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lightning
19-08-2008, 10:32 AM
Hi Guys was wondering how u approach FB contacts given by other brothers. My bro start off by introducing that he happened to scroll his HP contact and saw her contact and gotten from website. (Can't remember which one) seems a bit lame to me but u guys got better lines and got experinerences can share here. Thks! :D:D

Have approach 2 gals presently, one chinese and one malay... the 2nd one seems harder...

BTW i was adviced to give morning and evening greetings to give nice impressions. Any better suggestions???

lightning
19-08-2008, 12:06 PM
Apologise if i may have asked something seems bo liao and ask for spoon feeds. But just really out of wits and kindly share ur experinces here:confused::p:D

tryherout
19-08-2008, 12:41 PM
Will be great to meet up and discuss over coffee. From there, build up communication and ready to standby firers...

You cant avoid open directed questions, and be brave about it since she has responded with your sms...

I have asked questions e.g.:
"When is the last time you did it with your bf?"
"Which hotel do you prefer?"
"What do you think of me?"
"Should we go now?"

lightning
19-08-2008, 12:48 PM
Will be great to meet up and discuss over coffee. From there, build up communication and ready to standby firers...

You cant avoid open directed questions, and be brave about it since she has responded with your sms...

I have asked questions e.g.:
"When is the last time you did it with your bf?"
"Which hotel do you prefer?"
"What do you think of me?"
"Should we go now?"

I was chickened out a bit saying that i need to work during the 1st time. Later i asked her if she's free later but she say meeting her bf later...after work, i talked to her. But later i called her again as i wished to know her more but she seems to pissed off and hanged up:o:(

Dun think that she is that direct type and dun wants ppl to think that she is easy type?

Bangster
19-08-2008, 12:56 PM
"Harlo, ai sio gan mai?"

Hahah.

Just joking.

Maybe you can try to get a bit of background info on her first from the person who passed the contact to you, eg. what she work as, where she usually hangs out etc. Thereafter it'll be easier to cook up an excuse or a lie, like

"Oh so-and-so intro your services to me, so I thought I could use them today" (if she's providing some kind of professional services such as designing, write-ups, etc)

"Hi I saw you with your group of friends at ________ the other night. Kinda shy to approach you but I believe we have a mutual friend in so-and-so"

or the daring approach
"Hi Lollipop, wanna be sucked?" hehe

ChuiTaLan
19-08-2008, 01:07 PM
Well, for my case, i usually start out casually by asking them normal stuffs like how is she, how's work, life, etc etc
treat them like frens 1st.
my 1st FB (from AFF), we did chat over the hp for quite sometime b4 we meet up n went straight to hotel. Wat i did was to chat wif them as frens 1st. then slowly into the topic of sex. well, its easier for me to start the topic of sex cos i know her thru AFF.
my 2nd FB (oso from AFF), chat wif her in AFF chatroom for ard 1wk or so, then when we meet up is a grp date. Well, as usual, start talking abt non-sexual related stuffs 1st. once she's comfortable wif u, then sexual topics.
I did ask both of them why they choose me (but im not their only FBs), they say cos i dun 'look or sound' desperate, like straight ask them abt sexual stuffs. even though we know each other thru AFF, for ladies, they prefer to have that 'chemistry' 1st, then they're more open (pun intented :D)
So TS, u can start chatting them up like a normal frens 1st. once they're comfortable abt the sex topic, then BINGO!
Gd luck! :D

lightning
19-08-2008, 01:37 PM
Well, for my case, i usually start out casually by asking them normal stuffs like how is she, how's work, life, etc etc
treat them like frens 1st.
my 1st FB (from AFF), we did chat over the hp for quite sometime b4 we meet up n went straight to hotel. Wat i did was to chat wif them as frens 1st. then slowly into the topic of sex. well, its easier for me to start the topic of sex cos i know her thru AFF.
my 2nd FB (oso from AFF), chat wif her in AFF chatroom for ard 1wk or so, then when we meet up is a grp date. Well, as usual, start talking abt non-sexual related stuffs 1st. once she's comfortable wif u, then sexual topics.
I did ask both of them why they choose me (but im not their only FBs), they say cos i dun 'look or sound' desperate, like straight ask them abt sexual stuffs. even though we know each other thru AFF, for ladies, they prefer to have that 'chemistry' 1st, then they're more open (pun intented :D)
So TS, u can start chatting them up like a normal frens 1st. once they're comfortable abt the sex topic, then BINGO!
Gd luck! :D

So u must have a Credit card account in order to register the Gold membership rite?

ChuiTaLan
19-08-2008, 01:42 PM
So u must have a Credit card account in order to register the Gold membership rite?

Nope. I nvr sign up as a member, jus a non-paying standard member. The 1st FB was bcos AFF is still relatively new during that time, so even std member can sent 1 email/day. thats how i get to know my 1st FB.
by the time i get back to AFF, no more sending of email for std members liao, so goto chat room n fish. rather time consuming..cos gotta go there n chat till u can join in for conversation. thats how i got my 2nd FB. :o
now...no time to chat in there liao....
so...no more FB...:(

hotdick69
19-08-2008, 02:12 PM
chemistry is the key thing...... even if your frds pas you the contact and both of u dont have chemistry also "No Go"..... thats y keep ur options open.... be frdly with them be the nice guy, funny guy,..... what kind of guy ur comfortable with (but not a desperate 1):D

if most gals who have been FB or lovers before..... they are already in the open minded mentality..... so its a matter of how u approach..... do it using the subtle approach.... " hihi how's ur day today?" "Hi How's work?" simple but effective short to the point sentences


once u start the conversation going then treat her like any other normal gal u know ask her the normal stuff..... like hobbies.... movies last seen.... then move on from then...... once she starts to get comfortable with u.... drop her hints by smsing or calling her " hihi cutie..... how's ur day" "hihi sweetie.... had ur lunch?"

dont go all out after she starts getting comfortable with u..... small little non crude sexual jokes are okie.... but not hardcore ones.... or not she will sure run away... thinking ur a despo..... hahaha

FB are not really into just the sex..... but more of the everything..... feeling chemistry..... fondness.... so dont think after knowing her straight away jump into bed

most of my FBs started from just normal frds..... 1 thing lead to another.... everything is history now :D

Just my 2 Cents Bro

tryherout
19-08-2008, 03:07 PM
Dun think that she is that direct type and dun wants ppl to think that she is easy type?

Most gal wouldnt want to be perceived as easy meat. Everyone eats anything when they are famished. Perhaps the settings werent right, little alchohol do help build up tempo and courage.

Romance her...valentino style- sending some flowers to surprise her...sometimes good to purposely commit a mistake so that there is another opportunity to show how lovely you are.

lightning
19-08-2008, 03:22 PM
Most gal wouldnt want to be perceived as easy meat. Everyone eats anything when they are famished. Perhaps the settings werent right, little alchohol do help build up tempo and courage.

Romance her...valentino style- sending some flowers to surprise her...sometimes good to purposely commit a mistake so that there is another opportunity to show how lovely you are.

I also dun want to make them think that way also. Just wanna maintain a steady and fun FB thats all :D

maila
19-08-2008, 03:24 PM
Since all FBs are out for a good fling... hint to her all your GF scared of your sexual prowess ..... maybe something like, 'all my GF say I am too good in bed, they cannot tahan' ... short and sharp

lightning
19-08-2008, 03:40 PM
chemistry is the key thing...... even if your frds pas you the contact and both of u dont have chemistry also "No Go"..... thats y keep ur options open.... be frdly with them be the nice guy, funny guy,..... what kind of guy ur comfortable with (but not a desperate 1):D
.....
most of my FBs started from just normal frds..... 1 thing lead to another.... everything is history now :D

Just my 2 Cents Bro
Thks and will try to a frd to her from start :D

lightning
19-08-2008, 05:07 PM
Thks a lot guys for the ideas poured in and any better lines or suggestions??:p:D

skirtchaser639
19-08-2008, 05:48 PM
yet to net a FB, had try AFF before but need lots of patient, like courting gf like that
met up a few girls, no chemistry
i give up and go straight for the FL, at least simple interaction
we meet, we bonk, i pay, we part

but will be great to net a FB, we court....then
we meet, we bonk, we part
we meet, we bonk, we part
we meet, we bonk, we part
we meet, we bonk, we part....

and save on all the "i pay"....lol :D
(my apology for sis or bro that get offended :p)

Eunuch
19-08-2008, 05:56 PM
:eek: FB contact can give out one meh :confused:

V123
20-08-2008, 06:20 PM
Yes, it's hard to approach such a contact. I'm sure if someone out of nowhere and msg you and ask you out etc, you will ask back who's that, and prob try not to entertain.

but nevertheless, it's thrilling to try.

Any one wanna exchange?

Angel.Janus
21-08-2008, 09:43 AM
seriously, i find most guys willing to chat about FBs, but not willing to share openly... cos FBs are not FLs...

if you genuinely wan to know each others FBs, make sure all four are ok or mildly turned-on by the idea of swapping... not that common or easy...

but by the rare chance all 4 are ok, then meet up for a few drinks first... dun expect sex on 1st date, jus like with 1st date with FBs...

infinitiumus
21-08-2008, 09:51 AM
If she don't know you at all and not expecting a call/SMS from you.. it could be a bit difficult... like doing a cold sales call

But really, nothing to lose out. Mostly it will be difficult. Maybe just SMS once a while... try to ask for coffee/drinks.. make little chat here and there.. if she responds positively.. then can date or ask for MSN..

It would be good if you can find some background info about the girl from your friend - like her likes/dislikes.. and work from there..

Once you got a date.. you got a chance..

lightning
21-08-2008, 10:33 AM
If she don't know you at all and not expecting a call/SMS from you.. it could be a bit difficult... like doing a cold sales call

But really, nothing to lose out. Mostly it will be difficult. Maybe just SMS once a while... try to ask for coffee/drinks.. make little chat here and there.. if she responds positively.. then can date or ask for MSN..

It would be good if you can find some background info about the girl from your friend - like her likes/dislikes.. and work from there..

Once you got a date.. you got a chance..

Yes i got cold calls intially but nw breaking ice a bit... will post juicy content if suceeded

Angel.Janus
21-08-2008, 11:04 AM
alll the best for both your potential FBs.... hope to hear juicy updates...

LED...
21-08-2008, 12:50 PM
Honestly FB is really hard to come by, esp those that can spark chemistry...

My first (years back) was an unusual experience myself....but it’s a true encounter not friction...

Driving down XX expressway late one night, one lorry drove pass me and coincidentally make eye contact with the chic onboard...... Out of fun, I drove side by side with the vehicle to check her out. She smile and wave at me, DAMN…..thought dreaming, I wave back and immediately pull out my handphone to signal for contact…To my surprise, she was very spontaneous and game to tell me her number using hand signal after I chase her down the road for almost 10 mins… She turn off to exit and I continue to proceed home. On the way home, I called her and we started from there……. Amazing rite…

Overall just be nice and gentlemen and reward will come...

Anything is possible if its your time I would say…….:D

But pls be careful if you encounter similar experience for this month:eek:

Angel.Janus
21-08-2008, 12:54 PM
wah liao... bro, your driving skills superb leh... can drive, hand signal, remember the numbers... and still no accident... must be at those long stretches one lah... heheh :p

yah, agree... hard to find good FBs, and harder to remain as friends when FB status is over...

LED...
21-08-2008, 01:01 PM
[QUOTE=Angel.Janus;2994391]wah liao... bro, your driving skills superb leh... can drive, hand signal, remember the numbers... and still no accident... must be at those long stretches one lah... heheh :p

Not too difficult lah bro, late night no traffic, long expressway and a horny determination......ITS ALL IN THE MIND MANZ:D

old_yet_horny
21-08-2008, 02:36 PM
Bros without Skype can DL and try ur luck on it...

But beware as alot of "Skype me"chicks are actually commercial sex/erotic chat stuff..:)

I'm currently working on 1 potential FB.. really cock teaser:p

lightning
21-08-2008, 03:08 PM
Bros without Skype can DL and try ur luck on it...

But beware as alot of "Skype me"chicks are actually commercial sex/erotic chat stuff..:)

I'm currently working on 1 potential FB.. really cock teaser:p

Me too. :D share ur story here once suceeded...

adrianus
24-08-2008, 09:03 PM
That post just prompted me to download skype...

Especially useful for those bros who travel to cn regularly on business... know what i mean...

Twiddledum
24-08-2008, 11:42 PM
Thanks to all bros for advices given, This is actually a really good thread. I have been cheonging for a while and have wanted to get a fuck buddy but no joy liao! Technique not there i guess. Grateful for more inputs from on experiences. Are IRC message rooms good places to find FBs as some people say?

lightning
25-08-2008, 06:03 PM
Me too. :D share ur story here once suceeded...

Sian saw that potential Fb and supposed to meet for fishing but in the end cancelled and went other place to meet this gal. She has a mentality of a secondary kid and a face of sch girl, in the end not my cuppa and did not makan:o

geckoSG
26-08-2008, 02:22 PM
Sian saw that potential Fb and supposed to meet for fishing but in the end cancelled and went other place to meet this gal. She has a mentality of a secondary kid and a face of sch girl, in the end not my cuppa and did not makan:o

alamak, come come, can introduce to me?

lightning
26-08-2008, 03:45 PM
alamak, come come, can introduce to me?

Ai yoh Bro if i fail her looks that means her look is comparable to those of aunties. Uneatable is the word!:p

Any Bros could kindly share their skirt chasing experince of their FBs here and any favourite line to use :p :D

geckoSG
26-08-2008, 03:53 PM
Ai yoh Bro if i fail her looks that means her look is comparable to those of aunties. Uneatable is the word!:p

Any Bros could kindly share their skirt chasing experince of their FBs here and any favourite line to use :p :D

Haha... Teasing u lah bro... kekeke...

My method is be a gentleman when u talk to them or chat with them, nothing on sex, meet up just for kopi, nothing more.
When she say she is comfy with u, then that's the 'que' for you to go more personal. Important things is "Treat them as
Friends" first!

lightning
26-08-2008, 04:14 PM
Haha... Teasing u lah bro... kekeke...

My method is be a gentleman when u talk to them or chat with them, nothing on sex, meet up just for kopi, nothing more.
When she say she is comfy with u, then that's the 'que' for you to go more personal. Important things is "Treat them as
Friends" first!

Exchange if u want :) but i warn u, uneatable... this is my 1st hunting trip of FB:D

Angel.Janus
26-08-2008, 05:28 PM
Any Bros could kindly share their skirt chasing experince of their FBs here and any favourite line to use :p :D

Wan some dick?!?


:D:D

no magic bean, pills, toy, perfume, line, act, clothings, car, job or anything... jus start off as friends first... gain her trust liao, then test water to see how hungry is her sex appetite

lightning
26-08-2008, 05:31 PM
Wan some dick?!?


:D:D

no magic bean, pills, toy, perfume, line, act, clothings, car, job or anything... jus start off as friends first... gain her trust liao, then test water to see how hungry is her sex appetite

BTW this gal is at 26 yrs with the mentailty of sch gal:o:(

Vectra
26-08-2008, 10:21 PM
Exchange if u want :) but i warn u, uneatable... this is my 1st hunting trip of FB:D

As the famous quote here, "One man meat is another man poison"
Modify a bit, "One man food, does not mean yours":D

old_yet_horny
28-08-2008, 11:55 AM
Ok ok....


To some bros who are looking for FB and working on "potential" FB...

Here's my experience...


Got to know her from Skype...We chatted over skype and exchange some chinese songs, jokes etc etc via Skype..

The Gal's name is Lily... From M'sia... I was kind of free so just go to the serach mode and filter for victims according to my "interested" age group...preferaby local.. So I spot her... She has got a signature in her profile so I went ahead with my luck.

After a few weeks of exchanging messages, we finally decided to meet up... We exchanged numbers so that we can contact each other if we kind of lost our way or what... So we met up with no hiccups at Boat uay for dinner and drinks...

First date.. Nothing special....
Just eat and talk cock... After that send her back.


Second date... We went drinking at some neighbourhood pub... She was abit high (Alchohol).. Me also very high (Sex drive)... We ended up hugging each other while playing games in the pub... Cock full mast upon inhaling her intoxicating perfume... Slowly slowly... my lips "bedeh bedeh" brush her ear loops... She stunned... Can feel her goose bumps on her arms...

Me try to play the "pro-league" by the pull and push tactic... Sometimes stay away from her sometimes touch here abit there abit...

After a few weeks of on and off going out and Skyping or YM each other...

Finally she ask me over YM...


" U very hum sup...??"

" How often u have sex..?"

Etc etc...


I think she asking for trouble liao...So I go ahead and exaggerate...

I told her that I am a sex addict.. Everyday need sex... even though I have a woman at home, I need to satisfy my urge with other women... My cock can get hard on a few times a day..

She ask me.." How many other women...??"

I tell her.." If can include u, I have 7 FBs..(Bullshit her).."

She laughed and say why count her in when I have not dome anything to her??

I told her that sometimes when I make love to other women, i will imagine I am screwing her...

She laughed... I popped the GQ... " Can I stop all these fantasies and have the real feeling of making love to you??"

She was shocked... She didn't say anything...

So I try to salvage the situation..." I sorry... I make it sounds as if you're some easy woman but I really dun mean it.. I really have a strong fantasy about making love to u.. Forgive me..."

She smiled and told me its ok to have fantasy... But she got abit of barrier because her first time kena approach by guy so direct... Moreover I got wife and there's no real love between me and this Lily...

So nowI put all these FB request aside and use the fishing tactic... release and pull...


I will update my progress if there's any... Maybe in another thread???:confused:

Angel.Janus
28-08-2008, 12:09 PM
So nowI put all these FB request aside and use the fishing tactic... release and pull...

I will update my progress if there's any... Maybe in another thread???:confused:

good tactic... but most would call it push-pull... very good, cos women themselves would do it to us unconsciously.... most guys would jus push and push...

hotdick69
28-08-2008, 01:54 PM
Ok ok....


To some bros who are looking for FB and working on "potential" FB...

Here's my experience...


So nowI put all these FB request aside and use the fishing tactic... release and pull...


I will update my progress if there's any... Maybe in another thread???:confused:

Bro i think u went in for the kill to fast..... if u would have slowed down i think sure maken already..... the fact that she lets u get close to her means she is comfortable with u...... some women are sexually high themselves so this type can be direct..... but some are those u need to find the right time place & moment for it to happen..... once she sleeps with u..... then its too late to say no or say ur married or what..... once u get to bed them..... give them the best love making they will ever have its ur 1 and only time to prove to her how good and wonderful it feels..... then sure easy to have 2nd and 3rd time or more..... :D

just my 2 cents

geckoSG
28-08-2008, 03:59 PM
Exchange if u want :) but i warn u, uneatable... this is my 1st hunting trip of FB:D

Its OK, just teasing u lah bro... My hands are tied now with 1 regular FB &
1 more potential one coming up... Still have to take care of my OC @ home.
However, I dun mind one good looking young one... :D

ChuiTaLan
28-08-2008, 05:41 PM
good tactic... but most would call it push-pull... very good, cos women themselves would do it to us unconsciously.... most guys would jus push and push...

Bro, how can a person do anything unconsciously??? unconscious=loss of conscious, be it faint, sleep, or watever....:p


cos women themselves would do it to us subconsciously.... most guys would jus push and push..

old_yet_horny
28-08-2008, 05:59 PM
Bro i think u went in for the kill to fast..... if u would have slowed down i think sure maken already..... the fact that she lets u get close to her means she is comfortable with u...... some women are sexually high themselves so this type can be direct..... but some are those u need to find the right time place & moment for it to happen..... once she sleeps with u..... then its too late to say no or say ur married or what..... once u get to bed them..... give them the best love making they will ever have its ur 1 and only time to prove to her how good and wonderful it feels..... then sure easy to have 2nd and 3rd time or more..... :D

just my 2 cents

Bro... I agree on my part, a bit impatience but i dun know why... I feel better to let her know that I am married rather than to let her find out after I bed her... I prefer it a more "transparent" FB relatiionship...

I agree I missed out a few chances due to my drunk stupor but I would consider it a bonus if she becomes my FB.. without her I am equally good cos I really have doubt that she can handle those kind of no strings attached sexual relationship with me...

Anyway.. am still contacting her and once a while, we will meet up... Who knows??One day she may just open up and think that having a FB like me isn't that bad after all??kekeke..:D


Cheers!

geckoSG
29-08-2008, 12:32 PM
One day she may just open up and think that having a FB like me isn't that bad after all??kekeke..:D


Dun worry bro... from what you penned down, you have a high chance of
scoring. Take it slow, be the LEADer rather than being LEADed