FB woes again

[BackstageBambi]

Hey it’s me again lol. Back with a new topic to rant. Please bear with me.

Posted here last year about my FB woes. Well after a short break from the same FB, we kinda got back together in action again recently. Big mistake.

I asked him for a different sort of experience (I wanted a BFE) but he wasn’t keen as he said it might cause feelings to develop, which I definitely understand. But I absolutely do not have / won’t have any sort of romantic feelings toward him as I’m emotionally unavailable myself. I merely wish to change things up a bit for the experience I want.

He’s always been into dom/sub and light bdsm, and all our romps so far have been delivered exactly the way he likes it. Usually he would go straight into action without spending much time on kissing or foreplay, and then it’s the main action.

Basically it’s like in this order:

1) Little to no kissing
2) Littie to no caressing
3) Sometimes goes down on me; sometimes “forgets to”
4) loves tying me up for kinks
5) banging action until he cums and stops
6) no second round even if I’ve not climaxed because he “only does one round”

I told him I’m tired carrying on with him when there’s nothing in it for me.

Am I being too emo? He also doesn’t entertain me when I tell him such things. Until the next time he wants my pussy, he will be nice and chummy again.

[sbwow]

Hey it’s me again lol. Back with a new topic to rant. Please bear with me.

Posted here last year about my FB woes. Well after a short break from the same FB, we kinda got back together in action again recently. Big mistake.

I asked him for a different sort of experience (I wanted a BFE) but he wasn’t keen as he said it might cause feelings to develop, which I definitely understand. But I absolutely do not have / won’t have any sort of romantic feelings toward him as I’m emotionally unavailable myself. I merely wish to change things up a bit for the experience I want.

He’s always been into dom/sub and light bdsm, and all our romps so far have been delivered exactly the way he likes it. Usually he would go straight into action without spending much time on kissing or foreplay, and then it’s the main action.

Basically it’s like in this order:

1) Little to no kissing
2) Littie to no caressing
3) Sometimes goes down on me; sometimes “forgets to”
4) loves tying me up for kinks
5) banging action until he cums and stops
6) no second round even if I’ve not climaxed because he “only does one round”

I told him I’m tired carrying on with him when there’s nothing in it for me.

Am I being too emo? He also doesn’t entertain me when I tell him such things. Until the next time he wants my pussy, he will be nice and chummy again.

He treat you as a fuck toy, therefore doesn't need to entertain your emo feelings.

You said you are not interested in him and he is also your fuck toy, then why emo.

Everyone is interested in fuck only, nobody has time to entertain anyone's emo :rolleyes:

[candle2000]

Hey itÂ’s me again lol. Back with a new topic to rant. Please bear with me.

Posted here last year about my FB woes. Well after a short break from the same FB, we kinda got back together in action again recently. Big mistake.

I asked him for a different sort of experience (I wanted a BFE) but he wasnÂ’t keen as he said it might cause feelings to develop, which I definitely understand. But I absolutely do not have / wonÂ’t have any sort of romantic feelings toward him as IÂ’m emotionally unavailable myself. I merely wish to change things up a bit for the experience I want.

HeÂ’s always been into dom/sub and light bdsm, and all our romps so far have been delivered exactly the way he likes it. Usually he would go straight into action without spending much time on kissing or foreplay, and then itÂ’s the main action.

Basically itÂ’s like in this order:

1) Little to no kissing
2) Littie to no caressing
3) Sometimes goes down on me; sometimes “forgets to”
4) loves tying me up for kinks
5) banging action until he cums and stops
6) no second round even if I’ve not climaxed because he “only does one round”

I told him IÂ’m tired carrying on with him when thereÂ’s nothing in it for me.

Am I being too emo? He also doesnÂ’t entertain me when I tell him such things. Until the next time he wants my pussy, he will be nice and chummy again.

Maybe both of you being together for some time and he lost the spark when he first knew you.

You probably want to try making love instead of just having sex and you not being orgasm during the copulation.

You need to warn him if he continue this way, you leave him.

Tell him that " A pussy in hand is worth a thousand walking in the streets".
He would probable improve the next time both of you copulate.

[Bigbluebird]

Then move on, get a new FB that satisfies you and him together. It's not rocket science nor do you need a PhD and a big group of Samsters to tell you what you need to do next. Unless you are advertising out to potential suitors here with all your criteria listed.

[BackstageBambi]

He treat you as a fuck toy, therefore doesn't need to entertain your emo feelings.

You said you are not interested in him and he is also your fuck toy, then why emo.

Everyone is interested in fuck only, nobody has time to entertain anyone's emo :rolleyes:

Just need a place to rant that’s all. I understand how the game is played.

[BackstageBambi]

Then move on, get a new FB that satisfies you and him together. It's not rocket science nor do you need a PhD and a big group of Samsters to tell you what you need to do next. Unless you are advertising out to potential suitors here with all your criteria listed.
Finding new FB isn’t like snapping fingers. At least not how I do it. But yeah I get the whole context.

[Bigbluebird]

Finding new FB isn’t like snapping fingers. At least not how I do it. But yeah I get the whole context.

Glad you got it. We have no answers for you here except guesses and speculations. I do hope you get the right FB that puts both you and his needs together as a priority :D

[Peacekeeping]

Finding new FB isn’t like snapping fingers. At least not how I do it. But yeah I get the whole context.

In case you are looking for new fb. I can fuck you like it’s the end of the world and still care for you as a buddy. Pm me if you are interested.

[xxFTOxx]

Hey it’s me again lol. Back with a new topic to rant. Please bear with me.

Posted here last year about my FB woes. Well after a short break from the same FB, we kinda got back together in action again recently. Big mistake.

I asked him for a different sort of experience (I wanted a BFE) but he wasn’t keen as he said it might cause feelings to develop, which I definitely understand. But I absolutely do not have / won’t have any sort of romantic feelings toward him as I’m emotionally unavailable myself. I merely wish to change things up a bit for the experience I want.

He’s always been into dom/sub and light bdsm, and all our romps so far have been delivered exactly the way he likes it. Usually he would go straight into action without spending much time on kissing or foreplay, and then it’s the main action.

Basically it’s like in this order:

1) Little to no kissing
2) Littie to no caressing
3) Sometimes goes down on me; sometimes “forgets to”
4) loves tying me up for kinks
5) banging action until he cums and stops
6) no second round even if I’ve not climaxed because he “only does one round”

I told him I’m tired carrying on with him when there’s nothing in it for me.

Am I being too emo? He also doesn’t entertain me when I tell him such things. Until the next time he wants my pussy, he will be nice and chummy again.

U are missing the emotional connection that’s all. U want bf material without the commitment…so many guys here will jump to this opportunity. U just have to look ard. Remember it’s FB, fuck and go. If u want ur needs to be fulfilled, look for a proper bf. But remember, what’s the reason u are still with him? Maybe subconsciously u like the way he treats u? I may be wrong

[Tai_zi21]

My suggestion is

Time to find a new FB

Wish u luck cheers

[Jjcoolidge]

I told him I’m tired carrying on with him when there’s nothing in it for me.

Am I being too emo? He also doesn’t entertain me when I tell him such things. Until the next time he wants my pussy, he will be nice and chummy again.

Hey bambi, you're not emo. We all have our wants and needs. FB types are as varied as there are people on earth. What you need is not what he is willing to give. Why continue if there is no meeting of minds?

[larue]

You must enjoy being abused since you keep asking for it.

[BackstageBambi]

U are missing the emotional connection that’s all. U want bf material without the commitment…so many guys here will jump to this opportunity. U just have to look ard. Remember it’s FB, fuck and go. If u want ur needs to be fulfilled, look for a proper bf. But remember, what’s the reason u are still with him? Maybe subconsciously u like the way he treats u? I may be wrong

I guess I’m just tired of the current dom sub kink.
I’m just looking for a more sensual experience but I just know I probably won’t get it from this guy. For now, I’m still sucking things up as there are other positive factors like physical compatibility and ease of meeting him. Which makes me kinda conflicted. :(

[BackstageBambi]

Hey bambi, you're not emo. We all have our wants and needs. FB types are as varied as there are people on earth. What you need is not what he is willing to give. Why continue if there is no meeting of minds?

You hit the nail on the head.
:( there are some other factors - I do like the way he fucks me and physically, we are compatible, plus proximity, we stay quite near each other so when it comes to meeting up, it’s easy) that’s why I’m reluctant to give up now. I don’t know. :(

[wildpig69]

Not a expert here.... But it seems to me, your FB is not the more mature type.
I just felt that if you have a more mature FB, he should be more willing to listen to your needs. Takes to hand to clap....
Pls hor, i just input a bit of uncle thinking....
Really wish i have such FB like u that is so considerate...;)

[eugenetan80]

juz state yr criteria here and which area u stay around,alot of guys here will straight apply for it.then u can enjoy the process of choosing the ones closest to yr expectations and maybe wonders will happen..anyway u juz need to step up and take the first step.no one is indispensible in this world.juz feel comfortable and have no headaches.if u start having headaches then its no more enjoyable.anyway good luck in your finding if u happen to wanna take the first step out..:D

[YakunBoy]

agree with the bros here.
If you have a fb or fwb, its important that you enjoy it as much as he does.

Its kinda natural (what most people does anyway) is that he will not please you as much as before after he got what he wanted or after his interest drops.

Its a matter of time when the next fb/fwb comes knocking on your door and you might regret not moving on earlier. Just sharing my 2 cents.

[Hanster]

agree with the bros here.
If you have a fb or fwb, its important that you enjoy it as much as he does.

Its kinda natural (what most people does anyway) is that he will not please you as much as before after he got what he wanted or after his interest drops.

Its a matter of time when the next fb/fwb comes knocking on your door and you might regret not moving on earlier. Just sharing my 2 cents.

K…sapport u with 19 pts.

[xxFTOxx]

I guess I’m just tired of the current dom sub kink.
I’m just looking for a more sensual experience but I just know I probably won’t get it from this guy. For now, I’m still sucking things up as there are other positive factors like physical compatibility and ease of meeting him. Which makes me kinda conflicted. :(

Well I’ve had my fair share of FBs over the years and once u get the hang of letting go it will be much easier for you.. It’s not hard to find someone else who will give what u want. Start looking ard…meet new ppl, flirt a little…go out have a good time. U will be happier. Seems like u are kinda quite hung on on him which I see it’s more of a relationship rather than fb and u are not aware of it. Sometimes rejecting meeting him up time more often might help u get over it.

[Koloncleanse]

Finding new FB isn’t like snapping fingers. At least not how I do it. But yeah I get the whole context.

Well played, TS! 👏👏
The long and winding road that leads to your door is littered with the decrepit and the blind.
Watch them fling themselves at your siren call.
Choose well 👍

[gm900]

If you ever plan to open up for people to apply to be your FB, there will be a long line :)

Can always choose and try others as that's what FB is all about.

[SwordArt]

Maybe because you keep it straight that your relationship with him is just about sex since you mentioned that you are emotionally unavailable.
Guys just take it as it is and see you as just for sex.
And guys do take things for granted.
I think maybe you can try to find new ones,
at least you will have more choices and bargaining power.
I'm sure you will be flooded with resume from here or dating app if you open to it.
So unless you have form an attachment to him,
if not I don't see any reason why not when you don't get the satisfaction from him anymore.

[WinterMelonTree]

Hey it’s me again lol. Back with a new topic to rant. Please bear with me.

Posted here last year about my FB woes. Well after a short break from the same FB, we kinda got back together in action again recently. Big mistake.

I asked him for a different sort of experience (I wanted a BFE) but he wasn’t keen as he said it might cause feelings to develop, which I definitely understand. But I absolutely do not have / won’t have any sort of romantic feelings toward him as I’m emotionally unavailable myself. I merely wish to change things up a bit for the experience I want.

He’s always been into dom/sub and light bdsm, and all our romps so far have been delivered exactly the way he likes it. Usually he would go straight into action without spending much time on kissing or foreplay, and then it’s the main action.

Basically it’s like in this order:

1) Little to no kissing
2) Littie to no caressing
3) Sometimes goes down on me; sometimes “forgets to”
4) loves tying me up for kinks
5) banging action until he cums and stops
6) no second round even if I’ve not climaxed because he “only does one round”

I told him I’m tired carrying on with him when there’s nothing in it for me.

Am I being too emo? He also doesn’t entertain me when I tell him such things. Until the next time he wants my pussy, he will be nice and chummy again.

Lol terrible fb etiquette! I will give you everything plus number 7: Eat your ass too! :D

[llpatrick]

Sis,

You really need to move on. You are becoming a sex toy to him and playing to what he wants.

Open yourself up for better things.
Leave and never turn back.

Like other also said...
I also can do 1 to 6. + more.

Hey it’s me again lol. Back with a new topic to rant. Please bear with me.

Posted here last year about my FB woes. Well after a short break from the same FB, we kinda got back together in action again recently. Big mistake.

I asked him for a different sort of experience (I wanted a BFE) but he wasn’t keen as he said it might cause feelings to develop, which I definitely understand. But I absolutely do not have / won’t have any sort of romantic feelings toward him as I’m emotionally unavailable myself. I merely wish to change things up a bit for the experience I want.

He’s always been into dom/sub and light bdsm, and all our romps so far have been delivered exactly the way he likes it. Usually he would go straight into action without spending much time on kissing or foreplay, and then it’s the main action.

Basically it’s like in this order:

1) Little to no kissing
2) Littie to no caressing
3) Sometimes goes down on me; sometimes “forgets to”
4) loves tying me up for kinks
5) banging action until he cums and stops
6) no second round even if I’ve not climaxed because he “only does one round”

I told him I’m tired carrying on with him when there’s nothing in it for me.

Am I being too emo? He also doesn’t entertain me when I tell him such things. Until the next time he wants my pussy, he will be nice and chummy again.

[AerieRei]

Hey it’s me again lol. Back with a new topic to rant. Please bear with me.

Posted here last year about my FB woes. Well after a short break from the same FB, we kinda got back together in action again recently. Big mistake.

I asked him for a different sort of experience (I wanted a BFE) but he wasn’t keen as he said it might cause feelings to develop, which I definitely understand. But I absolutely do not have / won’t have any sort of romantic feelings toward him as I’m emotionally unavailable myself. I merely wish to change things up a bit for the experience I want.

He’s always been into dom/sub and light bdsm, and all our romps so far have been delivered exactly the way he likes it. Usually he would go straight into action without spending much time on kissing or foreplay, and then it’s the main action.

Basically it’s like in this order:

1) Little to no kissing
2) Littie to no caressing
3) Sometimes goes down on me; sometimes “forgets to”
4) loves tying me up for kinks
5) banging action until he cums and stops
6) no second round even if I’ve not climaxed because he “only does one round”

I told him I’m tired carrying on with him when there’s nothing in it for me.

Am I being too emo? He also doesn’t entertain me when I tell him such things. Until the next time he wants my pussy, he will be nice and chummy again.

Do you enjoy the BDSM/tying up aspect of your play? I'm sure if I conduct classes, a lot of people here will be able to tie safely after 3 lessons. What is his worth to you? Seems like you're giving more than he is so maybe it's time to cut your losses. a little context, this is also me. SGTransDomme.com #justsaying

[Piledriver]

Hey it’s me again lol. Back with a new topic to rant. Please bear with me.

Posted here last year about my FB woes. Well after a short break from the same FB, we kinda got back together in action again recently. Big mistake.

He’s always been into dom/sub and light bdsm, and all our romps so far have been delivered exactly the way he likes it. Usually he would go straight into action without spending much time on kissing or foreplay, and then it’s the main action.

I told him I’m tired carrying on with him when there’s nothing in it for me.

Am I being too emo? He also doesn’t entertain me when I tell him such things. Until the next time he wants my pussy, he will be nice and chummy again.

Just admit it: you are addicted to him. That's why you went back to fuck him. Sex with him is too good. He treats you like a slut, and you are enjoying it.

If you want a different experience, go look for another FB who can provide it. You can treat your current FB the way he had always treated you- like a disposable piece of fuck toy.

And for the love of God, please let this be the last time that you come in here to rant about your FB :cool:

[xvvtsx]

Hey it’s me again lol. Back with a new topic to rant. Please bear with me.

Posted here last year about my FB woes. Well after a short break from the same FB, we kinda got back together in action again recently. Big mistake.

I asked him for a different sort of experience (I wanted a BFE) but he wasn’t keen as he said it might cause feelings to develop, which I definitely understand. But I absolutely do not have / won’t have any sort of romantic feelings toward him as I’m emotionally unavailable myself. I merely wish to change things up a bit for the experience I want.

He’s always been into dom/sub and light bdsm, and all our romps so far have been delivered exactly the way he likes it. Usually he would go straight into action without spending much time on kissing or foreplay, and then it’s the main action.

Basically it’s like in this order:

1) Little to no kissing
2) Littie to no caressing
3) Sometimes goes down on me; sometimes “forgets to”
4) loves tying me up for kinks
5) banging action until he cums and stops
6) no second round even if I’ve not climaxed because he “only does one round”

I told him I’m tired carrying on with him when there’s nothing in it for me.

Am I being too emo? He also doesn’t entertain me when I tell him such things. Until the next time he wants my pussy, he will be nice and chummy again.
I think the queue here is long enough but here's my 2 cents from a early 30+

Women tend to fuck using their heart no matter how much they say it's just NSA
To men, sex can just be strictly physical

Great sex aside they need cuddling, carassing and to be wooed etc. TLDR: the need to feel wanted

Guess you should start looking out for others while you're still with him
I'm seeing abit of a buyer's remorse, better find an out soon before you invest more time with him, cheers

[Shadow_warrior]

U are missing the emotional connection that’s all. U want bf material without the commitment…so many guys here will jump to this opportunity. U just have to look ard. Remember it’s FB, fuck and go. If u want ur needs to be fulfilled, look for a proper bf. But remember, what’s the reason u are still with him? Maybe subconsciously u like the way he treats u? I may be wrong

but she says she has absolutely no ROMANTIC feelings for him

[xxFTOxx]

but she says she has absolutely no ROMANTIC feelings for him

Haha that’s what they say. In the end same ending.