First time cheong paranoia
 

Hey Bros,

So yesterday, I had protected sex with a prostitute for the first time in my life. I guess I was too horny and went with it.

After the session I start to become paranoid and scared. I went to the nearest clinic just now to check but they said only after 1 month I should go back to have myself checked.

I am now wrecked with guilt and fear. From reading post from other members that did it raw, I know that my case is not that severe and my risk of getting STD and HIV is low. But I'm still damn paranoid now.

Do you bros have any advice for me?

Re: First time cheong paranoia
 

Wait and test after window period. I understand how u feel

Re: First time cheong paranoia
 

There is no need to check so often.

If you engage in protected sex just check once every 6 months as a precaution.

Re: First time cheong paranoia
 

Thank you for the prompt response. I truly appreciate it.

What are the chances of me contracting something?

Will the results be accurate after I get tested after a month and should I abstain from any sexual activities with anyone during this 1 month?

Re: First time cheong paranoia
 

There is no such thing as zero risk in any aspect of life. However there is little point worrying about such things. Risk is everywhere even at home. You could slip and fall in the shower and crack your skull.

Just carry on enjoying sex be it commercial, one night stand or within a relationship and take the necessary precautions to keep the risk as low as possible.

As long as you are sexually active get tested once every 6 months as a precaution unless you experience symptoms that cause you concern in which case you should see a doctor for a professional diagnosis.

Re: First time cheong paranoia
 

Our forum resident number one cheongster

https://sbf.net.nz/showthread.php?t=714114

Fucked thousands of girls over the years some of them raw and still alive and healthy. :p

Re: First time cheong paranoia
 

He's lucky.

Yup if u still feel uncomfortable. Earliest after 3 weeks u can go take urine test for bacteria STDs. And 4thh gen hiv test 1 week later for conclusive results.

I feel you. Strucked by guilt and fear. Waiting for urine results. Did 4th gen test yesterday at 3rd week to be 60%Sure I'm negative. Have a family and kids. Decide to quit. Not worth it.

Re: First time cheong paranoia
 

During this 1 month period until the check-up, should I abstain from sex with my girlfriend to minimize the risk of infecting her with something?

Re: First time cheong paranoia
 

Wow! This dude is a real champ. I don't think I'm that fearless since my paranoia stems from spreading it to the people I love.

Re: First time cheong paranoia
 

Thank you so much for the advice bro. Yes, I will go do the test based on the timeline given by you. Yeah, I feel you man. It's really not worth it since it risks infecting our loved ones. During this period, did you have any sex with your wife?

Will avoid until result out.. find excuse lo

Re: First time cheong paranoia
 

Alright man! I really hope that you're all good bro.

Re: First time cheong paranoia
 

No choice. Can only hope. Just hope to close this chapter of my life and move on. Family is most important. This will have to remain a secret in life. If u really wana stop chionging and next time feel horny.. think of family.. think of this episode...

Better to avoid since you are testing for result. Unless you are really sure u r cleared.