[l0v3r]

Bro imo, don't ask that question, unnecessary. It's really No feel and no fun. Never commit unless the girl want to, always be prepared to let go any day any time.
Must remember: no girl belong to you and you don't belong to anyone.

Instead of targeting only 1 girl, do the opposite!
Sweet talk to all of them, try to attract everyone. See which one gets attracted to u.

Sweet talk to everyone. They love it!
Be positive: does it matter if they lie to you? Think about it, it really doesn't, not at all. Many girls in the world.
Be fun: act like a gentleman who holds the lady up from her seat. The Prince who ask the Princess for a dance. The baby sitter who feeds the kid.

Maintain the relationship on a thin thread (even better: she doesn't even know if she's attached)

If she doesn't put in effort, you're gone. (really, just go) So many other girls out there.

Have fun!