in a terrible condition, without colleagues and their consultation room is without window. This turned out to be one of the best place for shagging. Her hubby is also a doctor that works long hours.

[georgie1994]

i know many wife in sugarbook.live is opened for mlif and even fwb, because of 2 side needs

[georgie1994]

I think like another bro mentioned, if drafted correctly, certain mechanisms can be valid... Not under matrimonial law but under contract law.

I'm not a lawyer but have some exposure due to work related matters. Maybe the professional lawyers here can provide more insight. :o

singapore law especially in marriage or divorce part will be more advantageous on girl side?

[georgie1994]

It is if it fulfills certain contractual requirements and if it is within the boundaries of certain laws as drafted by an experienced family lawyer. But I'm not a lawyer so maybe any lawyers can chime in?

I think this option is not commonly explored cause people think it's a hassle, a presumed lack of trust in the partner, an additional cost or simply pantang.

many people do not like things that is complicated, thus many times they would not follow up the case

[georgie1994]

Uncle, he kana 戴绿帽 and almost 殉情 because of her. Understand?

understand but it does not look like true love wor

[bewan]

singapore law especially in marriage or divorce part will be more advantageous on girl side?

More advantageous on sugarbook side

[Milshe]

Yes it is not uncommon. But largely depends on your wealth, race and her expectations. I know of some local women who have illicit affairs and bumped into some of them during my trysts with my girls at car parks near the love hotels, even ran into one in Australia with a caucasian when I am certain her husband is an Asian.

Why did they do that? Mostly to do with unmet expectations including those unreasonable ones. Singaporean women enjoy impunity apart from societal judgement whenever they come to divorce so they basically are a protected breed that gives them no qualms about cheating. It does not even have to be the husband's fault. You will be shocked with the sort of excuses the cheating wife has; Innovation redefined.
I think how the husbands cope depends on the husband's level of epiphany reached. I almost died because I could not cope with it mentally thinking the marriage I worked so hard for has collasped. But when I realized that if I decided to be happy, I will overcome the pains and mental destruction. This Sammyboyforum opened an avenue in life I never thought existed just like taking the red pill.



Thank you. Yes. You are right. No slut is worth my life.



I still have to thank that mysterious man. He was like my Abbé Faria. Maybe he lurks in the forum and prefers anonymity but I will never forget that man who saved my life by introducing me to Sammyboyforum so many many years ago. Now I pay it forward by sharing the wisdom I acquired to other fellow forummers



1. Ex wife fucks around and demand divorce + alimony + maintenance from good husband.
2. Good husband wanted to commit suicide
3. Good Husband convinced not to die by a stranger who also introduced good husband to Sammyboyforum.
4. Very risky to marry Singaporean women

FYI its not just Singaporean woman. A lot of prc and viet marry isngspirean also give green hat to husband. Super common

[Milshe]

The enforceability of prenups in Singapore
In Singapore, prenups are not enforceable in and of themselves.

This is because marriages in Singapore are governed by a combination of written laws and the principles established in court decisions (“Singapore’s Matrimonial Laws”).

Just out of curiosity what was the other r alternative. How much percent was the maintenance as a percentage of your income? Just curious and maybe good info for bros here in case dio taiji

[JacqueMerlin]

FYI its not just Singaporean woman. A lot of prc and viet marry isngspirean also give green hat to husband. Super common

True, but the sense of impunity with singaporean women amplifies the possibility.

Recently the RK saga further highlights the sense of impunity Singaporean women enjoy. They have the impression that they can get away even with false sexual allegations. Just look at the numerous false allegations that singaporean men fought so hard to exonerate themselves from. This problem is so bad that it emboldens someone the audacity to even lie in parliament.

[JacqueMerlin]

Just out of curiosity what was the other r alternative. How much percent was the maintenance as a percentage of your income? Just curious and maybe good info for bros here in case dio taiji


There is no template. But the cost of not paying even if it kills you is incarceration.

[liber69]

My fwb in her 40s is a GP from the panel of clinic, found out GPs work in a terrible condition, without colleagues and their consultation room is without window. This turned out to be one of the best place for shagging. Her hubby is also a doctor that works long hours.

Does she happen to also provide aesthetic treatments, is well dressed like a tai tai with fancy watches ?

[ShuttleMaxim]

i know many wife in sugarbook.live is opened for mlif and even fwb, because of 2 side needs

I know millions of wife in saltbook.dead also opened for mlif (whatever it is) and even fwb too

[SammyLee88]

i am people girlfriend and i do have the fwb role in sugarbook.live, as my part time hobbies

[SammyLee88]

More advantageous on sugarbook side

you do on sugarbook? is it fun?

[SammyLee88]

married women make bette FBs as they circumstances are more favourable as they are married already. Just have to be discreet.

only need to keep it as secret then would be fine

[SammyLee88]

fwb is really fun and can be the night life more fruitful

[ballack99]

Does she happen to also provide aesthetic treatments, is well dressed like a tai tai with fancy watches ?

Provides aesthetic treatments, like a tai tai too. She wants some intimacy and love making :D

[liber69]

Provides aesthetic treatments, like a tai tai too. She wants some intimacy and love making :D

Nice score :) I always thought she would be open to such arrangements. Have fun ！

[Thehardone]

I always CIP with my married FB.. but miskill once and its a painful experience

[Crapping]

fwb is really fun and can be the night life more fruitful

Indeed bro

[YogaDog]

I always CIP with my married FB

CIP always the best

[showtalker]

fwb is really fun and can be the night life more fruitful

Noticed that too

[bignehneh]

One of my friend is a milf expert…every.milf wants him

fucking someone’s hot wife (http://fumacrom.com/3BCGr)

[Sexadd1ct]

Married MILFs make perfect FBs as mentioned by many bros. They are discreet, don't get jealous easily, not gluey, and horny like fuck in bed. My last one is an ID, met cos I moved into new place. Her oral skills are top notch. Matured ladies know their way around our bros. Too bad we cooled off after I met someone new and she also let the relationship die out.

[r.fowler]

Married MILFs make perfect FBs as mentioned by many bros. They are discreet, don't get jealous easily, not gluey, and horny like fuck in bed. My last one is an ID, met cos I moved into new place. Her oral skills are top notch. Matured ladies know their way around our bros. Too bad we cooled off after I met someone new and she also let the relationship die out.

good that both agree to end amicably. i was fortunate that mine end peacefully as well, wished her all the best and that's it. It has been close to 8 months and so far, we only text each other on our birthday and that's all.

Yes, married MILFs are damn adverturous, willing to try new stuff/places and they are willing to dressed up during the romp, something you do not get elsewhere.

[bignehneh]

One of my friend is a milf expert…every.milf wants him

fucking someone’s hot wife (http://fumacrom.com/3BCGr)

I always fantasize scenes like this but if you are the husband, then you will be damn sad…

[al8055]

Married FWB/FB is the best. We both have our needs and its another level of intimacy. Also very willing to try new things. My FWB requested for COF, anal, and always make me go rough on her. Its nice to always have some alternatives.

Not sure if the husband suspect anything, but its creampie after creampie each time. If ever have a FWB thats married, you are in luck!

[Werdna70]

Milf are really out to please when treated well, they are just wanting some attention, my FWB knows that I am a sucker for heels & pantyhose, on special occasions, she’ll made effort to replace her usual working pumps with heel & stockings when we meet & changes them back when she departs for home.
So treat them well with honesty & respect, the gesture will reciprocates.

[Need4Speed1]

Married MILFs make perfect FBs as mentioned by many bros. They are discreet, don't get jealous easily, not gluey, and horny like fuck in bed. My last one is an ID, met cos I moved into new place. Her oral skills are top notch. Matured ladies know their way around our bros. Too bad we cooled off after I met someone new and she also let the relationship die out.


The married milf colleague I was having an affair with was actually highly jealous.

I used to talk to this other married female who was very pretty and every time my FWB would catch me talking to her she would get so upset. She would say go out with her then. She’d stop talking to me for awhile and I would have to tell her she was the best and most beautiful and she had nothing to be jealous about.

We would make up and the sex was great. CIP a lot but mostly CIM because we do in car. Only did one time at her place and bed. Was so hot.

[georgie1994]

i do have several fwb in sugarbook.live but hide it nicely from my girlfriend

[georgie1994]

if your partner is not as naughty as you, he would not able to accept this

[georgie1994]

Milf are really out to please when treated well, they are just wanting some attention, my FWB knows that I am a sucker for heels & pantyhose, on special occasions, she’ll made effort to replace her usual working pumps with heel & stockings when we meet & changes them back when she departs for home.
So treat them well with honesty & respect, the gesture will reciprocates.

treat her well, she will be willing to do many patterns with you

[georgie1994]

More advantageous on sugarbook side

sugarbook is adventurous as it is a hide things, secret admire relationship

[georgie1994]

Married MILFs make perfect FBs as mentioned by many bros. They are discreet, don't get jealous easily, not gluey, and horny like fuck in bed. My last one is an ID, met cos I moved into new place. Her oral skills are top notch. Matured ladies know their way around our bros. Too bad we cooled off after I met someone new and she also let the relationship die out.

meet this high skill girl really make our night life more fruitful and exciting

[georgie1994]

married women make bette FBs as they circumstances are more favourable as they are married already. Just have to be discreet.

married girl more experience and know how to please guy well

[MaiSuSeh]

i do have several fwb in sugarbook.live but hide it nicely from my girlfriend

Please get it cleared up once and for all - is your boyfriend right, don't be shy just admit.

[olebolehnoleh]

CIP always the best

Of course, abuden

[Benjjtang]

One of my friend is a milf expert…every.milf wants him

fucking someone’s hot wife (http://fumacrom.com/3BCGr)

Nice thing about pumping others wife is no scare will have kids. If pregnant, the wife will abort…..Also wont be confrontational as they want to avoid trouble.

[Sexadd1ct]

Nice thing about pumping others wife is no scare will have kids. If pregnant, the wife will abort…..Also wont be confrontational as they want to avoid trouble.

Haha true.. I only knew about if after she done it. But also ended things after the abortion.. think it woke her up

[oldwabbit]

Haha true.. I only knew about if after she done it. But also ended things after the abortion.. think it woke her up

It also happened to me. When she WA about her pregnancy, my first reaction was a total shock. Speechless. The feeling of sadness and guilt were overwhelming when she went to a private hospital alone for abortion. She didn't allow me to accompany her. Before going into the operation room, she told me to wait for her call and not to WA her, and that she is going to clear all chat/call history, hoping that no one can ever find out just in case she never wake up from the operating table.

Later I was so happy and relieved when I got her WA telling me that it's done. She asked me to split the cost. I offered to pay all, she said "Nah".

[Lemonjuice]

Why not go on birth control? Removes a lot of risk when CIP

[Megawati]

sugarbook is adventurous as it is a hide things, secret admire relationship

What the fuck are you trying to say?

[Megawati]

Somebody asked me to shut up. If you do not leave your name, how I know who you are.

I will still ask the same question - What the fuck are you trying to say?

[UncleHasBeen]

Similar.
My colleague’s wife texted me.
Met for dinner. Threw herself at me. Resisted and kept it from my colleague.
Second time gave in for dinner again. She straddled and grind her pussy against my crotch at a park.
Third time, gave in surrendered and fucked her like crazy.

After a month my colleague, her husband found out. We stopped.
Confronted all parties involved. Decided to end it.
She moved out of their place. Temporarily separation.
She called me, again I gave in surrendered and became her booty call.
Went to her new place, fucked again.

Our personalities eventually kicked in and we called it quits after 2 months.
Went separate ways and she returned to her husband.
Before that she told me I was her 2nd fling and got caught by her husband second time.

About 1.5 years later bumped into our mutual friend and colleague.
We catch up about our old work place.
She told me the entire office knew about the incident between the 3 of us then.
Then she told me that the married woman has been divorced from my colleague.

No surprise to me I exclaimed.
However, to my surprised is that my ex-colleague and his wife only filed for divorce after her 5th fling.
I was 2nd fling . Three more dicks came into her before her husband filed for divorce.
I was one of the meats she hunted. :D

[Bigbluebird]

TS started thread and went missing without sharing anything :D

[Angelivy69]

Similar.
My colleague’s wife texted me.
Met for dinner. Threw herself at me. Resisted and kept it from my colleague.
Second time gave in for dinner again. She straddled and grind her pussy against my crotch at a park.
Third time, gave in surrendered and fucked her like crazy.

After a month my colleague, her husband found out. We stopped.
Confronted all parties involved. Decided to end it.
She moved out of their place. Temporarily separation.
She called me, again I gave in surrendered and became her booty call.
Went to her new place, fucked again.

Our personalities eventually kicked in and we called it quits after 2 months.
Went separate ways and she returned to her husband.
Before that she told me I was her 2nd fling and got caught by her husband second time.

About 1.5 years later bumped into our mutual friend and colleague.
We catch up about our old work place.
She told me the entire office knew about the incident between the 3 of us then.
Then she told me that the married woman has been divorced from my colleague.

No surprise to me I exclaimed.
However, to my surprised is that my ex-colleague and his wife only filed for divorce after her 5th fling.
I was 2nd fling . Three more dicks came into her before her husband filed for divorce.
I was one of the meats she hunted. :D

She is one horny wife!

[KimSiew769]

Most of my good fucks are with married woman. a few of my FBs are married, they know what they want, how to tease, what to do - no drama, no stress or commitment. in fact if u ask me, my top 3 best fucks are all with married women. They are just different from the single ladies out there, always demanding and seriously dont know what they want

[UncleHasBeen]

She is one horny wife!

Yes she was horny and that was my impression.
And she was aggressive. Texting me out of the blue.

Made intimate contact the first time we were out for dinner.
During her menses window, she called me and we fuck almost every day.

She was also the dominating one and loved it when i go down on her.
We went raw right from the start and she never flinched.

She said she had to trick her husband to fuck her on her menses day.
And her husband doesnt go down on her as often as she had hoped.

Besides all these, i had a strong feeling she wanted to be caught and wanted sex with others at the same time.

She was horny but that did not make her lost control.
I am not very clear about her relationship with her ex-husband but she wasnt those dumb pussy.

She definitely was horny but at the same time, wanted out of her marriage.

I have to say i respect and admire her husband for his patience.
He only filed for divorce after her 5th fling was exposed.

[WIBlack]

Yes she was horny and that was my impression.
And she was aggressive. Texting me out of the blue.

Made intimate contact the first time we were out for dinner.
During her menses window, she called me and we fuck almost every day.

She was also the dominating one and loved it when i go down on her.
We went raw right from the start and she never flinched.

She said she had to trick her husband to fuck her on her menses day.
And her husband doesnt go down on her as often as she had hoped.

Besides all these, i had a strong feeling she wanted to be caught and wanted sex with others at the same time.

She was horny but that did not make her lost control.
I am not very clear about her relationship with her ex-husband but she wasnt those dumb pussy.

She definitely was horny but at the same time, wanted out of her marriage.

I have to say i respect and admire her husband for his patience.
He only filed for divorce after her 5th fling was exposed.

So daring. I am sure she must be good looking too, otherwise how to find many guys.

[tabao11]

Milf are really out to please when treated well, they are just wanting some attention, my FWB knows that I am a sucker for heels & pantyhose, on special occasions, she’ll made effort to replace her usual working pumps with heel & stockings when we meet & changes them back when she departs for home.
So treat them well with honesty & respect, the gesture will reciprocates.
Totally agreed

Used to have one. We treat others with respect. Damn... I missed her

[teokc278]

Similar.
My colleague’s wife texted me.
Met for dinner. Threw herself at me. Resisted and kept it from my colleague.
Second time gave in for dinner again. She straddled and grind her pussy against my crotch at a park.
Third time, gave in surrendered and fucked her like crazy.

After a month my colleague, her husband found out. We stopped.
Confronted all parties involved. Decided to end it.
She moved out of their place. Temporarily separation.
She called me, again I gave in surrendered and became her booty call.
Went to her new place, fucked again.

Our personalities eventually kicked in and we called it quits after 2 months.
Went separate ways and she returned to her husband.
Before that she told me I was her 2nd fling and got caught by her husband second time.

About 1.5 years later bumped into our mutual friend and colleague.
We catch up about our old work place.
She told me the entire office knew about the incident between the 3 of us then.
Then she told me that the married woman has been divorced from my colleague.

No surprise to me I exclaimed.
However, to my surprised is that my ex-colleague and his wife only filed for divorce after her 5th fling.
I was 2nd fling . Three more dicks came into her before her husband filed for divorce.
I was one of the meats she hunted. :D


Upped +7 for exchange

[tabao11]

My experience is sex is damn good but dealing with aftermath is messy. Anyone agree? Till now emotions is still there.

[definition]

My experience is sex is damn good but dealing with aftermath is messy. Anyone agree? Till now emotions is still there.

Totally. Not to mention what would happen if kanna caught

[UncleHasBeen]

https://i.imgur.com/29z9NAi.jpg

https://i.imgur.com/5uypalc.jpg

These are the very few pics she took of us together in public.
We have been very discrete while we were together.
Only met in the evenings.

This pic was taken years back when we were at MBS for a 3-night stay.
Her husband went to Penang for work, and she was over the moon.
She booked the room for us and didn’t even inform me until the very morning.

Called me and told me she has a surprise for me.
Forced my hand to call in sick.
Liked I said, she is an aggressive woman.

Horny, yes she is.
Good looking, I would say she is above average looking.

I didn’t mosaic her mouth because that to me was her most attractive part.
I am a sucker for beautiful lips and great looking teeth. My fetish.:D:p

But underneath that face and figure, she is explosively toxic.
We were only good together when having sex.

From the first penetration till the last, it was raw and unprotected all the way.
She loved it that way. She knew it turned me on good.

She even beckoned me to cum in all her glory holes. I did.
It was good sex, not fantastic but good sex. :p:p:p

Other than that, it was very hard to share a life or a long-term affair with a woman of her character.
She wants what she wants, and she goes all out to get it with no regards for the consequences.

Which is why I said I admire and respect her husband.
Only after 5 discovered flings, then he went into divorce.
If u ask me, I am confident she had more than that.

[coldmine91]

https://i.imgur.com/29z9NAi.jpg


Those heavenly twins, ideal for boobfuck!

[WIBlack]

https://i.imgur.com/29z9NAi.jpg

https://i.imgur.com/5uypalc.jpg

These are the very few pics she took of us together in public.
We have been very discrete while we were together.
Only met in the evenings.

This pic was taken years back when we were at MBS for a 3-night stay.
Her husband went to Penang for work, and she was over the moon.
She booked the room for us and didn’t even inform me until the very morning.

Called me and told me she has a surprise for me.
Forced my hand to call in sick.
Liked I said, she is an aggressive woman.

Horny, yes she is.
Good looking, I would say she is above average looking.

I didn’t mosaic her mouth because that to me was her most attractive part.
I am a sucker for beautiful lips and great looking teeth. My fetish.:D:p

But underneath that face and figure, she is explosively toxic.
We were only good together when having sex.

From the first penetration till the last, it was raw and unprotected all the way.
She loved it that way. She knew it turned me on good.

She even beckoned me to cum in all her glory holes. I did.
It was good sex, not fantastic but good sex. :p:p:p

Other than that, it was very hard to share a life or a long-term affair with a woman of her character.
She wants what she wants, and she goes all out to get it with no regards for the consequences.

Which is why I said I admire and respect her husband.
Only after 5 discovered flings, then he went into divorce.
If u ask me, I am confident she had more than that.

Beautiful. Her skin looks good too! Can imagine her holding your cock in mouth...

[haikim999]

Those heavenly twins, ideal for boobfuck!

Yes very nice and sexy! Would love to get boob fucked by her!

[funfox]

https://i.imgur.com/29z9NAi.jpg

https://i.imgur.com/5uypalc.jpg

Horny, yes she is.
Good looking, I would say she is above average looking.

I didn’t mosaic her mouth because that to me was her most attractive part.
I am a sucker for beautiful lips and great looking teeth. My fetish.:D:


Indeed she looks gorgeous, shapely and her luscious lips would be perfect when wrapped around dicks. 😋 Bro UncleHasBeen you are lucky to have her when she needs it most. Mutually beneficial sexchanges. 👍🏼

[UncleHasBeen]

https://i.imgur.com/Xul8K5u.jpg

We were together for about 4.5 months then we called it quits.
While she temporary separated from her husband, we still fuck.

I was really her booty call, and I don’t mind.
But our personality can’t work out, so we ended it.

We wasn’t looking for long term or committed relationship and that was the beauty of it.
Or that was the beauty of getting involved with a married woman.

She knew exactly what she wanted. Sex and no strings attached.
She even carried on after her husband found out, I guess she wanted the best out of the separation.

This pic was our first role-play fuck-fest.
I remember it was on a Fri that we checked in for the weekend.

She brought her ‘costume’ and I was made to guess the theme.
I totally failed. She said the character she was playing was “Slutty Siti the house-maid”.

She wanted me to forcefully hug her first and rip her clothes.
Followed by fingering her before kissing her. Then rip her bra and panties apart.

And forcefully penetrate her. That was her instructions.
It didn’t work out.
The moment I landed my hands on her boobs, she was off the leashed and reversed the role.

She literally guided me with a sizeable force to have sex with her.
She was the aggressor instead!
The pics of her that I posted here, was taken when she was 45 years old.

Mature women who knows how to take care of themselves is a huge turn on for me. :D:p

[crayb]

https://i.imgur.com/Xul8K5u.jpg

We were together for about 4.5 months then we called it quits.
While she temporary separated from her husband, we still fuck.

I was really her booty call, and I don’t mind.
But our personality can’t work out, so we ended it.

We wasn’t looking for long term or committed relationship and that was the beauty of it.
Or that was the beauty of getting involved with a married woman.

She knew exactly what she wanted. Sex and no strings attached.
She even carried on after her husband found out, I guess she wanted the best out of the separation.

This pic was our first role-play fuck-fest.
I remember it was on a Fri that we checked in for the weekend.

She brought her ‘costume’ and I was made to guess the theme.
I totally failed. She said the character she was playing is “Slutty Siti the house-maid”.

She wanted me to forcefully hug her first and rip her clothes.
Followed by fingering her before kissing her. Then reap her bra and panties apart.

And forcefully penetrate her. That was her instructions.
It didn’t work out.
The moment I landed my hands on her boobs, she was off the leashed and reversed the role.

She literally guided me with a sizeable force to have sex with her.
She was the aggressor instead!
The pics of her that I posted here, was taken when she was 45 years old.

Mature women who knows how to take care of themselves is a huge turn on for me. :D:p

holy shit bro.
she is one hot woman.
lucky guy, up you!

looking forward for more sharing!

[itchybottomside]

Both also have fantastic boobs, so yummy!!

[WIBlack]

Bro UncleHasBeen, you are such lucky man!
Many women threw themselves you!

If this gem looks for you again, will u continue with her?

[Rickey]

https://i.imgur.com/Xul8K5u.jpg

We were together for about 4.5 months then we called it quits.
While she temporary separated from her husband, we still fuck.

I was really her booty call, and I don’t mind.
But our personality can’t work out, so we ended it.

We wasn’t looking for long term or committed relationship and that was the beauty of it.
Or that was the beauty of getting involved with a married woman.

She knew exactly what she wanted. Sex and no strings attached.
She even carried on after her husband found out, I guess she wanted the best out of the separation.

This pic was our first role-play fuck-fest.
I remember it was on a Fri that we checked in for the weekend.

She literally guided me with a sizeable force to have sex with her.
She was the aggressor instead!
The pics of her that I posted here, was taken when she was 45 years old.

Mature women who knows how to take care of themselves is a huge turn on for me. :D
Omg !!...just can't believe it !!...but seeing is believing :p...she is such a rare beauty n so sexy showing her sexy cleavage n 2 huge racks n such a well-proportioned n curvy body ;):D:)...not many ladies can match her beauty, sexiness n shapeliness ...no man can resist the temptation to bed her even if it is just for one night (ONS) ;):)

[sanoka]

Omg !!...just can't believe it !!...but seeing is believing :p...she is such a rare beauty n so sexy showing her sexy cleavage n 2 huge racks n such a well-proportioned n curvy body ;):D:)...not many ladies can match her beauty, sexiness n shapeliness ...no man can resist the temptation to bed her even if it is just for one night (ONS) ;):)

No need one night, 2 hours enough for me hehe :D

[UncleHasBeen]

https://i.imgur.com/5uypalc.jpg https://i.imgur.com/Xul8K5u.jpg



Both also have fantastic boobs, so yummy!!

Bro UncleHasBeen, you are such lucky man!
Many women threw themselves you!

If this gem looks for you again, will u continue with her?

I am lucky but not that lucky.
These pics are of the same person and same rack.
Just pay a little more attention u can see the similarities :D

[cheongsteer]

https://i.imgur.com/5uypalc.jpg https://i.imgur.com/Xul8K5u.jpg







I am lucky but not that lucky.
These pics are of the same person and same rack.
Just pay a little more attention u can see the similarities :D

Necklace! Bro, you super observant. This MILF delicious.

[Golden Apple]

wow she's one super hot lady and boobs to die for

[daring70]

my god, those boobs, lucky you ...

[UncleHasBeen]

Bro UncleHasBeen, you are such lucky man!
Many women threw themselves you!

If this gem looks for you again, will u continue with her?

https://i.imgur.com/bUE4A9M.jpg

When we first called our thing off, we did get together a few times.
She was always the initiator. She messaged and i usually responded.

But that time the frequencies were much lower, liked once in a month.
Then we totally stopped after 6 months as my wife had a health issue, a scare.

Since then she will still messaged with suggestive messages and pics to entice me.
But i have left her alone for almost 4 years now.

We havent fucked or met for 4 years but she still keep sending me pics of her and stuff.

This was sent few months ago. She knows very well i love her lips, her mouth and this is how she does it. :p

[dumdum]

https://i.imgur.com/bUE4A9M.jpg

When we first called our thing off, we did get together a few times.
She was always the initiator. She messaged and i usually responded.

But that time the frequencies were much lower, liked once in a month.
Then we totally stopped after 6 months as my wife had a health issue, a scare.

Since then she will still messaged with suggestive messages and pics to entice me.
But i have left her alone for almost 4 years now.

We havent fucked or met for 4 years but she still keep sending me pics of her and stuff.

This was sent few months ago. She knows very well i love her lips, her mouth and this is how she does it. :p

Upped you +17pts for sharing a nice pic...

[superstiffy]

she is 周慧敏 leh :eek::D

[UncleHasBeen]

she is 周慧敏 leh :eek::D

玉女掌门人 ?? :D:D:D

[entering]

https://i.imgur.com/5uypalc.jpg https://i.imgur.com/Xul8K5u.jpg

I am lucky but not that lucky.
These pics are of the same person and same rack.
Just pay a little more attention u can see the similarities :D

Bro, you too humble already. That rack, if not considered lucky, then what kind of rack you want?

By the way, i like short hair girls more. It's her short hair that makes her super attractive to me. You damn lucky.

[WIBlack]

https://i.imgur.com/bUE4A9M.jpg

When we first called our thing off, we did get together a few times.
She was always the initiator. She messaged and i usually responded.

But that time the frequencies were much lower, liked once in a month.
Then we totally stopped after 6 months as my wife had a health issue, a scare.

Since then she will still messaged with suggestive messages and pics to entice me.
But i have left her alone for almost 4 years now.

We havent fucked or met for 4 years but she still keep sending me pics of her and stuff.

This was sent few months ago. She knows very well i love her lips, her mouth and this is how she does it. :p

She's such a teaser!

One thing I notice is that she touched up on her nose, but who cares.. you men like pretty & horny ladies.

Well, if you loke it this way, jist keep yourself happy. Most important is dont get hurt by flirty women who play with your heart & mind.

[Rickey]

One thing I notice is that she touched up on her nose, but who cares.. you men like pretty & horny ladies.

Wow !!...sis WIBlack...u r so observant :p...but sis...how u know we men like pretty n horny ladies arhh ??? ;):)

[WIBlack]

Wow !!...sis WIBlack...u r so observant :p...but sis...how u know we men like pretty n horny ladies arhh ??? ;):)

Bro, by reading the threats and stories here lo.
Knew a few friends who will share some stuff with me too, so why not learn more. I like to look at pretty ladies and admire them. Maybe because I am not a looker, so I tend to look at how they look confident and dress up. I am not a bi btw. LoL

[Rickey]

Bro, by reading the threats and stories here lo.
Knew a few friends who will share some stuff with me too, so why not learn more. I like to look at pretty ladies and admire them. Maybe because I am not a looker, so I tend to look at how they look confident and dress up. I am not a bi btw. LoL
Thanks for clarifying sis :)...Oic...yes, it is always good to learn something new every day :)...tis will brighten up our lives n make us more knowledgeable abt things ard us ;)...wow, didn't know u also look n admire pple of yr same kind :p:)..even though u say u r not a bi...but it's good then u can learn to dress up as prettily n confidently as they do n enhance yr own sex appeal :D...all best wishes to u sis :)...hope u too will be well sought after as time goes by ;)

[UncleHasBeen]

She's such a teaser!

One thing I notice is that she touched up on her nose, but who cares.. you men like pretty & horny ladies.

Well, if you loke it this way, jist keep yourself happy. Most important is dont get hurt by flirty women who play with your heart & mind.

https://i.imgur.com/9JN5ofi.jpg

This is another of her pics she sent regularly with an element of tease.
This one was quite recent.

She is out to taunt and torment me.
Just like a psychotic stalker.

She chose this spot because we fucked there before.
It was our one and only fuck in the public and we gave it to Bukit Timah nature reserves.

Memorable because not only it was our first and only public fucks, but it was also our only fuck session that got interrupted.
Interrupted by a bunch of senior hikers twice.

The same group of senior hikers twice!!! :D:D:D

[superstiffy]

玉女掌门人 ?? :D:D:D

if u know then agar agar we are same uncle club one.. ;)

[UncleHasBeen]

if u know then agar agar we are same uncle club one.. ;)

https://i.imgur.com/xef3N1o.gif

My goddess :D:p

[Banaber]

454341

the in-car photo also got 邱淑贞 vibes~ my goddess!

[SerflySGR]

if u know then agar agar we are same uncle club one.. ;)

https://i.imgur.com/xef3N1o.gif

My goddess :D:p



https://www.justwatch.com/images/backdrop/257452871/s640/the-romancing-star-iii

Good times, Bro UncleHasBeen and Bro superstiffy

[WIBlack]

454341

the in-car photo also got 邱淑贞 vibes~ my goddess!

I like her too. Those HK movies we used to watch since young...

[WIBlack]

LoL.. You should share your this story in the 'Having sex in public' thread.

Go for her again if you want to be insanely emotional tormented by her. She is just looking for good time fishes to have fun with.

https://i.imgur.com/9JN5ofi.jpg

This is another of her pics she sent regularly with an element of tease.
This one was quite recent.

She is out to taunt and torment me.
Just like a psychotic stalker.

She chose this spot because we fucked there before.
It was our one and only fuck in the public and we gave it to Bukit Timah nature reserves.

Memorable because not only it was our first and only public fucks, but it was also our only fuck session that got interrupted.
Interrupted by a bunch of senior hikers twice.

The same group of senior hikers twice!!! :D:D:D

[UncleHasBeen]

LoL.. You should share your this story in the 'Having sex in public' thread.

Go for her again if you want to be insanely emotional tormented by her. She is just looking for good time fishes to have fun with.

I will share that bit later.
I started my own thread to document my Young Dumb and full of Cum days. :D:p

https://sbf.guru/showthread.php?t=864316

[itchybottomside]

454341

the in-car photo also got 邱淑贞 vibes~ my goddess!

Wish she had gone full nude in those CatIII movies

[tabao11]

Damn bro u make me horny and miss my ex fb

[UncleHasBeen]

Damn bro u make me horny and miss my ex fb

Would u have pics of your ex-FB to share here? :D

[tabao11]

Would u have pics of your ex-FB to share here? :D
Sorry bro, we promise each other to keep it discreet. I will honor the promise as always

[cheongsteer]

[QUOTE=UncleHasBeen;21156018]https://i.imgur.com/9JN5ofi.jpg

She is pretty, what a gem. Should bring to hotel for great time.

[Lemonjuice]

How do you all get MILF contacts?

[loneki]

How do you all get MILF contacts?

Love to know too

[Lemonjuice]

I just lose one :(

[Rickey]

I just lose one :(
Sad..Wat happened ????:confused:

[Lemonjuice]

Sad..Wat happened ????:confused:

Was on heated text exchange when I say let's end it. She say ok. Few days later when I texted back she says no longer want to continue.

[HonkyTonkyMan]

Was on heated text exchange when I say let's end it. She say ok. Few days later when I texted back she says no longer want to continue.
Well never write her off, she might change her mind..women if they can't find what they had from their hub, once they turn outside they will try to keep it going..especially for married women, its hard for them to find suitable replacement as they have to be discreet..

[Lemonjuice]

Well never write her off, she might change her mind..women if they can't find what they had from their hub, once they turn outside they will try to keep it going..especially for married women, its hard for them to find suitable replacement as they have to be discreet..

I thought on the contrary, easy for women to find fwb. Guys on the other hand, has a harder time.

[HonkyTonkyMan]

I thought on the contrary, easy for women to find fwb. Guys on the other hand, has a harder time.

Single maybe but married most of them are very discreet, they normally turn to those they are really comfortable with..

[Rickey]

I thought on the contrary, easy for women to find fwb. Guys on the other hand, has a harder time.

Single maybe but married most of them are very discreet, they normally turn to those they are really comfortable with..
Agree with wat both bros said respectively :)

Yes to wat bro lemonjuice said....it's easier for married women to find their fwb becos the decision as to who to go is entirely up to them n it is theirs alone to make...they can even take their time to choose the one she wants...but as for guys, we r dependent on the married women's decision n we hv to do a lot of hard chasing to finally land them as fwb...the women r the choosers n we guys r the 'choosee'...it's like GL, we guys r in the fish tank for them to choose their most suitable ones i/o the other way round

As for bro HonkyTonkyMan...yes, he is correct too to say that most married women want to be discreet when they want to come out to play with other men behind their husband's back...the consequences they well know will be horrendous if their husbands find out...n of course they will want to choose the guys who they feel won't compromise them during or after the r/s

[Rickey]

Well never write her off, she might change her mind..women if they can't find what they had from their hub, once they turn outside they will try to keep it going..especially for married women, its hard for them to find suitable replacement as they have to be discreet..
Yes, quite possible...that's why never close yr door completely cos there may be a day they might just turn ard n cum back to u if their situation change for the worse n they think back that maybe u r better than the others previously had after all.

and yes, they will usually stick to 1 fwb only unless her friends can recommend her others on a discreet basis...but usually, the majority of women once they make up their minds to leave or discard u, they seldom change their minds after that....they r quite strong minded pple...they would prefer to find someone new rather than going back to the same old 1.. it is actually something like when we resign n leave a company most of us do not want to go back to the same company to work again as the reasons for leaving in the 1st place r usually acrimonious unless it is a friendly parting of ways...

[Lemonjuice]

It's been weeks. I still don't know how it will pan out.

It may be a case she choose to "stay single."

[UncleHasBeen]

My MILF/Married women contacts are all within my social/work circle.
I am in my 50’s now and I am not current with the dating/fucking app out there.

I don’t have a pool or a harem of uninitiated MILF/Married women waiting for me to put my dip stick in.
At least not during my active years.

Just talking about MILF/Married women, I get them all within my social/work circle.
Half the time I make the first move but that is after they gave me all the ‘come try me’ signs.

It could be verbal or body, but I never go in cold not with this group of women.
I like SYT but if it is a satisfying, no frills and fulfilling sexual relationship, MILF/Married women are the best, hands down.

I had single women, young and not so young plenty of them.
Different relationship timeline but when it comes to MILF/Married women, they make every encounter savouring best.

How and why these women would give me the ‘come try me’ signs?
They already have been studying me or their potential meat-lust.

They are confident, comfortable and cautious on all aspects of me.
They know me either directly or through their BF, husbands or friends.

To them, I would fit their expectations.
And most times is not about sex expectations.

These women want an affair, a secretive relationship and a dick-call all rolled into one. This whole package is a turn on for them.

If u are giving off a vibe or impression that u are only a good fuck and nothing else, I can safely tell u these women won’t be too interested in u.
Maybe for a fuck and that’s it.
Basically if u are dumb fuck to them, that it too.

But to keep them wanting u for the long term, u need to have these.
They want your time when they want it.
They want your silence when they need it.
They want your comfort when they need it.
They want all of u present in front of them when they want it.
And most important they need your reliability on top of u being dependable.

If u can give off these vibes or qualities, I can assure u women from this group will look for u and gives u the hint.
The ‘come try me’ sign.

When once u have them, u can then start to play with their rules against them slowly.
Let them own u for a start.
Once they tasted u, it will be no turning back for them.

Trust me as an old uncle. U must give in to them first.
Once they are used to u, u can start pushing the envelope.

Many will do a 180 slowly and be at your beckon call.
The best part, your looks is not essential if u know how to play your cards right.

This is a long and rewarding game.
I suggest u start to widen your social circle and keep your eyes open.
When they see what they like, the signs will appear.

[rollingthunder]

I have a little secret which nobody from my family and social circle knows about. I’ve been keeping this secret for the past 2 years ever since the circuit breaker in 2020. I want to use this platform to let it out from my heart, simply because I felt guilty about what I’ve done. Hope bros don’t mind.

It was around mid-April 2020, working from home and not able to go anywhere has made me felt bored. So, I spent most of my time on my phone using WeChat to add and chat with strangers using the “Nearby” function. Well, mostly these people I got are basically Chinese MLs nearby trying to get you to secretly visit them during CB period.

Throughout the whole process, there was a local Singaporean lady who responded to my greetings. Her display picture was a photo of her facing a scenic sunset over a beach somewhere with her back facing the camera. I couldn’t tell if she is young, old, ugly or chio. We hit it off well, talked about various topics like education, travel, hobbies and sex life.

After a week of chatting, she suggested that we should meet up for a quick lunch but circuit breaker prevented that and so plans changed to an invitation to her place for a homecooked lunch. She provided me her address and I was surprised that she is staying only 2 blocks away from me. I was scared at the beginning with doubts and suspicion that I may be walking into a scam or be a potential victim of a crime, simply because I don’t know if she is real and how she looked like.

I was walking along her corridor and I could smell the lunch she cooked from the outside. Knocked on her door, low and behold a lady in her early 40s opened the door and invited me in for lunch that was already prepared on the dining table.

There was nobody else in the house, appears to me that she is staying alone. After lunch, she turned on the television and introduced some Netflix dramas she is watching at that time. As we relax on the sofa, she suddenly hugged me and told me that she missed the warmth of a man. Well, the rest was history as she mounted me and start to rock me on the sofa. Bros here must be wondering if I did raw, well the answer is simply yes because I didn’t expect sex would be on the menu that quick. Didn’t managed to prepare helmets.

This affair went on for a few weeks and it is always during lunch time. One day, she chased me out at about 4pm without any explanation. Probed her about it and she told me that her daughter is coming home from school. She is a married women with one daughter in lower secondary school. I’m shocked, because I’ve been fucking another guy’s wife! Her husband is stucked in Australia due to his work and COVID lockdown.

She told me that she was neglected by her husband for years after their daughter was born. She told me she has needs too and fucking a young guy like me brings her back to her younger self. After I found out her situation, we still continue to message each other and meet up for some romping session during covid period. This went on for another year or so, till this Jan 2022 when suddenly her WeChat was deactivated. Not sure what happened, didn’t dare to find out or hang around at her place. Shall let this secret rest and lie in the dark. I feel bad for her husband and I think I shouldn't had done this.

[donut88]

It's ok bro.

Take it as u doing someone a favour.

If it's not u, someone else will be doing it to her. It doesn't stop at you.

And look from positive angle. U actually helping her to cope with her mental and emotional stress. If she didn't look for a man, what could happen to her? Take knife and slash herself or slash someone? Or jump down from her block? U might have just saved her life.


I have a little secret which nobody from my family and social circle knows about. I’ve been keeping this secret for the past 2 years ever since the circuit breaker in 2020. I want to use this platform to let it out from my heart, simply because I felt guilty about what I’ve done. Hope bros don’t mind.

It was around mid-April 2020, working from home and not able to go anywhere has made me felt bored. So, I spent most of my time on my phone using WeChat to add and chat with strangers using the “Nearby” function. Well, mostly these people I got are basically Chinese MLs nearby trying to get you to secretly visit them during CB period.

Throughout the whole process, there was a local Singaporean lady who responded to my greetings. Her display picture was a photo of her facing a scenic sunset over a beach somewhere with her back facing the camera. I couldn’t tell if she is young, old, ugly or chio. We hit it off well, talked about various topics like education, travel, hobbies and sex life.

After a week of chatting, she suggested that we should meet up for a quick lunch but circuit breaker prevented that and so plans changed to an invitation to her place for a homecooked lunch. She provided me her address and I was surprised that she is staying only 2 blocks away from me. I was scared at the beginning with doubts and suspicion that I may be walking into a scam or be a potential victim of a crime, simply because I don’t know if she is real and how she looked like.

I was walking along her corridor and I could smell the lunch she cooked from the outside. Knocked on her door, low and behold a lady in her early 40s opened the door and invited me in for lunch that was already prepared on the dining table.

There was nobody else in the house, appears to me that she is staying alone. After lunch, she turned on the television and introduced some Netflix dramas she is watching at that time. As we relax on the sofa, she suddenly hugged me and told me that she missed the warmth of a man. Well, the rest was history as she mounted me and start to rock me on the sofa. Bros here must be wondering if I did raw, well the answer is simply yes because I didn’t expect sex would be on the menu that quick. Didn’t managed to prepare helmets.

This affair went on for a few weeks and it is always during lunch time. One day, she chased me out at about 4pm without any explanation. Probed her about it and she told me that her daughter is coming home from school. She is a married women with one daughter in lower secondary school. I’m shocked, because I’ve been fucking another guy’s wife! Her husband is stucked in Australia due to his work and COVID lockdown.

She told me that she was neglected by her husband for years after their daughter was born. She told me she has needs too and fucking a young guy like me brings her back to her younger self. After I found out her situation, we still continue to message each other and meet up for some romping session during covid period. This went on for another year or so, till this Jan 2022 when suddenly her WeChat was deactivated. Not sure what happened, didn’t dare to find out or hang around at her place. Shall let this secret rest and lie in the dark. I feel bad for her husband and I think I shouldn't had done this.

[Rickey]

I have a little secret which nobody from my family and social circle knows about. I’ve been keeping this secret for the past 2 years ever since the circuit breaker in 2020. I want to use this platform to let it out from my heart, simply because I felt guilty about what I’ve done. Hope bros don’t mind.

It was around mid-April 2020, working from home and not able to go anywhere has made me felt bored. So, I spent most of my time on my phone using WeChat to add and chat with strangers using the “Nearby” function. Well, mostly these people I got are basically Chinese MLs nearby trying to get you to secretly visit them during CB period.

Throughout the whole process, there was a local Singaporean lady who responded to my greetings. Her display picture was a photo of her facing a scenic sunset over a beach somewhere with her back facing the camera. I couldn’t tell if she is young, old, ugly or chio. We hit it off well, talked about various topics like education, travel, hobbies and sex life.

After a week of chatting, she suggested that we should meet up for a quick lunch but circuit breaker prevented that and so plans changed to an invitation to her place for a homecooked lunch. She provided me her address and I was surprised that she is staying only 2 blocks away from me. I was scared at the beginning with doubts and suspicion that I may be walking into a scam or be a potential victim of a crime, simply because I don’t know if she is real and how she looked like.

I was walking along her corridor and I could smell the lunch she cooked from the outside. Knocked on her door, low and behold a lady in her early 40s opened the door and invited me in for lunch that was already prepared on the dining table.

There was nobody else in the house, appears to me that she is staying alone. After lunch, she turned on the television and introduced some Netflix dramas she is watching at that time. As we relax on the sofa, she suddenly hugged me and told me that she missed the warmth of a man. Well, the rest was history as she mounted me and start to rock me on the sofa. Bros here must be wondering if I did raw, well the answer is simply yes because I didn’t expect sex would be on the menu that quick. Didn’t managed to prepare helmets.

This affair went on for a few weeks and it is always during lunch time.

She told me that she was neglected by her husband for years after their daughter was born. She told me she has needs too and fucking a young guy like me brings her back to her younger self. After I found out her situation, we still continue to message each other and meet up for some romping session during covid period. This went on for another year or so, till this Jan 2022 when suddenly her WeChat was deactivated. Not sure what happened, didn’t dare to find out or hang around at her place..
Thks for sharing yr this little dark secret bro :)...lucky u !...u found a v. rare married women in wechat who don't mind meeting u up after a week of chatting n even fucked with u on the initial 1st meet-up :);)

[unsung80]

I have a little secret which nobody from my family and social circle knows about. I’ve been keeping this secret for the past 2 years ever since the circuit breaker in 2020. I want to use this platform to let it out from my heart, simply because I felt guilty about what I’ve done. Hope bros don’t mind.

It was around mid-April 2020, working from home and not able to go anywhere has made me felt bored. So, I spent most of my time on my phone using WeChat to add and chat with strangers using the “Nearby” function. Well, mostly these people I got are basically Chinese MLs nearby trying to get you to secretly visit them during CB period.

Throughout the whole process, there was a local Singaporean lady who responded to my greetings. Her display picture was a photo of her facing a scenic sunset over a beach somewhere with her back facing the camera. I couldn’t tell if she is young, old, ugly or chio. We hit it off well, talked about various topics like education, travel, hobbies and sex life.

After a week of chatting, she suggested that we should meet up for a quick lunch but circuit breaker prevented that and so plans changed to an invitation to her place for a homecooked lunch. She provided me her address and I was surprised that she is staying only 2 blocks away from me. I was scared at the beginning with doubts and suspicion that I may be walking into a scam or be a potential victim of a crime, simply because I don’t know if she is real and how she looked like.

I was walking along her corridor and I could smell the lunch she cooked from the outside. Knocked on her door, low and behold a lady in her early 40s opened the door and invited me in for lunch that was already prepared on the dining table.

There was nobody else in the house, appears to me that she is staying alone. After lunch, she turned on the television and introduced some Netflix dramas she is watching at that time. As we relax on the sofa, she suddenly hugged me and told me that she missed the warmth of a man. Well, the rest was history as she mounted me and start to rock me on the sofa. Bros here must be wondering if I did raw, well the answer is simply yes because I didn’t expect sex would be on the menu that quick. Didn’t managed to prepare helmets.

This affair went on for a few weeks and it is always during lunch time. One day, she chased me out at about 4pm without any explanation. Probed her about it and she told me that her daughter is coming home from school. She is a married women with one daughter in lower secondary school. I’m shocked, because I’ve been fucking another guy’s wife! Her husband is stucked in Australia due to his work and COVID lockdown.

She told me that she was neglected by her husband for years after their daughter was born. She told me she has needs too and fucking a young guy like me brings her back to her younger self. After I found out her situation, we still continue to message each other and meet up for some romping session during covid period. This went on for another year or so, till this Jan 2022 when suddenly her WeChat was deactivated. Not sure what happened, didn’t dare to find out or hang around at her place. Shall let this secret rest and lie in the dark. I feel bad for her husband and I think I shouldn't had done this.

Congrats, you had fucked a MILF. you were a toy for her horniness that's all. Nothing more. Your had your pleasure.

[Lemonjuice]

Yes, quite possible...that's why never close yr door completely cos there may be a day they might just turn ard n cum back to u if their situation change for the worse n they think back that maybe u r better than the others previously had after all.

and yes, they will usually stick to 1 fwb only unless her friends can recommend her others on a discreet basis...but usually, the majority of women once they make up their minds to leave or discard u, they seldom change their minds after that....they r quite strong minded pple...they would prefer to find someone new rather than going back to the same old 1.. it is actually something like when we resign n leave a company most of us do not want to go back to the same company to work again as the reasons for leaving in the 1st place r usually acrimonious unless it is a friendly parting of ways...


This is the only place where people are encouraging. Most random people I talk to will say it's not right, give up etc.

If still maintain contact, considered acrimonious?

[AHKIVE]

Nice share bro rollingthunder. I'm sure many guys would love to be in your shoe!

[Rickey]

This is the only place where people are encouraging. Most random people I talk to will say it's not right, give up etc.

If still maintain contact, considered acrimonious?
Depending whether the contact is initiated by u or her...if it is by her, there is a little chance or hope of a cum back...but the bitterness of the break-up from the way u described would hv taken a serious toll on yr r/s with her already....

[Lemonjuice]

Depending whether the contact is initiated by u or her...if it is by her, there is a little chance or hope of a cum back...but the bitterness of the break-up from the way u described would hv taken a serious toll on yr r/s with her already....

I texted to start in contact, but the replies are short n cold.

[kuasimi]

https://www.channelnewsasia.com/singapore/beach-road-liang-seah-chopper-man-attack-woman-2626486


Man with chopper arrested after woman slashed at Beach Road



SINGAPORE: A 46-year-old man was arrested for attempted murder on Thursday evening (Apr 14) after he allegedly attacked a woman in the Beach Road area, leaving her bleeding profusely from slash wounds.

Police said they responded to the case at about 5.30pm.



Preliminary investigations revealed that the man purportedly slit his own wrists with a chopper before authorities arrived. The woman was found at the scene with slash wounds.

Police said in an update on Thursday night that the victim is a 41-year-old woman believed to be the man's wife.

They added that officers located the armed man in the area and deployed a Taser to subdue him before making an arrest.

Both the man and woman were conscious when taken to hospital. The chopper was seized and investigations are ongoing, said the police.


"The police are aware of videos circulating online on the incident, and would like to urge members of the public to refrain from circulating the videos and speculating on the case,” they added.



The Singapore Civil Defence Force (SCDF) said it received a call for assistance at 75 Beach Road at about 5.30pm, adding that two people were taken to Tan Tock Seng Hospital.


Footage of the incident showed a man dressed in black apparently slashing the woman several times as she lay on the road behind a parked car. Building signage identified the location as next to Zhong Hua Steamboat and Hotel Calmo Bugis.

The man’s hands were covered in blood and he held onto the weapon as he briefly attempted to engage with those who tried to intervene, before attempting to flee. The woman, who later managed to sit up, was seen with blood on her head, arms and legs.

Members of the public, some of whom appeared to be staff members from a nearby eatery, were seen attempting to stop the man by throwing objects such as chairs and dustbins.

A CNA reporter saw at least 10 police cars at Liang Seah Street at about 6pm as well as several ambulances. The hotpot restaurant was also cordoned off.

The man will be charged in court on Saturday. If found guilty of attempted murder, he faces life imprisonment, imprisonment of up to 20 years and a fine, or both.

[alphapunk2]

My MILF/Married women contacts are all within my social/work circle.
I am in my 50’s now and I am not current with the dating/fucking app out there.

I don’t have a pool or a harem of uninitiated MILF/Married women waiting for me to put my dip stick in.
At least not during my active years.

Just talking about MILF/Married women, I get them all within my social/work circle.
Half the time I make the first move but that is after they gave me all the ‘come try me’ signs.

It could be verbal or body, but I never go in cold not with this group of women.
I like SYT but if it is a satisfying, no frills and fulfilling sexual relationship, MILF/Married women are the best, hands down.

I had single women, young and not so young plenty of them.
Different relationship timeline but when it comes to MILF/Married women, they make every encounter savouring best.

How and why these women would give me the ‘come try me’ signs?
They already have been studying me or their potential meat-lust.

They are confident, comfortable and cautious on all aspects of me.
They know me either directly or through their BF, husbands or friends.

To them, I would fit their expectations.
And most times is not about sex expectations.

These women want an affair, a secretive relationship and a dick-call all rolled into one. This whole package is a turn on for them.

If u are giving off a vibe or impression that u are only a good fuck and nothing else, I can safely tell u these women won’t be too interested in u.
Maybe for a fuck and that’s it.
Basically if u are dumb fuck to them, that it too.

But to keep them wanting u for the long term, u need to have these.
They want your time when they want it.
They want your silence when they need it.
They want your comfort when they need it.
They want all of u present in front of them when they want it.
And most important they need your reliability on top of u being dependable.

If u can give off these vibes or qualities, I can assure u women from this group will look for u and gives u the hint.
The ‘come try me’ sign.

When once u have them, u can then start to play with their rules against them slowly.
Let them own u for a start.
Once they tasted u, it will be no turning back for them.

Trust me as an old uncle. U must give in to them first.
Once they are used to u, u can start pushing the envelope.

Many will do a 180 slowly and be at your beckon call.
The best part, your looks is not essential if u know how to play your cards right.

This is a long and rewarding game.
I suggest u start to widen your social circle and keep your eyes open.
When they see what they like, the signs will appear.

thank you for the advice. upped your points!

[Roytt8]

thank you for the advice. upped your points! Great learning points . Cheers

[Rickey]

I texted to start in contact, but the replies are short n cold.
If that's the case, not much hope to rekindle the r/s although the short n cold replies givs a little hope....u hv to try damn hard ..all the best to u bro :)

[Lemonjuice]

If that's the case, not much hope to rekindle the r/s although the short n cold replies givs a little hope....u hv to try damn hard ..all the best to u bro :)

What's the alternative?

[UncleHasBeen]

https://i.imgur.com/1Zr7NVE.jpg https://i.imgur.com/d9X0F3o.jpg

Let me share my most memorable ladies that I have outside of my married life.
This is the most explosively toxic one. Local.
This pic, we stayed at MBS for a 3 day fuck-fest 2018.

Ex-wife of my ex-colleague.
She made the first move and all the moves at me.

I just went along the ride.
It took me a while to tame her, but it is still not meant to be.

We parted after an intense and erotic 5 months fuckship.
This pic of her when she was 45 years old.

She is 2 years my junior.

We have not fucked for 4 years since.
She wanted to fuck and till today she keep sending me pics to tease me.

I am not ready to fuck her yet. I am not in the need to.
Why? Liked I said, she is explosively toxic.

At first, I thought she was just a sex addict, but she is more than that.
I am not bad-mouthing her; I have certain boundaries for pussies outside of my married life.

Most women will respect that, she knows no boundaries.
We had good times and we still have even now if I keep my dick away from her body. :D

She is divorced and single for the past 4.5 years.
I can have her whenever I want it, but it will come with consequences that I am not willing to bear.

:p:D:cool:

[UncleHasBeen]

https://i.imgur.com/hHw1Opt.jpg https://i.imgur.com/V5DNK0n.jpg

This must be one my top fave. Local.
The one at the top was taken in 2018 when we vacationed at Bali.

She is 15 years my junior, married.
We met at the Love Kuching Project as volunteers then.

Clicked, flirted and she confided in me about her marital problems then.
Then we fucked intensively like 3 times a week for 3 months.

She is my fave because I am a sucker for beautiful lips that accentuate the smile.
Her ass is asscellent and she is extremely smart. Total turn on.

We still meet and fuck but not that often anymore.
She has remarried and I am truthfully happy for her.

So why she still wants to fuck me when she is already married to a new and better man?

Simply because her husband is not me, I am not him.
Same logic we apply to our extra marital fucks, women do the same logic thinking too.

:p:D:cool:

[UncleHasBeen]

https://i.imgur.com/EAXk4Od.jpg

This is the one, my sex goddess.
Indonesian Chinese living in Jakarta.

If I can only keep one pussy besides my wife, this would be the one.
We are still in contact and fuck whenever she is here in SG or me over in Indonesia.

She is 10 years older than me.
She is a single mom to a teen girl.

This pic was taken in 2018, when I visited her in Jakarta.
She was 56 then.
She looks younger for her age.

Hot as fuck.
She lives her life like a Tai Tai.
Taking really good care of her body.

We have maintained our relationship rock solid for almost 10 years now.
She was already divorced when we met.
She was 50 and I was 40.

We met at a seminar at KL, Malaysia.
She visits SG often and she will stay for a week every time, we fuck like crazy every time.

I don’t visit Jakarta as often as she does SG, but she is always very appreciative of the effort I make to go there.
She will shower me like a royalty there.

That is also the big difference between having a relationship with a SYT, married woman, MILF and older women.

:p:D:cool:

[UncleHasBeen]

If u have read my opinion on getting such ladies earlier u will notice that these ladies that I just shared.
We got to know each other through a social circle.

She was my colleague’s wife.
She has been observing me before making her moves.

She and I were volunteers at Love Kuching Project.
She too observed me before letting her guard and panties down for me.

She, my sex goddess used the weekend seminar to observe me and decided I was worth the try.

All of them gave me the ‘come try me’ sign the moment we started socializing.
My advice, if u keep your social circle wide enough.

Don’t put up walls around u.
Be patient, don’t rush and play it cool not hard to get, just cool.

Paced yourself, be confident not desperate.
Again, not hard to get.

Take it slow, confident and be smooth about it.
U will become a pussy-bait.

Slow is smooth, smooth is fast.
Those that bite will worth your time and effort.
And they will be the one worth holding onto.

My humble sharing as a Uncle-has been :p:D:cool:

[sbfblack]

when i was in my mid 20ish, the term FwB was popular and since i have never had any FwB before, so i tried looking for it. back then its pretty easy to get girls on apps like beetalk, okcupid etc. all before tinder came along.

so i managed to find some young milf (early 30ish to year 40ish) local woman in such app, and since i was younger, i guess i was fresh meat to these hungry woman who somehow decide to cheat on their husband. of course i took the opportunity to fuck them.

the best one i had is she was 31 and i was 27 back then, although she got kind of disappointing boob but her pussy make up for it. it was one of the best tasting one ( compared to all my gfs i have tasted before) and she knows how to fuck the hell out of me. she also allow me to cream her.

we broke thing up in 6 month time, because she suddenly afraid of her husband finding things out. the last i checked after a long time, she work in the same company as me and she gotten herself a new man. i guess she divorced her ex.

my take is that, many 30ish to 40ish woman who come into such app has problem in their rs, they are seeking some comfort there. i also happen to find the best fuck i ever had from beetalk, from a thai milf. she was in her mid 30ish and her husband was a loser as she speaks. she also allow me to creampie her, the awesome part of it is that i guess she fuck so much before, she know how to properly rock the cock and make it cum, she can control her pussy grip strength and it felt heaven. which i have never met someone like that before. she went back to thai after divorcing her loser. i saw her recently in tik tok, she is with a new hub and look happy.

i have since stop fooling around and now i'm just lurking in the forum like most here. didn't regret fooling around in these apps. happen to get the best tasting pussy and best pussy at fuck. remembering it till i'm dead. lol

[candeo_88]

This is a keeper bro...I always have a thing for Indonesian or Thai Chinese ladies......and always wonder if I had went to either capital cities to work, things would be different now...

And yes, they love to pamper their man...:p:p



This is the one, my sex goddess.
Indonesian Chinese living in Jakarta.

That is also the big difference between having a relationship with a SYT, married woman, MILF and older women.

:p:D:cool:

[Lemonjuice]

My fwb told me her husband found out about us and we ended our relationship of many years. Any one have similar experience to share and how you started. Will share my story later when free.

What happened to her maariage?

[UncleHasBeen]

https://i.imgur.com/1Zr7NVE.jpg
https://i.imgur.com/hHw1Opt.jpg
https://i.imgur.com/EAXk4Od.jpg


This is a keeper bro...I always have a thing for Indonesian or Thai Chinese ladies......and always wonder if I had went to either capital cities to work, things would be different now...

And yes, they love to pamper their man...:p:p

I do also want to highlight we have very good ‘material’ here in SG too.
The first one on the top, a local. She is only 2 years younger than me.
But we just can’t click on the same level.
She only wants physical satisfaction out of our relationship.
That is why after fucking for 5 months, I distant myself.
She is those that wants to make herself, your world.
She gets what she wants and whenever she wants it.
As I mentioned in my earlier post, we keep in contact, but we haven’t fucked for about 4 years.
Yet she still send my pics of her teasing me very often.

The second one is also a local. She is 15 years younger than me.
But we click on the mentality level.
She makes me, her world.
That is the difference.
We are still fucking but not as much as before when she was with her ex-husband.
She has remarried and we still fuck.

The last one, which is my gem is Indonesian Chinese.
I think she is what she is to me because we met when she was 50 years old.
She is older than me by 10 years.
She would have gotten enough life experiences to discern the better qualities of life.
She makes me, her universe. That is the big difference among these 3 women.
It has been 10 years and we are still going strong.
We vacationed overseas together at least twice a year before Covid.
Been to US, Greece, Prague and many more all-expenses paid for by her.
She also splurges gifts at me willingly.
Her reason for all these, she wants to feel less guilty for taking my time away from my family.
This is one of her qualities that make me keep her, maintain our relationship and arrangement the way that she loves it.
So yes, nationality plays a part in such a relationship. Age too.
But most importantly I think their character and expectation out of such a relationship determines if they are a keeper or not.
And that same goes for us to them.

:cool::D

[candeo_88]

Agreed wholeheartedly...Not easy to find one that fits to a T, just like a perfect match of an organ donor...

Knows each others characteristics, behaviour and likes and donts...knows when to pull back and when to let go...and wont suffocate each other...

Perfect relationship..

:cool::cool:



The last one, which is my gem is Indonesian Chinese.
I think she is what she is to me because we met when she was 50 years old.
She is older than me by 10 years.
She would have gotten enough life experiences to discern the better qualities of life.
She makes me, her universe. That is the big difference among these 3 women.
It has been 10 years and we are still going strong.
We vacationed overseas together at least twice a year before Covid.
Been to US, Greece, Prague and many more all-expenses paid for by her.
She also splurges gifts at me willingly.
Her reason for all these, she wants to feel less guilty for taking my time away from my family.
This is one of her qualities that make me keep her, maintain our relationship and arrangement the way that she loves it.
So yes, nationality plays a part in such a relationship. Age too.
But most importantly I think their character and expectation out of such a relationship determines if they are a keeper or not.
And that same goes for us to them.

:cool::D

[stickyoldman]

Love it as a fantasy to see bros dirty sexting to my wife, sometimes very thrilling. Wechat me I'd is hophophopx3

[Lemonjuice]

https://mothership.sg/2022/04/serene-tiong-chan-herng-nieng/

Indeed ,there is a certain charm in married women.

[silk_magic]

The 2nd one looks so good.


https://i.imgur.com/1Zr7NVE.jpg
https://i.imgur.com/hHw1Opt.jpg
https://i.imgur.com/EAXk4Od.jpg




I do also want to highlight we have very good ‘material’ here in SG too.
The first one on the top, a local. She is only 2 years younger than me.
But we just can’t click on the same level.
She only wants physical satisfaction out of our relationship.
That is why after fucking for 5 months, I distant myself.
She is those that wants to make herself, your world.
She gets what she wants and whenever she wants it.
As I mentioned in my earlier post, we keep in contact, but we haven’t fucked for about 4 years.
Yet she still send my pics of her teasing me very often.

The second one is also a local. She is 15 years younger than me.
But we click on the mentality level.
She makes me, her world.
That is the difference.
We are still fucking but not as much as before when she was with her ex-husband.
She has remarried and we still fuck.

The last one, which is my gem is Indonesian Chinese.
I think she is what she is to me because we met when she was 50 years old.
She is older than me by 10 years.
She would have gotten enough life experiences to discern the better qualities of life.
She makes me, her universe. That is the big difference among these 3 women.
It has been 10 years and we are still going strong.
We vacationed overseas together at least twice a year before Covid.
Been to US, Greece, Prague and many more all-expenses paid for by her.
She also splurges gifts at me willingly.
Her reason for all these, she wants to feel less guilty for taking my time away from my family.
This is one of her qualities that make me keep her, maintain our relationship and arrangement the way that she loves it.
So yes, nationality plays a part in such a relationship. Age too.
But most importantly I think their character and expectation out of such a relationship determines if they are a keeper or not.
And that same goes for us to them.

:cool::D

[UncleHasBeen]

https://i.imgur.com/V5DNK0n.jpg

https://i.imgur.com/hHw1Opt.jpg

The 2nd one looks so good.

She does. Her pouty lips and that ass are my fave physical attributes of her :D:p

[spaman7]

https://i.imgur.com/V5DNK0n.jpg

https://i.imgur.com/hHw1Opt.jpg



She does. Her pouty lips and that ass are my fave physical attributes of her :D:p

you are a lucky man.

[Lemonjuice]

Where to meet married FWB? My social circle don't have much females unfortunately.

[Rickey]

https://i.imgur.com/1Zr7NVE.jpg
https://i.imgur.com/hHw1Opt.jpg
https://i.imgur.com/EAXk4Od.jpg
I do also want to highlight we have very good ‘material’ here in SG too.
The first one on the top, a local. She is only 2 years younger than me.
But we just can’t click on the same level.
She only wants physical satisfaction out of our relationship.
That is why after fucking for 5 months, I distant myself.
She is those that wants to make herself, your world.
She gets what she wants and whenever she wants it.
As I mentioned in my earlier post, we keep in contact, but we haven’t fucked for about 4 years.
Yet she still send my pics of her teasing me very often.

The second one is also a local. She is 15 years younger than me.
But we click on the mentality level.
She makes me, her world.
That is the difference.
We are still fucking but not as much as before when she was with her ex-husband.
She has remarried and we still fuck.

The last one, which is my gem is Indonesian Chinese.
I think she is what she is to me because we met when she was 50 years old.
She is older than me by 10 years.
She would have gotten enough life experiences to discern the better qualities of life.
She makes me, her universe. That is the big difference among these 3 women.
It has been 10 years and we are still going strong.
We vacationed overseas together at least twice a year before Covid.
Been to US, Greece, Prague and many more all-expenses paid for by her.
She also splurges gifts at me willingly.
Her reason for all these, she wants to feel less guilty for taking my time away from my family.
This is one of her qualities that make me keep her, maintain our relationship and arrangement the way that she loves it.
So yes, nationality plays a part in such a relationship. Age too.
But most importantly I think their character and expectation out of such a relationship determines if they are a keeper or not.
And that same goes for us to them.

:cool::D
T.Q. to uncle for a well analysed n categorised short dossier on the types of FWBs there r available :)... For most of us 没有鱼，大虾也可以 "boh hee hair yah ho" :p

[UncleHasBeen]

T.Q. to uncle for a well analysed n categorised short dossier on the types of FWBs there r available :)... For most of us 没有鱼，大虾也可以 "boh hee hair yah ho" :p

I understand what u meant by 没有鱼，大虾也可以 :D
Everyone wants to find the perfect looking FWB/Married women/Fuckner outside of an existing committed relationship.

Fact of the matter is, if we can find these and go along with us, that is a gem in existence. Their looks are a bonus because such a relationship has more hazards than any other relationships.

My own definition of such a perfect relationship outside of my marriage is such.

If any women can bring joy into this extra martial affair while i also bring joy to her in any level that i can, and we keep it well clear of our existing relationship and not mired it, we all have a winner here. Looks doesnt really matter, honestly.

[spaman7]

I understand what u meant by 没有鱼，大虾也可以 :D
Everyone wants to find the perfect looking FWB/Married women/Fuckner outside of an existing committed relationship.

Fact of the matter is, if we can find these and go along with us, that is a gem in existence. Their looks are a bonus because such a relationship has more hazards than any other relationships.

My own definition of such a perfect relationship outside of my marriage is such.

If any women can bring joy into this extra martial affair while i also bring joy to her in any level that i can, and we keep it well clear of our existing relationship and not mired it, we all have a winner here. Looks doesnt really matter, honestly.

well said.

[Lemonjuice]

I understand what u meant by 没有鱼，大虾也可以 :D
Everyone wants to find the perfect looking FWB/Married women/Fuckner outside of an existing committed relationship.

Fact of the matter is, if we can find these and go along with us, that is a gem in existence. Their looks are a bonus because such a relationship has more hazards than any other relationships.

My own definition of such a perfect relationship outside of my marriage is such.

If any women can bring joy into this extra martial affair while i also bring joy to her in any level that i can, and we keep it well clear of our existing relationship and not mired it, we all have a winner here. Looks doesnt really matter, honestly.

But minimally need sexual attraction.

[Banaber]

My own definition of such a perfect relationship outside of my marriage is such.

If any women can bring joy into this extra martial affair while i also bring joy to her in any level that i can, and we keep it well clear of our existing relationship and not mired it, we all have a winner here. Looks doesnt really matter, honestly.

awesome definition. thank god i found love & joy with mine!

[UncleHasBeen]

https://i.imgur.com/hHw1Opt.jpg
https://i.imgur.com/V5DNK0n.jpg
https://i.imgur.com/gZRV2pJ.jpg


you are a lucky man.

Thanks, there are so many hits and misses that i cherish those who are like-minded all these years.

It is no easy feat too. U would know we have to put in the hard work to fish for them.
And even once they are hooked, we have to ensure they stayed hooked and not rock the boat we are in, u know?

And this young lass is one of them. Young because she is 15 years younger than me :D

I strongly recommend those who are keen and willing to put in the hard work as some of us are not bless or endowed as we had hope.
To enlarge our social circle and up our situation awareness game.
This young lass as i mentioned we met at the Love Kuching project volunteer program.

[UncleHasBeen]

awesome definition. thank god i found love & joy with mine!

U are bless my man, good job!

[spaman7]

https://i.imgur.com/hHw1Opt.jpg
https://i.imgur.com/V5DNK0n.jpg
https://i.imgur.com/gZRV2pJ.jpg




Thanks, there are so many hits and misses that i cherish those who are like-minded all these years.

It is no easy feat too. U would know we have to put in the hard work to fish for them.
And even once they are hooked, we have to ensure they stayed hooked and not rock the boat we are in, u know?

And this young lass is one of them. Young because she is 15 years younger than me :D

I strongly recommend those who are keen and willing to put in the hard work as some of us are not bless or endowed as we had hope.
To enlarge our social circle and up our situation awareness game.
This young lass as i mentioned we met at the Love Kuching project volunteer program.

The project in Singapore or the one in Malaysia or Indonesia?

[UncleHasBeen]

The project in Singapore or the one in Malaysia or Indonesia?

Local animal shelter program.

[candeo_88]

Definitely loving the pussy..oh oh i mean kucing....:D:D:D



I strongly recommend those who are keen and willing to put in the hard work as some of us are not bless or endowed as we had hope.
To enlarge our social circle and up our situation awareness game.
This young lass as i mentioned we met at the Love Kuching project volunteer program.

[UncleHasBeen]

Definitely loving the pussy..oh oh i mean kucing....:D:D:D

We all love kuching :p

[Rickey]

Definitely loving the pussy..oh oh i mean kucing....:D:D:D

We all love kuching :p
That's the little kitten waiting for u in bed every nite :p;):o...hehe

[Banaber]

We all love kuching :p

i love both. so challenging to choose between pussy and kuching hahaaa~

[Rickey]

i love both. so challenging to choose between pussy and kuching hahaaa~
If there r only the 2 to choose from, I will choose the pussy ;):o

[kt88_2]

If there r only the 2 to choose from, I will choose the pussy ;):o

Thus type can definitely let me lick non stop,lol🙂

[UncleHasBeen]

https://i.imgur.com/VwqkrsU.jpg

In case u think i know more than u based on the comments i posted on this subject matter, the truth is ............ :D

[candeo_88]

RL experiences are more priceless than textbook types...

:D:cool:

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In case u think i know more than u based on the comments i posted on this subject matter, the truth is ............ :D

[UncleHasBeen]

RL experiences are more priceless than textbook types...

:D:cool:

Yes indeed. Our rites of passage to be wiser but first, we have to be young dumb and full of cum :D

[Lemonjuice]

How to find like-minded milf? Apps or common interest group?

[UncleHasBeen]

https://i.imgur.com/8DKGvkV.jpg

For me it has to be a social setting with common interest.
I don’t do apps, too old and probably would fucked it up along the way.

Let me share another FB of mine. She is the one next to me. :cool:
She is 41 this year. 10 years younger than me.
She is another Indonesian Chinese. :D

Speak good Teochew with an Indonesian accent but totally zero in Mandarin.
We have been together for 3 years now.

She frequent SG because her parents have moved to SG.
She lives in M’sia because of her business dealing.
She has been single for 3 years after being divorced twice.
She travels a lot for her business.

We met in 2019 in Australia.
She was there for business and we met at a Skydiving school.
It was her first. I was there partly social and work.

The Skydive group is own by a friend and on that day I was a safety number and also a quota requirement for the course to take off.
In short I was there for social and ended up helping the owner my friend out.

I met her there and I was introduced as a participating safety number to the group.
It was a short 2 day training with the 3rd day for the jump.

Me and her clicked.
She is beautiful and very elegant, yet she was fearless.
Not the aggressive fearless but the take it as it come kind of vibe.
I was attracted to her confidence and fearlessness for someone doing it the first time.

[UncleHasBeen]

https://i.imgur.com/AlTowoY.jpg

We clicked and talked and goofed around.
Really enjoyed our time there.

We didn’t become intimate until about 3 months later.
We kept in touch after the Australia trip.
It was only when she visited her parents in SG that we became intimate.

She opened up to me during our first official date about her past marriages.
I was surprised she did that and later she would explain that I gave her the feeling of trustworthiness and reliability since the day we first met.
On that night, she drank a little too much and I had to help her to her hotel.

That night I helped her to her hotel. Her room.
She was tipsy but lucid. Tired too.
As I laid her down on the bed, she looked at me with that ‘let’s do it look’.

It is a familiar look, gaze. If u have been fucking around long enough, u will also recognise the look.
I on the other hand didn’t tell my wife I would be out late.

Plus, she was tipsy, and I prefer to fuck women who are not intoxicated.
As she laid down looking up at me, I gently lie on top of her.
I kissed her lips gently and thanked her for a lovely evening.
And told her that I must go and that she should rest.

[UncleHasBeen]

https://i.imgur.com/fMvR1Aq.jpg

That move would seal her affection and attraction for me.
Again, for me slow is smooth and smooth is fast.
Take it slow if u are in the long game.
And a long game is the only game worth playing.

She makes very frequent trips to SG.
Pre-Covid was about at least once in two months for a period of a week.

She is not sexually active at all.
She enjoys sex but she can go without it for a long time.
She told me it is not the sex that keeps her to me.
And I could tell too.

She is those women who loves to be loved and be intimate while sex is a by-product.
She is not a sex goddess.
She is more like a square pussy to me.
In fact, she is wife material to most men.

She fucks me because she knows that it gives me pleasure.
She never says no to me for sex.
She is not a great fuck.
She is more passive on the bed. I lead, she follow type.

But what really gives me a hard-on is the way she show her affection for me.
The intimacy when we are together in private and public.

She has plans for me in her life.
Like when making overseas trips, she always asks me to come along. Ask for my availability.
Asks if I needed anything from her. Checks on me if I am doing ok.

She is 10 years younger than me, but she pampers me like I am her pet.
This is the kind of women I would keep, maintain and be part of outside my marriage.
I am sure u don’t get these in dating apps.

This is a pic she sent to me 2 days ago showing me her new colour addition to her hair ;)

[Lemonjuice]

UncleHasBeen

1. Weird, can't see you pic. I am using Puffin browser on phone.

2. Are you married? Seems like not possible to stay discreet, with your bevy of married FWB.

[sdol v2]

I thought I was the only one who can't see UncleHasBeen's pics. Using Chrome on Android.

UncleHasBeen

1. Weird, can't see you pic. I am using Puffin browser on phone.

2. Are you married? Seems like not possible to stay discreet, with your bevy of married FWB.

[spaman7]

https://i.imgur.com/fMvR1Aq.jpg

That move would seal her affection and attraction for me.
Again, for me slow is smooth and smooth is fast.
Take it slow if u are in the long game.
And a long game is the only game worth playing.

She makes very frequent trips to SG.
Pre-Covid was about at least once in two months for a period of a week.


She is not sexually active at all.
She enjoys sex but she can go without it for a long time.
She told me it is not the sex that keeps her to me.
And I could tell too.

She is those women who loves to be loved and be intimate while sex is a by-product.
She is not a sex goddess.
She is more like a square pussy to me.
In fact, she is wife material to most men.

She fucks me because she knows that it gives me pleasure.
She never says no to me for sex.
She is not a great fuck.
She is more passive on the bed. I lead, she follow type.

But what really gives me a hard-on is the way she show her affection for me.
The intimacy when we are together in private and public.

She has plans for me in her life.
Like when making overseas trips, she always asks me to come along. Ask for my availability.
Asks if I needed anything from her. Checks on me if I am doing ok.

She is 10 years younger than me, but she pampers me like I am her pet.
This is the kind of women I would keep, maintain and be part of outside my marriage.
I am sure u don’t get these in dating apps.

This is a pic she sent to me 2 days ago showing me her new colour addition to her hair ;)

Bro, you are really a lucky man and also I believed you have a great personality thsy attract these nice ladies.

[Rickey]

UncleHasBeen

1. Weird, can't see you pic. I am using Puffin browser on phone.

2. Are you married? Seems like not possible to stay discreet, with your bevy of married FWB.

I thought I was the only one who can't see UncleHasBeen's pics. Using Chrome on Android.
Lol, how cum I can see uncle's pics u guys can't ...I m also using puffin browser on hp...puffin browser is really weird n sucks indeed

[sam30sg]

It happened to me too but a simple step of quoting the message and then cut and paste the imgur link to a new tab will solve the issue...... help UncleHasBeen to share the photo.

469161


I thought I was the only one who can't see UncleHasBeen's pics. Using Chrome on Android.

[UncleHasBeen]

Bro, you are really a lucky man and also I believed you have a great personality thsy attract these nice ladies.

Oh thanks.
I think we can have better luck if we manage our expectations.
Be more realistic and keep our situation awareness up.

It was later in my life i realised that if i stop looking around for such relationships, they will become more visible and easier to obtain.
In another words, dont push it dont try too hard.

As i said before, widen our social circle.
Treat every encounter as an acquaintance, nothing more.
Let them see more of yourself first. And if the glove fits, they will give u the signs.

I have so many misses earlier on and it was only i stopped trying so hard, the hits keep coming.

For an average Joe, obtaining a relationship with married women or FWB requires hard work, fact. :cool:

[UncleHasBeen]

UncleHasBeen

1. Weird, can't see you pic. I am using Puffin browser on phone.

2. Are you married? Seems like not possible to stay discreet, with your bevy of married FWB.

That is the whole reason and concept of having married women and FWB.
No one is suppose to rock the boat or dont get onboard.

We all have the choice and power to decide how much commitment we are going to give one another.

Once agreed, let's row away discretely.
If such extramarital affairs are taking your time away from your marriage and family, u are doing it wrong.

I am married, 20 years and counting.:D:cool:

[UncleHasBeen]

It happened to me too but a simple step of quoting the message and then cut and paste the imgur link to a new tab will solve the issue...... help UncleHasBeen to share the photo.

469161

Thanks bro!

[spaman7]

Oh thanks.
I think we can have better luck if we manage our expectations.
Be more realistic and keep our situation awareness up.

It was later in my life i realised that if i stop looking aroundTh for such relationships, they will become more visible and easier to obtain.
In another words, dont push it dont try too hard.

As i said before, widen our social circle.
Treat every encounter as an acquaintance, nothing more.
Let them see more of yourself first. And if the glove fits, they will give u the signs.

I have so many misses earlier on and it was only i stopped trying so hard, the hits keep coming.

For an average Joe, obtaining a relationship with married women or FWB requires hard work, fact. :cool:

Thanks for your advice

[Roytt8]

https://i.imgur.com/fMvR1Aq.jpg

That move would seal her affection and attraction for me.
Again, for me slow is smooth and smooth is fast.
Take it slow if u are in the long game.
And a long game is the only game worth playing.

She makes very frequent trips to SG.
Pre-Covid was about at least once in two months for a period of a week.

She is not sexually active at all.
She enjoys sex but she can go without it for a long time.
She told me it is not the sex that keeps her to me.
And I could tell too.

She is those women who loves to be loved and be intimate while sex is a by-product.
She is not a sex goddess.
She is more like a square pussy to me.
In fact, she is wife material to most men.

She fucks me because she knows that it gives me pleasure.
She never says no to me for sex.
She is not a great fuck.
She is more passive on the bed. I lead, she follow type.

But what really gives me a hard-on is the way she show her affection for me.
The intimacy when we are together in private and public.

She has plans for me in her life.
Like when making overseas trips, she always asks me to come along. Ask for my availability.
Asks if I needed anything from her. Checks on me if I am doing ok.

She is 10 years younger than me, but she pampers me like I am her pet.
This is the kind of women I would keep, maintain and be part of outside my marriage.
I am sure u don’t get these in dating apps.

This is a pic she sent to me 2 days ago showing me her new colour addition to her hair ;)


Oops lovely - wish I could have one like her

[UncleHasBeen]

Thanks for your advice

U are most welcome man.

[Lemonjuice]

I just broke off with my married gf. We argued, broke and patched before, but was nothing serious.

This time, she is adamant to break off. She is dead to me

I am sad, how can I move on?

[Rickey]

I just broke off with my married gf. We argued, broke and patched before, but was nothing serious.

This time, she is adamant to break off. She is dead to me

I am sad, how can I move on?

I know it's sad ...can't help it mah...find a new one to replace her lor ;):)

[candeo_88]

When life gives you lemons, make lemonade...

:D:cool:

I just broke off with my married gf. We argued, broke and patched before, but was nothing serious.

This time, she is adamant to break off. She is dead to me

I am sad, how can I move on?

[MisterBig]

I just broke off with my married gf. We argued, broke and patched before, but was nothing serious.

This time, she is adamant to break off. She is dead to me

I am sad, how can I move on?


One door closes. Another door opens.
Get over it and move on.

[ilovepantyhose]

I just broke off with my married gf. We argued, broke and patched before, but was nothing serious.

This time, she is adamant to break off. She is dead to me

I am sad, how can I move on?

find another hole, or pick up a new hobby

focus your energy on the new thing

[UncleHasBeen]

When life gives you lemons, make lemonade...

:D:cool:

For his case, it will be Lemonjuice instead :D

[UncleHasBeen]

I just broke off with my married gf. We argued, broke and patched before, but was nothing serious.

This time, she is adamant to break off. She is dead to me

I am sad, how can I move on?

Just take as much time as u need to grieve and mourn.
Once u are done, get ready to get into the game again.
But based on your state now, u should not be looking for other pussies.
U just cant handle breakups which happens to be a caveat for such extramarital affairs.
There is no happy after in this game, only happy ending and back to your married life.

[r.fowler]

I just broke off with my married gf. We argued, broke and patched before, but was nothing serious.

This time, she is adamant to break off. She is dead to me

I am sad, how can I move on?

you mean in the first place, you expect to be 天长地久 with her?

[UncleHasBeen]

you mean in the first place, you expect to be 天长地久 with her?

结婚前希望天长地久，结婚后不知能撑多久 :D:p