Fling at work with colleagues

[lilwolf]

Just curious if anyone has flings/colleagues at work in the same office? Need some tips/advice.

Currently there’s a new young (gen z) and hot colleague who just joined the team and she can be quite chatty towards me whenever we go get lunch or in the office. I'm in a position of authority over the team where I do their appraisal and stuff like that but not sure if I am able to use this as an advantage to get her as a fling? Any signs that I should look out for or actions to take to see if she’s interested?

Just worried she might report me if I make the wrong move…

[fillerup]

You're more likely to have a successful fling with an elderly gay ang moh colleague.

[Bilibiliboi]

As much as i would fantasize this too.

But please do not eat and shit in the same place. Back fire at you almost immediately the moment you failed to 'return favor'.

[raxip]

Just curious if anyone has flings/colleagues at work in the same office? Need some tips/advice.

Currently there’s a new young (gen z) and hot colleague who just joined the team and she can be quite chatty towards me whenever we go get lunch or in the office. I'm in a position of authority over the team where I do their appraisal and stuff like that but not sure if I am able to use this as an advantage to get her as a fling? Any signs that I should look out for or actions to take to see if she’s interested?

Just worried she might report me if I make the wrong move…

If you want to shit and eat in the same place, make sure you both are not in the same reporting lines. If found out, especially when you have control over her appraisal, you can be fired for not disclosing that conflict of interest.

[Dynamic23]

Yes, as most bros said, it's risky to mix work and personal life, especially when it comes to dating or hooking up with someone you work with. If things don’t work out, it can get super awkward. You still have to see her every day, and any tension or drama can make the work environment uncomfortable for both of you and even your coworkers.

And IF you do end up in a relationship, people might gossip, and things will still get complicated and messy quickly.

[EtherC]

Never think you are so smart that you can fool your colleagues or that they will cover for you should they find out. The thrill is not worth it unless you have a sideline or family business you can fall back on. Seen plenty of "players" who hunt at work , there was a case where the wife came to make a scene at the office. Another case the wife was so suspicious & started harrassing the female colleagues and the guy had to be let go. Especially these days of Me too , DEI if things turn sour and the girl becomes vengeful it can ruin your reputation.

We pay not only to shoot , also for the ladies to leave when the job is done. :D

[KVX10]

If it's just a fling and she reports to you later. You'll be in tons of trouble and if your industry is small, news will spread.
If you're serious about dating her for long term then it's possible still as some bros mentioned to declare the relationship and such.

I'm in an industry where word/rumors get around quicky. It will damage your reputation if anything negative gets around.

[Ambroseyeet]

If she is in your reporting line, quite a clear no go. Confirm get into trouble when ppl find out.

Long ago i had one fling from work. We were both interns in the same team so always lunch etc together so got close.

One weekend we arranged to go hiking together, after that drove her to my place to shower and chill since i got car. HTHT led to cuddling led to making out and eventually sex. Eventually intern ended and we kind of settled into a fwb situation - never really meet up for anything, met once in a while always end up in sex kind of rs.

Then i got involve with a more serious girl and stopped asking her out and we broke contact since. Other than occassional comments on each other's ig.

[Alantino]

Better not la
Different department still ok
.

[gotnotime]

Bro don't eat and shit at the same place when it's your reporting line..

[oxeso]

Look out for the finger poke fist signal.

U took the stories from the cannon fairies here too seriously liao la.. :p

[ajlover]

Don't try without clear signal, when it's one sided, shit follows easily.

[Lennyberg]

this kinda thing don't play. Name will smelly for a thousand years kind.

Clear NO for me.

[ohsienpe]

Better to target ex Colleagues instead.

[timeliness]

Hi bro I've experienced this myself, and please don't try anything if that person is directly reporting to you, or if you have influence over their performance/promotion, it'll be very messy if the other colleagues think you're playing favourites.

However, if you really want to try this forbidden fruit of eating and shitting at the same place, I strongly suggest you try with colleagues from other teams ONLY if there is a strong signal from her.

[painterbyhart]

Better to target ex Colleagues instead.

Until you become colleagues again, if ex company wants you back

[haleluya111]

Hi bro I've experienced this myself, and please don't try anything if that person is directly reporting to you, or if you have influence over their performance/promotion, it'll be very messy if the other colleagues think you're playing favourites.

However, if you really want to try this forbidden fruit of eating and shitting at the same place, I strongly suggest you try with colleagues from other teams ONLY if there is a strong signal from her.

agree bro, can be serious problem too

[likebossamboss]

I don’t think this is a good idea, especially you work on the same department

[AirForce]

I don’t think this is a good idea, especially you work on the same department

True, had experience one and kinda regret it

[AvadaKedavra]

If she is in your reporting line, quite a clear no go. Confirm get into trouble when ppl find out.

Long ago i had one fling from work. We were both interns in the same team so always lunch etc together so got close.

One weekend we arranged to go hiking together, after that drove her to my place to shower and chill since i got car. HTHT led to cuddling led to making out and eventually sex. Eventually intern ended and we kind of settled into a fwb situation - never really meet up for anything, met once in a while always end up in sex kind of rs.

Then i got involve with a more serious girl and stopped asking her out and we broke contact since. Other than occassional comments on each other's ig.

Surely an experience you’ll remember for life regardless I think hahah

[1231231233]

Divorcees (those who got cheated on, NOT get caught cheating)

Old spinsters


Especially when they aren't kind natured.


Beware of these vixens brothers.

[guyorgirl]

Same or different departments, I’ll say men get ruled by cock sensations not logical thinking.

If my boss presented herself to me, I doubt I can think straight when my cock is straight. You’ll definitely want to flirt and push boundaries with any girl that comes your way.

Some does it for the thrill, some wants more. Whatever it is, it is a fling and it remains as one. If both are clear about it, don’t see the harm.

Mine ended amicably through a long four years. This can only work if the lady is mature enough though…

[junior_cannibal]

Same or different departments, I’ll say men get ruled by cock sensations not logical thinking.

If my boss presented herself to me, I doubt I can think straight when my cock is straight. You’ll definitely want to flirt and push boundaries with any girl that comes your way.

Some does it for the thrill, some wants more. Whatever it is, it is a fling and it remains as one. If both are clear about it, don’t see the harm.

Mine ended amicably through a long four years. This can only work if the lady is mature enough though…

CB Gog, you forgot to mention. Many affairs start to be harmless, not until when one party wants more, more exclusive, or to become official.. That's when things get complicated.

[guyorgirl]

CB Gog, you forgot to mention. Many affairs start to be harmless, not until when one party wants more, more exclusive, or to become official.. That's when things get complicated.

Ya, you are right. Takes two to clap but also takes one to slap. Sad truths. World might be better if everybody can just be happy and continue to go home be their respective roles.l

[timeliness]

Ya, you are right. Takes two to clap but also takes one to slap. Sad truths. World might be better if everybody can just be happy and continue to go home be their respective roles.l

Wa bro I see you then I got reminded that I've yet to update my own story hahaha. Will post sometime soon especially now when it's at the sexciting part.

[junior_cannibal]

Ya, you are right. Takes two to clap but also takes one to slap. Sad truths. World might be better if everybody can just be happy and continue to go home be their respective roles.l
If everyone is so good, proper and happy, this forum wouldn't be around leh. Also, all your encounters with the married and attached.

[secretlurker88]

got my colleague to give me AR...damn shiok.

[edmundhello]

My personal experience is really to avoid at all cost since you're totally treating her like a fling... Eating and shitting where you work and you will definitely end up in deep shit sooner or later...

[newbie22]

Never eat and shit in the same place. I am working in a small company with 22 employees. I am one of the only 3 guys in the office. One of the guy is the founder and the other guy is an old uncle. I am in my early 30s and work out often. I ain't exactly the most handsome but not ugly either.

As the years went by and I became closeer to my colleagues, I have had strong signals from four of the ladies. When I say signal, I mean one of them outright tell me to my face "I am good at blowjob and it's been a while since I suck a dick. I swallow too.".

As tempting as it might sound, I hold on to never eat and shit in the same place very strongly. Why? Cos in my previous coy, I fucked a colleague and let's just say things went south and police was involved cos I dio complain sexual harassment. Eventually I was fired, but not charged, even when the sex was consensual. It's just too complicated. Don't do it bro.

[Laopizhui]

The risk of getting back fired increases exponentially of it is sg lady.

[Rickey]

got my colleague to give me AR...damn shiok.
Bro, can share the details with us how it happened from beginning to end ??

[rogertks]

As tempting as it might sound, I hold on to never eat and shit in the same place very strongly. Why? Cos in my previous coy, I fucked a colleague and let's just say things went south and police was involved cos I dio complain sexual harassment. Eventually I was fired, but not charged, even when the sex was consensual. It's just too complicated. Don't do it bro.

No joke when the police are involved. The trouble and headache definitely outweigh that few hours of fun. Some more bro kana fired.

DON'T DO IT!

[fillerup]

Bro, can share the details with us how it happened from beginning to end ??

I have a feeling he had a guy lick his ass to lube it up for penetration.

:o

[Droney]

Wow was about to post a question on this exact same topic when some searching uncovered this thread. Very useful tips and comments from Bros! I'm in a similar predicament, she's my supervisor (divorced though I don't know the reason and I'm married - yah so complexities abound).

HOWEVER as some Bros mentioned, only to proceed with very clear signs or signals. Mine however are pretty vague... So I shall see, might just be me playing a solo one-sided duet.

[entering]

Just curious if anyone has flings/colleagues at work in the same office? Need some tips/advice.

Currently there’s a new young (gen z) and hot colleague who just joined the team and she can be quite chatty towards me whenever we go get lunch or in the office. I'm in a position of authority over the team where I do their appraisal and stuff like that but not sure if I am able to use this as an advantage to get her as a fling? Any signs that I should look out for or actions to take to see if she’s interested?

Just worried she might report me if I make the wrong move…

Long time ago, when I was 27 and started working in this finance company (sorry have to be vague here in case my ex colleagues are here too) I started fucking my boss who was 42. She was unmarried, but works out, very fierce and about 1.60 in height.

She was the director while I was a junior on the sell side.

At first, it was good. I just got married and then at home I fuck my wife, at work I fuck my boss. I also got special treatment secretly, as on the surface we all got the hair dryer treatment from her, but in her office, behind locked doors, she not only gave me blow jobs, fuck jobs, she also threw a lot of jobs, projects and clients my way, so I was top for a few years due to her. She's on top of me, and I'm on top of her.

Bbbuuuttt I was 24/7 on call. If she needs to fuck at 2am, I've to tell my wife so stupid excuse and go fuck her.

Not being ungrateful, the sex was good, the job was good, the pay was good but then I was trapped with her, cuz I can't say no.

Eventually, after 4 plus years, she switched to another company and then she ghosted me, so in a way, I dodged a bullet there before the bullet shot me in the face.

My advice is don't. It sounds great but after that, is a whole mess of issues you cannot solve with the other party. Lucky mine was single plus my wife didn't suspect.

The only time I fucked my superior and felt it was ok was when I fucked my sergeant in my NS days. That one, no consequences since we all just want to Serve And Fuckoff.

I know it sounds hypocritical but if you need your job, best is you don't.

Even now, I'm semi retired and I have this 20 year old Pinay, and my other staff tells me my this 20 year old is infatuated with me. This time, I show NO SIGNS no any sexual whatsoever with her, cuz I like my job and my boss a lot!

[samuel645]

just sharing my story.

i had 2 flings in my previous company.

both of them were from the same department.

both of them was married and had kids haha.

first one was divorced individual, i felt that she was trying to approach me so during company event we had some drinks and talk and few other encounters later, found myself keep going to her place for a quickie. just probably office fantasy like want to have someone to dump your cum on. her body nothing fantastic but shes loud.

second one was married and relatively much younger than the first one.it ended because her husband found out and called me about it lol. her body was great i think her boobs was like size F or G. how it all happened was luckily she stay near me i asked if she want a ride home then most time she was taking my car and we started sharing rs stories. she was unhappy and one day ask me if want to go for drinks, went for drinks and she said she wanna go for club, went to club and she suddenly pounced on me and made out. Ask to go back to my place but i prefer going to hotel hahaa. first time was there and man… her boobs was stunning and then it carried on for awhile she even asked to suck my dick in my car which i obliged and we even took leave from work for one day just to have a DAYcation to fuck. sad that it ended.


but my 2 cents just be very careful. right now im not there anymore but they are still contacting me

[Droney]

Appreciate your sharing bro 🙏🏼

Long time ago, when I was 27 and started working in
this finance company (sorry have to be vague here in case my ex colleagues are here too) I started fucking my boss who was 42. She was unmarried, but works out, very fierce and about 1.60 in height.

She was the director while I was a junior on the sell side.

At first, it was good. I just got married and then at home I fuck my wife, at work I fuck my boss. I also got special treatment secretly, as on the surface we all got the hair dryer treatment from her, but in her office, behind locked doors, she not only gave me blow jobs, fuck jobs, she also threw a lot of jobs, projects and clients my way, so I was top for a few years due to her. She's on top of me, and I'm on top of her.

Bbbuuuttt I was 24/7 on call. If she needs to fuck at 2am, I've to tell my wife so stupid excuse and go fuck her.

Not being ungrateful, the sex was good, the job was good, the pay was good but then I was trapped with her, cuz I can't say no.

Eventually, after 4 plus years, she switched to another company and then she ghosted me, so in a way, I dodged a bullet there before the bullet shot me in the face.

My advice is don't. It sounds great but after that, is a whole mess of issues you can solve with the other party. Lucky mine was single plus my wife didn't suspect.

The only time I fucked my superior and felt it was ok was when I fucked my sergeant in my NS days. That one, no consequences since we all just want to Serve And Fuckoff.

I know it sounds hypocritical but if you need your job, best is you don't.

Even now, I'm semi retired and I have this 20 year old Pinay, and my other staff tells me my this 20 year old is infatuated with me. This time, I show NO SIGNS no any sexual whatsoever with her, cuz I like my job and my boss a lot!

[Droney]

Appreciate your sharing bro 🙏🏼 Wow 2 from the same company, must be super hard to juggle things 😅 But I guess if it starts off as NSAS or No-Strings-Attached-Sex might be easier? But I guess someone somehow will want more time, more attention, or whatever or have an epiphany, those sort of reasons ends it 😝

just sharing my story.

i had 2 flings in my previous company.

both of them were from the same department.

both of them was married and had kids haha.

first one was divorced individual, i felt that she was trying to approach me so during company event we had some drinks and talk and few other encounters later, found myself keep going to her place for a quickie. just probably office fantasy like want to have someone to dump your cum on. her body nothing fantastic but shes loud.

second one was married and relatively much younger than the first one.it ended because her husband found out and called me about it lol. her body was great i think her boobs was like size F or G. how it all happened was luckily she stay near me i asked if she want a ride home then most time she was taking my car and we started sharing rs stories. she was unhappy and one day ask me if want to go for drinks, went for drinks and she said she wanna go for club, went to club and she suddenly pounced on me and made out. Ask to go back to my place but i prefer going to hotel hahaa. first time was there and man… her boobs was stunning and then it carried on for awhile she even asked to suck my dick in my car which i obliged and we even took leave from work for one day just to have a DAYcation to fuck. sad that it ended.


but my 2 cents just be very careful. right now im not there anymore but they are still contacting me

[thinker]

Don’t mess your job up just for the sac. It’s your nail in your coffin if you are ending on a sour note

[sbwow]

Don’t mess your job up just for the sac. It’s your nail in your coffin if you are ending on a sour note

That dude just have to get another job unless he is super useless in the society that nobody wants to hire him. HAHAHA.
thinker's suggestions is for those useless fucks born to only do that one miserable job. Yeah, you better don't play. HAHAHA.

[lipe]

bro entering,

up you 22 points.

It all depends on the partner.

We have our own family and certain rules, though not explicit, are followed.

When we started, we are in the same company and she is single. She left, married and have kids. However we are still together and make love two to three times a week.




Even now, I'm semi retired and I have this 20 year old Pinay, and my other staff tells me my this 20 year old is infatuated with me. This time, I show NO SIGNS no any sexual whatsoever with her, cuz I like my job and my boss a lot!

[uppenbar]

Long time ago, when I was 27 and started working in this finance company (sorry have to be vague here in case my ex colleagues are here too) I started fucking my boss who was 42. She was unmarried, but works out, very fierce and about 1.60 in height.

She was the director while I was a junior on the sell side.

At first, it was good. I just got married and then at home I fuck my wife, at work I fuck my boss. I also got special treatment secretly, as on the surface we all got the hair dryer treatment from her, but in her office, behind locked doors, she not only gave me blow jobs, fuck jobs, she also threw a lot of jobs, projects and clients my way, so I was top for a few years due to her. She's on top of me, and I'm on top of her.

Bbbuuuttt I was 24/7 on call. If she needs to fuck at 2am, I've to tell my wife so stupid excuse and go fuck her.

Not being ungrateful, the sex was good, the job was good, the pay was good but then I was trapped with her, cuz I can't say no.

Eventually, after 4 plus years, she switched to another company and then she ghosted me, so in a way, I dodged a bullet there before the bullet shot me in the face.

My advice is don't. It sounds great but after that, is a whole mess of issues you cannot solve with the other party. Lucky mine was single plus my wife didn't suspect.

The only time I fucked my superior and felt it was ok was when I fucked my sergeant in my NS days. That one, no consequences since we all just want to Serve And Fuckoff.

I know it sounds hypocritical but if you need your job, best is you don't.

Even now, I'm semi retired and I have this 20 year old Pinay, and my other staff tells me my this 20 year old is infatuated with me. This time, I show NO SIGNS no any sexual whatsoever with her, cuz I like my job and my boss a lot!

Live with no regrets!

[jgosh80]

got my colleague to give me AR...damn shiok.

Share story pls!

[jgosh80]

Ya, you are right. Takes two to clap but also takes one to slap. Sad truths. World might be better if everybody can just be happy and continue to go home be their respective roles.l

BRO. This, this here is important life lesson. Takes two hands to clap and one hand to slap.

[Muller13]

Great share bros entering and samuel645 :)

[ceeko]

If she's no longer your intern, or not working in the same company anymore. By all means fuck all u want.

But not when working together

[frointerer]

Just worried she

[Imbrown89]

Just go for it

[WinterMelonTree]

read the story of the vice principal LOL

also gen z are all about consent. one wrong move and you're a salted fish

[mbhavana]

just sharing my story.

i had 2 flings in my previous company.

both of them were from the same department.

both of them was married and had kids haha.

first one was divorced individual, i felt that she was trying to approach me so during company event we had some drinks and talk and few other encounters later, found myself keep going to her place for a quickie. just probably office fantasy like want to have someone to dump your cum on. her body nothing fantastic but shes loud.

second one was married and relatively much younger than the first one.it ended because her husband found out and called me about it lol. her body was great i think her boobs was like size F or G. how it all happened was luckily she stay near me i asked if she want a ride home then most time she was taking my car and we started sharing rs stories. she was unhappy and one day ask me if want to go for drinks, went for drinks and she said she wanna go for club, went to club and she suddenly pounced on me and made out. Ask to go back to my place but i prefer going to hotel hahaa. first time was there and man… her boobs was stunning and then it carried on for awhile she even asked to suck my dick in my car which i obliged and we even took leave from work for one day just to have a DAYcation to fuck. sad that it ended.


but my 2 cents just be very careful. right now im not there anymore but they are still contacting me

Great share! Would you mind elaborating how the husband of the second lady found out and what he told you when he called? How is she then still contacting you?

[Droney]

Well seems like miscom, she is just nicer to me as we just happen to get along well at work, so there's no inkling on her part for any progression further beyond a good colleague relationship unfortunately.

I tried and even suggested dinner, or drinks... and she ALWAYS asked me to jio others along, so I guess that's as clear a sign as any of her push away to anything beyond a working relationship lol. So as many Bros suggested, I'm going to think with the big head and keep the smaller one in check 👍🏼


Wow was about to post a question on this exact same topic when some searching uncovered this thread. Very useful tips and comments from Bros! I'm in a similar predicament, she's my supervisor (divorced though I don't know the reason and I'm married - yah so complexities abound).

HOWEVER as some Bros mentioned, only to proceed with very clear signs or signals. Mine however are pretty vague... So I shall see, might just be me playing a solo one-sided duet.

[lipe]

I had the same experience with my very busty colleague.

Always try to jio for lunch. No success.

However after I left the company, she jio me to go off beat places to have drinks.

She drinks cognac and I drink whisky.



I tried and even suggested dinner, or drinks...

[nitetcrawler]

One possibility is both of you are in same company so she does not invite unwanted gossip.

Another possibility is she is unsure herself, so ask you invite others along. So that can see how it is to progress further if both are alone. She may not want to be in a tight situation if things get awarkard.


Well seems like miscom, she is just nicer to me as we just happen to get along well at work, so there's no inkling on her part for any progression further beyond a good colleague relationship unfortunately.

I tried and even suggested dinner, or drinks... and she ALWAYS asked me to jio others along, so I guess that's as clear a sign as any of her push away to anything beyond a working relationship lol. So as many Bros suggested, I'm going to think with the big head and keep the smaller one in check 👍🏼

[1231231233]

Just curious if anyone has flings/colleagues at work in the same office? Need some tips/advice.

Currently there’s a new young (gen z) and hot colleague who just joined the team and she can be quite chatty towards me whenever we go get lunch or in the office. I'm in a position of authority over the team where I do their appraisal and stuff like that but not sure if I am able to use this as an advantage to get her as a fling? Any signs that I should look out for or actions to take to see if she’s interested?

Just worried she might report me if I make the wrong move…



More importantly, what's the latest update???

[MagicFingers]

Well seems like miscom, she is just nicer to me as we just happen to get along well at work, so there's no inkling on her part for any progression further beyond a good colleague relationship unfortunately.

I tried and even suggested dinner, or drinks... and she ALWAYS asked me to jio others along, so I guess that's as clear a sign as any of her push away to anything beyond a working relationship lol. So as many Bros suggested, I'm going to think with the big head and keep the smaller one in check 👍🏼

Ya, if she always ask you to jio others, it's a good signal that she got concerns that you want a more personal relationship and she's not willing. Best would be to let it go, go Dome 1,2,3,L and satisfy your urges, otherwise be prepared for shit at work.

I tried with colleagues at ex workplaces before, asked twice, if both times kena shoot down or she jio others or give excuses, I moved on to the next target.

Managed to get one younger part timer at my previous place, end up shooting in her mouth a lot at work. It was funny coz she don't swallow, so once had to see her walk to the toilet with a mouthful of my cum and passby another colleague who wanted to talk to her.

[jajebo]

Just worried she might report me if I make the wrong move…

[jajebo]

Just worried she might report me if I make the wrong move…
conflict of interes

[jajebo]

Just worried she might report me if I make the wrong move…
conflict of interes

[junior_cannibal]

I had the same experience with my very busty colleague.

Always try to jio for lunch. No success.

However after I left the company, she jio me to go off beat places to have drinks.

She drinks cognac and I drink whisky.

I bet most of us are more interested to know what happened after the drinks. Please share.

[xiasangju]

second one was married and relatively much younger than the first one.it ended because her husband found out and called me about it lol.

curious how did the husband react? similar case like you where she sent me sexy pics daily, went out for lunch breaks cuddling/kissing each other and almost went on a daycation but i chickened out cos her husband seemed a bit psycho (constantly calling her, checking on her) and had prior experience dealing with a would-be suitor

[Rickey]

I bet most of us are more interested to know what happened after the drinks. Please share.
I agree...got head no tail

[lipe]

That is for me to know and you to find out.

Hahaha.


I bet most of us are more interested to know what happened after the drinks. Please share.

[lipe]

Bro Rickey



That is for me to know and you to find out.

Hahaha.


I agree...got head no tail

[junior_cannibal]

curious how did the husband react? similar case like you where she sent me sexy pics daily, went out for lunch breaks cuddling/kissing each other and almost went on a daycation but i chickened out cos her husband seemed a bit psycho (constantly calling her, checking on her) and had prior experience dealing with a would-be suitor
For husbands to behave like this, there's a possibility that the wives have prior track record of engaging sex outside of marriage and got caught or suspected.
Even if you were single, try to avoid such women for the sake of complication.

[upinkm]

Fuckee my intern supervisor after internship.
Fucked my colleague from my dept who was a virgin.

[lipe]

Bros,

Please do not take offence. There are certain actions that are best keep silent.

Currently working with her again in another company and the funny thing is that meet up regularly with her hubby.

Yesterday she wore a low cut dress which makes me extra horny. Cannot wait.......

QUOTE
That is for me to know and you to find out.

Hahaha.
UNQUOTE

[Rickey]

Fuckee my intern supervisor after internship.
Fucked my colleague from my dept who was a virgin.
Bro, can share the juicy bits with us ??..like how it started n one thing led to another...will give u my +29 points if u can share

[Rickey]

Bros,

Please do not take offence. There are certain actions that are best keep silent.

Currently working with her again in another company and the funny thing is that meet up regularly with her hubby.

Yesterday she wore a low cut dress which makes me extra horny. Cannot wait.......

QUOTE
That is for me to know and you to find out.

Hahaha.
UNQUOTE
Yr quote sounds familiar bro Lipe...usually a gal would say that to her guy friends..haha

Best thing n the excitement for u is when the 3 of u meet or happen to be tgt, the husband still doesnt know that u hv been fucking n playing with his wife's pussy behind his back

Any guy also cannot wait or tahan if they see her wear so sexily n revealingly

[cannister]

I agree...got head no tail

Agree with you.

[cannister]

Bros,

Please do not take offence. There are certain actions that are best keep silent.

Currently working with her again in another company and the funny thing is that meet up regularly with her hubby.

Yesterday she wore a low cut dress which makes me extra horny. Cannot wait.......

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That is for me to know and you to find out.

Hahaha.
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Thanks for sharing.

[lipe]

bro cannister

Thanks

up you 22 points.



Thanks for sharing.

[NuclearHistory]

Yr quote sounds familiar bro Lipe...usually a gal would say that to her guy friends..haha

Best thing n the excitement for u is when the 3 of u meet or happen to be tgt, the husband still doesnt know that u hv been fucking n playing with his wife's pussy behind his back

Any guy also cannot wait or tahan if they see her wear so sexily n revealingly

Hard to say leh, maybe the husband is aware but enjoying this type of lifestyle :D

[lipe]

Her husband is younger than her but from their interaction can see he always give in to her.

Maybe she is domineering towards him.

You know the type who prefer cowgirl position as it is domineering. No complain from me.


the husband still doesnt know that u hv been fucking n playing with his wife's pussy behind his back

Any guy also cannot wait or tahan if they see her wear so sexily n revealingly

[budii]

Fuckee my intern supervisor after internship.
Fucked my colleague from my dept who was a virgin.

Thanks for info.

[Anatoliy]

Hard to say leh, maybe the husband is aware but enjoying this type of lifestyle :D

Agree with you.

[Hunkydunky]

CB Gog, you forgot to mention. Many affairs start to be harmless, not until when one party wants more, more exclusive, or to become official.. That's when things get complicated.

My friend kana this trap. His small 3 is very clingy. He had a hard time staying away from her. And the small 3 keeps threatening to expose him.

U guys got any solutions to this?

[Hunkydunky]

Never eat and shit in the same place. I am working in a small company with 22 employees. I am one of the only 3 guys in the office. One of the guy is the founder and the other guy is an old uncle. I am in my early 30s and work out often. I ain't exactly the most handsome but not ugly either.

As the years went by and I became closeer to my colleagues, I have had strong signals from four of the ladies. When I say signal, I mean one of them outright tell me to my face "I am good at blowjob and it's been a while since I suck a dick. I swallow too.".

As tempting as it might sound, I hold on to never eat and shit in the same place very strongly. Why? Cos in my previous coy, I fucked a colleague and let's just say things went south and police was involved cos I dio complain sexual harassment. Eventually I was fired, but not charged, even when the sex was consensual. It's just too complicated. Don't do it bro.
Wow.. women seems to be quite vicious when come to this..

[Hunkydunky]

Fuckee my intern supervisor after internship.
Fucked my colleague from my dept who was a virgin.

How u did it?

[junior_cannibal]

My friend kana this trap. His small 3 is very clingy. He had a hard time staying away from her. And the small 3 keeps threatening to expose him.

U guys got any solutions to this?

Ask your friend, what his small 3 has about him that can be exposed? Chat history, sex vid or what?
She knows where he stays, his work place or what?
Anyway, no matter what, I assumed your friend is married thus has more at stake, he should assume the small 3 can cause more damages.
He needs to think how to manage her and gradually let her grows out of him, ie no longer like him to want to break up with him instead. He can start by doing something that she dislikes, eg praising all ladies appearance or figures.
The last thing he should do is to ask for a break up now. She will become ballistic.

[iRawyer]

Thanks for sharing.

Agree with you.

[Hunkydunky]

Ask your friend, what his small 3 has about him that can be exposed? Chat history, sex vid or what?
She knows where he stays, his work place or what?
Anyway, no matter what, I assumed your friend is married thus has more at stake, he should assume the small 3 can cause more damages.
He needs to think how to manage her and gradually let her grows out of him, ie no longer like him to want to break up with him instead. He can start by doing something that she dislikes, eg praising all ladies appearance or figures.
The last thing he should do is to ask for a break up now. She will become ballistic.

What I understand from him is that the relationship has been there for some months. Over these time.. there are photos, chats history..and also information like work and home location being shared. Hence he's vulnerable to "attacks" by his small 3.

But if he go praise other women..do things that his small 3 dislikes.. wouldn't it trigger the attack from small 3?

[junior_cannibal]

What I understand from him is that the relationship has been there for some months. Over these time.. there are photos, chats history..and also information like work and home location being shared. Hence he's vulnerable to "attacks" by his small 3.

But if he go praise other women..do things that his small 3 dislikes.. wouldn't it trigger the attack from small 3?
He needs to manage it with care and caution.
In order for the small 3 wanting to be less obsessive, he can't push it as he has too much at stake.
Small 3 will always feel they are the victims as the r/s will definitely not have a good ending.
In life, there's no free lunch. It's only you pay first or later.

[Hunkydunky]

He needs to manage it with care and caution.
In order for the small 3 wanting to be less obsessive, he can't push it as he has too much at stake.
Small 3 will always feel they are the victims as the r/s will definitely not have a good ending.
In life, there's no free lunch. It's only you pay first or later.

Eh.. the small 3 also having free meals and hotel rooms. Isn't that paid for by my friend already? And the relationship is both parties consent. 你情我愿...

[junior_cannibal]

Eh.. the small 3 also having free meals and hotel rooms. Isn't that paid for by my friend already? And the relationship is both parties consent. 你情我愿...

There's no right or wrong, only for themselves to decide. In case your friend has made some promises or has led her to think there's a future for them.
Meals and hotels are not part of the deal lah. Even if he has been showering her with gifts. All these are not the same like paying a fee that both agree as a commercial transaction.
That's the dilemma when the man wants GFE yet no string. Where got so good deal?

[TBonez]

Sharing my experience...

Was kinda in a hanky panky relationship with a colleague during my low-time while dealing with my divorce. Maybe was weak mentally then and got involved with the colleague (let's just name her SW). We would have sex and she would also gladly swallow me when she had her period. However I can feel alot of colleagues eyes on us and I things had to stop when she told me she is considering divorcing her husband to be with me. She had also been unhappy with her married life. With my current mess, I definitely don't need another added mess. So I told her we need to stop and she need to to counselling for sake of her children.
We did have a one-off where she came to my house to drink and she blew me. Sometimes when she walked past my desk I can still see her stealing peeps at me. I'm sure if I'm gonna grab her, she will not hesitate to blow me anytime.

Another colleague that I'm currently "eyeing" is a new girl (lets call her CK) with the good girl vibe. And I recently noticed that she has at least a big C/ D cup from side view. Sometimes when our eyes met, she will give that impish grin or smile. Been thinking of asking her out alone for lunch, but being that I'm newly remarried, I doing my best to push that urge away.

[getyourtip]

There's no right or wrong, only for themselves to decide. In case your friend has made some promises or has led her to think there's a future for them.
Meals and hotels are not part of the deal lah. Even if he has been showering her with gifts. All these are not the same like paying a fee that both agree as a commercial transaction.
That's the dilemma when the man wants GFE yet no string. Where got so good deal?

Agree with you.

[albertas]

Sharing my experience...

Was kinda in a hanky panky relationship with a colleague during my low-time while dealing with my divorce. Maybe was weak mentally then and got involved with the colleague (let's just name her SW). We would have sex and she would also gladly swallow me when she had her period. However I can feel alot of colleagues eyes on us and I things had to stop when she told me she is considering divorcing her husband to be with me. She had also been unhappy with her married life. With my current mess, I definitely don't need another added mess. So I told her we need to stop and she need to to counselling for sake of her children.
We did have a one-off where she came to my house to drink and she blew me. Sometimes when she walked past my desk I can still see her stealing peeps at me. I'm sure if I'm gonna grab her, she will not hesitate to blow me anytime.

Another colleague that I'm currently "eyeing" is a new girl (lets call her CK) with the good girl vibe. And I recently noticed that she has at least a big C/ D cup from side view. Sometimes when our eyes met, she will give that impish grin or smile. Been thinking of asking her out alone for lunch, but being that I'm newly remarried, I doing my best to push that urge away.

Thanks for sharing.

[atom_nova]

Sharing my experience...

Was kinda in a hanky panky relationship with a colleague during my low-time while dealing with my divorce. Maybe was weak mentally then and got involved with the colleague (let's just name her SW). We would have sex and she would also gladly swallow me when she had her period. However I can feel alot of colleagues eyes on us and I things had to stop when she told me she is considering divorcing her husband to be with me. She had also been unhappy with her married life. With my current mess, I definitely don't need another added mess. So I told her we need to stop and she need to to counselling for sake of her children.
We did have a one-off where she came to my house to drink and she blew me. Sometimes when she walked past my desk I can still see her stealing peeps at me. I'm sure if I'm gonna grab her, she will not hesitate to blow me anytime.

Another colleague that I'm currently "eyeing" is a new girl (lets call her CK) with the good girl vibe. And I recently noticed that she has at least a big C/ D cup from side view. Sometimes when our eyes met, she will give that impish grin or smile. Been thinking of asking her out alone for lunch, but being that I'm newly remarried, I doing my best to push that urge away.


Mai la bro, you just re-married, take it as a clean slate with your new milestone. Don't go back to having affair, bo hua one. Mentally very shag one, don't do that to yourself bro.

[Xgenre]

And the small 3 keeps threatening to expose him.

U guys got any solutions to this?

Which country is the small 3 from? I suppose your friend and his family are Singaporeans?

Years ago, a friend's mum had the same issue. Small 3 (from Malaysia) very clingy and refuses to leave her husband. Ended up she got a PI to follow her. She has a partime job and the PI took some photos and sent her details to MOM. Work permit got cancelled and the husband has no idea till today his wife is responsible for that

[Rickey]

Sharing my experience...

Was kinda in a hanky panky relationship with a colleague during my low-time while dealing with my divorce. Maybe was weak mentally then and got involved with the colleague (let's just name her SW). We would have sex and she would also gladly swallow me when she had her period. However I can feel alot of colleagues eyes on us and I things had to stop when she told me she is considering divorcing her husband to be with me. She had also been unhappy with her married life. With my current mess, I definitely don't need another added mess. So I told her we need to stop and she need to to counselling for sake of her children.
We did have a one-off where she came to my house to drink and she blew me. Sometimes when she walked past my desk I can still see her stealing peeps at me. I'm sure if I'm gonna grab her, she will not hesitate to blow me anytime.

Another colleague that I'm currently "eyeing" is a new girl (lets call her CK) with the good girl vibe. And I recently noticed that she has at least a big C/ D cup from side view. Sometimes when our eyes met, she will give that impish grin or smile. Been thinking of asking her out alone for lunch, but being that I'm newly remarried, I doing my best to push that urge away.
Thank u bro for sharing but yr story very confusing leh...when n who did u remarry ??...it's not SW right ??...don't be too greedy bro...a bird in the hand is worth 2 in the bush...u might end up with no one in the end

[TBonez]

Thank u bro for sharing but yr story very confusing leh...when n who did u remarry ??...it's not SW right ??...don't be too greedy bro...a bird in the hand is worth 2 in the bush...u might end up with no one in the end

No I did not marry SW. What I meant was I got married again (but to someone else).

Yes I do agree it's not worth the trouble... that's why I'm trying my best to push away the urge etc.

[TBonez]

Mai la bro, you just re-married, take it as a clean slate with your new milestone. Don't go back to having affair, bo hua one. Mentally very shag one, don't do that to yourself bro.

Agreed. Thanks bro

[Hunkydunky]

Which country is the small 3 from? I suppose your friend and his family are Singaporeans?

Years ago, a friend's mum had the same issue. Small 3 (from Malaysia) very clingy and refuses to leave her husband. Ended up she got a PI to follow her. She has a partime job and the PI took some photos and sent her details to MOM. Work permit got cancelled and the husband has no idea till today his wife is responsible for that
that small 3 also Singaporean leh. Very clingy

[ghostcow]

Wow bonk colleague sure feel shiok

[Xgenre]

that small 3 also Singaporean leh. Very clingy

this is messy. Is the 3rd party a single lady in her 30s? Sometimes when youth is running out, such ladies see the guy as their last chance to getting married. Causing his current marriage to fail is the only way he will marry the 3rd party. So the 3rd party as no incentive to keep things under wrap. Better to maximise the issue because Singaporean ladies have pride and will leave the marriage to raise the children on her own.

Right now your friend should remind her she is still young enough to meet better eligible men so that she doesn't go crazy on him. Married men should avoid single ladies/divorcees/widows for 3rd party fun.

[sbwow]

this is messy. Is the 3rd party a single lady in her 30s? Sometimes when youth is running out, such ladies see the guy as their last chance to getting married. Causing his current marriage to fail is the only way he will marry the 3rd party. So the 3rd party as no incentive to keep things under wrap. Better to maximise the issue because Singaporean ladies have pride and will leave the marriage to raise the children on her own.

Right now your friend should remind her she is still young enough to meet better eligible men so that she doesn't go crazy on him. Married men should avoid single ladies/divorcees/widows for 3rd party fun.

Nah, he has got that psycho girl chasing after him. HAHAHA.
He is getting Haunted and Taunted. HAHAHA.
Even the male version of aunt agony can't save him. HAHAHA.

[Hunkydunky]

this is messy. Is the 3rd party a single lady in her 30s? Sometimes when youth is running out, such ladies see the guy as their last chance to getting married. Causing his current marriage to fail is the only way he will marry the 3rd party. So the 3rd party as no incentive to keep things under wrap. Better to maximise the issue because Singaporean ladies have pride and will leave the marriage to raise the children on her own.

Right now your friend should remind her she is still young enough to meet better eligible men so that she doesn't go crazy on him. Married men should avoid single ladies/divorcees/widows for 3rd party fun.

Dunno how old.. but heard she got a kid going army soon.

So married men should find what type of ladies for 3rd party fun? I think it depends on whether the lady wanna have fun with you without strings attached... be it married, single or divorced.

[Xgenre]

Dunno how old.. but heard she got a kid going army soon.

So married men should find what type of ladies for 3rd party fun?

Wah, this type of lady is dangerous. Empty nest syndrome plus mid life crisis. Good luck to your friend.

As for what type of ladies suitable for married men... I think it depends on if you are rich or poor. If you have money, easy to find women but hard to shake them off. Penis easy to find pussy to insert into but the pussy filled with superglue which makes it hard to escape. Penis can take out but must chop off penis in the process.:D (you can leave her but she will do the utmost damage in the process)

These guys should consider the ladies here on work permit. You have what they are looking for (money). They have what you are looking for (youth, beauty and short term stay in Singapore). The PRCs call such arrangements 搭伙. Malaysian girls also can. Even though my arrangements had ended, I still meet up over meals to catch up like normal friends (Malaysian girls)

If no money but have looks, good bed skills or sweet mouth, can look for married women with rich husbands. I had a friend with a rich husband but hubby is fat with diabetes. On the surface, loving couple but she says sex life same as widow. She needs outside fun but will never leave her hubby because he is rich and needs a trophy wife. He buys her nice cars and bags.

So the most suitable ladies are those you can meet on a win-win basis.

[junior_cannibal]

While we think most women are fickle minded, so are we men.
While we want to find women with loads of GFE, looks, boobs and tight pussies, no string attached, in real life, got such good deal meh?
Some said find those who just want money, on work permit, with rich husbands... These confirmed better deals? If they want money, how much can you give and how much time you spend with them to want them on exclusive basis?
Why take all these trouble, spend so much time to find when they are not a big difference from the WL in GL that's straight forward? Fixed price, standard SOP, no hidden costs.
If like fishing, then go deep sea or ponds lah, why try to find in daily life when there are so much risk involved? All we need can even be completed by PCC, why take all these trouble to let the small head decides?

[sbwow]

While we think most women are fickle minded, so are we men.
While we want to find women with loads of GFE, looks, boobs and tight pussies, no string attached, in real life, got such good deal meh?
Some said find those who just want money, on work permit, with rich husbands... These confirmed better deals? If they want money, how much can you give and how much time you spend with them to want them on exclusive basis?
Why take all these trouble, spend so much time to find when they are not a big difference from the WL in GL that's straight forward? Fixed price, standard SOP, no hidden costs.
If like fishing, then go deep sea or ponds lah, why try to find in daily life when there are so much risk involved? All we need can even be completed by PCC, why take all these trouble to let the small head decides?

There is fun in scoring other people's wives and gf. HAHAHA.
Do try it bro. Missing out on all the fun. HAHAHA.
Instead of sulking over here. Go Fuck and Fuck and Fuck. HAHAHA.
After you are done fucking, you can exclaimed loudly - I Scored a Fucked with XXX. HAHAHA.

[junior_cannibal]

There is fun in scoring other people's wives and gf. HAHAHA.
Do try it bro. Missing out on all the fun. HAHAHA.
Instead of sulking over here. Go Fuck and Fuck and Fuck. HAHAHA.
After you are done fucking, you can exclaimed loudly - I Scored a Fucked with XXX. HAHAHA.

Sulking? Why should I?
Why deliberately look for someone who's attached or married? If it happens so be it, versus looking for one to begin.
Good luck to you when you are attached or married.

[tokyocap]

There is fun in scoring other people's wives and gf. HAHAHA.
Do try it bro. Missing out on all the fun. HAHAHA.
Instead of sulking over here. Go Fuck and Fuck and Fuck. HAHAHA.
After you are done fucking, you can exclaimed loudly - I Scored a Fucked with XXX. HAHAHA.

Thanks for sharing.

[shanxi]

Sulking? Why should I?
Why deliberately look for someone who's attached or married? If it happens so be it, versus looking for one to begin.
Good luck to you when you are attached or married.

Agree with you.

[sbwow]

Sulking? Why should I?
Why deliberately look for someone who's attached or married? If it happens so be it, versus looking for one to begin.
Good luck to you when you are attached or married.

There is only one junior_cannibal, there is not another junior_cannibal.
I just love screwing together with junior_cannibal.
The same logics applies, but that unique lady is married in this case. HAHAHA.