What Men Wants?

[LuSiWen]

Hi people,

One of the Sammyboy member request me to create this thread under this forum.

I am new to Sammyboy and recently got married. I'm interested in understanding what men desire when it comes to matters in the bedroom. I am eager to hear your genuine opinions and insights. Please feel free to share your thoughts on this.

[sbwow]

Hi people,

One of the Sammyboy member request me to create this thread under this forum.

I am new to Sammyboy and recently got married. I'm interested in understanding what men desire when it comes to matters in the bedroom. I am eager to hear your genuine opinions and insights. Please feel free to share your thoughts on this.

Want you to provide the service on par with a ho. HAHAHA.

[Calvary]

Is your hubby alpha male type ? or easy going.
Need more info, like age, known each other how long.

If you ask this now, means before marriage, you both did not hanky panky with each other before, and you are/were a virgin until marriage ?

Also, for convenience in your replying, make some more posts, random or whatsoever to move yourself out of Mod, so your replies can be in real time.

[Northern]

Different guys like different things.
I share with you what I DO NOT like.

Dead Fish - no reactions, no sounds.(Trying to conceal sound is fine, some guys actually like the look when girls try hard not to make noise)
Squeamish - this dirty, that dirty
Restrictive - this cannot, that cannot
Stale - Both sexes should make sure privates are washed and cleaned well before proceeding to reciprocal sex.

Will post more when I remember, I dusty already, long time, long long time no eca.
Haizzz

[sbwow]

You need to ensure the guy's face is like this during sex. HAHAHA.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RM88KhLw0oA

[yangyang77]

No right or wrong, it all depends on what type of men he is and what is his inner desire. Feel free to communicate even tho it is easier said than done.

Once there is communication, everything will be a breeze and not only that, even personal life on a daily basis will be much easier for both of you.

Communicate even the smallest thing, do you prefer your water cold or warm? Remember what he likes and vice versa. Do not ask for anything in return or get angry when he forgets what you like. Keep reminding him. He will appreciate, trust me.

[Rarestofrare]

Men like high GFE :D:D

[LuSiWen]

Is your hubby alpha male type ? or easy going.
Need more info, like age, known each other how long.

If you ask this now, means before marriage, you both did not hanky panky with each other before, and you are/were a virgin until marriage ?

Also, for convenience in your replying, make some more posts, random or whatsoever to move yourself out of Mod, so your replies can be in real time.


Yeah he is easy going and very friendly. but he never open up or talking related to this with me, i feel i need to take initiate on this. but i feel what he will think about me if i do start. lol!!!:D:D

[garry_rie]

Yeah he is easy going and very friendly. but he never open up or talking related to this with me, i feel i need to take initiate on this. but i feel what he will think about me if i do start. lol!!!:D:D

Every guy different. Maybe he doesn't want to talk to you about this because he's afraid what you will think about him.

Communication important. Start with something you are comfortable then progress further from there

[Xgenre]

Yeah he is easy going and very friendly. but he never open up or talking related to this with me, i feel i need to take initiate on this. but i feel what he will think about me if i do start. lol!!!:D:D

How old are both of you? At different age profiles, the wants and needs are different. Shiuldn't have much issues sex wise before kids come along. Many guys here are complaining about the lack of sex after kids arrive.

Generally, guys prefer to lead in bed. An overly aggressive lady makes sex feel like work. Am I meeting her KPIs? Some guys don't cope well with such stress.

[Fbtak]

Most people have said that each guy has different preferences (or "kinks"). Openly ask your husband what his are and reassure him you won't judge. Actually do NOT judge no matter how deviant you think they are and see what you can do to fulfill them.

Likewise, explore your own sexuality. Tell him what yours are. You being satisfied will likely mean he is satisfied.

If both of you don't know, then explore together. Be open to what might seem weird. Start out with dirty talk, role play, toys, and see where it all leads you.

Lastly, both men and women crave variety. I'm sure eating out isn't on both your menus so I'd suggest always thinking about how both of you can keep things fresh.

[LuSiWen]

Hmmm yeah true, i agree with you all. will reply for this thread if anything that i need to clear again.

[TheSpyingPerv]

Hi people,

One of the Sammyboy member request me to create this thread under this forum.

I am new to Sammyboy and recently got married. I'm interested in understanding what men desire when it comes to matters in the bedroom. I am eager to hear your genuine opinions and insights. Please feel free to share your thoughts on this.

i dont think it's a "öne size fits all" type of solution. Some guys prefer tamer vanila sex , some guys just wanna get off, others might have adventurous kinks or fetishes. what may work on someone may be a turn off for another, bdsm for example . But i think what most guys can agree on, is 3 or 4 some, the more women at the same time, the better!

[Chiefs]

Hi people,

One of the Sammyboy member request me to create this thread under this forum.

I am new to Sammyboy and recently got married. I'm interested in understanding what men desire when it comes to matters in the bedroom. I am eager to hear your genuine opinions and insights. Please feel free to share your thoughts on this.


IMMHO, what men do not desire, is basically a "dead fish" in the bedroom.

Anything else would be a bonus. :D:D

[Marmots]

If you look at FRs (Field/Fuck Reports) in the Domes, you can see how guys grade sex.
Quite a good indicator of most guys.

If your hubby is happy with what he is getting from you now, just go slow, gradual and easy with trying/adding new stuff.

[Auxil]

What is the sex frequency between you and your husband now ?
3,5,7 times a week ?

[Westing]

Suggest watching porn together ?

Are you in a situation where you want to have more but your husband is ok with how it is now ?

[SirLance]

Hi people,

One of the Sammyboy member request me to create this thread under this forum.

I am new to Sammyboy and recently got married. I'm interested in understanding what men desire when it comes to matters in the bedroom. I am eager to hear your genuine opinions and insights. Please feel free to share your thoughts on this.

Only shoot then try to rise and shoot again.

[Peacekeeping]

Usually guy is the one who want to have sex. Do you and your husband have sex before marriage?

[GoGoBro]

Men just want to have fun with pretty women.

[oxeso]

For now, we want to c ur neh neh n pussy pics. :D

[Xgenre]

What are the actual questions in your mind? What answers are you seeking? Will you leave once you have these answers? It's good to have a bottom line and to know the limits of your curiosity.

Otherwise this forum can get addictive. Curiosity kills the cat. It's hard to go back to a normal sex life after knowing the possibilities out there. Your husband (who is the reason you are here for) may then appear to be too plain vanilla. What happens to the marriage thereafter?

Good to know but knowing too much is harmful.

[Osprey]

How long have you known your husband before marriage ?

Do you want to know what men wants or what your husband specifically wants ?
Want to know what your husband wants, have to know more about him and you.
What men wants, easy to find out in the forum.

Or are you trying to find out what you want ? You want more but too shy to tell husband ?

[JiangYongBin]

How long have you known your husband before marriage ?

Do you want to know what men wants or what your husband specifically wants ?
Want to know what your husband wants, have to know more about him and you.
What men wants, easy to find out in the forum.

Or are you trying to find out what you want ? You want more but too shy to tell husband ?

yeah true we need to ask these questions

[LuSiWen]

How long have you known your husband before marriage ?

Do you want to know what men wants or what your husband specifically wants ?
Want to know what your husband wants, have to know more about him and you.
What men wants, easy to find out in the forum.

Or are you trying to find out what you want ? You want more but too shy to tell husband ?

Thank you for your thoughtful response. I appreciate your perspective and advice. You're right; understanding what your partner wants and desires in a relationship is crucial for a healthy and fulfilling partnership. In my case, I want to know both what men, in general, may desire and what specifically would make my husband happy.

You're absolutely correct that open communication and a willingness to explore and experiment can greatly benefit a relationship, especially in the bedroom. It's essential to have an open and honest conversation with your partner about your desires and boundaries. This can lead to a deeper connection and more satisfying experiences for both of you.

Your assumption that many men share common interests in bedroom matters isn't entirely off the mark. There are certainly some general trends and desires that can apply to many, but every person is unique. What's most important is finding out what works for you and your husband as a couple. What matters most is that both partners feel comfortable and satisfied with their intimate life.

Exploring new activities, trying new things, and keeping the lines of communication open can be great ways to enhance your relationship. It's crucial to create an environment where both you and your husband feel safe and free to express your desires, and to support each other's needs and wants.

Thank you for your insight, and I look forward to discovering ways to strengthen our bond further.

[JiangYongBin]

Thank you for your thoughtful response. I appreciate your perspective and advice. You're right; understanding what your partner wants and desires in a relationship is crucial for a healthy and fulfilling partnership. In my case, I want to know both what men, in general, may desire and what specifically would make my husband happy.

You're absolutely correct that open communication and a willingness to explore and experiment can greatly benefit a relationship, especially in the bedroom. It's essential to have an open and honest conversation with your partner about your desires and boundaries. This can lead to a deeper connection and more satisfying experiences for both of you.

Your assumption that many men share common interests in bedroom matters isn't entirely off the mark. There are certainly some general trends and desires that can apply to many, but every person is unique. What's most important is finding out what works for you and your husband as a couple. What matters most is that both partners feel comfortable and satisfied with their intimate life.

Exploring new activities, trying new things, and keeping the lines of communication open can be great ways to enhance your relationship. It's crucial to create an environment where both you and your husband feel safe and free to express your desires, and to support each other's needs and wants.

Thank you for your insight, and I look forward to discovering ways to strengthen our bond further.

And how long you both having intimacy?
Can he last longer? because if cant do so, it will be a problem for both of you.

[Alantino]

There is no right or wrong.
Best is to have a one to one chat with your spouse. Everyone got their limitations. Play with the limits.

[Exiled]

It's essential to have an open and honest conversation with your partner about your desires and boundaries.

I would suggest holding back on this first.
You seem very unsure of your husband's preferences, if he is happy as he is now, or hes repressing or shy. because you give so few details of you and your husband, no way to make an educated guess.

if he is really shy type on bedroom affairs, he might get overwhelmed.
take baby steps, make sure he is really comfortable at current state and then slowly introduce new elements.

[LuSiWen]

I would suggest holding back on this first.
You seem very unsure of your husband's preferences, if he is happy as he is now, or hes repressing or shy. because you give so few details of you and your husband, no way to make an educated guess.

if he is really shy type on bedroom affairs, he might get overwhelmed.
take baby steps, make sure he is really comfortable at current state and then slowly introduce new elements.


True is bit shy on that. and i agree on your point, that i need to take some few baby steps on bed.

will keep u all updated and thanks for helping and giving suggestions on this.

[LuSiWen]

And how long you both having intimacy?
Can he last longer? because if cant do so, it will be a problem for both of you.

4 days a week, we were having for sex for 15minutes and i think that is not enough for me :p and then i wanted it again but for some reason he is not willing to proceed again.

[loneyheart]

4 days a week, we were having for sex for 15minutes and i think that is not enough for me :p and then i wanted it again but for some reason he is not willing to proceed again.

For just 15 min I supposed u haven't reach the cloud 9 b4 .... 15 min not even get u to warm up :)

[NightRun]

15 mins is the actual thrusting time or the whole session ?
Whole session a bit short, actual thrusting time, quite good.

Normally foreplay , me on girl + girl on me = at least 30 mins.
Build up very important, for me :D

[sbwow]

4 days a week, we were having for sex for 15minutes and i think that is not enough for me :p and then i wanted it again but for some reason he is not willing to proceed again.

This is sad, going to be another failed marriage soon due to inability of the husband to provide prolonged sex beyond 15mins, hence the title...

You picked the wrong sex partner to be the lawful husband, right now you won't ever be satisfied in bed by him.

He don't even care to satisfy you beyond that 15mins.

Should have test-drived before marriage. HAHAHA.
On a side note, you should count yourself as a high sex drive bro instead of a sis. HAHAHA.

[JiangYongBin]

15 mins is the actual thrusting time or the whole session ?
Whole session a bit short, actual thrusting time, quite good.

Normally foreplay , me on girl + girl on me = at least 30 mins.
Build up very important, for me :D

so sad, yeah your correct

[LuSiWen]

This is sad, going to be another failed marriage soon due to inability of the husband to provide prolonged sex beyond 15mins, hence the title...

You picked the wrong sex partner to be the lawful husband, right now you won't ever be satisfied in bed by him.

He don't even care to satisfy you beyond that 15mins.

Should have test-drived before marriage. HAHAHA.
On a side note, you should count yourself as a high sex drive bro instead of a sis. HAHAHA.

What can i do for that?? :confused::confused::confused:

[sbwow]

What can i do for that?? :confused::confused::confused:

Once my reputation points hit 1000, I'll let you know.

[Compass]

Are you employed ? How many hours each do you and your husband work each day ?
Have to make sure energy is there first.

Which country are you from ?

[SirLance]

Hi people,

One of the Sammyboy member request me to create this thread under this forum.

I am new to Sammyboy and recently got married. I'm interested in understanding what men desire when it comes to matters in the bedroom. I am eager to hear your genuine opinions and insights. Please feel free to share your thoughts on this.

Men wanted everything.

Big and small bobs ok. Best sex and can shoot ok. Best bbbj, bbj, bj ok. Best frenching ok. Best of bodes ok. Best of the best also ok.

[libido]

men want women to initiate, and to be receptive when they get a sudden urge.

3 hours after your 15 min session, pull down his pants and suck him off. or blow him awake in the morning then just sit on him.

of course if you post a censored photo of yourself here, i'm sure that will lead to more advice from more experienced persons.....:D

[JiangYongBin]

Are you employed ? How many hours each do you and your husband work each day ?
Have to make sure energy is there first.

Which country are you from ?

I think sometime her husband having some other kind of issues also.
May be Erectile dysfunction or Premature ejaculation.

[blu3fin]

4 days a week, we were having for sex for 15minutes and i think that is not enough for me :p and then i wanted it again but for some reason he is not willing to proceed again.

15 min only inclusive foreplay ? Is it premature ejaculation?
Do you get orgasm at all? That's critical.

If he's interested in sex but suffer from PE, that may be causing performance anxieties about satisfying you.
Try other ways, say you want him to lick you, SHOW you enjoy it, let him KNOW when you come. Knowing you've reached orgasm, he will feel accomplishment and not pressured to perform after that. Then its your turn to pleasure him in return, blow him to heaven, your mouth will FEEL every pulse and twitch, CONTROL him, EDGE him, you decide when to let him come in your mouth eventually.

Repeat a few times, hopefully he regains confidence, you help him control and last longer. Your relationship will reach new heights... and orgasms. When he's ready, he will request vaginal sex, but hey, oral is perfectly acceptable too.. in fact I think it's emotionally closer. As long as you are happy.

Even if it's not PE but outside life stress, it'll do just as well to let him know the bed is a place of stress free love and pleasure.

But if its not a performance issue... then I guess you got other problems liao 🤔

[Frost]

Do grade yourself using below as a standard.
Do you give a long sensual bj, are you easy to go down on, eg, very bushy or sparse, do you have a good figure, do you pamper him etc etc

Face:
Body:
Boobs:
BBBJ:
Shower:
Painting:
FJ:
GFE:

If you want him to want you more, you have to make him have something to look forward to.
Have to make him desire you, which you are correctly asking here.

Very surprised to find out it was an arranged marriage tho.
Can share more details on that ?

[LuSiWen]

15 min only inclusive foreplay ? Is it premature ejaculation?
Do you get orgasm at all? That's critical.

If he's interested in sex but suffer from PE, that may be causing performance anxieties about satisfying you.
Try other ways, say you want him to lick you, SHOW you enjoy it, let him KNOW when you come. Knowing you've reached orgasm, he will feel accomplishment and not pressured to perform after that. Then its your turn to pleasure him in return, blow him to heaven, your mouth will FEEL every pulse and twitch, CONTROL him, EDGE him, you decide when to let him come in your mouth eventually.

Repeat a few times, hopefully he regains confidence, you help him control and last longer. Your relationship will reach new heights... and orgasms. When he's ready, he will request vaginal sex, but hey, oral is perfectly acceptable too.. in fact I think it's emotionally closer. As long as you are happy.

Even if it's not PE but outside life stress, it'll do just as well to let him know the bed is a place of stress free love and pleasure.

But if its not a performance issue... then I guess you got other problems liao ��

Oh ok ok! let me try one by one slowly with him. we got recently married. so i hope we have more time to experience these stuffs. So u your telling that my husband might be having PE?
and is that because performance anxirty?

[Xgenre]

Oh ok ok! let me try one by one slowly with him. we got recently married. so i hope we have more time to experience these stuffs. So u your telling that my husband might be having PE?
and is that because performance anxirty?

4 times per week at 15 minutes of thrusting each time is above average. Many of us here engage in commercial sex. It's just about getting our money's worth of fun. The longer I control myself from ejaculating, the more value for money sex is. There is no emotion involved, there is nothing to feel sorry for if we engage in rough sex. The only idea is I enjoy myself. Who cares how she feels?

Don't compare sex between a married couple with commercial sex. There is emotional engagement for both of you. The enjoyment level is totally different. He doesn't have the need to control himself to extend sex. At 4 times per week, he knows the next session is only a few days away. He doesn't treat you as a prostitute.

If you think there is a sexual mismatch, better seek help from professional counsellors than to get wrapped ideas from a sex forum.

[LuSiWen]

4 times per week at 15 minutes of thrusting each time is above average. Many of us here engage in commercial sex. It's just about getting our money's worth of fun. The longer I control myself from ejaculating, the more value for money sex is. There is no emotion involved, there is nothing to feel sorry for if we engage in rough sex. The only idea is I enjoy myself. Who cares how she feels?

Don't compare sex between a married couple with commercial sex. There is emotional engagement for both of you. The enjoyment level is totally different. He doesn't have the need to control himself to extend sex. At 4 times per week, he knows the next session is only a few days away. He doesn't treat you as a prostitute.

If you think there is a sexual mismatch, better seek help from professional counsellors than to get wrapped ideas from a sex forum.

Yeah your correct too. It’s estimated that 30% of men, of all age groups, suffer from PE. although that number may be higher, since only a small fraction of men with PE talk with their doctor about it.

So better to consult a Doctor or Counselor regarding this.

[LuSiWen]

Oh ok ok! let me try one by one slowly with him. we got recently married. so i hope we have more time to experience these stuffs. So u your telling that my husband might be having PE?
and is that because performance anxirty?

Not sure thats why we recommend to consult a Doctor regarding this. but make sure that ur husband feel this issue and book a doctor. dont go and tell that he have PE. if u do so, he might get pissed off.:D:D:D

[sbwow]

Not sure thats why we recommend to consult a Doctor regarding this. but make sure that ur husband feel this issue and book a doctor. dont go and tell that he have PE. if u do so, he might get pissed off.:D:D:D

I really love it when you reply to your own post.
Then, I see Xgenre trying his best to provide the advice.
I am glad I have never once doubt this is a joke forum. Damn Amusing. HAHAHA.

[Trey]

Is this a troll thread ?

[Xgenre]

Is this a troll thread ?

Maybe she forgot to log off and her husband found out about her seeking advice in sbf

[sbwow]

Maybe she forgot to log off and her husband found out about her seeking advice in sbf

But replying to own post is totally uncalled for.
Thanks for teaching me the phrase "nice guys finish last". Appreciate it. HAHAHA.
Till now, you still won't give it up. HAHAHA.

[Exiled]

Well, for funs sake, going to do CSI and try and guess which is your other account.

Actually, only one other stand out way above the rest.

[JiangYongBin]

Interesting topic to share on this thread.


Article about WHAT DO MEN LIKE IN BED.

https://www.lovepanky.com/women/understanding-men/what-do-men-like-in-bed:p

[Exiled]

1 get banned, the other go negative.

Mystery solved by itself :D:D

[sbwow]

1 get banned, the other go negative.

Mystery solved by itself :D:D

Thank you. HAHAHA.
I know, U know. HAHAHA.

[loneyheart]

So posted as a female n u decide :)

[sky_liner2]

So posted as a female n u decide :)

导演兼演员, 自导自演! :D

[loneyheart]

导演兼演员, 自导自演! :D

愿者上钩 。。。。 :)

[dyelook]

aiyah... why so fast burst the fun...:p

[Marmots]

Well, things escalated quickly in this thread.

Must have been very naughty to get B.

[Westing]

导演兼演员, 自导自演! :D

Please quote/pm/@ me when you have new post, thanks.

[JiangYongBin]

21 Things Guys Like In Bed But Won’t Ask For (NOT WHAT YOU THINK!)

Interesting article. please check
https://thefab20s.com/things-guys-like-in-bed-but-wont-ask-for/

[WOOHOO]

Please quote/pm/@ me when you have new post, thanks.

WOO UPZ 👍 👍 👍

[bmwgta]

Want you to provide the service on par with a ho. HAHAHA.