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Originally Posted by yqz7
Yea actually when I speak to MLs in the past they also quite candid and say it is really hard for them to settle down here anyway. Even if they have feelings for someone here (usually customer) but realistically how to have a true good ending? Will the guy not mind that she was in this line in future when they get together or married? And they don’t have family and also no friends here permanently. It is already hard enough for them here for the short term especially if their friends are not here together, they cannot imagine how life would be here for the long term. Most of them come with no education no other skills are they expected to just live off a rich husband?
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this is already true even for those ladies working in clean jobs in sg. like those waitress or clean massage or facial spas... their life here is work long hours 6 days a week. one Natureland masseuse told me her life here in sg is just work, work, work, work, work... only have 1 or 2 friends here from China. There's no life here for them, very hard to integrate. I hear already also don't know how to help, don't know what to say...