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Originally Posted by rahl
The reason for the repeated phone checking is simple: she is stressed out about the lack of customers compared to her high pay in a beauty spa in China. She told me this and I could tell she wasn't lying.
FYI not saying this to defend her, because I realised I actually made a mistake by asking her how is her business (one of my routine questions to MLs)! That actually affected our session a little although she was professional in the special.
I wont RTM for her not cos of the phone use but I had better experiences with other MLs.
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Okay 1 last word on this (and for any bro who’s translating or informing her)
This whole hooha has wrecked whatever goodwill she may have built up previously (unfortunately) and the situation is unlikely to be salvaged by any more new MRs (since suspicious eyes are cast on any further positive MRs)
Only she can reverse this herself via her actions
The part about her being stressed is true. She sacrificed a lot to be here and it hasn’t turned out as planned. Not saying other ML are not in same situation; it’s just that she deals with anxiety in a poorer manner
She wasn’t chit chatting on the phone; she merely wanted to arrange upcoming bookings given her desperation even though she clearly did it in a wrong manner
Sadly, the coming days could see her fall back into the same situation as her initial days where business is underwhelming and she may be forced to cut short her stay
If anyone is informing or translating for her; the advice is to treat every single customer she sees from now on as possibly her last. Make every client walk out feeling satisfied and desiring a return visit (within her boundaries of course)
Contrary to the popular saying, it’s better to ask for permission than to beg for forgiveness
She’ll now realise many bros here are not too forgiving so she’ll need to build from zero again