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chrissandra
23-10-2008, 07:46 PM
hi i was intro to this web by some of the guys i chat with.

ffalcon1307
24-10-2008, 10:33 AM
hmmm, are you married;)

CityHunter789
24-10-2008, 01:15 PM
And? what??

myst
24-10-2008, 01:17 PM
not to break your heart or anything, guys don't just like married women.

just dropping a line to correct your misperception. fyi.

BaoZhuPo
24-10-2008, 01:26 PM
hi i was intro to this web by some of the guys i chat with.

because they are as simple as you...only a line...:rolleyes: :D

et911
24-10-2008, 01:27 PM
It is more like ladies like married man. :D

sex4LiFe
24-10-2008, 01:30 PM
Actually it a question of personal preference.

Some guys immediately back off when they find out e woman is married for fear of retribution; repercussions etc.

Some guys see it as a challenge and get a big thrill if they can get their hands on a married woman.

Some, like me, don't really give a shit whether that woman is married or not. Yes, sometimes I do think I'm unethical.

So married or not, to some they'll ask "WHY". To others, they think "WHY NOT?"

:o

DTCEPL
24-10-2008, 03:03 PM
hi i was intro to this web by some of the guys i chat with.

Well, some guys may like married woman.....(I mean the sex thingy)....maybe because they find such ladies more mature and experience.....and both will enjoy the process of having sex.....some find it excited of doing somebody's wife.

Well each have their own values.....not for us to judge. To enjoy the time together and the making love process, just don't judge each other why they are doing it.

Frankiestine
24-10-2008, 03:06 PM
i like having affair with a married woman simply for the fact that she is not as sticky as a single woman and they know the rules of the game that is no emotional entanglement....but that is not to say i will go out of my way to seduce one...only if they are game for it...got to take two hands to clap...

K.N.N
24-10-2008, 05:32 PM
be prepared to get find out by the husband
be prepared to get stab in the ass, it will make you think of how exicting when u Shit.
Its call a shit for a shit.

jus a moment of lust,
u are making the couple live in the shadow of your lust.
the husband can never forget even if he can forgive.
he will bring up the matter everytime there's any disagreement.

pay & avoid so many problem, after all, its only for the shooting feeling.

do it & prepared for the consequence.
its only a matter of time.
when the hubby is free or drunk,
someone will simply lie down.(cys)

peterpan_24
24-10-2008, 05:39 PM
haha fr me becos i read too much of the legendary peter pan(nt me) n his wife's adventure :D:D in this forum thus started developing fanasties on married women but too bad he went MIA in his thread.... haha bu

Fowler09
24-10-2008, 06:00 PM
well since the threadstarter(t.s) ask tis qn then u must be a married women urself
must be a lot of guys hitting on u ya

ReCaRo79
24-10-2008, 07:16 PM
It's a matter of individual preferences. No right or wrong.

It's just like why some young guys go for milfs instead of syt while those matured men go for syt instead of those ladies around their age.

My 2 cents worth.

High till Dry
24-10-2008, 07:58 PM
Married women generally more sexperienced and lead to better sex :D

Driftmaster
24-10-2008, 08:02 PM
Married women generally more sexperienced and lead to better sex :D

I agreed wif u bro,
& more horny too.....:D

slothtan
24-10-2008, 10:08 PM
it is always a challenge to fuck somebody's wife....but sooner or later somebody going to fuck your wife as well... KARMA...

Vectra
24-10-2008, 10:29 PM
I think it's more of guys like pretty babe be it married, single, or attached.:cool:

qwerty66
24-10-2008, 10:42 PM
Bro. remember all the pei too mama working in the tuina shop?

They are married and we have bong them for so many years sia :D

applepie99
24-10-2008, 11:24 PM
I don't think it matters if the girl is married or single, as long as she is willing to spread open her legs for me. Why TS ask this question leh?

sg_boytoy
25-10-2008, 02:28 AM
hi i was intro to this web by some of the guys i chat with.

If you also like married women, stick around and continue posting.

If you are a married women, stick around and continue posting.

If you are neither a married woman or like married woman, then go back and continue chatting with those guy friends of yours :D

Schmi
25-10-2008, 08:34 AM
Married women as FB will not have strings attached

Vectra
25-10-2008, 10:45 AM
hi i was intro to this web by some of the guys i chat with.

So what is ur intention?:D

pulchritudinous
25-10-2008, 01:00 PM
becos married women are the biggest trophy and she won't ask you to leave your wife

mldue
25-10-2008, 07:26 PM
she won't ask you to leave your wife

if she throws in the towel on her relationship, she might just ask you to do the same.

onlyhuman
25-10-2008, 10:13 PM
i will nv bonked or try to seduce a married woman,even she willingly spreads her legs for mi...call dumb or watever la....:(
but that doesnt imply i dun bonk attached woman..:D

Fowler09
25-10-2008, 10:39 PM
bro when i read the 1st line i tot wat a saint ur bt then when i continued on :p

XboxSG
25-10-2008, 11:11 PM
i will nv bonked or try to seduce a married woman,even she willingly spreads her legs for mi...call dumb or watever la....:(
but that doesnt imply i dun bonk attached woman..:D

Bro, I must salute you for this

gimmeporn
25-10-2008, 11:55 PM
Why? I'm banging someone else's and mine's probably banged too but i dun care. Fidelity is not a national value anyway:cool:

sg_boytoy
26-10-2008, 12:04 AM
Why? I'm banging someone else's and mine's probably banged too but i dun care. Fidelity is not a national value anyway:cool:

What the flying fuck is a national value :confused:

pewpew
26-10-2008, 01:53 AM
Have a gf who got my heart previously whom was married.

Starting as a soul friend until silence was broken when she was sad about her hubby treating her like shit.

Was 10 years older than me thou...

Its not whoever I choose, its just that time n fate brought us together but it ends in a sad way as reasons n excuses given to me saying that she doesn't want to hurt my feeling and no outcome but in the end turns out she found new "Lover".

Was a painful experience thou but i never regret.

chrissandra
28-10-2008, 04:41 PM
Thanks guys for all the inform. i am married myself.

BigBoy2
28-10-2008, 06:40 PM
I think its the same old Chick and Egg think again..... Well from what I noticed.... some women also like married men.... so its the same old story la.......

1. Fatal Attraction
2. Cannot get enough from your other half
3. Take revenge due to your other half not faithful
4. Higher sex drie as compared to your other half.................

this list will go on and on and as long as you could come up with a so call good enough reason to tell yourself that its ok...... then BINGO Guys Like Married Women, and likewise Women Likes Married Men.

Just my little thoughts.

BB2

XR29
28-10-2008, 06:56 PM
I think it's more of guys like pretty babe be it married, single, or attached.:cool:

I also agreed as what Bro Vectra say.....Let say the married woman is not pretty, u will also not up her rite....:D

tomvoyeur
28-10-2008, 11:46 PM
I guess the difference lies herein the psychological difference between stealing n buying an apple....:)

Its nice to beat a man to the punch, even better if he does not know it! ;)

CityHunter789
29-10-2008, 12:16 AM
Aiya, we still human.
Different environment each day, but same rules apply.

We should ask TS what problem did she face?
Ppls aiming her till she stress?
Or Her husband aiming other ppls wife causing her stress?

cbman
29-10-2008, 12:35 AM
maybe it;s just a phase we go thru, the excitment, the rush

Haili
29-10-2008, 04:16 PM
fucked someone wife-wow excited ...especially when u see her husband u will laugh .,
some other think its a kind of revenge, when u fuck your ladyboss.hehe

Bigbluebird
29-10-2008, 04:40 PM
Allow me to share my humble opinion and experience.

Married women, most are usually bored of their hubbies lack of attention and their usual sex routines, nothing exciting nor new to them. This leads to discontentment and guys like us discover that there are married women around us feel that way, what do we do, we hunt like what Tarzan does in his jungle. In the mean time, some of our Mrs are screwing behind our backs, the world is round :)

chrissandra
29-10-2008, 05:54 PM
thanks guys for all the inform.

LauYewTee
29-10-2008, 09:20 PM
at the end of it days.. its opposite pole of a magnet that attracts. how strong the attraction(seduction) greatly depends on the partner i guess.:cool:

tomvoyeur
29-10-2008, 11:04 PM
Allow me to share my humble opinion and experience.

Married women, most are usually bored of their hubbies lack of attention and their usual sex routines, nothing exciting nor new to them. This leads to discontentment and guys like us discover that there are married women around us feel that way, what do we do, we hunt like what Tarzan does in his jungle. In the mean time, some of our Mrs are screwing behind our backs, the world is round :)

Yup - its a free market economy out there....;)

XboxSG
30-10-2008, 05:38 AM
Womens are just like man, they've their needs too

DarthRevan
30-10-2008, 11:24 AM
its a matter of personal preference eg. some like syt, some like students ;)

yang punk
30-10-2008, 11:45 AM
Thanks guys for all the inform. i am married myself.

It's not fair ... u come to ask our opinions, but what about yours?

Since you are married and also chatting with other men (presumably not your husband!) what's your intention? and why? May we also know?

demonorc
30-10-2008, 12:44 PM
Womens are just like man, they've their needs too

I agree with you fully...
Everyone has their own needs... It depends on what the married women needs and if the men they met can give them that need.
Could be emotional support or that caring feel that they are longing. not necessary always is the sexual needs. Of course, there are some married women who just want the uncommited sex, but i feel not that common lah. There are also some who are interested in taking money off you like a fl, but wants a regular one.

Going out with a married woman is like having a gf that gives you less commitment and more concentrated in meeting her needs, like talking to her especially when she feels lonely and in need of company.

Thats my 2 cents worth and experience with married woman.

chrissandra
31-10-2008, 12:11 AM
wat u want to know about me.

yang punk
31-10-2008, 03:05 PM
Your thoughts about this topic...and why some married women get involved with married (or single) men. Why are you chatting with married men etc...

chrissandra
31-10-2008, 05:14 PM
i am just bored so i trying to chat over here.

Lenova
31-10-2008, 11:12 PM
I also agreed as what Bro Vectra say.....Let say the married woman is not pretty, u will also not up her rite....:D

Agree with both seniors ;)

jameslee58
01-11-2008, 08:50 AM
aunty, can feel you are bored, i also think you have problem of your own,
either your husband having affair with married woman ? or you having affair of single man, maybe thinking about it ?

why not you write this out loud, we discuss

Randy08
02-11-2008, 06:13 PM
I'm a single. I think boredom is part of life. Where got every day exciting wan ?

However in a married scenario, it is the partners who contribute to the boredom and lay open the temptation of finding excitement in other people. But honestly, thro sad stories shared by friends, I think it is a big mistake. (I like reading articles on Marriage - ya, even though single - and articles on human relationships.)

Best the man - cos he is the man of the house - be helped to wake up ! Plan dinner dates, outings for his woman. Play golf together or get involved in some interests together with his wifey. Regularly. Hey it's all some hard work. Isn't the wifey supposed to be his best friend ?

Or else she will be, like my married colleague inviting a single guy like me to her apartment to chit chat when hubby is not around. What else does a single guy want in the company of a bored and attractive woman ? You know lah.

Sounds simple ? Yes.
Easy to do ? No. My 2 cents worth

dgsk
02-11-2008, 06:44 PM
Sis Chrissandra

You say you're married, presumably female, and bored. You are also obviously curious enough about the fantasies of extramarital affairs to be here.
Are you currently pursued? Or are you contemplating experiencing it?
When you ask why guys "like" married women, what kind of "like" do you mean? I think that defines everything that is to follow.

Being married doesn't mean you suddenly have SARS or some disease.

I can like you as a person because of your personality, your character, your humor, the way you carry yourself, that you are just great fun to be around, or that you are just so comfortable to talk to. Your marital status is not an issue for these reasons. Right?

What say you?

geckoSG
02-11-2008, 09:50 PM
My thoughts on the topic by Sis Cassandra...

Been experienced with a number of married woman and my view is as follows
why I preferred married woman. Most of them are "deprived" of excitement
in their married life, they felt bored.

As married status, they would know the limits and be contented being happy
together for short duration of time. They dun ask for much more. When too
much comes in, both parties would call quit. Discreet is the most important
word here.

This adds excitement to the bored marriage life tat many have experienced.
Being experienced in sex, they know how to pleased & would not be shy to
be pleased by their FB, etc.

That's why, I still would loved to meet bored married ladies, it may not be
just sex, sometimes just friendship to share the experience.

So, sis if you are keen to know more about me, do drop me a PM.
Could be just online chat friends sharing. ;)

chrissandra
03-11-2008, 11:54 PM
[QUOTE=geckoSG;3198898]My thoughts on the topic by Sis Cassandra...

Been experienced with a number of married woman and my view is as follows
why I preferred married woman. Most of them are "deprived" of excitement
in their married life, they felt bored.

i agreed with this statement. maybe i was deprived

Frankiestine
04-11-2008, 10:43 AM
i agreed with this statement. maybe i was deprived

OMG!!! you just opened Pandora Box....:D:D:D

wat2woopee
04-11-2008, 10:59 AM
[QUOTE=geckoSG;3198898]My thoughts on the topic by Sis Cassandra...

Been experienced with a number of married woman and my view is as follows
why I preferred married woman. Most of them are "deprived" of excitement
in their married life, they felt bored.

i agreed with this statement. maybe i was deprived

HUH? You gal or guy? :confused:

Bangster
04-11-2008, 11:12 AM
She was quoting Gecko's words.

Sis Chriss, think you came to the right place to find a remedy for your "deprivation"

pewpew
04-11-2008, 11:53 AM
i agreed with this statement. maybe i was deprived

Maybe you needs to start finding something to do for yourself like going out enjoy the outside world, even planning a vacation with a friend of yours if possible?

Try giving your buddy a call, tell her or him your situation, get some accompany than try to fill your time with something fun.

Good luck and take good care because no point dwelling on a rotten apple, enjoy your life :cool:

Bangster
04-11-2008, 12:04 PM
she also never mentioned she deprived of what...

if it's sex, wahhh all the brudders here will be more than happy to help solve

if it's money, maybe some brudders here can help solve...

if it's love, hmmmm think no brudders here will want to solve...

haha
just joking lah..

DTCEPL
04-11-2008, 12:05 PM
maybe i was deprived

Well, I guess you have a 'unhappy' marriage, one way of another.

Maybe hanging out with kakis (male or female is alright) for kopi and or a beer, chit chat abit, listen to music, after work, would be nice. But if you are thinking of taking a big step forward, we know what, I advice against the idea because that will hurt your Hubby, yourself or maybe the other party.


Nothing personal, just my views.

chrissandra
04-11-2008, 05:49 PM
i am not working . As for asking my friend they got thier own family to look after, we still do meet up for coffee but very seldom now days.

Bangster
04-11-2008, 05:55 PM
I think you need to get involved with some activities to keep your mind from wandering lah. My honest opinion is that you have too much free time on your hands to think about flaws in your relationship since you are not working. Well, it happens to everybody, eg. the retired people...they have too much time and start to pick on little problems and piss people off at home.

Even though this is a sex forum, there are plenty of kind-hearted people here also. I believe you should just keep posting your troubles here in the open so as to let us help you with it, rather than take a wrong step and end up in a spin that you may not be able to get out of....if you know what i mean.

Look up, cheer up, fate and destiny are actually in your hands. :)

goodfun
04-11-2008, 07:18 PM
not to break your heart or anything, guys don't just like married women.

just dropping a line to correct your misperception. fyi.

strongly agree! i like virgin more :D

dgsk
04-11-2008, 07:48 PM
Since you're not working, where do you meet these guys who show interest in you? The market? The shopping centre? The web?

chrissandra
04-11-2008, 07:53 PM
Bro dgsk i dont get wat u mean

CityHunter789
04-11-2008, 08:41 PM
i am just bored so i trying to chat over here.

Yo Sister,

Seem like you are in SBF more to find "evil" or fulfil some "evil" thoughts.
Maybe you would like to throw out some of your body-figure numbering
for all the bros out there to have a guideline to base on.

Then we can do our further advise according...haha :D

yang punk
04-11-2008, 09:42 PM
Dgsk is presuming that you are already in affair(s) with men...he is asking where you meet these men since you are not working...so can't be colleagues. Perhaps old colleagues, old friends, old flame....

Your short one liner is getting us very confused becos you are not revealing much about yourself. So this discussion is very one sided and getting no where.

Could be more open about where you come from...? Like in extra-marital relationship...hubby overseas and you are bored or neglected...etc etc...

geckoSG
05-11-2008, 09:49 AM
I guess Sis Cassandra, it depends on wat you want.

You have to make the decision, Life is short, just dun regret
things you have done / not done in future.

Sometimes excitement does spice up life a bit, just know
where the limit is. :D

dgsk
05-11-2008, 11:14 AM
Bro dgsk i dont get wat u mean

Dgsk is presuming that you are already in affair(s) with men...he is asking where you meet these men since you are not working...so can't be colleagues. Perhaps old colleagues, old friends, old flame....

Your short one liner is getting us very confused becos you are not revealing much about yourself. So this discussion is very one sided and getting no where.

Could be more open about where you come from...? Like in extra-marital relationship...hubby overseas and you are bored or neglected...etc etc...

What I mean is, why do you think guys like married woman? Are you asking from a 1st party position? Did someone proposition or try to get close to you after knowing that you are married? If so, where and how did you meet him or them?

DTCEPL
05-11-2008, 11:48 AM
i am not working . As for asking my friend they got thier own family to look after, we still do meet up for coffee but very seldom now days.

Well if you really free and got nothing to do, you can always jio me to lah kopi, have a beer or two and maybe tim sum lah....of course must be after work for me lah. I everyday after work also jio people for kopi and loitering around:D

Most of the time, we hang out in a group of 2 to 5, more fun and chit chat TCSS.

geckoSG
05-11-2008, 12:06 PM
Then I more flexible, can meet during office hours... kekeke...

DTCEPL
05-11-2008, 12:18 PM
Then I more flexible, can meet during office hours... kekeke...

You so free huh....wait I go tell your Boss, or are u the Boss......:D

So u always go KTVs during HH.....but be home by 7pm....wifey will say, dear why so early home, then you gave out an evil smile:cool:

geckoSG
05-11-2008, 12:19 PM
Neh, I dun go KTV one. Why waste $ that way... Anyway, won't review too
much of my personal life, etc. Keep guessing. :p

pewpew
05-11-2008, 12:21 PM
U guys all have to report to OC...

I no OC to report.. i sad sad... :(

DTCEPL
05-11-2008, 12:25 PM
U guys all have to report to OC...

I no OC to report.. i sad sad... :(

I also got no OC to report, but must get home early to feed my 6 x Discus and 4 x Hamsters.......:D They will miss me when I go home late.

BigBoy2
05-11-2008, 01:52 PM
Can I join in ? Me can take the morning slot....... I am flexible too and also single. No pets to feed....... So?????

BB2

Bangster
06-11-2008, 02:16 AM
I can accompany her whole day. Weekends also can. Holidays also can.

Cos I am an orphan. Single. Hate pets. Hate TV. Only love to go out with married women. Living on heirloom.

I am the best choice lah. Hehe :D

chrissandra
06-11-2008, 09:57 AM
thanks for the offer.

geckoSG
06-11-2008, 10:28 AM
Sis Cassandra must be busy filtering the names liao... kekeke.

Anyway, enjoy ur stay in SBF sis, this place is not only for
SEX, also for friendship and boredom... ;)

pewpew
06-11-2008, 11:06 AM
Sis Cassandra must be busy filtering the names liao... kekeke.

Anyway, enjoy ur stay in SBF sis, this place is not only for
SEX, also for friendship and boredom... ;)

And also learning how guys deal with girls and watch out for certain tactics guys used :D

Yes, i am single and available too, but i am not rich thou :(

DTCEPL
06-11-2008, 12:04 PM
Sis Cassandra must be busy filtering the names liao... kekeke.

Anyway, enjoy ur stay in SBF sis, this place is not only for
SEX, also for friendship and boredom... ;)

Shes busy filtering all the Tikos from all the Not So Tikos but still a Tiko.....:D

chrissandra
06-11-2008, 03:11 PM
Bro DTCEPL

so u mean u are not so tikos but very tikos.

geckoSG
06-11-2008, 03:15 PM
Any men not craving for sex, I will worry for him.

Anyway, as long as the progress is normal and sex comes in play,
is mutual consent for all parties involved. For me, golden rule.

Just be happy with wat you have done, not regretting it.

For me, I prefer to start as friend for now, cos I can't find myself
bonking without slight feeling... :D

DTCEPL
06-11-2008, 04:02 PM
Bro DTCEPL

so u mean u are not so tikos but very tikos.

Sis, I am no saint, sometimes a Tiko.......but when hanging out with Kakis....I always K K act and pretend gentleman:D

Just kidding, Tiko or not, Lah Kopi or lim jiu doesn't bring out the Tikoness in me.......but if I am drunk.....then hard to say lah.

Frankiestine
06-11-2008, 04:05 PM
well sis chrissandra you got to know how to differentiate the different types of tikos or chikos as i called it...we have to categorized them by age....

Age 16 - 21 : Chickees..
Age 22- 39 : Chickos...
Age 40 onwards : Chickopeks...erhmmmm I fall into this category....

So perhaps our sis could tell us which age range she is aiming for so not to give so much false hope to those that don't qualify...:p:p

DTCEPL
06-11-2008, 04:22 PM
well sis chrissandra you got to know how to differentiate the different types of tikos or chikos as i called it...we have to categorized them by age....

Age 16 - 21 : Chickees..
Age 22- 39 : Chickos...
Age 40 onwards : Chickopeks


Good one, Bro Frankiestine:D

Maybe to improve the categorization alittle:

Age 60 and above: Lautikopeks

pewpew
06-11-2008, 10:25 PM
Age 12-15 = Tiko Kia?

Sigh, no point to up my bro even though they score point!!

*Up 1 kopi to bros instead*

chrissandra
07-11-2008, 01:05 AM
well sis chrissandra you got to know how to differentiate the different types of tikos or chikos as i called it...we have to categorized them by age....

Age 16 - 21 : Chickees..
Age 22- 39 : Chickos...
Age 40 onwards : Chickopeks...erhmmmm I fall into this category....

So perhaps our sis could tell us which age range she is aiming for so not to give so much false hope to those that don't qualify...:p:p


All also no chance . kekekeke

larotomo
07-11-2008, 01:29 AM
All also no chance . kekekeke

Wah...so you like those under 15 izit?? Dun scat kena rotan ah??:D:D

Bangster
07-11-2008, 04:56 AM
aiyoh chabor where will kena rotan one? Your tao nao pai ah?

anyways, the only rotan she will get is MY MEAT ROTAN!

Hhaha

DTCEPL
07-11-2008, 08:21 AM
Wah...so you like those under 15 izit?? Dun scat kena rotan ah??:D:D


Sis like Chickoinfant Age: 0 to 3:D

Frankiestine
07-11-2008, 10:37 AM
All also no chance . kekekeke

:eek:sis you into beastie????.....:eek::eek:

DTCEPL
07-11-2008, 11:16 AM
She is just frustrated with life and feeling depressed, lonely and unhappy with Hubby maybe, nobody to talk to heart to heart.

But then when she enter SBF and see so many 'crocodiles', all so 'helpful' and looking up at her with shiny eyes and teeths while she is trying to drink water in a lake....she is damn afraid to try, or too shy to walk near to the lake. She takes a step backwards but she is thirsty:rolleyes:

The lake is infested with crocodiles, but then, sometimes if you are careful plus lucky, you can still move in and out of a danger area dealing with the situation in a tactical way. You still can drink the water and not get hurt.

Just guessing and no offence!!!

chrissandra
08-11-2008, 12:01 AM
yalor too many buaya around. got to wear crocs shoes.

yang punk
08-11-2008, 12:08 AM
But sis...won't you be more frustrated if no one took an interest in your thread?;)

tomvoyeur
08-11-2008, 12:38 PM
I bet sis loves the attention - as long as the attendees look like Goerge Clooney rather than crocs lol......:)

Cunnosieur
08-11-2008, 01:04 PM
Wham, Bang, Thank You Madam

Torch_Man
08-11-2008, 11:43 PM
:cool:
guess sis chrissandra is enjoyin all d attentions & concern from her thread here......

honestly sis,
1) hw do u feel abt d forum here????
2) y u started tis thread in d 1st place????
3) wat u hope 2 achieve from tis thread????

dun let me guess correct:
d simplest answer is-
u wish 2 "kill" time or look 4 a normal mate who u could confide in

jz sharin.......

chrissandra
09-11-2008, 11:37 PM
Bro Torch_Man maybe u are right. i am here to pastime. how i think about the forum. hmmmmm. some of the guy here are quite nice.

Bangster
09-11-2008, 11:47 PM
Wah Sis Chriss,

I can see you are getting into the "Bro" thing huh....bro here bro there...but you got give brojob before? Hhahah just joking huh no offence...

Maybe 1 day we BROs and SIS all can come out relac 1 corner, minum kopi-see, kenggai kenggai, hor?

Torch_Man
09-11-2008, 11:59 PM
lady sandra,
if u'r an housewife, i would most probably understand ur mindset.....

perhaps u shld hv a child or get urself slightly busy on ur daily routines lest u mite find a dy, veri difficult 2 even pass by.....
do tink of long-term, rather than doin nothing.
everyday is a small step of startin ur dream/ambition/goal

jz sharin.....

i chose not 2 pm u, rather talk normally open
everybody got a choice/decision 2 make everyday......

chrissandra
10-11-2008, 12:31 AM
Torch_Man yes i am a hsewife. something are to personal to talk in open. but by the way i am pasting time over here. i am not seeking attention. i am trying to see how guys feel. and maybe also trying to feel less guilty.

Lucius_Verus
10-11-2008, 05:03 AM
nah... juat chating with guys here... is not guilty...

u are just coming here to make a research rite? finding out what are
guys thinking and metallity nowdays.. so you can understand
ur hubby... to improve the hubby-wife relationship....

....

mega117
10-11-2008, 05:24 AM
Torch_Man yes i am a hsewife. something are to personal to talk in open. but by the way i am pasting time over here. i am not seeking attention. i am trying to see how guys feel. and maybe also trying to feel less guilty.

So early u still not sleeping.
Does your Hubby know u lurking in SBF. So far what your conclusion about guys..

DTCEPL
10-11-2008, 08:20 AM
Torch_Man yes i am a hsewife. something are to personal to talk in open. but by the way i am pasting time over here. i am not seeking attention. i am trying to see how guys feel. and maybe also trying to feel less guilty.


Hope everything goes well from you. Cheers

Highjoys
10-11-2008, 08:33 AM
Torch_Man yes i am a hsewife. something are to personal to talk in open. but by the way i am pasting time over here. i am not seeking attention. i am trying to see how guys feel. and maybe also trying to feel less guilty.

Feel less guilty? :P you wan to know that others also do so and you will feel guilty as u are not the only one doing it?

Well, I chatted with two housewives before and met one for real, discreet and safe fun. It is not uncommon. Once, a married lady sat on my friend's lap after she winked at him in the pub... wow!! We are all envious of him. But that poor lady really needs attention from a man becos her hubby never give her any more attention to make her feel attractive. He is always flying around to work and of cos to fuck other ladies in other countries. :P She even whispered in my friend's ear she got "great needs". If I heard that, my "gun" will be fully "loaded" liao hahaha... well married ladies are experienced in bed and they are keen to seek better satisfaction. Maybe that is why some guys found them attractive compared to inexperienced ones.

geckoSG
10-11-2008, 01:23 PM
chrissandra sis,

no worries, just post watever u are comfy over here. Its a forum, everyone
has their freedom of speech and whom they are comfy to share with.

Keep posting yah and update us on your progression.

Cheers

mokermania
10-11-2008, 06:31 PM
and maybe also trying to feel less guilty.

Hi Sis Chrissandra,

welcome to SBF:)
y feel less guilty?:)

chrissandra
10-11-2008, 07:22 PM
Well, seem like most of the guys here have at least had an encounter once. i did got into it with some of the guys i know in the chat room b4. that was like afew years ago. i did have my fair share of fun. but during that phase dont seem to feel guilty. maybe because lagging of attention from hubby or too bored as hubby travel very often and not use to it. and those guy showing me all the attention which i was seeking.

DTCEPL
10-11-2008, 08:12 PM
Well, seem like most of the guys here have at least had an encounter once. i did got into it with some of the guys i know in the chat room b4. that was like afew years ago. i did have my fair share of fun. but during that phase dont seem to feel guilty. maybe because lagging of attention from hubby or too bored as hubby travel very often and not use to it. and those guy showing me all the attention which i was seeking.


Try talking to your hubby heart to heart, your hubby is the person whom will stand by you when you fall and not your FB.

Fun is notin compared to truth, responsibilities, commitments, sincerity and love. Really, have a good talk with your hubby, if you are sincere, he will listen.

Frankiestine
10-11-2008, 09:47 PM
Torch_Man yes i am a hsewife. something are to personal to talk in open. but by the way i am pasting time over here. i am not seeking attention. i am trying to see how guys feel. and maybe also trying to feel less guilty.

:eek: dun tell me you already done it??:eek::eek:

geckoSG
12-11-2008, 04:33 PM
Bro Frankie,

She did it liao, refer to above posts. :p

Torch_Man
12-11-2008, 07:10 PM
everybody need sum sort of spice in life.....
no matter young or old, boys or gals, we all need sumbody's attention or pamperin or lovin, in 1 time or another
either we xchange it or buy it.......

its rather normal in life, its a need dat we all have

qorbf
12-11-2008, 11:02 PM
Sis chrissandra,
What's done is done. As long as you are happy now, should not need to feel any guilty. There are many reasons or no reason as to guys like married woman or not, its more of the chemistry and at the right place and the right time.

Just sharing my views...

Frankiestine
13-11-2008, 05:58 AM
Bro Frankie,

She did it liao, refer to above posts. :p

yeah just read that after my posts....haiz....:(

LostALau
13-11-2008, 05:35 PM
Hi Sis Chrissandra,

If you are bored, you can either take part in some activites as some brudders here suggested, or, in my view, look for a part-time job that is not so demanding.
This way, you can utilise some of your time meaningfully and at the same time earn some money to buy flowers for yourself or your loved ones. :)

chrissandra
13-11-2008, 06:07 PM
hello guy wat the point for . can i ask?

Frankiestine
13-11-2008, 06:15 PM
which point????:confused::confused:

DTCEPL
13-11-2008, 06:17 PM
hello guy wat the point for . can i ask?

If u meant ...... it roughly means ....... whahahaha:D

Hope u have a good laugh......

It meant nothing......just a way that people write casually, like talking, half way taking a break....., it isn't like you are taking your language examinations.

blueman81
14-11-2008, 12:59 AM
I read through the thread and seems to me, some of the people here feel that it is normal to have some kind of relationship with married women...In my opinion, I guess it is okay to fantasize but i don't think it is the right thing to do, however, if the opportunity ever presents itself to me, whether I can resist the temptation, I will not know until it happens. Sometimes we think with the small brain instead of the big one...We are still human after all...

tryherout
14-11-2008, 11:24 AM
Unfortunately there are more married women deprived of sex hence they "out-source". Sillypore is getting busier each day, all around money nothing but money. Sometimes, I wonder why we worked so hard for!!

LostALau
14-11-2008, 11:59 AM
Wat the point for ........can I ask?

The point is if you are occupied, you won't have too much time to feel bored and you will not tend to 'tink 3 tink 4'. I know of a lady who is not working but has a lot of money, something like half a million S$ but because she was bored with nothing to do, she went on board the cruise ship to gamble and lost all her money.: mad:

iamshy
14-11-2008, 02:03 PM
This is my first post...

Whatever it is, if you've done it before...forget it and don't repeat it if you treasure your marriage. Think of all the diseases you can get from doing it. yucks! Worse if you pass it on to your hubby. Be responsible.

Torch_Man
14-11-2008, 06:45 PM
2 err is human,
who is without fault????
who is d perfect 1????

perhaps is d army rule dat sums it well:
doin anythin BUT dun get caught

personally i feel its d give & take factor,
u win sum, u lose sum.
always rememember d rules of d game.........
bear d consequences if it goes out of hand......

Danniell
14-11-2008, 10:48 PM
Couple of years back... used to get quite a nos of married women via IRC esp the channel over30s.

Anyway these ladies are sure hell of a horny :D

chrissandra
16-11-2008, 12:52 AM
Couple of years back... i use to chat there too.

waiwaiz
16-11-2008, 02:34 AM
Couple of years back... i use to chat there too.

Believe you have your share of fun and get away with it....You still miss those good old days where you get pampered???:).....

You seem tempted to try again but worry.........:)

chrissandra
22-11-2008, 04:31 AM
sorry i not trying it anymore.

tomvoyeur
22-11-2008, 02:47 PM
Married women throng Bail beaches looking for their lover boys with their husbands' monies - time to also ask why they dun like their husbands too lol...:cool:

chrissandra
24-11-2008, 12:15 PM
Believe you have your share of fun and get away with it....You still miss those good old days where you get pampered???:).....

You seem tempted to try again but worry.........:)


when i am very bored i did ever think off.

Criminalz
24-11-2008, 12:19 PM
this is going nowhere..

geckoSG
24-11-2008, 03:55 PM
Sis chrissandra, well, I guess u are bored most of the time at home daily,
perhaps it will be nice to consider having a short fling again to spice life
up.

OK, my bad people... :p

chrissandra
25-11-2008, 11:58 PM
bro geckoSG u not good man lah. kekeke.

Gerald Tan
26-11-2008, 12:34 AM
bro geckoSG u not good man lah. kekeke.

Hi SIster Chrissandra
After following so many comments from Bros...my only advice is 'go for it'.
Life is short, enjoy while u can...regards

tomvoyeur
26-11-2008, 12:43 AM
Hi SIster Chrissandra
After following so many comments from Bros...my only advice is 'go for it'.
Life is short, enjoy while u can...regards

Agreed - the most bitter ppl are not financially poor but poor souls rich with regrets. :)

ynwa1977
26-11-2008, 02:21 AM
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Some, like me, don't really give a shit whether that woman is married or not. Yes, sometimes I do think I'm unethical.

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Bro dont be so hard on yourself lah. Ethics and sex, IMHO, are completely different theories. In fact, the gap between them forms the essential foundation on which this whole site is based upon.

hippolover
26-11-2008, 10:59 AM
to answer to the question posted.

When the female fling is married, to most guys, its a sign indicating it will be a pure physical with no strings attached.
Even when emotions and feelings develop, in the back of our minds, we know the fact that she's married, there's always an escape door available.

Its like getting into a mobile phone contract with only 3 months left.

Lenova
26-11-2008, 10:50 PM
to answer to the question posted.

When the female fling is married, to most guys, its a sign indicating it will be a pure physical with no strings attached.
Even when emotions and feelings develop, in the back of our minds, we know the fact that she's married, there's always an escape door available.

Its like getting into a mobile phone contract with only 3 months left.

And also they are more experienced:D

Torch_Man
27-11-2008, 09:45 AM
Agreed - the most bitter ppl are not financially poor but poor souls rich with regrets. :)

to answer to the question posted.

When the female fling is married, to most guys, its a sign indicating it will be a pure physical with no strings attached.
Even when emotions and feelings develop, in the back of our minds, we know the fact that she's married, there's always an escape door available.

Its like getting into a mobile phone contract with only 3 months left.

And also they are more experienced:D
but honestly we'r ALL LONELY CREATURES in d world, jz lookin 4 simple attention, tender care, recognition, concern from sumbody.
even though we all know its NOT TRUE/REAL, at least it add spices 2 our daily stressful/montonous life.
personally i prefer 2 hv an agreeement/contract (or friendship 1st perhaps) wif my partner b4 sexercise (better 2 bonk wif sum feelin), in case it mite go out-of-hand......... we still try 2 follow our agreement/contract, but rules mite change along d way (if emotions takes over)

jz sharin

chrissandra
27-11-2008, 02:49 PM
Torch_Man

i dont know about the other gals but after sometime togather. i tend to fall for it.

Oralcraz
15-12-2008, 10:58 AM
Torch_Man

i dont know about the other gals but after sometime togather. i tend to fall for it.

Hi Chriss,

Hv been following tis thread but seems quiet for a long time. I like women (between 30-40+ yrs), whether married or not. Simply because they are more matured in their mindset and they carry a good conversation. Some mothers are so elegant and sexy. If yr question "Why guys like married woman" is about an affair between a man (married or single) with a married woman, then my answer IMHO is simply the man feel less obligated and chances of ending the affair is easier.

CKee
19-12-2008, 04:17 PM
When the female fling is married, to most guys, its a sign indicating it will be a pure physical with no strings attached.
Even when emotions and feelings develop, in the back of our minds, we know the fact that she's married, there's always an escape door available.

True to the 1st statement, that's why me always feel on safer ground bonking married women. BUT wish to remind bros that dont assume that there is an escape valve with married women...personally experienced that with certain married women, they get emotionally very "sticky". A close fren's marriage "kaput" after his married f buddy made demands on his time and life. The rest, as they say, is history. Her marriage also went kaput and there is no happy after for my fren - she was only his sex toy.

bugmenot
20-06-2009, 04:11 AM
It more like the excitement of a supposed "forbidden" r/ship!

Recently been flirting with a married woman, was formerly my schoolmate, she actually wanted me to go club wif her (just both of us she also dun mind), but on the other hand I am still finding excuses to explain my absence in the night to my OC!

jus my 5 cents worth of thoughts.. :D

Stud00
20-06-2009, 04:58 AM
Sorry Bros and Lady..

my humble opinion.
Not my cup of tea..

Married woman/Attached woman = TROUBLE.

:P

tomvoyeur
20-06-2009, 10:22 AM
Married woman/Attached woman = TROUBLE.

:P

Thats also the excitment too - flirting with disaster....;)

sootongs
20-06-2009, 10:48 AM
Thats also the excitment too - flirting with disaster....;)

LOLZ not to mention when the BF/HUBBY comes to you like a raging bull trying to get a piece of you outta ya head...

jakelkh5
21-06-2009, 01:01 AM
Just like them ... can't help it but like it ...
Thats why ended up in all sort of emotional problem ... ) =

Richard545
21-06-2009, 01:22 AM
Thats also the excitment too - flirting with disaster....;)

exactly my sentiment too.. :p:D

Stud00
21-06-2009, 03:37 AM
Thats also the excitment too - flirting with disaster....;)

Ehh bro..
i reckon that you can run very fast.. cause just imagine the hubby coming after you with a parang with an intent to chop of ur birdie..
LOL

TalkingCock
21-06-2009, 09:22 AM
Married women usually more stable - less likely to get a crush on the guy (if FB) and also more experienced, in my opinion.

kingpinner
21-06-2009, 09:47 AM
this is what i think

married woman =experience woman

but trouble will brew if the hubby find out so keep out of married woman unless ulike problem

Funky-Kuku
21-06-2009, 10:32 AM
There are some married women who chose to have an affair as a revenge against their husband. We are just the 'unfortunate' tool for revenge. I guess few guys will complain about being 'used' in such a scenario. So that's why we like married women. :p

tomvoyeur
21-06-2009, 01:12 PM
Ehh bro..
i reckon that you can run very fast.. cause just imagine the hubby coming after you with a parang with an intent to chop of ur birdie..
LOL

Killing in self defense is legitimate in most countries lol....;)

sky_liner2
22-06-2009, 11:52 AM
There was a report by Wan Bao yesterday that more and more young couples are having affairs. One such case was a brudder even 'married' his mistress, taking photos in bride and groom suit, and posted all these in his facebook. This was eventually found out by the CO during a web search. Gosh, facebook has it's loopholes.

Another case was a CO hired PI and trail her hubby, and finally went on the mission with the PI one night as PI confirmed that her hubby was seeing a long hair lady very frequently, and found that that LADY was a MAN instead! She was so mad that her hubby has turned GAY. Conclusion, divorced is the solution.

CheeBye Licker
22-06-2009, 11:54 AM
There was a report by Wan Bao yesterday that more and more young couples are having affairs. One such case was a brudder even 'married' his mistress, taking photos in bride and groom suit, and posted all these in his facebook. This was eventually found out by the CO during a web search. Gosh, facebook has it's loopholes.

Another case was a CO hired PI and trail her hubby, and finally went on the mission with the PI one night as PI confirmed that her hubby was seeing a long hair lady very frequently, and found that that LADY was a MAN instead! She was so mad that her hubby has turned GAY. Conclusion, divorced is the solution.

Ha Ha.... damn funny ! Something I did not expect when I 1st started reading ur post :D

bunnyrabbit
22-06-2009, 12:17 PM
Sorry Bros and Lady..

Married woman/Attached woman = TROUBLE.

:P

woman = TROUBLE....:p

simple2kee
25-06-2009, 09:29 AM
Sorry Bros and Lady..
my humble opinion.
Not my cup of tea..
Married woman/Attached woman = TROUBLE.
:P

agreed. NOT worth the trouble.