Ya, imo that's actually the best approach. It's what you do on a regular basis that will stick with your potential target instead of what you can wow her on special occasions. Gotta factor in that on big days you are competing against many others all out to impress the girl, unless your pocket damn deep or you freaking understand exactly what makes her tick, chances are end up as just one of the many carrots being chopped voluntarily on such days, without achieving much progress. If really feel compelled to show some nice gesture on such days, keep it wallet friendly, save your warchest to whack on frequent RTM ,book longer hours. Most MLs will keep track of trustworthy RTM customers, so if charming ML is your game, this is a more worthwhile manner to spend. Let the rest of the bros go compete all they want to impress her on ONE day, while you focus on the rest of the days
Lastly, imho and from past experiences, not just for MLs but girls in general, the more they are social media attention seeking, the least she is worth your time and $$ to conquer, unless you like the challenge and don't mind to splurge. Coz these gals are after ATTENTION, regardless of from who, you will likely be one of the many whom she can feed her self esteem with, just another anonymous feeder. Try focusing on those who don't keep on scream out loud to be noticed, you may end up be surprised that what you can achieve with them, with less time and $$, and most importantly, they tend to stick around with you,coz it's YOU that have won them over, not your publicity stunt. Happy hunting bros cheers!