"Feelings about you is complicated" - What's the meaning?

[lancelim]

I recently revealed my feelings to a friend and she told me that her feelings for me is complicated. Can anyone please enlighten me what does this "complicated" could mean?

I thank all bros and sisters who are replying first.. Thanks alot!

[sammyboyfor]

I recently revealed my feelings to a friend and she told me that her feelings for me is complicated. Can anyone please enlighten me what does this "complicated" could mean?

I thank all bros and sisters who are replying first.. Thanks alot!

It's a polite way of saying "fuck off and leave me alone!".:cool:

[lancelim]

It's a polite way of saying "fuck off and leave me alone!".:cool:

Oh ok.. Thanks for enlightening me...

[Silver5]

here's on my take on 'my feelings for u are complicated':
u seems to be nice, so i'll keep u(confused) aside in case shit happen
this means that i must never find out that u'll have any kind
of romance beside me and i'll end it mercilessly without looking too stupid

what u have do now is to declared ur undying love to me, buy me presents
doing things that no normal male guys would do for me for entertainment be there whenever i call for you within half an hour and listen to my crying and whining for at least mininium 2hrs give in to my every demands and request.

all these in just 'my feelings for you are complicated'



p.s. Dun worry you're not the only one guy that i've been telling 'my feelings for you are complicated'

[JGoo]

I recently revealed my feelings to a friend and she told me that her feelings for me is complicated. Can anyone please enlighten me what does this "complicated" could mean?

I thank all bros and sisters who are replying first.. Thanks alot!

She is comfortable with you but she do not wish to further nature this relationship. At the same time, she is cruising for more option to find any other better guys. Her heart is not settled down yet...

[Megatronzombie]

When a girl says that to you, run like shit as quick as you can and as far as you can. Coz u will never see the light of day and its more worth it to spend all those money u saved up to buy her stuff on FLs where they will treat u like kings instead of you treating her like queen.

[steamer]

I recently revealed my feelings to a friend and she told me that her feelings for me is complicated. Can anyone please enlighten me what does this "complicated" could mean?

I thank all bros and sisters who are replying first.. Thanks alot!

she is rejecting you nicely. move on bro.
all the best.

[XEye]

Want to know what it means ?

Ask her lah ....

That is the problem we man have... we know female are complicated and that we from Mars can never know their Venus thoughts.

Go ask and stop all the guessing and questioning.

There is none of us can get into her brain to tell you what it is.

By the way, what do you want to hear anyway ? :)

[Star Destroyer]

Translated: You are more like a jiemei to me. :D

[Alucard_x]

Bro, it means she doesn't dislike you but she also don't love you. Its 50-50, so you can wait and see or find someone else. Its not clear on your situation, but suggest you probe her further (if possbile) or observe her behaviour from now when you try to date her out.

[lancelim]

Want to know what it means ?

Ask her lah ....

That is the problem we man have... we know female are complicated and that we from Mars can never know their Venus thoughts.

Go ask and stop all the guessing and questioning.

There is none of us can get into her brain to tell you what it is.

By the way, what do you want to hear anyway ? :)

I asked her but she refused to say... So I'm "prepared for the worst"...

[cupid128]

Agree, there is no such thing as a fix meaning to what she said to you ... only she knows what she mean ..... so ask her for more , else just move on ..

[Steadyman1]

At time not knowing the truth answer is a blessing. Stay where you are and let the friendship going. Both of you will find it more comfortably in this manner. Enjoy what you have and don't crave or cling on it.

[N E R O]

Matters of the heart is always difficult to fathom. Whatever it is if you really keen on her, just perservere ... else dont waste your time

[natsuki]

Erm... Time will tell bah? Meanwhile... Move on bah... :)

She might still be looking for the right one, and u might not be the right one... Maybe she's still putting u in 'reserve' list...

[23th Warrior]

Put it simple:

you do not rock her world.

[Centaurs]

Haha agree with Boss , no reason to give, give you something, say like not saying anything at all

[Lanchio1]

"Feelings about you is complicated" = She's not THAT into you.

But.... if you $pend lot$ of gift$, expen$ive lunche$ & dinner$, see how loh :D

After month$ of See How Loh, it's Lets be friends :D

[alphonsus]

As all brothers had said it, go away.

Put it this way:

If you really stand a chance, would she not tell you a definite yes straight away?

Alternatively (to soothe yourself better):

She may like you, but its not enough for her to totally accept you as the other half. Would you want to hang around in such uncertainty?

[Star Destroyer]

Girls being girls it usually means you are considered back-up material a filler in between. Dump her.

[Girl Scouting]

Everyday is a new day. Why bother to look back. Look forward.

[lancelim]

Thanks to all brothers and sisters here... Yeah it's time for me to move on and enjoy singlehood for a long time to come.. :( Appreciated all the advices! Thank you everybody

[colins]

I believe if you really like her, you wouldn't mind staying around her to find out what's so complicated about her feelings for you. Remember that before you treat her so nice, her feelings for you may just be plain and simple.

[lancelim]

I believe if you really like her, you wouldn't mind staying around her to find out what's so complicated about her feelings for you. Remember that before you treat her so nice, her feelings for you may just be plain and simple.

Today we talked about it again. She's not ready to even commit in a relationship as she's exploring overseas working opportunities. So I guess it's kind of the end of it.....

[colins]

Well I guess in that case, you probably need to expand other options. In terms of mindset, she's at the taking off stage, while you're probably ready to land. Its her loss la. But that's better than to ask you to wait or worse still, dun give you an answer and let you hang high and dry.

Everybody has options, so if you already pick one, dun be greedy and keep the rest of the options waiting for you. I think that's what she did. At least that shows that she is good enough to be fair to you. Knowing and accepting this fact will help you recover faster and better.

[tungsten]

Maintain a shred of dignity by saying, "I understand that. "

If I can be blantantly upfront, she is hoping to have the cake and eat it at the same time. A spare tyre with no commiments but with all the fringes (presents and etc.) It is just like FB for us and EB (emotional buddy) for them.

Do not indicate that you are interested to get her into relationship again. Tease her by blowing hot and cold.

Even when she ask you things like, "Can you repeat what you say that time?" Please reply with, "Huh? My feelings is complicated lor." Make her go for the first move. If she refuse, it just means that you do not carry enough weight in her anyway...

That's my two cents on the matter. Try it at your own risk.

[lilmei]

Today we talked about it again. She's not ready to even commit in a relationship as she's exploring overseas working opportunities. So I guess it's kind of the end of it.....

ya, let go la, if not u'll b Robert Lim soon ..:p

[old_yet_horny]

To fall for a woman who doesn't reciprocate is really complicated...

To marry a woman and keep loving her like the first day u fall in love with her is more sophiscated than complicated..

So just enjoy urself and look around..

[N E R O]

Yalor, just play along and also dont commit yourself .... if got free sex better still .... :) and in the meantime keep your options fully open ...

[busido69]

this is so simple....

it's a maybe lo. and yes you screw it up big time before and i think she was polite and gentle enough to even say that to you.(i had worse)...meaning you still have a chance

Solution?

even simpler. drop her. don't contact her. and change and upgrade yourself. then chase her again after many months later