Can your Wife accept your request of wanting 3P?

[Christin]

How to tell this to my wife?

How to make her accept to it?

[Loott]

So....you want to add another guy into the mix ? :D:D

[Funlover]

How to tell this to my wife?

How to make her accept to it?

An ex classmate of mine managed to brainwash his wife and then emotional threatened her saying that what he wants are only fantasy and fetish. He only love her. If she cannot accept and goes along with his request then he will have to settle it outside behind her back and that will leads to lies after lies to cover his trails. And then he asked her "would u want me to be honest with u on everything or do u want me to keep lying just to have those fetish settled?? And the wife actually buy all his shit and became a submissive wife that will let him do anything he wants as long he knows it is time to go home.. openly go JB, openly have a GF/FWB(s) and even had a 3some with the so called gf. And got once dun noe why he suddenly have the feel to perform in front of his frens(3 nerdy guy) he told the wife let's make love in front of them and she let him leh. wtf. I dun noe if I should pity the wife or call her dumb.

[naan1974]

An ex classmate of mine managed to brainwash his wife and then emotional threatened her saying that what he wants are only fantasy and fetish. He only love her. If she cannot accept and goes along with his request then he will have to settle it outside behind her back and that will leads to lies after lies to cover his trails. And then he asked her "would u want me to be honest with u on everything or do u want me to keep lying just to have those fetish settled?? And the wife actually buy all his shit and became a submissive wife that will let him do anything he wants as long he knows it is time to go home.. openly go JB, openly have a GF/FWB(s) and even had a 3some with the so called gf. And got once dun now why he suddenly have the feel to perform in front of his frens(3 nerdy guy) he told the wife let's make love in front of them and she let him leh. wtf. I dun noe if I should pity the wife or call her dumb.

there do exist such a breed...the low intellectual love slave

[Loott]

wah like that my points shoot up already, thank you thank you :D:D

[Funlover]

there do exist such a breed...the low intellectual love slave

U r totally not wrong... in a romance relationship, the party who became that kind of character will have a lot of losing ends.

[Fletcher]

Being the serial cheater that I am, I had a gf that allowed me to be as I am outside.
She has already caught me 4 times, twice with the same girl.
She knew it was who I was, and I had real affections for them.
She even allowed another girl to co-exist at the same time, but that was very short lived and I just went back to lying and cheating behind her back.
Rather let her think I maybe cheating than knowing for sure I am spending time with another girl and agonized.

How does it relate to TS question, not sure, just wanted to share.

[Art66888]

An ex classmate of mine managed to brainwash his wife and then emotional threatened her saying that what he wants are only fantasy and fetish. He only love her. If she cannot accept and goes along with his request then he will have to settle it outside behind her back and that will leads to lies after lies to cover his trails. And then he asked her "would u want me to be honest with u on everything or do u want me to keep lying just to have those fetish settled?? And the wife actually buy all his shit and became a submissive wife that will let him do anything he wants as long he knows it is time to go home.. openly go JB, openly have a GF/FWB(s) and even had a 3some with the so called gf. And got once dun noe why he suddenly have the feel to perform in front of his frens(3 nerdy guy) he told the wife let's make love in front of them and she let him leh. wtf. I dun noe if I should pity the wife or call her dumb.

Sometimes there is a difference between love and fantasy. Because of this, husbands sometimes have to look for complements outside, their wife is his love but cannot enter into his fantasies

[Xgenre]

And the wife actually buy all his shit and became a submissive wife that will let him do anything he wants as long he knows it is time to go home.. openly go JB, openly have a GF/FWB(s) and even had a 3some with the so called gf. And got once dun noe why he suddenly have the feel to perform in front of his frens(3 nerdy guy) he told the wife let's make love in front of them and she let him leh. wtf. I dun noe if I should pity the wife or call her dumb.

Is the wife local or PRC/Malaysian? Some foreign wives feel they have no choice but to go along because the SG husband sponsors their dependent pass/PR. They fear losing access to their kids should the marriage end in divorce.

[sundance16]

I'm not sure about telling wife. but if want to try it, maybe can use the trick of watching it and then asking her opinion to find out her reaction. Maybe we can assume whether she can accept it or not.

[WinterMelonTree]

is it 2 guys, 1 girl?
or 2 girls, 1 guy?

HUGE difference. and does your wife play with girls?

can you fuck, pull out, switch condom and fuck again without losing your hard-on or momentum?

write more info lah, if not why you ask for advice.

[Xgenre]

is it 2 guys, 1 girl?
or 2 girls, 1 guy?

My guess is MMF. If it's MFF, no need the wife to be one of the 2 females. But because it is harder to find a lady willing to accept 2 men at the same session, he is now targeting his own wife.

Maybe his boss is interested in his wife so suggest MMF to him in return for a promotion

[weefred]

As a guy with a cuck fetish, my wife accepted it without even hesitating. She can enjoy as much dick as she want.

But most girl won't allow if the 3P is 2 girls 1 guy. Life is unfair, I'm just glad i have cuck fetish. I feel more turn on seeing her fuck another guy than myself fucking another girl.

[hamstering]

As a guy with a cuck fetish, my wife accepted it without even hesitating. She can enjoy as much dick as she want.

But most girl won't allow if the 3P is 2 girls 1 guy. Life is unfair, I'm just glad i have cuck fetish. I feel more turn on seeing her fuck another guy than myself fucking another girl.

U have perfect wife bro hahaha

[Funlover]

Is the wife local or PRC/Malaysian? Some foreign wives feel they have no choice but to go along because the SG husband sponsors their dependent pass/PR. They fear losing access to their kids should the marriage end in divorce.

Is a pure bred SG lady. A degree holder. My fren ain't a rich heir nor is he very yandao. Just a typical average Joe. So I really dun understand why the wife willing to be used like this by him. I can only say tht perhaps he brainwashed her gaolat gaolat on a whole new level that normal guys would try.

[East]

How to make her accept to it?

This is going to have to be a slow build up.
Watching porn together is a good step to start on, esp those FFFMMM and such and go on to FFM or FFFM.
When the wife ask do guys like that, FFM, tell it honestly, it is the dream of all guys, with the most epic being identical triplets or twins.
Its got nothing to do with desiring others, but a teen's dream that can never fade, and if not for being married, you would have paid for it.

Everything is going to have to be slow and mild.
I expect it to take at least a year.

Good Luck !!

[xiaobij]

Sometimes there is a difference between love and fantasy. Because of this, husbands sometimes have to look for complements outside, their wife is his love but cannot enter into his fantasies

Right ,Yes . A committed relationship is different from a fantasy. Unfortunately, many things are we no get from wife
Very bad yeah

[haikim999]

Is a pure bred SG lady. A degree holder. My fren ain't a rich heir nor is he very yandao. Just a typical average Joe. So I really dun understand why the wife willing to be used like this by him. I can only say tht perhaps he brainwashed her gaolat gaolat on a whole new level that normal guys would try.

How about if the wife asks for MMF is he ok ?

[Funlover]

How about if the wife asks for MMF is he ok ?

Nope. He said life is never fair. He can have more pussies but the wife cant have more cocks.

[chickenrice1980]

As a guy with a cuck fetish, my wife accepted it without even hesitating. She can enjoy as much dick as she want.

But most girl won't allow if the 3P is 2 girls 1 guy. Life is unfair, I'm just glad i have cuck fetish. I feel more turn on seeing her fuck another guy than myself fucking another girl.

Wow will this be an addiction for her too? I guess u don't mind since u have this fetish

[thediviner]

Nope. He said life is never fair. He can have more pussies but the wife cant have more cocks.

Of course . that's men's selfishness hahaha But be proud if have more than 1 woman

[weefred]

Wow will this be an addiction for her too? I guess u don't mind since u have this fetish

To be honest. No leh hahaha! I wish she was addicted but no. Cause not easy to perform if got another guy watching. Most of the guys either cum too fast or gone soft. Have a few good ones but she didn't orgasm also.

Nowadays she just want earn pocket money and perform for me only.

[Fleartrago]

haha..funny really

[plok]

An ex classmate of mine managed to brainwash his wife and then emotional threatened her saying that what he wants are only fantasy and fetish. He only love her. If she cannot accept and goes along with his request then he will have to settle it outside behind her back and that will leads to lies after lies to cover his trails. And then he asked her "would u want me to be honest with u on everything or do u want me to keep lying just to have those fetish settled?? And the wife actually buy all his shit and became a submissive wife that will let him do anything he wants as long he knows it is time to go home.. openly go JB, openly have a GF/FWB(s) and even had a 3some with the so called gf. And got once dun noe why he suddenly have the feel to perform in front of his frens(3 nerdy guy) he told the wife let's make love in front of them and she let him leh. wtf. I dun noe if I should pity the wife or call her dumb.

Seems like u are not one of the three friends. Have u requested to join in to watch?

[Funlover]

Seems like u are not one of the three friends. Have u requested to join in to watch?

To be Frank. His wife isn't my cup of tea.. :D

But I doubt I would ever participate in this kind of sick act even if she is. Committed relationship should be maintained like 1. And this is clearly not the way.. I'm no Saint too.. I have my fun outside of home behind wife's back but in front of other family and friends, I give her the respect she deserves.

I rmb once when we were younger I played overnight games with him at his place and back then when they r still in a BGR, she fall asleep beside him while we r playing. He suddenly caress her boobs and then I saw it, he actually said "要不要摸看看?" Back then I'm single. And then I fucked him for even offering the gf like tht. I mean verbally fucked him.

[Photon]

How to tell this to my wife?

How to make her accept to it?

Can ask why you want to make your wife a part of it ?
Why not just outside pay for 3P.
A fetish thing ?

[Ivysaw]

Just dont end up like those few sbf guys who got sentence to jail with multiple strokes of the cane.

[Subarashiki]

Just dont end up like those few sbf guys who got sentence to jail with multiple strokes of the cane.

Oh ya ? I just hear about this . How can be like that ?

[beep]

Reminds me of one of my friend and his wife.

All along, this friend has been always given off an alpha male vibe with sexual fetish. Like he told us (we are a group of male frds) he will just go up to his wife and say “blow me now” and she will stop whatever she is doing and find a location to BJ him. Or like he will tell her to go braless simply because he wanna see other guys beo his wife.

Anyway, once we this group of male friends were drinking and he told us on his recent trip to Bangkok, he and his wife engaged a masseur to come to their hotel room to massage both of them. After the massage, he actually asked the masseur if she provides special.

The masseur was quite surprised as the wife was present. And when she said yes, my frd then told his wife to have a FFM session. So he then told us how he encourage both his wife and the masseur to start some girl on girl action. Like kissing each other, licking each others pussy while he was jerking. Then followed by fucking both of them in turns before coming on his wife’s face.

The rest of us were shocked when we heard this as firstly, it was quite detailed in how he narrated. And also, we were amazed at how his wife just agreed on the spot.

[haikim999]

Nope. He said life is never fair. He can have more pussies but the wife cant have more cocks.

If his wife has insisted on this condition to be allowed to fk other guys, would he have relented? Sure turn into a huge quarrel. Wonder why the wife allow him readily to go find other ladies...

[Funlover]

If his wife has insisted on this condition to be allowed to fk other guys, would he have relented? Sure turn into a huge quarrel. Wonder why the wife allow him readily to go find other ladies...

Really kenna brainwashed. The wife was a decent and conservative girl from the starts when they r tgt. I'm also puzzled why she can turned into like this after not meeting for nearly 1 year as we r both getting busy growing into working adults back then.

[Carbide]

Probability of wife accepting 3P will be too low.
Really not worth asking at the risk of fracturing the relationship.
May end up with the wife starting regular movement checks.

[gtd0204]

Reminds me of one of my friend and his wife.

All along, this friend has been always given off an alpha male vibe with sexual fetish. Like he told us (we are a group of male frds) he will just go up to his wife and say “blow me now” and she will stop whatever she is doing and find a location to BJ him. Or like he will tell her to go braless simply because he wanna see other guys beo his wife.

Anyway, once we this group of male friends were drinking and he told us on his recent trip to Bangkok, he and his wife engaged a masseur to come to their hotel room to massage both of them. After the massage, he actually asked the masseur if she provides special.

The masseur was quite surprised as the wife was present. And when she said yes, my frd then told his wife to have a FFM session. So he then told us how he encourage both his wife and the masseur to start some girl on girl action. Like kissing each other, licking each others pussy while he was jerking. Then followed by fucking both of them in turns before coming on his wife’s face.

The rest of us were shocked when we heard this as firstly, it was quite detailed in how he narrated. And also, we were amazed at how his wife just agreed on the spot.

I can never understand what is in the imagination of a man who brings his wife into his fantasy about do like this. and I think this is unhealthy. because especially if the wife agrees. then that means both of them are out of their minds

[Funlover]

I can never understand what is in the imagination of a man who brings his wife into his fantasy about do like this. and I think this is unhealthy. because especially if the wife agrees. then that means both of them are out of their minds

For my friend, he is all about that being proud of achieving this or that. According to him. 3some with 2 other non related(as in not his own partner) girls is normal but when 1 of the 2 girls is own gf or even better own wife. That is higher level of conquering. In his case, 1 is his wife, the other one is his gf/mistress. He is damn fucking proud of it.. frens that drinks with him will heard this encounter of his.

I can never understand why he feel so song about sharing this to mass audience and I dun agree of shaming his wife like this.. because when his fren dun believe, he will ask his wife to come out and proof his statements. I feel that taking photo or video as proof of his "achievements" will be a sooner or later thing.

[sampat3388]

For my friend, he is all about that being proud of achieving this or that. According to him. 3some with 2 other non related(as in not his own partner) girls is normal but when 1 of the 2 girls is own gf or even better own wife. That is higher level of conquering. In his case, 1 is his wife, the other one is his gf/mistress. He is damn fucking proud of it.. frens that drinks with him will heard this encounter of his.

I can never understand why he feel so song about sharing this to mass audience and I dun agree of shaming his wife like this.. because when his fren dun believe, he will ask his wife to come out and proof his statements. I feel that taking photo or video as proof of his "achievements" will be a sooner or later thing.

Maybe he was proud of feeling like a king served by his wife and other women

[Funlover]

Maybe he was proud of feeling like a king served by his wife and other women

Still feel that is it an abnormality. As most guys if not all would be damn satisfied by having 2 hot girls serving him. Doesn't matter if 1 or both of them are his girl(s) or not.

[Xcrossit]

ladies are emotional creatures.

had an ex gf that agreed to MMF. just make sure you romance her more than ever and dont just keep giving sex. Since she already knows she has the option to source for more dicks.