When i just started many years ago i was shy thinking i am not 6 pack paiseh to go naked, like to be gentlemen, not confident to ask for services or pop questions, like to give tips thinking it'd make the lady think i am generous.
After sometime...
Can't be bothered. I play by afew rules now,
1. These ladies see more body than you see porn. You are there to get your money worth and that's all.
2. They earn more than you do (unless you're a MNC CEO). Let's do our calculation, the non-ap say have 6 customers per day 100 x 6 x 30 days = 18k per month. Minus away comissions and rentals she still takes away at least 12k per month. How about APs?
I ever spoke to an AP... she worked 1 year in Singapore... and rest 2 years in China.
So, give tips only when she go the extra mile and deserves it. Don't break the market. I've some hinting me for tips to and seeking sympathy for aching wrist. I do have my compassion as a fellow humane being... but that's misguide compassion if i give in.
3. I am there to get the services for my value worth. Don't be afraid to ask the ML to massage harder here or there. Don't let her bring you around.
4. These ladies likely won't remember you even if you return next week so don't put your feelings in. These are business after all. Go in, get what you seek, stay safe, pay and go.