Where did u find your FWB?

[Anomynous]

Just curious which platforms actually work and which doesn’t.
But while we’re here, share some stories of how u guys met, how the sex went and are things still going on between u guys!

Those more experienced can share your best, worst and funniest experiences!

[guess67]

In sbf, simple :D

[Anonyabc]

Workplace, wechat, friend of friend, TG...

[cataramp]

Usually in my dream :o

[marcussia]

Friends or word-of-mouth intro (got quite a few, but didn't last long)

Various online platforms Tinder, CMB, WeChat, etc... (lesser but still got a few, but super time-consuming)

Getting numbers from girls... (the least, and normally ends up very clingy)

I think the main thing is like throwing a huge net and trying to get whatever is available (unless you are good-looking, rich, etc).

[Anomynous]

Workplace, wechat, friend of friend, TG...

How does the WeChat or Telegram one work? O.o
Is there a specific channel or smth?

[t123]

ICQ,, WAYN, Tagged

[bpafree39]

I found my 1st in MRIC. IYKYK :)

[HeyHo]

I find it thru my right hand 🤚🏾✈️

[Afaga]

In sbf, simple :D

Mostly guys here hahaha

[dyelook]

In sbf, simple :D

say me arh?:D

[retepoet]

Hawker Centres & Wet Markets 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[Petslave]

Clark Quay bar lol

[Petslave]

Bar wechat tinder

[Mysmellypillow]

Wechats hehe..
But very time consuming and at times just purely a waste of time

[NaughtynSensual]

In sbf, simple :D

Thank you for your up! 🤭🤭🤭

[guess67]

Thank you for your up! 🤭🤭🤭

Hahahaha... U are welcome :D

[dyelook]

Thank you for your up! 🤭🤭🤭

Hahahaha... U are welcome :D

3p upzzz...:p

[bigmannow]

Long time ago before chat apps got this MSN Singapore women’s community and there’s a forum and chat room .. sometimes can find some ladies looking for ONS there

[NaughtynSensual]

3p upzzz...:p

Haha! Now become points thread ah? 😂

[phantomboyz]

casting couch

[dyelook]

Haha! Now become points thread ah? 😂

as always....:p

[Laopizhui]

ICQ>MIRC>Friendster>Wechat>Tagged>FB>Workplace>MP>Badoo>Tan Tan

That all

SBF didnt go n chat with the sis here
Tinder got too many female friends inside
CnB all like want serious r/s and marriage

[bpafree39]

ICQ>MIRC>Friendster>Wechat>Tagged>FB>Workplace>MP>Badoo>Tan Tan

That all

SBF didnt go n chat with the sis here
Tinder got too many female friends inside
CnB all like want serious r/s and marriage

Returned the exchange bro. I also never chat with any sis here lol

[0541774]

Online dating sites, offline bars and pubs.

[cavemao]

there's a pick up bar called skinny's, if you got thick skin, the girls there are up for grabs

[UncleHasBeen]

I am 52 this year.
Never use dating app or chats for such per se.
But i did signed up for these activities over the years. Part interest and part 'looking around'.:D
There were quite a lot more than these.
These are the more memorable ones with the highest hits rate.
I have never looked back since, good ole times

Yachting club.
(Met a model, dated twice then crashed. Had a light kiss on the lips, that was it)

Baking workshops.
(Plenty of flirts but not to my liking unfortunately)

Walking tours.
(Had been to 3 tours so far and one hit for each one. Only lasted 3 months about. Causal flings and sex. Easy come and easy go)

Dance classes.
(This is my fave and I highly recommend this. This is my mecca for pussies for all races, nationalities and age groups. Had 6 flings to date and the best part, they were causal about it. Nice!)

Toastmasters course.
(One hit and we are still together since 2016 )

Alliance Française de Singapour.
(Had 2 flings lasted for 4 months each.)

Dive courses. Follow by dive trips.
(Had 4 flings each lasted 3 months while one is still ongoing since 2018. This one is a keeper )

Cooking classes.
(Attended 2 different course. Had 5 flings from them, lasted 2 months each there about. Met a Russian lady, it was a whirlwind sex until her husband's work got the sack and left. We were fucking hard for a good 2.5 months on every other day)

Facebook home cooked food group
(This is a constant rich ground for lonely pussies. I had at least 6 flings from there and still on holding onto 1 since 2017. Keeper this one )

Facebook Foodie group
(Another very good source. Had 2 flings from there and one lasted 1.5 years because her children found out about us )

Overseas skydiving trip
(Met one of my fave FB. Still together since 2019, definitely keeper )

Mountain climbing trip
(Went Lombok. There I didn’t do any hookup as I wasn’t feeling too great. Probably it was the altitude, but it was fun. Our group’s neighbouring tent, a group of Japanese women were fucking an Indonesian porter from the group)

Running groups
(Joined 2 groups. Managed to grab a SYT who was 22 years old while I was 41 then. Lasted 5 months)

Local animal shelter volunteer program
(The moment I joined I met one and she is one of my fave FB. Started since 2017 and she is 15 years younger than me. She gave birth last year and we ended it in a nice way)

:D:p:cool:

[lipe]

bro UncleHasBeen

you power lah.

up you 21 points.

good recommendations for all to try.



I am 52 this year.
Never use dating app or chats for such per se.
But i did signed up for these activities over the years. Part interest and part 'looking around'.:D
There were quite a lot more than these.
These are the more memorable ones with the highest hits rate.
I have never looked back since, good ole times

[Banaber]

I am 52 this year.
Never use dating app or chats for such per se.
But i did signed up for these activities over the years. Part interest and part 'looking around'.:D
There were quite a lot more than these.
These are the more memorable ones with the highest hits rate.
I have never looked back since, good ole times

:D:p:cool:

salute! if you see a sudden over-subscription of males, you know where they come from lol~ 🤣

[NaughtynSensual]

I am 52 this year.
Never use dating app or chats for such per se.
But i did signed up for these activities over the years. Part interest and part 'looking around'.:D
There were quite a lot more than these.
These are the more memorable ones with the highest hits rate.
I have never looked back since, good ole times


WEW~ this is a really long list! ��

[UncleHasBeen]

ya man long list :p
Let's be honest. I dont have the looks or the bod to boost.
I can only rely on my charm.
Use my rizz on them so that i can jizz on them later. :D

The best and optimal settings to use your rizz, is a casual setting.
An unexpected setting. U hang around prowling.
Observe and then go for it with a light nudge.
If fail, no big deal lah. Shake the fuck off and move on.
No one cares and no one keeping score.

From my experience, such activities work best for me.
But of course i have not use dating apps before so i cant really compare.
Though so, i believe i thrive in such an environment.

I am sure many understand what i am talking about here.
U will be surprised, looks only work for some women, really.
The rest is all about your rizz.

[guess67]

WEW~ this is a really long list! ��

Let's take up some courses too :D

[snowyx]

I am 52 this year.
Never use dating app or chats for such per se.
But i did signed up for these activities over the years. Part interest and part 'looking around'.:D
There were quite a lot more than these.
These are the more memorable ones with the highest hits rate.
I have never looked back since, good ole times

Yachting club.
(Met a model, dated twice then crashed. Had a light kiss on the lips, that was it)

Baking workshops.
(Plenty of flirts but not to my liking unfortunately)

Walking tours.
(Had been to 3 tours so far and one hit for each one. Only lasted 3 months about. Causal flings and sex. Easy come and easy go)

Dance classes.
(This is my fave and I highly recommend this. This is my mecca for pussies for all races, nationalities and age groups. Had 6 flings to date and the best part, they were causal about it. Nice!)

Toastmasters course.
(One hit and we are still together since 2016 )

Alliance Française de Singapour.
(Had 2 flings lasted for 4 months each.)

Dive courses. Follow by dive trips.
(Had 4 flings each lasted 3 months while one is still ongoing since 2018. This one is a keeper )

Cooking classes.
(Attended 2 different course. Had 5 flings from them, lasted 2 months each there about. Met a Russian lady, it was a whirlwind sex until her husband's work got the sack and left. We were fucking hard for a good 2.5 months on every other day)

Facebook home cooked food group
(This is a constant rich ground for lonely pussies. I had at least 6 flings from there and still on holding onto 1 since 2017. Keeper this one )

Facebook Foodie group
(Another very good source. Had 2 flings from there and one lasted 1.5 years because her children found out about us )

Overseas skydiving trip
(Met one of my fave FB. Still together since 2019, definitely keeper )

Mountain climbing trip
(Went Lombok. There I didn’t do any hookup as I wasn’t feeling too great. Probably it was the altitude, but it was fun. Our group’s neighbouring tent, a group of Japanese women were fucking an Indonesian porter from the group)

Running groups
(Joined 2 groups. Managed to grab a SYT who was 22 years old while I was 41 then. Lasted 5 months)

Local animal shelter volunteer program
(The moment I joined I met one and she is one of my fave FB. Started since 2017 and she is 15 years younger than me. She gave birth last year and we ended it in a nice way)

:D:p:cool:
Power uncle. Up you!

[lonelycow]

From SBF lah bro😜

[NaughtynSensual]

ya man long list :p
Let's be honest. I dont have the looks or the bod to boost.
I can only rely on my charm.
Use my rizz on them so that i can jizz on them later. :D

The best and optimal settings to use your rizz, is a casual setting.
An unexpected setting. U hang around prowling.
Observe and then go for it with a light nudge.
If fail, no big deal lah. Shake the fuck off and move on.
No one cares and no one keeping score.

From my experience, such activities work best for me.
But of course i have not use dating apps before so i cant really compare.
Though so, i believe i thrive in such an environment.

I am sure many understand what i am talking about here.
U will be surprised, looks only work for some women, really.
The rest is all about your rizz.

Yes, not all women are after looks. It's the connection, the chemistry that matters. Men fuck whoever they can, women fuck whoever they want. 🤭

[NaughtynSensual]

Let's take up some courses too :D

I don't mind learning how to bake. 🤭 sign me up for macarons baking class anytime! 😇😇😇

[junebaby]

Okcupid for me. Tons of guys there. Need to filter a bit.

[lipe]

mass migration of bros to Okcupid liao.


Okcupid for me. Tons of guys there. Need to filter a bit.

[libra27]

Not easy to find fwb. Sbf seems all males and no ladies

[HiFive]

I am 52 this year.
Never use dating app or chats for such per se.
But i did signed up for these activities over the years. Part interest and part 'looking around'.:D
There were quite a lot more than these.

:D:p:cool:

Up 18 points. Good list. Time to bake!!!

[dyelook]

Yes, not all women are after looks. It's the connection, the chemistry that matters. Men fuck whoever they can, women fuck whoever they want. 🤭

when's the interview?
me wanna camp for queue number...:D

[boobslovers]

tinder - works.

[UncleHasBeen]

ya bro take up some courses, classes, workshops or social group activities.
My experience, there is always someone there in the group lonely on the inside.
Yearning to have a stranger as a listening ear.
Yearning to start things anew.
Same time, u get to do the stuff u like or try out new things.
Its a win-win man. If u find that u cant click with that group, relax.
Take your time and enjoy the activities first and get to know a person one at a time.
The hits will come. They always come.
Some was instant hit while others a slow brewing process.
But they will come and when they come, they cum. :D

[alea]

Great list! Are you married and how do you find time for these many acitivities?

ya bro take up some courses, classes, workshops or social group activities.
My experience, there is always someone there in the group lonely on the inside.
Yearning to have a stranger as a listening ear.
Yearning to start things anew.
Same time, u get to do the stuff u like or try out new things.
Its a win-win man. If u find that u cant click with that group, relax.
Take your time and enjoy the activities first and get to know a person one at a time.
The hits will come. They always come.
Some was instant hit while others a slow brewing process.
But they will come and when they come, they cum. :D

[Chua Soi Lek]

ya bro take up some courses, classes, workshops or social group activities.
My experience, there is always someone there in the group lonely on the inside.
Yearning to have a stranger as a listening ear.
Yearning to start things anew.
Same time, u get to do the stuff u like or try out new things.
Its a win-win man.

But bro can share how you deal with the following:

In a group activities, how to make your move when there are also so many buayas around waiting to pounce ?

Thanks

[Anomynous]

tinder - works.

Bruh no idea what’s wrong with my app, but they keep giving me the same repeated people over and over. There’s no one new and I nvr gotten a single match.

[Shadow_warrior]

I am 52 this year.

Yachting club.
(Met a model, dated twice then crashed. Had a light kiss on the lips, that was it)

Baking workshops.
(Plenty of flirts but not to my liking unfortunately)

Walking tours.
(Had been to 3 tours so far and one hit for each one. Only lasted 3 months about. Causal flings and sex. Easy come and easy go)

Dance classes.
(This is my fave and I highly recommend this. This is my mecca for pussies for all races, nationalities and age groups. Had 6 flings to date and the best part, they were causal about it. Nice!)

Toastmasters course.
(One hit and we are still together since 2016 )

Alliance Française de Singapour.
(Had 2 flings lasted for 4 months each.)

Dive courses. Follow by dive trips.
(Had 4 flings each lasted 3 months while one is still ongoing since 2018. This one is a keeper )

Cooking classes.
(Attended 2 different course. Had 5 flings from them, lasted 2 months each there about. Met a Russian lady, it was a whirlwind sex until her husband's work got the sack and left. We were fucking hard for a good 2.5 months on every other day)

Facebook home cooked food group
(This is a constant rich ground for lonely pussies. I had at least 6 flings from there and still on holding onto 1 since 2017. Keeper this one )

Facebook Foodie group
(Another very good source. Had 2 flings from there and one lasted 1.5 years because her children found out about us )

Overseas skydiving trip
(Met one of my fave FB. Still together since 2019, definitely keeper )

Mountain climbing trip
(Went Lombok. There I didn’t do any hookup as I wasn’t feeling too great. Probably it was the altitude, but it was fun. Our group’s neighbouring tent, a group of Japanese women were fucking an Indonesian porter from the group)

Running groups
(Joined 2 groups. Managed to grab a SYT who was 22 years old while I was 41 then. Lasted 5 months)

Local animal shelter volunteer program
(The moment I joined I met one and she is one of my fave FB. Started since 2017 and she is 15 years younger than me. She gave birth last year and we ended it in a nice way)

:D:p:cool:

good share....you must be quite successful and the women are attracted to you.

[NaughtynSensual]

when's the interview?
me wanna camp for queue number...:D

What interview? Just need to enrol in baking classes! :D

[Chua Soi Lek]

good share....you must be quite successful and the women are attracted to you.

I also hope I can be so successful ...

[secretlurker88]

Uncle, you are my idol..

ya man long list :p
Let's be honest. I dont have the looks or the bod to boost.
I can only rely on my charm.
Use my rizz on them so that i can jizz on them later. :D

The best and optimal settings to use your rizz, is a casual setting.
An unexpected setting. U hang around prowling.
Observe and then go for it with a light nudge.
If fail, no big deal lah. Shake the fuck off and move on.
No one cares and no one keeping score.

From my experience, such activities work best for me.
But of course i have not use dating apps before so i cant really compare.
Though so, i believe i thrive in such an environment.

I am sure many understand what i am talking about here.
U will be surprised, looks only work for some women, really.
The rest is all about your rizz.

[dyelook]

What interview? Just need to enrol in baking classes! :D

you open a baking class & i enrol arh?:p

[NaughtynSensual]

you open a baking class & i enrol arh?:p

No lah! I can only bake chocolate cake. 😈😈😈

[sbwow]

No lah! I can only bake chocolate cake. 😈😈😈

I am extremely good at baking chocolate bake, need you to taste test mine. HAHAHA.

[Cheeseburger03]

I am 52 this year.
Never use dating app or chats for such per se.
But i did signed up for these activities over the years. Part interest and part 'looking around'.:D
There were quite a lot more than these.
These are the more memorable ones with the highest hits rate.
I have never looked back since, good ole times

Yachting club.
(Met a model, dated twice then crashed. Had a light kiss on the lips, that was it)

Baking workshops.
(Plenty of flirts but not to my liking unfortunately)

Walking tours.
(Had been to 3 tours so far and one hit for each one. Only lasted 3 months about. Causal flings and sex. Easy come and easy go)

Dance classes.
(This is my fave and I highly recommend this. This is my mecca for pussies for all races, nationalities and age groups. Had 6 flings to date and the best part, they were causal about it. Nice!)

Toastmasters course.
(One hit and we are still together since 2016 )

Alliance Française de Singapour.
(Had 2 flings lasted for 4 months each.)

Dive courses. Follow by dive trips.
(Had 4 flings each lasted 3 months while one is still ongoing since 2018. This one is a keeper )

Cooking classes.
(Attended 2 different course. Had 5 flings from them, lasted 2 months each there about. Met a Russian lady, it was a whirlwind sex until her husband's work got the sack and left. We were fucking hard for a good 2.5 months on every other day)

Facebook home cooked food group
(This is a constant rich ground for lonely pussies. I had at least 6 flings from there and still on holding onto 1 since 2017. Keeper this one )

Facebook Foodie group
(Another very good source. Had 2 flings from there and one lasted 1.5 years because her children found out about us )

Overseas skydiving trip
(Met one of my fave FB. Still together since 2019, definitely keeper )

Mountain climbing trip
(Went Lombok. There I didn’t do any hookup as I wasn’t feeling too great. Probably it was the altitude, but it was fun. Our group’s neighbouring tent, a group of Japanese women were fucking an Indonesian porter from the group)

Running groups
(Joined 2 groups. Managed to grab a SYT who was 22 years old while I was 41 then. Lasted 5 months)

Local animal shelter volunteer program
(The moment I joined I met one and she is one of my fave FB. Started since 2017 and she is 15 years younger than me. She gave birth last year and we ended it in a nice way)

:D:p:cool:

Wow the first thing that strike me is ... Uncle has a lot of free time? :D

Just kidding, but how did you manage to find time for so many activities. I finish work go home left half life aldy lol

Also curious... did you join these activities with the intention/goal of picking up some girls, or did you join them out of genuine interest and the girls happen to come along?

Thanks for your advice Uncle :p

[NaughtynSensual]

I am extremely good at baking chocolate bake, need you to taste test mine. HAHAHA.

Pretty sure a handful of us are good at that! 🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭

[UncleHasBeen]

Great list! Are you married and how do you find time for these many acitivities?

Married for 20 years liao.
Been snacking for 20 years too.
But not every week. At the beginning was more active.
Then modify the routine to suit the married life.

I am not justifying my actions. I love my wife.
I just cant stop snacking. I dont promise the world to the others.
I dont invest emotionally too. I treat them as pussies but with respect.
And i only hook up with those who are not emotionally needy or weak.

There are a few FWB that dumped me after a few fucks, i have no hard feelings.
Life goes on lah.

In the beginning of my marriage, snacking is only done on weekends.
As the years went by, i established a 'me-time' routine.
Have FWB or not, i will leave the house on the planned slot so that my wife does not suspect.

It takes a lot of planning and acting.
In front of my wife, i dont show enthusiasm on those 'me-time' days.
Just treat it matter-of-factly even if the FWB is too good to miss.
And the bedroom routine with wife has to maintain and dont deviate.

[marlboro]

I am 52 this year.
Never use dating app or chats for such per se.
But i did signed up for these activities over the years. Part interest and part 'looking around'.:D
There were quite a lot more than these.
These are the more memorable ones with the highest hits rate.
I have never looked back since, good ole times

Yachting club.
(Met a model, dated twice then crashed. Had a light kiss on the lips, that was it)

Baking workshops.
(Plenty of flirts but not to my liking unfortunately)

Walking tours.
(Had been to 3 tours so far and one hit for each one. Only lasted 3 months about. Causal flings and sex. Easy come and easy go)

Dance classes.
(This is my fave and I highly recommend this. This is my mecca for pussies for all races, nationalities and age groups. Had 6 flings to date and the best part, they were causal about it. Nice!)

Toastmasters course.
(One hit and we are still together since 2016 )

Alliance Française de Singapour.
(Had 2 flings lasted for 4 months each.)

Dive courses. Follow by dive trips.
(Had 4 flings each lasted 3 months while one is still ongoing since 2018. This one is a keeper )

Cooking classes.
(Attended 2 different course. Had 5 flings from them, lasted 2 months each there about. Met a Russian lady, it was a whirlwind sex until her husband's work got the sack and left. We were fucking hard for a good 2.5 months on every other day)

Facebook home cooked food group
(This is a constant rich ground for lonely pussies. I had at least 6 flings from there and still on holding onto 1 since 2017. Keeper this one )

Facebook Foodie group
(Another very good source. Had 2 flings from there and one lasted 1.5 years because her children found out about us )

Overseas skydiving trip
(Met one of my fave FB. Still together since 2019, definitely keeper )

Mountain climbing trip
(Went Lombok. There I didn’t do any hookup as I wasn’t feeling too great. Probably it was the altitude, but it was fun. Our group’s neighbouring tent, a group of Japanese women were fucking an Indonesian porter from the group)

Running groups
(Joined 2 groups. Managed to grab a SYT who was 22 years old while I was 41 then. Lasted 5 months)

Local animal shelter volunteer program
(The moment I joined I met one and she is one of my fave FB. Started since 2017 and she is 15 years younger than me. She gave birth last year and we ended it in a nice way)

:D:p:cool:

Legend Uncle

[UncleHasBeen]

But bro can share how you deal with the following:

In a group activities, how to make your move when there are also so many buayas around waiting to pounce ?

Thanks

What makes me more successful than most men is this, i just go and try.
My numbers for hits are not high. I also crashed and burned in straight flush before.
But i dont care, no one gets hurt right? Dust off and try again at the next water hole.

My point is this, to be a good player in this game one needs to be willing to try and try again even if they crash and burn.
No one gives a fuck if u fail. No one remembers u for fuck sake, right?

Just take part in an activity. Study the group.
Be friendly. Watch their reaction around u.
There will be those obvious, "Leave me alone" types, so respect that.
And those "I am friendly but no more", this type is a good start.
Then those, "I am here for the activity only", same leave them alone.
The prize and ultimate goal type in any activity is this type.
"I am here to make friends and see what happens".

How u know if that pussy is this type? Well u need to try first.
Try means get to know her. U have to know if u are her type.
If u are, then take your time and see what could happen next.

Why i keep taking part in such activities is because over time, i can read body language, tone, facial expression quite well.
A bitch in heat, that is priceless only if u can spot it.
The most important thing in all this is how i carry myself.

I must appear friendly but know personal space.
I must appear to be gentleman as in respecting women and not a desperate dickhead.
I must appear to give off positive vibe. I must be a conversationalist.
Ok this part being conversationalist, it works very well for me.
I am not saying that if u are not then u got no pussies.
Just take it this way. If u are a girl and u are in a group activity.
What kind of men do u find u are comfortable with.

[UncleHasBeen]

good share....you must be quite successful and the women are attracted to you.

I think those women that were and are my FWB, enter into this because of my age when i hooked up with them.
My age plays a larger part and i verified this with ALL of them.

Based on the FWB i had and ended plus those still with me, the numbers are like that.

Younger than me by more than 10 years is 50% of my 'collection'.
Younger than me by more than 13 years is 20% of my 'collection'.
Older than me is 20% of my 'collection'.
Almost same or about my age is only 10% of my 'collection'.

Of course the age difference part is also dependent on my age when i hooked up with them. It is a relative comparison.

Based on my numbers, i have the most hits and easiest time getting them is when i hit 40 years old onward.

As for the successful part, this part is a bit grey.
If i try my move at someone and she is more interested in my profession, that is a deal breaker for me.
I am more interested in a woman who is impressed by my availability, as in to meet up when she wants.

So in a nutshell, my FWB were/attracted to me is because of our age difference which can be translated into maturity that she needs of me.
And the availability cater for her.
Good thing is not about my looks or my bod otherwise i am quite fucked.
Which is the most important point here.
There is someone out there wanting to stray and snack the forbidden fruit.
That someone is looking for the same mind-liked person, that would be their priority. Looks should be a bonus.
At least that is how i see it :D

[UncleHasBeen]

Ok before everyone idolize me due to my hits number hold your horses first.
My hits are mostly married women, divorced and separated women.
I have less than 10 single women as FWB.
I just want to clarify this part. And i am married for 20 years.
So it is really nothing to idolize or amaze at.
Women who are of the above status are the best FWB material for me.
So my posts are strictly within the context of where to find FWB for me.
And my FWB are mostly of those status :D

i dont want to give false hope, wrong hope and messed up advice to the wrong crowd :p

[alea]

Ok before everyone idolize me due to my hits number hold your horses first.
My hits are mostly married women, divorced and separated women.
I have less than 10 single women as FWB.
I just want to clarify this part. And i am married for 20 years.
So it is really nothing to idolize or amaze at.
Women who are of the above status are the best FWB material for me.
So my posts are strictly within the context of where to find FWB for me.
And my FWB are mostly of those status :D

i dont want to give false hope, wrong hope and messed up advice to the wrong crowd :p

Your sharing is really insightful! Thanks.

[sbwow]

Married for 20 years liao.
And the bedroom routine with wife has to maintain and dont deviate.

I can imagine the double agent life.
Sg version of James Bond. HAHAHA.

[bigmannow]

Ok before everyone idolize me due to my hits number hold your horses first.
My hits are mostly married women, divorced and separated women.
I have less than 10 single women as FWB.
I just want to clarify this part. And i am married for 20 years.
So it is really nothing to idolize or amaze at.
Women who are of the above status are the best FWB material for me.
So my posts are strictly within the context of where to find FWB for me.
And my FWB are mostly of those status :D

i dont want to give false hope, wrong hope and messed up advice to the wrong crowd :p

Do U have a car?

[john_321]

at social media

[UncleHasBeen]

Uncle, you are my idol..

Nothing to idolize lah, i just go for the low-hanging fruit to pluck that is all.
Doesnt require much "capital" except time and bravery :D

[UncleHasBeen]

Wow the first thing that strike me is ... Uncle has a lot of free time? :D

Just kidding, but how did you manage to find time for so many activities. I finish work go home left half life aldy lol

Also curious... did you join these activities with the intention/goal of picking up some girls, or did you join them out of genuine interest and the girls happen to come along?

Thanks for your advice Uncle :p

Plenty of time. Think of it this way.
If your FWB relationship is wearing u out, then it is the wrong chemistry liao.
It must be a 'wake up the fuck senses' type right?
It has to be the invigorating, rejuvenating or at least stimulating kind of fuck-fest or fuckship right?
I am never tired when it comes to snacking :D, because i will only continue with those that are beneficial to me.
But of course we learn along the way, i am not born-Casanova. I was also a heat-seeking dumb ass, young dumb full of cum too.

Activities its individual but for me, it has to be along my interest.
This is so for me so that it does not raise any suspicion from my wife.
There are some longer courses, i will drag her along.
She has to join some of it, so that the 'act' of taking part in those activities, workshops or courses will always be legit for her.

The pussies, is a 50-50 thing.
I have to choose an activity which will not raise any suspicion from my wife.
I have been doing that so well she never even ask why at all.
But still to keep it safe, i only go for those along my interest.
She will be intrigued if i tell her i am going for pole-dancing workshop, right?

For each activity, its like tikam-tikam when it comes to the kind of pussies there. :D
Go there and stay for a while for the pussies to come in.
And for that, your interest plays a part in that activity u have chosen.
All those activities are very short ones, some longer but it does not take up much time.
I attended a 1-day pottery workshop.
Snagged a young thing about 12 years younger than me.
U will never know who shows up :D

[UncleHasBeen]

Legend Uncle

I love to think i am one but i am not.
If i say i have had a total of 50 FWB to date, that also means i have crashed and burnt on the other 150 before.
It is not easy to find a FWB, here i mean a continued relationship.
I have a few that has been with me for over 5 years.
My fave has been with me for almost 10 years.
These are there but the 'filtering' and 'searching' process will require time and tries. The crashes and burns.

The only thing 'legend' or 'amazing' about me would be that i dare and willing to try.
And i try, keep trying. As i crashed and burned over the years, i become smarter with my filtering and requirements.
So u see, everyone Tom, Dick and Harry out there has the opportunity like me only if they all dare to try.

[funfox]

Wise words from UncleHasBeen.
Appreciate the advice and encouragement

[kitario]

I love to think i am one but i am not.
If i say i have had a total of 50 FWB to date, that also means i have crashed and burnt on the other 150 before.
It is not easy to find a FWB, here i mean a continued relationship.
I have a few that has been with me for over 5 years.
My fave has been with me for almost 10 years.
These are there but the 'filtering' and 'searching' process will require time and tries. The crashes and burns.

The only thing 'legend' or 'amazing' about me would be that i dare and willing to try.
And i try, keep trying. As i crashed and burned over the years, i become smarter with my filtering and requirements.
So u see, everyone Tom, Dick and Harry out there has the opportunity like me only if they all dare to try.

those long ones, many years, how u maintain with them? or before start already set ground rules with them? what are the good rules to stick to?

[OLDMANLAND]

I love to think i am one but i am not.
If i say i have had a total of 50 FWB to date, that also means i have crashed and burnt on the other 150 before.
It is not easy to find a FWB, here i mean a continued relationship.
I have a few that has been with me for over 5 years.
My fave has been with me for almost 10 years.
These are there but the 'filtering' and 'searching' process will require time and tries. The crashes and burns.

The only thing 'legend' or 'amazing' about me would be that i dare and willing to try.
And i try, keep trying. As i crashed and burned over the years, i become smarter with my filtering and requirements.
So u see, everyone Tom, Dick and Harry out there has the opportunity like me only if they all dare to try.

UncleHasBeen,

Can share how you starts off by testing the water, hinting or getting hint from them that they are interested for further action?

[mrgaleeo]

okcupid a lot

[scuderia88]

okcupid a lot

Bro, there all young girls and needs subscriptions.

[dyelook]

No lah! I can only bake chocolate cake. 😈😈😈

一碌一碌 de arh?
:p

[UncleHasBeen]

I have deviated from the core topic as in where we FIND our FWB.
Then there are a lot of repeated questions here or in my inbox which i have already replied in an older thread.

But main thing i dont want derailed the discussion here.
For those who wish to continue discussing on where we left off, u can check out this fairly short thread. It has a lot of answers and insights from other members too.

https://sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=878314

[mrgaleeo]

From my personal experience i've gotten results through TanTan however they are not local girls, maybe spending some money to subscribe to premium where you can change location. For me i've switched mine to Thailand so yeah many of them are seeking for foreign bf/fwb.

[mrgaleeo]

Another way would be to do grab hitch/ telegram hitch, i've also heard of many friends who have found FWB through it

[Leongfan]

I met mine from Locanto, Well we are still FWB. But it didn't happen overnight. It took us few years chatting and finally met up IRL for it.

[Lemonjuice]

Been trying to find fwb on dating apps. I am in 40s and married, and exercises regularly.

But I find it hard to find fwb on dating apps. Almost all I encountered are singles or divorced. And when I declare I am married, then game over.

What are these ladies thinking? Late 30s ,40s and looking for single men for relationship? Possible but improbable

[Lemonjuice]

I think those women that were and are my FWB, enter into this because of my age when i hooked up with them.
My age plays a larger part and i verified this with ALL of them.

Based on the FWB i had and ended plus those still with me, the numbers are like that.

Younger than me by more than 10 years is 50% of my 'collection'.
Younger than me by more than 13 years is 20% of my 'collection'.
Older than me is 20% of my 'collection'.
Almost same or about my age is only 10% of my 'collection'.

Of course the age difference part is also dependent on my age when i hooked up with them. It is a relative comparison.

Based on my numbers, i have the most hits and easiest time getting them is when i hit 40 years old onward.

As for the successful part, this part is a bit grey.
If i try my move at someone and she is more interested in my profession, that is a deal breaker for me.
I am more interested in a woman who is impressed by my availability, as in to meet up when she wants.

So in a nutshell, my FWB were/attracted to me is because of our age difference which can be translated into maturity that she needs of me.
And the availability cater for her.
Good thing is not about my looks or my bod otherwise i am quite fucked.
Which is the most important point here.
There is someone out there wanting to stray and snack the forbidden fruit.
That someone is looking for the same mind-liked person, that would be their priority. Looks should be a bonus.
At least that is how i see it :D

What's your hotel type and budget for these activities? Rooms can be $200-$300ish and it can add up. Any "maintenance fee" like gifts or “家用” ？

[hownow]

had 2 FWBs in the last 2 years. both met at work related events. 1 is single and the other is married. i won't reveal too much about myself.

[UncleHasBeen]

What's your hotel type and budget for these activities? Rooms can be $200-$300ish and it can add up. Any "maintenance fee" like gifts or “家用” ？

Better to move such topics to the other thread.
Let the comments here focusing on where to find FWB.
Let's continue here https://sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=878314

[dcsch]

Been trying to find fwb on dating apps. I am in 40s and married, and exercises regularly.

But I find it hard to find fwb on dating apps. Almost all I encountered are singles or divorced. And when I declare I am married, then game over.

What are these ladies thinking? Late 30s ,40s and looking for single men for relationship? Possible but improbable

meet too

Sometimes I doubt the stories in the forum. I think sg girls are mostly conservative. It’s very hard to get sex without building formal relationships

[secretlurker88]

meet too

Sometimes I doubt the stories in the forum. I think sg girls are mostly conservative. It’s very hard to get sex without building formal relationships

. its definitely possible.

[secretlurker88]

Another one. We've never met when we had the below conversation. Excerpt below. Met her two days later, ended up banging even though I wasn't expecting it. 23 y old, pre school teacher.

K, [19/3/23 11:19 PM]
Honestly I

K, [19/3/23 11:20 PM]
I'm really good in bed haha

M, [19/3/23 11:20 PM]
do you like this size? not all can handle haha

K, [19/3/23 11:20 PM]
I love to start with blowjob

K, [19/3/23 11:20 PM]
When it's all sloppy

M, [19/3/23 11:20 PM]
i love it

K, [19/3/23 11:20 PM]
I ride you till you're on the edge

M, [19/3/23 11:20 PM]
but honestly very few girls can take my full size in their mouuths

K, [19/3/23 11:21 PM]
Haha watch me

K, [19/3/23 11:21 PM]
Im very good at blowjobs

K, [19/3/23 11:21 PM]
Every guy I've gave a blowjob to

K, [19/3/23 11:21 PM]
Cums inside my throat

K, [19/3/23 11:21 PM]
I love it when I get face fucked

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K, [19/3/23 11:34 PM]
I cum very easily

K, [19/3/23 11:34 PM]
For a girl

K, [19/3/23 11:34 PM]
I actually cum very fast

K [19/3/23 11:34 PM]
But I can keep going for many rounds haha

[mcalister]

Another one. We've never met when we had the below conversation. Excerpt below. Met her two days later, ended up banging even though I wasn't expecting it. 23 y old, pre school teacher.

K, [19/3/23 11:19 PM]
Honestly I

K, [19/3/23 11:20 PM]
I'm really good in bed haha

M, [19/3/23 11:20 PM]
do you like this size? not all can handle haha

K, [19/3/23 11:20 PM]
I love to start with blowjob

K, [19/3/23 11:20 PM]
When it's all sloppy

M, [19/3/23 11:20 PM]
i love it

K, [19/3/23 11:20 PM]
I ride you till you're on the edge

M, [19/3/23 11:20 PM]
but honestly very few girls can take my full size in their mouuths

K, [19/3/23 11:21 PM]
Haha watch me

K, [19/3/23 11:21 PM]
Im very good at blowjobs

K, [19/3/23 11:21 PM]
Every guy I've gave a blowjob to

K, [19/3/23 11:21 PM]
Cums inside my throat

K, [19/3/23 11:21 PM]
I love it when I get face fucked

-----------------
K, [19/3/23 11:34 PM]
I cum very easily

K, [19/3/23 11:34 PM]
For a girl

K, [19/3/23 11:34 PM]
I actually cum very fast

K [19/3/23 11:34 PM]
But I can keep going for many rounds haha

wah presch teacher. the 23 yo is chinese or malay? :D

[hmmmmm]

One of my classmates in secondary school, we hooked up on her 18th birthday and have been FwBs ever since.

[frovu]

meet too

Sometimes I doubt the stories in the forum. I think sg girls are mostly conservative. It’s very hard to get sex without building formal relationships

Not true. During COVID, I met a girl from OKC. She was depressed and we met up for drinks or dinner at a hawker center.

So we chat and split. She was depressed , and I invited her to sleep over at my place.

After 2-3 times she came over for sleeping, I squeezed into the same place and started hugging, and then as I see she had no rejections, I stripped her and ate her up and down.

But she didn't want sex as she's a Christian.

So, we're friends, no formal relationship.

[Drakko74]

Totally random events. I met mine via fitness classes, hobby events, seminars or friend's friend. Chemistry and luck are the two key factors.

[Alantino]

You can find anywhere, it's all about chemistry.

[dcsch]

Totally random events. I met mine via fitness classes, hobby events, seminars or friend's friend. Chemistry and luck are the two key factors.

How to initiate? Directly ask for sex or hug ?

[justin69]

With more guys that gals in the dating app. How we know the gal is genuine or scam?

[Drakko74]

[QUOTE=dcsch;22635954]How to initiate? Directly ask for sex or hug ?[/QUOTE

Be attentive to the lady's need. You need to know what she wants. Some like to be engaged emotionally first. Some like straight up direct. Some are coy. Some like to be treated like a Princess. Some like to be domineering. Whatever it is.. be that someone that they can't have/find.

[dcsch]

[QUOTE=dcsch;22635954]How to initiate? Directly ask for sex or hug ?[/QUOTE

Be attentive to the lady's need. You need to know what she wants. Some like to be engaged emotionally first. Some like straight up direct. Some are coy. Some like to be treated like a Princess. Some like to be domineering. Whatever it is.. be that someone that they can't have/find.
How to be straight up direct? If ask for sex directly, will the girl accuse sex assault? Sometimes just not sure what the girl is thinking, so afraid to ask

[sbwow]

How to be straight up direct? If ask for sex directly, will the girl accuse sex assault? Sometimes just not sure what the girl is thinking, so afraid to ask

I feel sad for you.
Never interact with girls before is it?

HAHAHA.

[Drakko74]

[QUOTE=Drakko74;22636675]
How to be straight up direct? If ask for sex directly, will the girl accuse sex assault? Sometimes just not sure what the girl is thinking, so afraid to ask

Bro..... Your line of thinking will get you nowhere and girls will detect straightaway.

You are better off paying for sex. This way, you will not be accused of sex assault.

If you want FWB, the first question you need to ask is - what can you give the girl? Remember FWB is FRIENDS with Benefits. It is NOT Free-sex With Buddies.

Once you understand the real meaning of FWB.. you will find the RIGHT ones.

[fandevil]

[QUOTE=dcsch;22636811]

If you want FWB, the first question you need to ask is - what can you give the girl? Remember FWB is FRIENDS with Benefits. It is NOT Free-sex With Buddies.

Once you understand the real meaning of FWB.. you will find the RIGHT ones.

That’s precisely right! Some gold nugget this is… up you! 👍🏽

[sbwow]

If you want FWB, the first question you need to ask is - what can you give the girl? Remember FWB is FRIENDS with Benefits. It is NOT Free-sex With Buddies.


He can give the girl a dick.

[justin69]

Anyone got experience where you almost hook up with a girl online then you back out in the last minute?

[berodic50]

facebook hookup

[nairnair2424]

Is OKC decent to find milfs/fwbs? Recently started trying. But now OKC give very few likes before they ask you to pay - don’t know if it’s worth to pay haha

[alleniate]

Been trying to find fwb on dating apps. I am in 40s and married, and exercises regularly.

But I find it hard to find fwb on dating apps. Almost all I encountered are singles or divorced. And when I declare I am married, then game over.

What are these ladies thinking? Late 30s ,40s and looking for single men for relationship? Possible but improbable

I am same like u. I think the biggest issues for us is because we only have restricted amount of time we can commit. Mostly during office hours. Its too restrictive.

I got married since Im 21. now Im 41. If i can restart life I will definately stay single for life.

[Rickey]

I am same like u. I think the biggest issues for us is because we only have restricted amount of time we can commit. Mostly during office hours. Its too restrictive.

I got married since Im 21. now Im 41. If i can restart life I will definately stay single for life.

Oh dear, so scary leh :eek:...why u say that ??...is marriage really that bad ?? :confused:..U prolly married the wrong type of woman

[scuderia88]

I am same like u. I think the biggest issues for us is because we only have restricted amount of time we can commit. Mostly during office hours. Its too restrictive.

I got married since Im 21. now Im 41. If i can restart life I will definately stay single for life.

Bro, have similar sensing as you. Great minds think alike.
Bro, I’ve pm you.

[itguy2008]

I am same like u. I think the biggest issues for us is because we only have restricted amount of time we can commit. Mostly during office hours. Its too restrictive.

I got married since Im 21. now Im 41. If i can restart life I will definately stay single for life.

I am married at 37, divorced at 48.

Which is why I totally agree with you. If I did not get married, I would not lose half my earnings.

[Chess]

I am same like u. I think the biggest issues for us is because we only have restricted amount of time we can commit. Mostly during office hours. Its too restrictive.

I got married since Im 21. now Im 41. If i can restart life I will definately stay single for life.

married the wrong type of woman, stay single better. I regretted never opening up my see properly.

[alleniate]

Marriage is both ways.. loopsided either side both parties wont be happy.

[wujifoot]

I am married at 37, divorced at 48.

Which is why I totally agree with you. If I did not get married, I would not lose half my earnings.

how did u lose half... they got to prove she contribute a proportion of home-care, larger or equal to the financial proportion to you put into the family.

[mao9999]

Mine is a tenant of my cousin.
She was the one to approach no string attached :D

[haikim999]

Mine is a tenant of my cousin.
She was the one to approach no string attached :D
Hello bro, really nice to have such a straightforward lady propose fwb.

Care to share more about hw it came about? How old is she? Is she married /attached?

[itguy2008]

how did u lose half... they got to prove she contribute a proportion of home-care, larger or equal to the financial proportion to you put into the family.

Welcome to woman's charter in Singapore. My wife is a full time home maker with two kids.

Does that answer your questions?

[alec]

married the wrong type of woman, stay single better. I regretted never opening up my see properly.

It takes time for us to realise even when our eyes are open wide

[Rainier]

I found my fwb in my imagination.
anytime, anywhere, anyhow

[ghostcow]

Thx bros for the advice and tips

[tebangarden]

eplxorine walking arouind

[traveller666]

Just curious which platforms actually work and which doesn’t.
But while we’re here, share some stories of how u guys met, how the sex went and are things still going on between u guys!

Those more experienced can share your best, worst and funniest experiences!

base on my experience in so many dating apps. i tried https://sugarbook.com/ i can say this is one of the best that make me memorable. i tried few girls. i will rate 10/10. you can give it a try :D

[traveller666]

I found my fwb in my imagination.
anytime, anywhere, anyhow

please dont say that, in this world nth is impossible. you can look for my recently post i do mention what i use for dating hahaha. #115 (https://samsforum.website/usertag.php?do=list&action=hash&hash=115) posting hahah SUGARBOOK HEHEE