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Originally Posted by yqz7
I would second TS's view here. MRs not FRs.
I think if a ML wants to advertise that she does BJ/BBBJ/FJ (at a higher cost usually), she would indicate so in her ad with OKT. If she puts it there, all clear for ppl to see. If you wanna alert ppl she does that in a separate ad I think it's fine to just say that and end of story, but spare us the details, I think people here no need to know as most are here mostly for massage and some hanky panky. We don't need to know how song you are, how many positions you tried, how tight is it etc...
But, if it's not stated in the service, I still think it's best not to mention. It's not because we have a "goddess" image of our fav MLs that they never have sex with others (I think most of us are not dumb, the girls here are not virgins. We all know that they are probably more experienced than most of us here). It's because there's always a reason why it's not mentioned as part of their service. And as fellow humans, I think it's only right we just respect that. Simple as that.
If she wants to provide to you, off-menu (FOC or charged) it is a dealing between the two of you. The rest need not know.
You may think nothing of it, but by mentioning sometimes you are giving false hopes to some lurkers out there who find it extremely exciting to have FJ with a ML somehow. Even though they know there are FLs out there who can give them what they want. Even though for that same price or slightly more than that they may have to pay, they can get a proper good clean TCM massage outside for 1 hour plus a FJ with a chio FL for 1 hour (total 2 hours).
And these lurkers here can be quite dangerous and spoil the fun of the masses who just want simple massage and some fun. Some may destroy the livelihood of MLs with whom you enjoy the company with. Some of your favorite MLs may be so sick of all the shit and go back home country early. Some bros may get scared of all the things that may happen and can't enjoy their sessions feeling safe (even if it's somewhat "legal" to visit MLs, who is not scared/frustrated if some ML received high profile attention and gets visited by the men in blue when you having your tryst with your ML). Some even better, cannot get what they want decide to spread rumours and let everyone come and disturb the MLs every now and then to ask if they provide full service. So every time you mention about the "extras", you are not doing yourself a favor. In fact you may reap your "rewards" next time when the scene is all messed up by these lurkers.
My main wish here would be just keep the ML scene safer and fun. Keep it simple, play by the rules here, I think everyone can be happier.
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I fully agree on your opinions totally, bro. The ML would be the one to decide the listing / not-listing of additional services due to various reasons and it is often not for us to assume or decide. It is obviously not for the simple reason of maintaining a pseudo goddess image for the bros here, will not be that simple reason only anyway.
When we have the distinction between MLs and FLs, there is a reason for the presence of MLs because there is a market for non-FJ sensual services, where one can probably enjoy a massage a sensual non-FJ services at the same time. We can have the choice of going for FJ services, usually cut short and expected non massage services or massage with sensual non-FJ services, the presence of choice is a GOOD thing.
I agree on the disturbance of misleading information, which could fit some with false hopes. This does cause a lot of unhappiness whether it is with the customer or the ML, not mentioning messing up with the current scene. It would also mean harder times for new bros to book good MLs, so think before acting for some of the new bros out there.
Let's just keep this thread as a platform for ML non-FJ services reviews like before. That's the purpose of having categorization, isn't it.
