Originally Posted by Kopiosteve
TT is still around. She will leave soon. Maybe in a couple of weeks but it depends on things. I didn't ask what these were, but perhaps it's tickets or something.
I don't know why she hasn't responded. But maybe she's taking it easier now and limiting her time to more familiar customers. I'm not sure. Keep trying if you want.
Moral of the story, when ML is here, book appointments, rtm, and have your fill with her. Don't wait last minute when she's about to rtc then regret, so sad cos no slots, no reply, no time for you.
Have your fill with her, say happy goodbyes when she leaves, add her China WC if both like each other, then move on to the next.
Because in my experience, when a ML leaves, no matter how much fun and happy times you had together, when she leaves, that feeling for her WILL fade as she moves on with her China life. Unless you are still "useful" to her, meaning still financially supporting her in some way. Otherwise, she will drift apart in a few months.
Out of all the MLs and FLs I've been with through the years, perhaps only 10% I still have regular contact with. But even then our "relationship" has evolved. Most have become friends. We chat about their boyfriends and life and such. Happily, some still want to jump my bones hahaha.
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