How important is foreplay?

[SammyLee88]

Curious about how important foreplay is for people before they actually start fucking, and is the need (or lack thereof) ?

1.always necessary before actual sex,
2.optional (sometimes you do and sometimes you don't)
3. almost always ignored?

[Bangster]

Curious about how important foreplay is for people before they actually start fucking, and is the need (or lack thereof) ?

1.always necessary before actual sex,
2.optional (sometimes you do and sometimes you don't)
3. almost always ignored?

For myself...i never understand why some men can start to fuck without foreplay
Do they actually care about their partners?

But of course, if their partners are of the same gender and loves pain, it's perfectly fine!

Foreplay is sensual, arousing, seductive, intensifying, encouraging, and most definitely needed for me. And the girl of course...

[hamka]

Imagine you are super hungry for the entire day and you can't wait to eat! You have been craving spicy lala, char siew omelette, kung pow frog legs, lettuce with oyster sauce, sambal eggplant. So, you cook lah. Everything is ready, you walked over to the rice cooker, you forgot to boil rice. Of course you can still eat the dishes but without rice, no soul at all.

Foreplay is the rice. You need to wash it, rub it, rinse it, measure the water, switch it on & the rice will come out perfect everytime. Unless you both don't like to eat rice lah, then no comment. :D

[leuor]

Foreplay is a 2 way street for me. Guys like to have their dick licked and be aroused before the action, same for the girls. I always believe it is something reciprocal and both parties should be enjoying and not just one party working and the other enjoying.

However i also know there are some guys who doesn't like to go down and eat the pussy. Which kinda puzzled me, because i am someone who likes to eat it. Seeing my partner squirming in pleasure, makes me even more aroused

[Qwerty_Again]

It depends on what type of foreplay your partner needs.

Some wants it just before sex, some may treat teasing as foreplay.

My wife tends to be more aroused with the teasing version rather than pre-sex foreplay, so we usually get a lil frisky or flirty wherever we go and generally she’d be sufficiently wet and aroused to go straight into the action.

[llpatrick]

100% important, it gets both in the mood, to rest the mind off the other things at home/work/outside.

It's a good must have, even for the quickie session

[purepulp]

There are 2 kinds of foreplay, physical and mental. Physical foreplay is run of the mill and experienced operators usually fall into a routine. Its like the same steps before the main event. To a certain extend, its done for the sake of being done and believe me your partner usually is already bored of it.

Mental foreplay, when done correctly is powerful, it can go on for hours or days even leading up to teh main event so when it is time, there is no time to waste. :cool:

[John0721]

Only chicken dun need foreplay. Faster fuck faster cum faster pay & Fuck off

[qissyalynne]

once you've had strong build up (maybe even for months of flirting and wondering if it will happen with a new partner), it's very hard to feel the same explosive and complete satisfaction from a casual meaningless and abrupt sex.

anyone else agrees with this?

[fallen11]

You can ignore foreplay if:

1. you just want to fuck and get done with it. you dont care about the experience during the fucking process, just want to release load.
2. You are committing rape
3. you are fucking a sex slave

otherwise, foreplay will often give you a better experience in return. Including paid sex :)

[rototime]

Do OP mean seduction before sex?

If the sex is to make babies, for some couple wanting to be 100% sure, may prep their health, select a time and date, and straight away have intercourse.

Otherwise, for pleasure. the sex will start with seduction. subtle hint, whisper, touches, put on sexy pajamas, and some may prep themselves with sensual massage.. and the moment the wet tongue touches the body, all hell should have broken loose liao.. and in this stage. "Intercourse" may be optional for some couple, as they may have exploded on one another in 69 position..

Technically, engaging in foreplay is already having sex.. intercourse, oral sex? foreplay is like custom made sex, like a complete sex package done according to your taste..

[spaman7]

once you've had strong build up (maybe even for months of flirting and wondering if it will happen with a new partner), it's very hard to feel the same explosive and complete satisfaction from a casual meaningless and abrupt sex.

anyone else agrees with this?

Quite true

[rachangelx]

depends on the kind of sex you're having too!

[Rickey]

Foreplay is a 2 way street for me. Guys like to have their dick licked and be aroused before the action, same for the girls. I always believe it is something reciprocal and both parties should be enjoying and not just one party working and the other enjoying.

However i also know there are some guys who doesn't like to go down and eat the pussy. Which kinda puzzled me, because i am someone who likes to eat it. Seeing my partner squirming in pleasure, makes me even more aroused
Yes, agree with u bro...foreplay must be a 2-way street kind of thingy for best sexual enjoyment for the couple :)...u play with me n i play with u tgt at the same time :p:o...

not sure abt certain guys, but the reason why many guys don't go down to eat pussy is that their female partners won't allow them to for hygiene reasons...as men enjoy their dicks being licked, sucked n blown by their women thru' a bbbj, they also know that women will also enjoy their pussy being similarly licked n sucked by their men...thus most men won't mind to lick n suck their partner's pussy as they know it is v. pleasurable to their female partner n they want their female partners to enjoy the sex with them too :):o

[Newbieshag]

Foreplay to me is important as it set the mood. Kissing and licking every part of your partner and slowly moving down south get your partner arouse and wet . Without foreplay ,it’s more transactional and no different from masturbation .

[ulysses84]

Shimiken (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AjtCCfEmd7g&t=315s&ab_channel=%EC%8B%9C%EB%AF%B8%EC%BC%84TV)

[willroyce]

well as for me, foreplay (with passion) only comes with the energy with the girl when it matches you. Both super horny and both want to go all night, foreplay is a must but just want to release or late for meeting forget about foreplay. WASTE TIME ONLY

[willroyce]

It depends on what type of foreplay your partner needs.

Some wants it just before sex, some may treat teasing as foreplay.

My wife tends to be more aroused with the teasing version rather than pre-sex foreplay, so we usually get a lil frisky or flirty wherever we go and generally she’d be sufficiently wet and aroused to go straight into the action.

and that only comes with passion, sometimes when i bonk sugarbook.live or tinder girls passion can be found but energy not with all

[willroyce]

100% important, it gets both in the mood, to rest the mind off the other things at home/work/outside.

It's a good must have, even for the quickie session

quickie got enough time to foreplay ah haha

[willroyce]

There are 2 kinds of foreplay, physical and mental. Physical foreplay is run of the mill and experienced operators usually fall into a routine. Its like the same steps before the main event. To a certain extend, its done for the sake of being done and believe me your partner usually is already bored of it.

Mental foreplay, when done correctly is powerful, it can go on for hours or days even leading up to teh main event so when it is time, there is no time to waste. :cool:

very true!! best answer

[willroyce]

Foreplay to me is important as it set the mood. Kissing and licking every part of your partner and slowly moving down south get your partner arouse and wet . Without foreplay ,it’s more transactional and no different from masturbation .

well its always nice when someone else does it for u :D

[Qwerty_Again]

There are 2 kinds of foreplay, physical and mental. Physical foreplay is run of the mill and experienced operators usually fall into a routine. Its like the same steps before the main event. To a certain extend, its done for the sake of being done and believe me your partner usually is already bored of it.

Mental foreplay, when done correctly is powerful, it can go on for hours or days even leading up to teh main event so when it is time, there is no time to waste. :cool:

Mental foreplay is probably what me and my wife usually do to each other. Ha!

[Newbieshag]

well its always nice when someone else does it for u :D

Ya, but I prefer to be the “giving” party . Seeing my partner’s face twit, moan is like an orgasm to me 😂

[r.fowler]

one old samster once said..

if foreplay is done well, the woman will come looking for you whenever she needs.

you may not have the looks but if foreplay is good, she will come to you like bees to honey

[SGhappyman]

one old samster once said..

if foreplay is done well, the woman will come looking for you whenever she needs.

you may not have the looks but if foreplay is good, she will come to you like bees to honey

I always spend 20-30 minutes on foreplay only :D

[bluekai]

Foreplay can mean as simple as light touches or teasing throughout the day, then at night you either get pounced on or can pounce, coz its been building up your appetite the whole day.

Or right before sex, to make both in the mood, I believe foreplay makes both happy and estactic, and the fuck that comes after is even more explosive.

[georgie1994]

is very important, i and my sugarbook babe like it, touch here and there feeling comes faster

[georgie1994]

and that only comes with passion, sometimes when i bonk sugarbook.live or tinder girls passion can be found but energy not with all

sugarbook.live girl more energetic, looks from their stream knows already

[georgie1994]

well its always nice when someone else does it for u :D

yes true, you just relax and enjoy....why not?

[georgie1994]

quickie got enough time to foreplay ah haha

quick have its own quick trick...hehe

[georgie1994]

Foreplay to me is important as it set the mood. Kissing and licking every part of your partner and slowly moving down south get your partner arouse and wet . Without foreplay ,it’s more transactional and no different from masturbation .

without foreplay, is some kind of transaction and after this just bye bye

[georgie1994]

foreplay is equally important for both guy and girl, it is one of the ways to express your eager to have sex with each other

[WiseGuy]

foreplay is equally important for both guy and girl, it is one of the ways to express your eager to have sex with each other

You are exactly correct about this

[Rickey]

foreplay is equally important for both guy and girl, it is one of the ways to express your eager to have sex with each other

You are exactly correct about this
Yes, agree with the 2 bros abv :)...foreplay is v. impt to enjoy sex ;):o

[SammyLee88]

foreplay is equally important for both guy and girl, it is one of the ways to express your eager to have sex with each other

yes many girls in sugarbook.live also same like me love this, i do have survey them before

[SammyLee88]

depends on the kind of sex you're having too!

you mean 3P or other types?

[SammyLee88]

and that only comes with passion, sometimes when i bonk sugarbook.live or tinder girls passion can be found but energy not with all

in sugarbook.live can found whether enough energy?

[SammyLee88]

well its always nice when someone else does it for u :D

guy is always the enjoy one as the girl will do the service to him

[SammyLee88]

Ya, but I prefer to be the “giving” party . Seeing my partner’s face twit, moan is like an orgasm to me 😂

partner moan is the best symbolic that the sex is enjoyable

[SammyLee88]

Yes, agree with the 2 bros abv :)...foreplay is v. impt to enjoy sex ;):o

foreplay good....can survey with girl in sugarbook.live, you can know better

[SammyLee88]

foreplay is equally important for both guy and girl, it is one of the ways to express your eager to have sex with each other

is one way to express on bed,

[SammyLee88]

Imagine you are super hungry for the entire day and you can't wait to eat! You have been craving spicy lala, char siew omelette, kung pow frog legs, lettuce with oyster sauce, sambal eggplant. So, you cook lah. Everything is ready, you walked over to the rice cooker, you forgot to boil rice. Of course you can still eat the dishes but without rice, no soul at all.

Foreplay is the rice. You need to wash it, rub it, rinse it, measure the water, switch it on & the rice will come out perfect everytime. Unless you both don't like to eat rice lah, then no comment. :D

hehe...no people dun like the rice, normal people will need it

[SammyLee88]

Foreplay is a 2 way street for me. Guys like to have their dick licked and be aroused before the action, same for the girls. I always believe it is something reciprocal and both parties should be enjoying and not just one party working and the other enjoying.

However i also know there are some guys who doesn't like to go down and eat the pussy. Which kinda puzzled me, because i am someone who likes to eat it. Seeing my partner squirming in pleasure, makes me even more aroused

i also do not like my partner lick pussy, is like not hygiene

[SammyLee88]

foreplay is a event before sex, that is one element, some needs it some might not

[SammyLee88]

Foreplay to me is important as it set the mood. Kissing and licking every part of your partner and slowly moving down south get your partner arouse and wet . Without foreplay ,it’s more transactional and no different from masturbation .

is similar as what i thought

[SammyLee88]

and that only comes with passion, sometimes when i bonk sugarbook.live or tinder girls passion can be found but energy not with all

sugarbook.live or tinder which better?

[Penguin23]

Curious about how important foreplay is for people before they actually start fucking, and is the need (or lack thereof) ?

1.always necessary before actual sex,
2.optional (sometimes you do and sometimes you don't)
3. almost always ignored?

Depends on circumstances and how long you've been with your partner.

On normal days when I know she's not tired, I will engage in foreplay until she indicates with her movements that she wants my cock deep inside her. I won't stop foreplay until that happens. On the rare days that she is tired but I know she doesn't want to disappoint me, I will engage in foreplay long enough to make her wet, then try to cum as quickly as possible (she usually reciprocates by making me cum extra hard, to make up for the shorter than usual sexy time). It's a good arrangement that works well for the two of us.

Some basic rules apply. Always smell fresh and nice, and for guys - wash well before you expect her to give you a BJ. If in doubt, shower. The girl appreciates a man who smells clean, only very very few girls like sucking an unwashed dick still smelling of pee.

[ahdee]

https://youtu.be/s4HKEQl-_Lw Just saw this yesterday about foreplays..