ED?

[johntron2000]

Hi bros, understand there’s another dome for sexual health topics, but figured since this dome is more active and that I’ve seen similar threads here before, I could ask here for your advice.

Recently had some issues with staying erect during intercourse. First time I noticed this was about end May, when I had a hookup but cannot stay hard after putting on the condom. After around mid June, another hookup, then one raw but can stay hard. Just today, when I put on condom, instantly soft. Any advice? Could it be me thinking too much/nervous because I was a bit worried before meeting my sexual partner if I can stay hard or not (from the first experience in end may)

Edit: can still get hard normally during masturbation

[FreebiezWanker]

Kuku bird spoil. Go cut away n be pondan.

[dman19]

Hi bros, understand there’s another dome for sexual health topics, but figured since this dome is more active and that I’ve seen similar threads here before, I could ask here for your advice.

Recently had some issues with staying erect during intercourse. First time I noticed this was about end May, when I had a hookup but cannot stay hard after putting on the condom. After around mid June, another hookup, then one raw but can stay hard. Just today, when I put on condom, instantly soft. Any advice? Could it be me thinking too much/nervous because I was a bit worried before meeting my sexual partner if I can stay hard or not (from the first experience in end may)

Edit: can still get hard normally during masturbation

watch less porn. Try using a thinner condom for a start. You can get those super thin ones and tell the lady that you got your own condom.

[Newbieshag]

Yes bro, stop masturbating, stop porn, exercise esp HITT, hydrate yourself before sex, juagen, take supplements like Tongkat Ali … hope these works for you as it did for me.

[StealthBomber]

Hi bros, understand there’s another dome for sexual health topics, but figured since this dome is more active and that I’ve seen similar threads here before, I could ask here for your advice.

Recently had some issues with staying erect during intercourse. First time I noticed this was about end May, when I had a hookup but cannot stay hard after putting on the condom. After around mid June, another hookup, then one raw but can stay hard. Just today, when I put on condom, instantly soft. Any advice? Could it be me thinking too much/nervous because I was a bit worried before meeting my sexual partner if I can stay hard or not (from the first experience in end may)

Edit: can still get hard normally during masturbation

What you mentioned are all common signs of early onset of ED which occurs with age. How old are you? For some people, it starts as early as in late 30s, and some only see it happening in their 40s and beyond.

Your worry about being able to stay hard is going to be a self-fulfilling prophecy - the stress is going to keep you soft :D

As another poster suggested, go and get some ED med but since your first time try, don't use entire pill, go with quarter or half and you need not worry about being ready for action.

[edmundhello]

Use Viagra and thin condoms. :)

[TheSpyingPerv]

i fucked a virgin once and cured my ED

[SirLance]

TS just need to find a gal to his likings.

[momotea]

watch less porn. Try using a thinner condom for a start. You can get those super thin ones and tell the lady that you got your own condom.

Total agree , Porn only make us more exciting and cant hold on anymore .

[LamoonStyler]

Hi bros, understand there’s another dome for sexual health topics, but figured since this dome is more active and that I’ve seen similar threads here before, I could ask here for your advice.

Recently had some issues with staying erect during intercourse. First time I noticed this was about end May, when I had a hookup but cannot stay hard after putting on the condom. After around mid June, another hookup, then one raw but can stay hard. Just today, when I put on condom, instantly soft. Any advice? Could it be me thinking too much/nervous because I was a bit worried before meeting my sexual partner if I can stay hard or not (from the first experience in end may)

Edit: can still get hard normally during masturbation

Possible causes: you watch too much porn and you got death grip syndrome. So your little brother used to the raw feeling. When use condom no sensation not aroused.

so stop porn, masturbate less increase sex with condom. and take time get used to it.

[Laker]

Read a poem to it. I prefer Li Bai's in front of bed moon shine bright bright.

Works everytime.

[AndyWoodworth]

TS just need to find a gal to his likings.

True but hard to find such a gem.:rolleyes:

[SirLance]

True but hard to find such a gem.:rolleyes:

The best gal to fark maynot be your spouse.

[sammyboyfor]

People here are looking for sex. Not looking to hear your moanings about your lancheow problems. U cannot get it up, the go for trans surgery and become a cheebye lah. Don't come here and bore us with your shit.

That is extremely rude I have zapped you to show my displeasure at your total lack of respect for the problems of others.:cool:

[sammyboyfor]

By the way, this part of the forum on the main page says its a ZAP FREE zone. U don't fucking even know your own rules. hahhahhahha

You forget that the rules don't apply to the rulers. :D

[sammyboyfor]

Why don't you zap yourself for not understanding the real purpose of this forum. I am going to remind you of that again. Its a forum for bros to come here and get leads on sex, get reviews of hookers, etc. That is why it's called Adult Discussion about Sex. Its NOT a forum for health problems like this clown's ED shit. He is better of going to a health forum and asking his question there or to a medical forum. Any advice he gets here from a bunch of horny bros looking for cheap or free sex is suspect at best. NOw which part of all this are u confused about?

ED is a big part of sex for the old farts so it's fine in this section.

[fangy]

There is policeman roaming the forums after all…

[fillerup]

That is extremely rude I have zapped you to show my displeasure at your total lack of respect for the problems of others.:cool:

Can you ban that angmolover? He contributes nothing except going around scolding people.

[fillerup]

Actually I also have the same problem. Don't know what to do. Is there any food to eat or exercise to do to improve libido and stay hard?

[sammyboyfor]

Can you ban that angmolover? He contributes nothing except going around scolding people.

Just add him to your ignore list.

[nanahoriuchi]

Hi bros, understand there’s another dome for sexual health topics, but figured since this dome is more active and that I’ve seen similar threads here before, I could ask here for your advice.

Recently had some issues with staying erect during intercourse. First time I noticed this was about end May, when I had a hookup but cannot stay hard after putting on the condom. After around mid June, another hookup, then one raw but can stay hard. Just today, when I put on condom, instantly soft. Any advice? Could it be me thinking too much/nervous because I was a bit worried before meeting my sexual partner if I can stay hard or not (from the first experience in end may)

Edit: can still get hard normally during masturbation

Facing the same problem too, turning 40 this year. Started happening in my mid thirties. When showering and bj, little bro is hard but when penetration begans, it turns jelly really wtf. No choice remove condom, hardens again only for a little while, luckily managed to cum in a semi hard state. Fyi i gym regularly and have cut down on porn and masturbation.

[fillerup]

Of course everyone know u have ED problem. Limp Lancheow like you couldn't fuck a spider. Why don't you just cut of your useless dick and get a sex change. Maybe some bros here will give you a good review one day, you cunt.

Were you dropped on the head as a baby? Or maybe your name is kurt tay?

[sammyboyfor]

This comment is so stupid, it confirms your single digit IQ. If u allow every fucktard to come here and discuss their health problems, then it will not be Sex Discussion forum anymore. Which part of this are you confused with? This is not a forum of MDs and Specialists. Its a forum of horny buggers looking for cheap and quick fucks. To allow this forum to give out health and medical advice is tantamount to sheer irresponsibility. It's better to ask these fucktards to actually go to a medical forum.

So the guy with testicular cancer should come and ask stupid questions about it? Why? Because Balls are involved in sex?

SO the guy with prostate cancer should also come here because why? He likes to get poke in the arsehole now and then, so it should be part of sex?

There is no end to it.

Who made you the chief of the forum police? :D:rolleyes:

[sammyboyfor]

YOU DID! By not doing your job, I had to step in. Which part of this are u confused about? Do your job. Keep this forum for sex and not for people asking for handphone recommendations, people asking medical problems, people selling vape products, etc.

Well consider yourself fired. Now shoo...

[sofirecloud]

Hi bros, understand there’s another dome for sexual health topics, but figured since this dome is more active and that I’ve seen similar threads here before, I could ask here for your advice.

Recently had some issues with staying erect during intercourse. First time I noticed this was about end May, when I had a hookup but cannot stay hard after putting on the condom. After around mid June, another hookup, then one raw but can stay hard. Just today, when I put on condom, instantly soft. Any advice? Could it be me thinking too much/nervous because I was a bit worried before meeting my sexual partner if I can stay hard or not (from the first experience in end may)

Edit: can still get hard normally during masturbation

If you can get hard through masturbation, then highly likely your problem is in the mind or too much porn. I once visited a specialise doctor through some polyclinic referral and i address my issue of being able to get hard through masturbation but semi-hard unable to penetrate for sex or go limp during the act even if i managed to enter. He immediately dismisses my concern without explaining much and ask me to exercise, stop watching porn, masturbation and alcohol then abruptly ended the consultation making it seems like some nonsense without further check/follow up (waited for like 2 weeks for the appointment but consultation only lasted 2-3min haha). I've followed the advice for a month but still similar issue, it takes too much dedication to commit. In the end, i found the blue pill and my sex life have changed ever since. Probably the cheapest and easiest solution with minimal side effect for those who are troubled. I just take half a pill before sex and it works wonder. (Rubber Cock ring works too, but it's quite uncomfortable for me)

Just some background. I am in my 30s now, rarely get morning woods as i watch porn and masturbate almost everyday/alternate day for almost 10years. Recent years i also picked up on whisky, and i sip on it almost everyday but just a little though. I like to edge, so each solo session last quite long and i feel my penis is desensitized from the death grip already. So now it takes quite a bit of patience from ladies for me to reach ejaculation. Sometimes if my physical cannot keep up the sex, i'll have to remove and use hand to finish it myself instead.

[fillerup]

Were you fucked in the arsehole as a boy, and you liked it. Is that how u became the raging cunt u are?

I think I can confirm your name is kurt tay the shit eater lah. When you go changi squat, your viet cong wife will be having fun with lots of people here.

[gantry]

Total agree , Porn only make us more exciting and cant hold on anymore .

correct porn cannot good if see to much

[dman19]

Actually I also have the same problem. Don't know what to do. Is there any food to eat or exercise to do to improve libido and stay hard?

A lot of bros mentioned about the blue pill but you need to first make sure that your heart can take it so you don’t really end up YOLO hence it’s important to go for regular health checks. As a start its always the same, cut your weight thru exercise and diet (less fried oily sweet stuff) if you are obese, and do your best to abstain from porn and masturbation. I had these problems years ago and I sought professional advice from doctors but my problem is more psychological than anything.

[ChomaChoma]

Read a poem to it. I prefer Li Bai's in front of bed moon shine bright bright.

Works everytime.

May even improve his performance hahahaha because when he read he avoid porn and use imagination LOL

[Laker]

Agree with the bros here.
Best is to avoid porn and masturbation.
Means:
1. Unfollow all sexy influencers.
2. Indentify all triggers leading to porn and remove them.
3. Keep yourself busy with exercise, engage a personal trainer to correct your form and posture if you saved $ visiting MPs. Focus on exercises to increase your stamina, flexibility and thrusting technique.
4. Cut off all alcohol. Increase fibre and less oily/friedsweet/caffeinated food.

[Laker]

May even improve his performance hahahaha because when he read he avoid porn and use imagination LOL

That's right. Highest level is to use the mind to think until orgasm.

[marcussia]

Recently I went to a ML for a quick fix (FB not free), and realize I was having issue staying hard.

When I am with my FB, no issue, though last time can stand 2 shot, now only 1 (but I do it raw).

But with ML totally cannot stand. :(

Not sure if it's the start of ED?

[fillerup]

U have no idea who I am but u can confirm I am Kurt Tay? hahahhahhah. I can confirm you are a moron

Not hard to tell who the moron here is. :rolleyes:

[Rolled]

If you can get hard through masturbation, then highly likely your problem is in the mind or too much porn. I once visited a specialise doctor through some polyclinic referral and i address my issue of being able to get hard through masturbation but semi-hard unable to penetrate for sex or go limp during the act even if i managed to enter. He immediately dismisses my concern without explaining much and ask me to exercise, stop watching porn, masturbation and alcohol then abruptly ended the consultation making it seems like some nonsense without further check/follow up (waited for like 2 weeks for the appointment but consultation only lasted 2-3min haha). I've followed the advice for a month but still similar issue, it takes too much dedication to commit. In the end, i found the blue pill and my sex life have changed ever since. Probably the cheapest and easiest solution with minimal side effect for those who are troubled. I just take half a pill before sex and it works wonder. (Rubber Cock ring works too, but it's quite uncomfortable for me)

Just some background. I am in my 30s now, rarely get morning woods as i watch porn and masturbate almost everyday/alternate day for almost 10years. Recent years i also picked up on whisky, and i sip on it almost everyday but just a little though. I like to edge, so each solo session last quite long and i feel my penis is desensitized from the death grip already. So now it takes quite a bit of patience from ladies for me to reach ejaculation. Sometimes if my physical cannot keep up the sex, i'll have to remove and use hand to finish it myself instead.

I have the same problem as well. Previously was on tongkat ali, not sure if the effect was good cus just started not long with fb. Finished the supplements and also didnt really carry on taking. Recently started to go limp halfway through sex again

[hornyxiaoboy2]

Hi bros, understand there’s another dome for sexual health topics, but figured since this dome is more active and that I’ve seen similar threads here before, I could ask here for your advice.

Recently had some issues with staying erect during intercourse. First time I noticed this was about end May, when I had a hookup but cannot stay hard after putting on the condom. After around mid June, another hookup, then one raw but can stay hard. Just today, when I put on condom, instantly soft. Any advice? Could it be me thinking too much/nervous because I was a bit worried before meeting my sexual partner if I can stay hard or not (from the first experience in end may)

Edit: can still get hard normally during masturbation

Bro go get Juagen treatment and at least 2 times a month. I got many lobangs for that, legendary Soda, milfy Baobao,Keke &Mia, pretty one Una and granny type Coco. Try not to release after the JG, your tool will recover quickly. If not can cut away le

[dman19]

Recently I went to a ML for a quick fix (FB not free), and realize I was having issue staying hard.

When I am with my FB, no issue, though last time can stand 2 shot, now only 1 (but I do it raw).

But with ML totally cannot stand. :(

Not sure if it's the start of ED?

Don't worry, I think its psychological. So long as you can do it, not consider ED yet even though you may not last as long or cum as many times. Just like you I have a FB and we are used to each other's needs. So she knows how to make me high and vice versa and never have any issues. So it can also be a case that you are too used to and sextisfied by 1 partner who is your FB and somemore can do raw. And sometimes outside, the commercial girls cannot give this kind of feeling and gfe to you, that's why your little bro also cannot turn on.

[marcussia]

What worries me the most is that it is the start of something and I want to see if I can prevent it.

Especially when age is catching up, in my 40s. :(

[kissme]

Recently I went to a ML for a quick fix (FB not free), and realize I was having issue staying hard.

When I am with my FB, no issue, though last time can stand 2 shot, now only 1 (but I do it raw).

But with ML totally cannot stand. :(

Not sure if it's the start of ED?

I had the same issue,with ML works but with GF got issue. It got to a level there so much issues cause I cannot get hard with GF.

What I did was,:
Stop porn
Stop following all the sexy influencers
Start taking maca root and testopherone pill
Half a blue pill when doing it
Do keigels, and started running
I don't take oily food in the lead up and try to keep my mind positive. Most times thinking it will fails causes me to fail.

I wish U the best hope anyone suffering from ED gets better

[ginko]

I had the same issue,with ML works but with GF got issue. It got to a level there so much issues cause I cannot get hard with GF.

What I did was,:
Stop porn
Stop following all the sexy influencers
Start taking maca root and testopherone pill
Half a blue pill when doing it
Do keigels, and started running
I don't take oily food in the lead up and try to keep my mind positive. Most times thinking it will fails causes me to fail.

I wish U the best hope anyone suffering from ED gets better

Where to get the testosterone pill?

[kissme]

Where to get the testosterone pill?

Got it from shoppe From 21st century testopherone

[kryptoz]

What worries me the most is that it is the start of something and I want to see if I can prevent it.

Especially when age is catching up, in my 40s. :(

do you exercise often?
I am in my 40s too. During Covid, I was drinking quite heavily and did not exercise much, it affected my ability to maintain my erection.
Fast forward to today, I do one hour of cardio(running/cycling) for at least 3 times a week, I get stiffer erections and sometimes even wake up with morning wood.

When i was having trouble maintaining the hardness, I took Cialis. It helped with boosting confidence. Now I hardly need it, but still do take it from time to time when I want to have a more steamy night.

[marcussia]

do you exercise often?
I am in my 40s too. During Covid, I was drinking quite heavily and did not exercise much, it affected my ability to maintain my erection.
Fast forward to today, I do one hour of cardio(running/cycling) for at least 3 times a week, I get stiffer erections and sometimes even wake up with morning wood.

When i was having trouble maintaining the hardness, I took Cialis. It helped with boosting confidence. Now I hardly need it, but still do take it from time to time when I want to have a more steamy night.

I don't drink and exercise 1-2 times a week, 30 minutes of cardio (running) with 30 minutes of strength training (biceps curls, Arnold press). BMI wise is still considered overweight with belly fat, and it is hard to lose it since passing 40.

Tested again, and went for another ML again, but this time it was in a parlour, more calming. I was able to stand for awhile, but after 5mins it went soft again. Luckily the ML was very nice and kept on till I released it.

I tried it on my FB and it worked normally but needs more stimulation (foreplay) before it can stand properly. With the wife is almost the same as the ML, totally went soft after a while. :(

I don't want to take any meds, but will maybe try some TCM. Hopefully, it will help to regulate my body.

[YapMingJin]

I used to have this when I was in my 30s...

I get hard when masturbating thru porn but had problem when try to do my ex-gf. It was embarrassing.

Then I read that was the problem of the mind...

So I experiment with doing with hookers, at first I also couldnt get it hard and even if I do, its not for long... Then I slowly realized that I was treating having penetrating sex as some sort of mission, thus adding stress to myself...

Then I learn to tell myself to just relax and just enjoy the process. Enjoy the the BJ and dont be shy to moan when having a good bj.

When I get a hard on after a BJ, I would request the hooker to immediate ride me... Once I am in the zone, I can change position.

Also learn how your body get arouse. For me being sucked on my nipples get me arouse and hard on even before bj. Having passionate french also helps.

Of cos, having a hooker with good skill is also important.

I also take supplement like Tengkok Ali and L-Arginine in the morning works.

Now in my early 40s, I sometime cant get a hard on with my regular hooker and I realize I was just feeling tired. These days I just visit a hooker only when I feel I am horny enough AND I am well rested. There are days I can extend my session and have 2 pops if my condition is good.

Bottomline is, dont treat sex like a mission and just enjoy the process.
When you feel a good hooker or a partner, stick with her...

[SirLance]

I had the same issue,with ML works but with GF got issue. It got to a level there so much issues cause I cannot get hard with GF.

What I did was,:
Stop porn
Stop following all the sexy influencers
Start taking maca root and testopherone pill
Half a blue pill when doing it
Do keigels, and started running
I don't take oily food in the lead up and try to keep my mind positive. Most times thinking it will fails causes me to fail.

I wish U the best hope anyone suffering from ED gets better

Thanks for sharing.

[ssspikeee]

Don't worry, I think its psychological. So long as you can do it, not consider ED yet even though you may not last as long or cum as many times. Just like you I have a FB and we are used to each other's needs. So she knows how to make me high and vice versa and never have any issues. So it can also be a case that you are too used to and sextisfied by 1 partner who is your FB and somemore can do raw. And sometimes outside, the commercial girls cannot give this kind of feeling and gfe to you, that's why your little bro also cannot turn on.

You’re right. It’s that mental block. Sometimes I find it harder to cure that than the actual ED. If it’s a scientific and physical hurdle, at least with medicine like Cialis or Viagra there’s still help there to aid you in overcoming it, but for physiological ones it’s damn tough.

Wonder if there’s any way out of that mental block? Hipnosis?

[ment0s69]

bro mind sharing soda contact. thank u

[dman19]

You’re right. It’s that mental block. Sometimes I find it harder to cure that than the actual ED. If it’s a scientific and physical hurdle, at least with medicine like Cialis or Viagra there’s still help there to aid you in overcoming it, but for physiological ones it’s damn tough.

Wonder if there’s any way out of that mental block? Hipnosis?

You right. It is hardest obstacle. You really have to find the right fish in the ocean that can bring the best of you.

[gififi]

excerise more to increase blood flow

[nemoman]

I don't have the discipline to do all these exercises, and don't take meds too. Same problem with many bros here, can't stand when doing it with gf since its been many years with her. So I took out all the nude pictures and videos of all the ex gfs and married fwbs i took since forever to look at for edging and storing up sperm in the balls. Come action time, can usually stand and sustain till I cum.

[barnone]

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[Allenc3]

You’re right. It’s that mental block. Sometimes I find it harder to cure that than the actual ED. If it’s a scientific and physical hurdle, at least with medicine like Cialis or Viagra there’s still help there to aid you in overcoming it, but for physiological ones it’s damn tough.

Wonder if there’s any way out of that mental block? Hipnosis?

Take deep breathes, try to clear the mind and enjoy the moment I think. Taking supplements also help in a way to "trick" your mind to thinking you are well equipped, this time the ED won't happen. Even if the supplements don't actually help lol.