Girl MIA

[roamer99999]

Wanted to check if this is normal with bros. I met 2 girls for a meal. Everything went fine and they even shared superficial details of themselves such as where they work etc.

We agreed to meetup afew days later for sex with some chitchat in between. However, both of them became unresponsive on the day itself.

Can any bros share with me their experiences, if this is normal and how to avoid such scenarios

[ofdemoacc]

Well done on securing the date.

A wise mentor once told me - always sell the date.

Girls naturally like the thrill. They like unpredictability.

So in this case, what I’d do is to sell an experiential date like dinner + go karting or smth.

Then ask her to come over to yours an hour before dinner as you have a surprise. That’ll keep her on her toes.

Do the deed then head off.

Make the deed a casual thing, a starter in your dinner course. Else they’d flake you since it’s just sex and nothing else.

They want fun, they want thrill.

Unfortunately we’re guys. Have to work hard always. But that’s the game!

[roamer99999]

Well done on securing the date.

A wise mentor once told me - always sell the date.

Girls naturally like the thrill. They like unpredictability.

So in this case, what I’d do is to sell an experiential date like dinner + go karting or smth.

Then ask her to come over to yours an hour before dinner as you have a surprise. That’ll keep her on her toes.

Do the deed then head off.

Make the deed a casual thing, a starter in your dinner course. Else they’d flake you since it’s just sex and nothing else.

They want fun, they want thrill.

Unfortunately we’re guys. Have to work hard always. But that’s the game!

But we agreed on it being NSA with no commitment where any party can end it at any moment. She mentioned that she is not looking for a boyfriend and such activities

[ghostcow]

Wanted to check if this is normal with bros. I met 2 girls for a meal. Everything went fine and they even shared superficial details of themselves such as where they work etc.

We agreed to meetup afew days later for sex with some chitchat in between. However, both of them became unresponsive on the day itself.

Can any bros share with me their experiences, if this is normal and how to avoid such scenarios

Hi bro, where u fish for these fun girls from?

[ahseng00]

But we agreed on it being NSA with no commitment where any party can end it at any moment. She mentioned that she is not looking for a boyfriend and such activities

In your case , it ended already .

[ahseng00]

What is in it for her , if she met you for sex on your pre-arranged date. ?

Maybe on the day she was supposed to meet you , there are other guys who bring her out for nice dinner + nsa sex .

Vs your nsa

Thus she ghosted you

[SirLance]

Wanted to check if this is normal with bros. I met 2 girls for a meal. Everything went fine and they even shared superficial details of themselves such as where they work etc.

We agreed to meetup afew days later for sex with some chitchat in between. However, both of them became unresponsive on the day itself.

Can any bros share with me their experiences, if this is normal and how to avoid such scenarios

Means not interested in you lah.

[Laopizhui]

Sad to say bro. Both of them thinks u are not game enough for them to continue their game. Girls r like this. They want thrill, suspense and some mysterious factor in the hunting or wanting them gaming approach. Treat is as a learning lesson.

BTW dont trust girls 100% of their words. Learn to be wise which words can be trusted. Take 50% of the words as a pinch of salt. When they say they don't want r/a, deep down they want it. It just how u show them. In ur case u have already fail by protection of ur image of wanting sex only. Girls can get sex easily n usually many guys are also after them.

Ur game is pretty much over. Even if u text them if more surprises, I can be sure they will ignore u. Been in ur shoes before.

[ajlover]

Wanted to check if this is normal with bros. I met 2 girls for a meal. Everything went fine and they even shared superficial details of themselves such as where they work etc.

We agreed to meetup afew days later for sex with some chitchat in between. However, both of them became unresponsive on the day itself.

Can any bros share with me their experiences, if this is normal and how to avoid such scenarios

These days there are gals whom use such meetup arrangement for few meals only. If u turn out to be their cup of tea (e.g good looking, rich, generous, have car of their liking, super oily tongue etc..) you will bag some rewards for sure...

[roamer99999]

Sad to say bro. Both of them thinks u are not game enough for them to continue their game. Girls r like this. They want thrill, suspense and some mysterious factor in the hunting or wanting them gaming approach. Treat is as a learning lesson.

BTW dont trust girls 100% of their words. Learn to be wise which words can be trusted. Take 50% of the words as a pinch of salt. When they say they don't want r/a, deep down they want it. It just how u show them. In ur case u have already fail by protection of ur image of wanting sex only. Girls can get sex easily n usually many guys are also after them.

Ur game is pretty much over. Even if u text them if more surprises, I can be sure they will ignore u. Been in ur shoes before.

How do you recommend to go about it? Am usually quite upfront in what i want and am looking for. Guess i got to change my approach

[SadLoser]

Telling a girl you are going to meet her specifically for sex another day is like telling your prey hey pls turn up 3 days later at the same spot for me to hunt you down & eat you up

Guys are always looking for sex, while girls are always looking for free meals, expensive gifts & validations

The right approach is to arrange next date with a dinner at an expensive restaurant and after some drinks etc, proceed straight to hotel

[roamer99999]

Telling a girl you are going to meet her specifically for sex another day is like telling your prey hey pls turn up 3 days later at the same spot for me to hunt you down & eat you up

Guys are always looking for sex, while girls are always looking for free meals, expensive gifts & validations

The right approach is to arrange next date with a dinner at an expensive restaurant and after some drinks etc, proceed straight to hotel

We were supposed to meetup for dinner but i implied about having sex after. Will not imply that anymore. What is your definition of expensive? Does wine connection count?

[Calicoer]

Have you considered they were never keen on more but just wanted a free meal in the first place ?

[Lelasdf]

Unfortunately for guys it's like that. It's all a numbers game. You won't bed every single girl you match, chat and go out with. It's either they are just looking for a free meal or they found someone better. Usually after chatting abit and the vibes are good I'll propose to meet up ASAP for the deed.

If you are meeting for the first time and booking a hotel never book and pay online. Pay over the counter when the girl is with you.

[roamer99999]

Have you considered they were never keen on more but just wanted a free meal in the first place ?

She actually treated me to lunch on our first meet up

[roamer99999]

Unfortunately for guys it's like that. It's all a numbers game. You won't bed every single girl you match, chat and go out with. It's either they are just looking for a free meal or they found someone better. Usually after chatting abit and the vibes are good I'll propose to meet up ASAP for the deed.

If you are meeting for the first time and booking a hotel never book and pay online. Pay over the counter when the girl is with you.

I agree with this. My new strategy is to meet only when i have the time to do the deed after so that they cant harp on it for afew days and flake out

[Calicoer]

She actually treated me to lunch on our first meet up

Met up twice but when time to do the deed they aeroplane ?
Likely some expectations not met.
I am also very curious what happened.