Shoot too fast when finding FLs

[noobie69]

Serious qn. I always feel like money wasted when finding FLs, because my monkey brain gets too excited and shoot too quickly. Any other bros have such problem, and any tips other than wanking one out before the session?

[Skyboy1988]

Serious qn. I always feel like money wasted when finding FLs, because my monkey brain gets too excited and shoot too quickly. Any other bros have such problem, and any tips other than wanking one out before the session?

Most straightforward ans will be spend more time on foreplay. Change and try many diff positions. If not u beforehand negotiate a rate for 2 shots and longer time for your session .

[noobie69]

Most straightforward ans will be spend more time on foreplay. Change and try many diff positions. If not u beforehand negotiate a rate for 2 shots and longer time for your session .

Think my situation a bit jialat, even missionary within 1 minute feel like cumming. Becomes a vicious cycle, cause I get even more nervous next time, then feel like cumming even sooner.

Doesn't help that FLs is the only place I've been getting sex from for the past year, so not like I can train up with a sex partner for "free".

[rlskyline]

Think my situation a bit jialat, even missionary within 1 minute feel like cumming. Becomes a vicious cycle, cause I get even more nervous next time, then feel like cumming even sooner.

Doesn't help that FLs is the only place I've been getting sex from for the past year, so not like I can train up with a sex partner for "free".

how old are u?

[Skyboy1988]

Think my situation a bit jialat, even missionary within 1 minute feel like cumming. Becomes a vicious cycle, cause I get even more nervous next time, then feel like cumming even sooner.

Doesn't help that FLs is the only place I've been getting sex from for the past year, so not like I can train up with a sex partner for "free".

I think u meant overexcited.. normally guy when feel nervous, will be hard to get an erection instead of cumming too quick. If not u can try ejeculation delay products. Or maybe try ML tht provides HJ or BJ(with cap) once u r accustomed to those, maybe u won't feel so overexcited about doing the deed.

[Peacekeeping]

Serious qn. I always feel like money wasted when finding FLs, because my monkey brain gets too excited and shoot too quickly. Any other bros have such problem, and any tips other than wanking one out before the session?

You should try to survive hj by a pretty girl first.

[Delvax]

When you have gone enough times, will just feel it is common and not be too fast, but how many times is enough time is hard to say.
Its also easy to be fast if you have stored too much, meaning have not touched any girls for a while.
Just pcc everyday or once per 2 days.

If still fail, time to check for ED.

[SirLance]

Very common problem.

[PikaPikaSEA]

Excessive semen buildup.

Solution is to masturbate 8-24 hours before you visit FLs. Not too long, not too short ahead of time.

Works well for me.

[smellycatt]

Just book 2 shots
1st shot CIM COB COF
2nd shot you will definitely last A LOT longer

[noobie69]

I think u meant overexcited.. normally guy when feel nervous, will be hard to get an erection instead of cumming too quick. If not u can try ejeculation delay products. Or maybe try ML tht provides HJ or BJ(with cap) once u r accustomed to those, maybe u won't feel so overexcited about doing the deed.

Yes definitely is overexcitement. Feels quite ridiculous to say it but let's say I pre-book 2 days in advance, I can't sleep well for the next 2 days. Think I got to stop getting in my own head.

[noobie69]

Just book 2 shots
1st shot CIM COB COF
2nd shot you will definitely last A LOT longer

Not really. Last time I went to find FL (Dec last year) I came just from B2B rubbing. 2nd shot missionary also within 2 minutes.

Think is a pure psychological thing, just not too sure what I can do in a cost-effective manner to get more exposure therapy and last longer.

[noobie69]

When you have gone enough times, will just feel it is common and not be too fast, but how many times is enough time is hard to say.
Its also easy to be fast if you have stored too much, meaning have not touched any girls for a while.
Just pcc everyday or once per 2 days.

If still fail, time to check for ED.

ED means cannot get it up, no? Think mine is exact opposite of ED

[noobie69]

how old are u?

Late 20s. I did hear as you grow older, the longer men tend to last haha

[Skyboy1988]

Yes definitely is overexcitement. Feels quite ridiculous to say it but let's say I pre-book 2 days in advance, I can't sleep well for the next 2 days. Think I got to stop getting in my own head.

Sorry bro.. I think u need advice from professional if ejeculation delay products dont work for u.

[Delvax]

ED means cannot get it up, no? Think mine is exact opposite of ED

got the acronym wrong, meant PE.

[rogertks]

Not really. Last time I went to find FL (Dec last year) I came just from B2B rubbing.

When I read this, can tell it is PE bro -- premature ejaculation -- like what Delvax mentioned. Normal guys won't cum just from B2B rubbing. We feel shiok but definitely not shiok until cumming. Yes, overexcitement plays a part too but won't until that extent. Better to seek professional help bro.

[rogertks]

2nd shot missionary also within 2 minutes.

This is another common PE symptom bro. Second shot will take waaaaaaay longer than that. By then, I suppose you had already broken the ice and gotten comfortable with your FL, so no longer because of overexcitement or nervousness?

[Hotsex11]

Serious qn. I always feel like money wasted when finding FLs, because my monkey brain gets too excited and shoot too quickly. Any other bros have such problem, and any tips other than wanking one out before the session?

Cum first before going there hahaha. Masturbate yourself first, I usually do that because the second time it usually takes longer to cum hahaha

[noobie69]

This is another common PE symptom bro. Second shot will take waaaaaaay longer than that. By then, I suppose you had already broken the ice and gotten comfortable with your FL, so no longer because of overexcitement or nervousness?

Interesring point. Not trying to come up with excuses, but maybe the fact that I did not wank for a couple of days before fucking the FL may have something to do with second shot being so fast also.

Maybe on top of getting 2 shots, I should also consider wanking one out before the session.

[oliverpang]

people who are addicted to pornography are likely to experience this. looks like needs therapy

[Edisonoh]

Interesring point. Not trying to come up with excuses, but maybe the fact that I did not wank for a couple of days before fucking the FL may have something to do with second shot being so fast also.

Maybe on top of getting 2 shots, I should also consider wanking one out before the session.

that's possible. because when it doesn't come out for a long time, sperm will easily come out with just a little stimulation

[rogertks]

Interesring point. Not trying to come up with excuses, but maybe the fact that I did not wank for a couple of days before fucking the FL may have something to do with second shot being so fast also.

Maybe on top of getting 2 shots, I should also consider wanking one out before the session.

Yup bro, could be the reason.

Can also try to DIY using toys. Recently I am into Tenga Spinner thanks to one of the bros here who gave a very in-depth review. Try and search for the thread in this forum. I am currently taking a break from fucking FL, this Spinner kept my lil bro happy almost every night hahaha.

[noobie69]

Yup bro, could be the reason.

Can also try to DIY using toys. Recently I am into Tenga Spinner thanks to one of the bros here who gave a very in-depth review. Try and search for the thread in this forum. I am currently taking a break from fucking FL, this Spinner kept my lil bro happy almost every night hahaha.

Haha yes Tenga spinner is good for diy. I have 2 lol, just that cleanup takes a while and I live with my family so I don't use it as often as I would like.

[lerikol]

Got 3 ways

1. diy with toys and hold ur self 30mins no cum
2. Use Durex Performa delay condom
3. Go for edging massage tell the girl about ur issue they got ways to stop ejaculation

[noobie69]

Got 3 ways

1. diy with toys and hold ur self 30mins no cum
2. Use Durex Performa delay condom
3. Go for edging massage tell the girl about ur issue they got ways to stop ejaculation

Thanks for the good tips bro. Will give the condom a try.

Regarding edging massage, do you know where I can find? I think those providers in the Health Centre threads are all happy ending kind, don't provide edging one right?

[hayhay]

Serious qn. I always feel like money wasted when finding FLs, because my monkey brain gets too excited and shoot too quickly. Any other bros have such problem, and any tips other than wanking one out before the session?

Bro maybe u do this way, let ur water cum out once then u go find FL, maybe this help

[loneyheart]

Too bad age catching up :)

[Loken]

Try pcc, twice, 3-5 hours before. If like that still within 3 mins, then really need to worry.

What is your longest time, paid or non paid ?

[Dr4ke]

Got 15 minutes?

[ahbey]

Normal to excited to shoot out fast …
My last visit to ml that allow my to finger her bottom till watery …
I put on my prepare rubber and quick entry her dam wet hole.
Few strokes only … game over .
It’s a waste that unable to fuxk her long enough … still paid 3 B .. knn

[Peacekeeping]

Late 20s. I did hear as you grow older, the longer men tend to last haha

This is true. Fucked too many girls haha

[dennisss]

Thanks for the good tips bro. Will give the condom a try.

Regarding edging massage, do you know where I can find? I think those providers in the Health Centre threads are all happy ending kind, don't provide edging one right?

For edging, you can DIY. Just masturbate till you going to explode, then you IMMEDIATELY STOP. Let your lil bro cool down for a min or 2 then go again. After each cycle, your cooldown get shorter, then you release.

Also other than that, you should do Kegal exercises like don't go all out when you pee. Separate to smaller streams by clenching your butt.

Can also try "Jelqing", tho it didnt work for me...

Health Centre thread got authentic Juagen massage. It can be a little bit expensive and painful, but the release is whole another level of pleasure. I think you can look for LLJ or Anqi.

Manhood need maintenance. Good Luck!

[Fat Fatt]

This is true. Fucked too many girls haha

I believe it’s more to do with aging. No long young and sensitive. Physique also not as strong to last a long and high speed bonk (high speed works for me)

[alvencalve]

Bro maybe u do this way, let ur water cum out once then u go find FL, maybe this help

Its true hahaha. I do that 😂 then i can play long time with FL

[Qosmio]

Doesn't help that FLs is the only place I've been getting sex from for the past year, so not like I can train up with a sex partner for "free".

Is the shooting too fast only with FLs ?
Your past relationships all no problem ?

[Jesse77]

For me ... it depends on the person.

If the built up chemistry has been incredibly long ... then I tend to shoot very quickly. Or like a super super hot girl that I never imagined ... like pretty face slim waist huge natural boobs ... then its bye bye for me.

Another factor would be when was the last time I came. So if I could prepare in advance ... I would try to cum in the morning if I know that day will be a big event.

[fatguy]

I also shoot very fast. So very bo hua, cannot tahan a full bbbj session.

Till I started to use numbing cream. Now I can last much longer... Not as long as porn movies lah. But if normal sex minimal is 2 position. Basically WL ride me till she tired. But also got bad side, if she WL loose, the numbing cream really make almost no feeling. A few times I had to have her finish me in HJ.

But sometimes with experience WL and a strong BBBJ game... I shoot within a couple of minutes.. haha.

[Crocks]

For me ... it depends on the person.

If the built up chemistry has been incredibly long ... then I tend to shoot very quickly. Or like a super super hot girl that I never imagined ... like pretty face slim waist huge natural boobs ... then its bye bye for me.

Another factor would be when was the last time I came. So if I could prepare in advance ... I would try to cum in the morning if I know that day will be a big event.

I think I'm the same as you bro. I've experienced this several times. and I think it depends on who my partner is. There are things that make me very excited. There are those who, even though I tried, I found it difficult to get out and not too horny

[Kevinyoh]

Shoot too fast

[noobie69]

I also shoot very fast. So very bo hua, cannot tahan a full bbbj session.

Till I started to use numbing cream. Now I can last much longer... Not as long as porn movies lah. But if normal sex minimal is 2 position. Basically WL ride me till she tired. But also got bad side, if she WL loose, the numbing cream really make almost no feeling. A few times I had to have her finish me in HJ.

But sometimes with experience WL and a strong BBBJ game... I shoot within a couple of minutes.. haha.

Bro, if you use numbing cream / condom with numbing agent, can you still let FL BBBJ after fucking or do CIM? Or will their mouths become numb also?

[bonbong88]

Consider Durex Performa - it’s a good one at least for me. Could last much much longer

[ChromaticWhisp]

Bro, if you use numbing cream / condom with numbing agent, can you still let FL BBBJ after fucking or do CIM? Or will their mouths become numb also?

You try and lick the condom, see whether your tongue numb lor haha

[Castleclash]

Bro, if you use numbing cream / condom with numbing agent, can you still let FL BBBJ after fucking or do CIM? Or will their mouths become numb also?

Will be numb bro

[hiong]

dapoxetine, I really feel like a new man with this

[Hanszzz]

Got 3 ways

1. diy with toys and hold ur self 30mins no cum
2. Use Durex Performa delay condom
3. Go for edging massage tell the girl about ur issue they got ways to stop ejaculation

I'm slightly intrigued by this edging massage! So is a massage where the masseuse play with your rod and edge you continously? (ie. like edging yourself, but with another person)

What's the damage ($) for such massage, and where to find? Thanks!

[Hanszzz]

(Edit) Sorry ignore double post

[Techonwork]

Normal to excited to shoot out fast …
My last visit to ml that allow my to finger her bottom till watery …
I put on my prepare rubber and quick entry her dam wet hole.
Few strokes only … game over .
It’s a waste that unable to fuxk her long enough … still paid 3 B .. knn


Looks like she attracted you so much that it's make u cant hold bro

[Axksiwz]

Sometimes new people make you more passionate, maybe because of this ya

[godlikealamak]

Sometimes new people make you more passionate, maybe because of this ya

because there is still curiosity

[godlikealamak]

Sometimes new people make you more passionate, maybe because of this ya

because there is still curiosity

[nonmember]

They are experts at getting it done quickly.

[dofire]

train more, visit more , u will get better

[Cokebottle133]

Serious qn. I always feel like money wasted when finding FLs, because my monkey brain gets too excited and shoot too quickly. Any other bros have such problem, and any tips other than wanking one out before the session?

Can try dapoxetine, Zoloft or tramadol to extend cum time.