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Originally Posted by Johndick
Maybe not to us coz we doesn't give them the vibe that we are/willing to be their ATM machine 
Jokes aside I believe those APs with no concern about business will either super selectively KC or not at all since they don't need such tactics to entice RTM. Some ML i feel really just wanna clock their time here then RTC use the $$ wisely.
Personally i shun away from the WeChat "game" kind of ML. There's one ML in the past I only added WeChat but have not booked yet..every few days will post she feeling down, or meet bad customers, no proper food to eat, miss home, fallen sick..else will be customers buy pricey gift for her or sumptuous meal, outing..biangz. I immediately drop her from my shortlist. No drama queen for me. |
Some very astute observations to take note of, if you want enjoy without being dragged into an emotional predicament.
NOTE: KC almost always means you're the targetted ATM or bearer of free gifts/meals/outings. And guys with healthy bank accounts are not necessarily the targets. In fact, guys who generously give to compensate for their other shortcomings (not rich, not handsome, etc), are frequently targetted by non-APs.
Guys are a silly lot. Show a little affection, and immediately we get a rush of endorphins, then our brains go into this dizzy frenzy and we gush thinking the girl likes us and we have a chance and begin to invest our feelings. Woohoo! Good sense and judgement instantly evaporates. In other words, we turn stupid. And girls who want to, can very easily exploit this.
You're correct. APs whose business are already good don't indiscriminately KC. They can be very selective. So if you're not rich, a different strategy needs to be employed. Hehe.
Anyway, when it comes down to KC-ing , I usually turn the tables on them. My currency isn't cash, but mutual pleasure, laughter and enjoyment.
Oh and adding their Wechat is ONLY to assure an express lane for future bookings and appointments. NEVER for chatting.