Arranging a playdate with my fwb, her kids and mine

[Nelsonlim]

Thinking of arranging a play date with my fwb, her kids, and mine. Im married and she is divorced. Thinking it is a recipe for disaster but what do the bros here think? The reason for this is so that I can create more legitimate chances next time to meet her instead of cooking up stories to sneak outside. Play date ideas include going to the zoo, inviting to each others’ house for meals, children birthday celebration, movies, even going overseas if all goes well. Also the thrill of us having explored each others’ bodies and juices while acting normal outside in front of my wife.

[tin77]

Thinking of arranging a play date with my fwb, her kids, and mine. Im married and she is divorced. Thinking it is a recipe for disaster but what do the bros here think? The reason for this is so that I can create more legitimate chances next time to meet her instead of cooking up stories to sneak outside. Play date ideas include going to the zoo, inviting to each others’ house for meals, children birthday celebration, movies, even going overseas if all goes well. Also the thrill of us having explored each others’ bodies and juices while acting normal outside in front of my wife.

Women sixth sense are very accurate.
High chance your wife will sense something.

[sky_liner2]

Probably ask your wife what does she thinks? Is she being invited too?

[mogibecrod]

Probably ask your wife what does she thinks? Is she being invited too?

Same thoughts. If jus u, wife n Fwb, how u go missing with fab for hr

[okcieMon]

Thinking of arranging a play date with my fwb, her kids, and mine. Im married and she is divorced. Thinking it is a recipe for disaster but what do the bros here think? The reason for this is so that I can create more legitimate chances next time to meet her instead of cooking up stories to sneak outside. Play date ideas include going to the zoo, inviting to each others’ house for meals, children birthday celebration, movies, even going overseas if all goes well. Also the thrill of us having explored each others’ bodies and juices while acting normal outside in front of my wife.

You are one big risk-taker for sure. Never under-estimate a woman's 6th sense. You even said it yourself that it is a recipe for disaster.

But of course it's your life and your call. Always happy to hear any updates from you in the other thread. Is this the Jap lady that you mentioned in your other post? :D

[necrolim]

You are one big risk-taker for sure. Never under-estimate a woman's 6th sense. You even said it yourself that it is a recipe for disaster.

But of course it's your life and your call. Always happy to hear any updates from you in the other thread. Is this the Jap lady that you mentioned in your other post? :D

From a story POV, yes. pls do it and share with us. With pics even better.

From a concerned bro.. no la... life is hard enough. dont make more problem for yourself.

[FreebiezWanker]

Intro ur wife over bro. I go play with her while u go playdate with ur fwb n her kids etc.

[MixGrill]

Intro ur wife over bro. I go play with her while u go playdate with ur fwb n her kids etc.

Many bros here sure support this arrangement :)

[SoftRiceKing]

Thinking of arranging a play date with my fwb, her kids, and mine. Im married and she is divorced. Thinking it is a recipe for disaster but what do the bros here think? The reason for this is so that I can create more legitimate chances next time to meet her instead of cooking up stories to sneak outside. Play date ideas include going to the zoo, inviting to each others’ house for meals, children birthday celebration, movies, even going overseas if all goes well. Also the thrill of us having explored each others’ bodies and juices while acting normal outside in front of my wife.

Better don’t play with fire, nowadays OC very smart and sharp 1

[zadina20002000]

Stop thinking with small head. You only think of ideal situation. Million one things will go wrong. Better to keep status quo.

[angelle]

You never die before is it?

[SirLance]

Living dangerously. Sound like time bomb.

[bignehneh]

To me, I will do it for the following reasons

(1) Never get caught - sibei song. Play till no horse run
(2) Get caught - scenario 1 (wife may join in so become happier)
(3) Get caught - scenario 2 (wife tulan then nothing happens. Still song for you)
(4) Get caught - scenario 3 (wife tulan and divorce. Then you openly can play the divorced wife and your wife other bro can play)

Above scenario nothing bad for you. Just that

(1) have you ringfenced your assets? I got 1 friend forever playing and I realised he ask his mother to look after his assets. Wife get almost nothing as he has no assets but alimony still have to pay
(2) Do you bear to leave your children with wife? My friend no problem as he feels that his children is mere outcome of his sex enjoyment. He buys them expensive gifts but didn’t really care about them so he let his ex wife have his children

My 2 cent worth

[Nelsonlim]

Probably ask your wife what does she thinks? Is she being invited too?

I think it should be ok as long as there is a good back story. A few years back while I was with my kid at a playground, my kid and another kid started playing together and then I got to know the mom. From there, I introduced her to my wife and the lady introduced her husband, and we went over to each others house to play a few times.

If I could recreate a similar scenario with this fwb of mine, then should be ok. One time, my fwb and one of her kid, and one of my kid, went to a musical. We bought seats next to each other. In between when our kids were not noticing, we held hands and kissed. Such was the thrill.

[Nelsonlim]

Same thoughts. If jus u, wife n Fwb, how u go missing with fab for hr

I don’t mean to go hanky panky during the play date. I’m just thinking to relish in the excitement of getting more chances to meet my fwb openly.

[Nelsonlim]

Many bros here sure support this arrangement :)

Haha I’m sure. But no thanks. Still like to keep my pretty wife to myself.

[Nelsonlim]

You are one big risk-taker for sure. Never under-estimate a woman's 6th sense. You even said it yourself that it is a recipe for disaster.

But of course it's your life and your call. Always happy to hear any updates from you in the other thread. Is this the Jap lady that you mentioned in your other post? :D

Yes it’s the jap lady. Sometimes we ghost each other because of some arguments. But the sex with her is so addictive.

[Nelsonlim]

To me, I will do it for the following reasons

(1) Never get caught - sibei song. Play till no horse run
(2) Get caught - scenario 1 (wife may join in so become happier)
(3) Get caught - scenario 2 (wife tulan then nothing happens. Still song for you)
(4) Get caught - scenario 3 (wife tulan and divorce. Then you openly can play the divorced wife and your wife other bro can play)

Above scenario nothing bad for you. Just that

(1) have you ringfenced your assets? I got 1 friend forever playing and I realised he ask his mother to look after his assets. Wife get almost nothing as he has no assets but alimony still have to pay
(2) Do you bear to leave your children with wife? My friend no problem as he feels that his children is mere outcome of his sex enjoyment. He buys them expensive gifts but didn’t really care about them so he let his ex wife have his children

My 2 cent worth

Thanks for your breakdown. I think one important point you shared is my kids. There was a point in time during my heist with her that I was seriously contemplating to leave my family for her and her kids. But looking back now I’m glad I didn’t. She being Japanese, there are still quite a few major cultural differences and values compared to SG.

[Xgenre]

Thinking of arranging a play date with my fwb, her kids, and mine. Im married and she is divorced.

It can be a big taboo for divorced ladies too. Many marriages end in bitterness. Her kids may already be exposed to negative comments about their mum from the father's side of the family. Then the mum keeps introducing different 'uncles' to their lives. These 'uncles' come and go frequently. It will create a negative impression of their mum for these kids.

I feel divorced ladies can be more sensitive about the guys they introduce into her kid's life.

[itguy2008]

Bro, before I comment, what do you intend to achieve out of the play date?

Don't tell me you plan to see if your kids can get along with her and her kids?

Does not quite make sense right?

[Upsilon]

I think it is a bad idea.
Your wife was fine with the other lady cause the other lady is married and still with husband, unless you had something going on with the other lady too ?
But this divorced lady, maybe your wife will not suspect, but she may notice.
And that is the last thing you want.
Imagine things get fked up and either one ladies sought the other out.
Going to be quite the scene for you to deal with.

[deathnitez]

My friend did what you plan to do end up wife found out......burnt!!!

[Morava]

Why play with fire ?
Getting burnt is not worth the kick, or any benefits.

[kt88_2]

What I can say is want to drink milk Don bring a cow back, best is Don do all these if u are married, for single like me anything also ok ,but for u better Don.

[bbm82]

not worth the risk, no matter how u look at it when ur wife suspect or found out u also jia lat.

why risk when u already enjoying :D

[Rickey]

Why go for a divorced jap as a fwb ??...don't yr pretty beautiful wife as u say sexstify u enough all this while in bed as yr wife ??...worry for u for the worse if yr pretty wife finds out wat u r secretly doing behind her back n pussy ..there seems to be some problems in yr marriage but we don't know wat ?

[Nelsonlim]

Why go for a divorced jap as a fwb ??...don't yr pretty beautiful wife as u say sexstify u enough all this while in bed as yr wife ??...worry for u for the worse if yr pretty wife finds out wat u r secretly doing behind her back n pussy ..there seems to be some problems in yr marriage but we don't know wat ?


It’s my fault to eat outside when having a blissful family. I’m not sure about bros. You may still seek outside when everything at home is ok. It is also a rare encounter to meet a jap lady who is ok to have a physical affair with a married man, and is good at sex. So it’s tempting for me to let go with these conditions. However i understand what most bros say, it is not worth the risk.

[haikim999]

It’s my fault to eat outside when having a blissful family. I’m not sure about bros. You may still seek outside when everything at home is ok. It is also a rare encounter to meet a jap lady who is ok to have a physical affair with a married man, and is good at sex. So it’s tempting for me to let go with these conditions. However i understand what most bros say, it is not worth the risk.

Jus curious if your wife prettier or jap fwb? Who do u enjoy having sex more with? If everything is good with ur family why seek out other fun? You wanna have variety with different ladies?

[Nelsonlim]

Jus curious if your wife prettier or jap fwb? Who do u enjoy having sex more with? If everything is good with ur family why seek out other fun? You wanna have variety with different ladies?

They are both pretty in different ways, my cup of tea, slim body (no flabby arms or thighs), sharp features (uncommon for south East Asians), good complexion. But they are distinct in their own ways physically and mentally.

If I were to choose, sex with the jap lady is better, likely because she watches porn and is “trained” by the other guys (mostly caucasian). Her skills are better, her hands and mouth. Her sex drive is higher. Her moans and expressions are addictive. Also the act of doing it with her is exciting. Sex with my wife is ok too, we still do it often, just that it pales in comparison.

Yes like what you said, enjoy some what a variety, but I prefer not to meet a lot. Just a few who we can have quality time together. Problem with this is we may develop more than just physical attraction.

[MDZY85]

They are both pretty in different ways, my cup of tea, slim body (no flabby arms or thighs), sharp features (uncommon for south East Asians), good complexion. But they are distinct in their own ways physically and mentally.

If I were to choose, sex with the jap lady is better, likely because she watches porn and is “trained” by the other guys (mostly caucasian). Her skills are better, her hands and mouth. Her sex drive is higher. Her moans and expressions are addictive. Also the act of doing it with her is exciting. Sex with my wife is ok too, we still do it often, just that it pales in comparison.

Yes like what you said, enjoy some what a variety, but I prefer not to meet a lot. Just a few who we can have quality time together. Problem with this is we may develop more than just physical attraction.

Somehow I feel u might have develop abit of feeling for her already. If this play date succeed, I am sure you will find yourself planing more of this. Slowly u will feel she is your wife. Dun play with fire bro, it not like your marriage is having some problem. At the end of the day, your wife is the one spending the rest of your life with not the Jap lady. Your jap lady fwb is just a passing ship unless you are serious about her and willing to break ur marriage. If things get serious, you might not be able to handle the consequences.

[ceeko]

Don't think with your cock.

This isn't gonna end well.

[Fataro]

Thinking of arranging a play date with my fwb, her kids, and mine. Im married and she is divorced. Thinking it is a recipe for disaster but what do the bros here think? The reason for this is so that I can create more legitimate chances next time to meet her instead of cooking up stories to sneak outside. Play date ideas include going to the zoo, inviting to each others’ house for meals, children birthday celebration, movies, even going overseas if all goes well. Also the thrill of us having explored each others’ bodies and juices while acting normal outside in front of my wife.

Sound exciting but still gotta think with Big head over small head.
Agreed with most of the seniors here, not worth the risk as women sixth sense some time is just so zhun.

[Nelsonlim]

Somehow I feel u might have develop abit of feeling for her already. If this play date succeed, I am sure you will find yourself planing more of this. Slowly u will feel she is your wife. Dun play with fire bro, it not like your marriage is having some problem. At the end of the day, your wife is the one spending the rest of your life with not the Jap lady. Your jap lady fwb is just a passing ship unless you are serious about her and willing to break ur marriage. If things get serious, you might not be able to handle the consequences.

Yes you and the other bros sentiments are right. It’s. The consequences not worth. No matter how good the jap lady seems to be, it will only be a fleeting moment of excitement.

[entering]

Thinking of arranging a play date with my fwb, her kids, and mine. Im married and she is divorced. Thinking it is a recipe for disaster but what do the bros here think? The reason for this is so that I can create more legitimate chances next time to meet her instead of cooking up stories to sneak outside. Play date ideas include going to the zoo, inviting to each others’ house for meals, children birthday celebration, movies, even going overseas if all goes well. Also the thrill of us having explored each others’ bodies and juices while acting normal outside in front of my wife.

Bro, I'll be one of those who will tell you please go ahead and arrange.

All my part time maids, are all my fuck mates. Just last week, my mother in law was having breakfast in the hall, the maid came into my bedroom to clean the room but she locked the door. Then I lay on the bed and took off my shorts and my cock was rock hard.

She got on top and fucked herself till she cum, then she bend over, I fuck her and told her I'm cumming she turned around and suck all my cum and swallowed.

Seriously, having her come to my house and having sex twice with everyone around, is probably the best decision I've made.

So I feel, just go ahead and create a reason to fuck as and when you want.

Fine prints: I've been doing this for years so have been covering my tracks, so if you don't feel confident then better don't...

[Nelsonlim]

Bro, I'll be one of those who will tell you please go ahead and arrange.

All my part time maids, are all my fuck mates. Just last week, my mother in law was having breakfast in the hall, the maid came into my bedroom to clean the room but she locked the door. Then I lay on the bed and took off my shorts and my cock was rock hard.

She got on top and fucked herself till she cum, then she bend over, I fuck her and told her I'm cumming she turned around and suck all my cum and swallowed.

Seriously, having her come to my house and having sex twice with everyone around, is probably the best decision I've made.

So I feel, just go ahead and create a reason to fuck as and when you want.

Fine prints: I've been doing this for years so have been covering my tracks, so if you don't feel confident then better don't...

How do you know the maids won’t expose you? And why would they be interested at all in the first place?

[entering]

How do you know the maids won’t expose you? And why would they be interested at all in the first place?

It's all a risk, so you've to make your own calculations.

These maids I don't give them money , but they need the job, both the part time job and their full time job. So chances are they won't say anything because that will invite trouble and then if it blows up, they'll lose their jobs.

Other than that, just make sure I workout, as and when I pass them a loaded MRT card, give them like $20 for lunch when they come over and most importantly, sexitfy them thoroughly.

Other than that, have to be careful and cover all your tracks.

[Naka_Timo]

Sound exciting but still gotta think with Big head over small head.
Agreed with most of the seniors here, not worth the risk as women sixth sense some time is just so zhun.

thank for upping, up u back.

[Janson]

I hope TS has changed his mind and not go ahead.
No point looking for troubles where there are none.

[sony2002]

Somehow I feel u might have develop abit of feeling for her already. If this play date succeed, I am sure you will find yourself planing more of this. Slowly u will feel she is your wife. Dun play with fire bro, it not like your marriage is having some problem. At the end of the day, your wife is the one spending the rest of your life with not the Jap lady. Your jap lady fwb is just a passing ship unless you are serious about her and willing to break ur marriage. If things get serious, you might not be able to handle the consequences.

Or convert to Muslim where it is legal to have 4 wives? :D

https://worldpopulationreview.com/country-rankings/countries-where-polygamy-is-legal

There are all the countries where Ploygamy is legal - Singapore is one of them too!

[Xgenre]

There are all the countries where Polygamy is legal - Singapore is one of them too!

Asked many Malay guy friends before. They say although Islam allows, actually to qualify for polygamy is not so easy. The first wife must agree and you must show that you are capable of being fair to all the wives. More importantly, the Malay guys I am close with don't like the idea. 1 wife dearly loved is more than enough.

[acidicavex]

So presume u have a explaination when your kids blunt out that "papa brought him and a aunty and her kid to play?"
Pretty sure from the read u can't keep your hand off her no matter how careful your kids might see it and tell your wife the most innocent thing that happen during the outing. You might get off once but if too often pretty sure your wife will start to be hmmm suspicious.

[Nelsonlim]

So presume u have a explaination when your kids blunt out that "papa brought him and a aunty and her kid to play?"
Pretty sure from the read u can't keep your hand off her no matter how careful your kids might see it and tell your wife the most innocent thing that happen during the outing. You might get off once but if too often pretty sure your wife will start to be hmmm suspicious.

I’ve already dropped the idea as advised by most bros here. Anyway my earlier idea was for my wife to be present at the initial few play dates. Then after gaining trust, slowly I can go on play dates with the jap lady alone. Or better still all of us become good friends and go overseas together what not. But many things can go wrong so, bad idea!

[Dukie]

But many things can go wrong so, bad idea!

Yes indeed. Imagine kids tell mama that papa and auntie hold hands and hugging :eek::D

[Az284]

Asked many Malay guy friends before. They say although Islam allows, actually to qualify for polygamy is not so easy. The first wife must agree and you must show that you are capable of being fair to all the wives. More importantly, the Malay guys I am close with don't like the idea. 1 wife dearly loved is more than enough.

I'm sure higher cost of living doesn't help either. Things are expensive enough with 1 life partner.

[Octopus123]

Japanese girls may seems fun when you are having a period of time when it comes to settling down it’s not just “kawaii” they are extreme clingy and controlling. Sg wife maybe more chill bro think wisely, don’t settle for the wrong nationality