Getting off menu items… checked.
Behaving like Couple when Jalan jalan… checked.
Go Makan cum Supermarket runs… checked.
Go 吃早餐 or late night supper with MLs… checked.
Go concerts/places of interest for whole day…. Checked.
Go overseas with MLs…. checked.
Meeting MLs overseas after they RTC… Checked.
All these are, as rightly mentioned off menu privileges that regulars enjoy with their regular MLs. Most of us would have enjoy these privileges during our cheonging days when fate brings us to the right MLs. And without topups, never a believer of 买钟 but will bear all expenditures during these “dates” because if need to 买钟 then it’s not privileges. It’s paid services.
But one thing I’ve learned is that these are privileges reserved for the selected fews that the MLs has chosen. Call it chemistry. Call it 缘份. Call it YMMV. But because not everyone gets to enjoy the same privileges, that would breed discontentment and jealousy among bros here. Just like we don’t treat every ML the same way.
And it would create unnecessary trouble for the MLs because everyone think they are special and would start demanding the same if not better treatment. I’ve learnt it the hard way
so now I’ve learnt to keep my mouth shut or not ID the MLs out.
I’m surprised the ML has not requested for the removal of the post given the number of LIVE reporters in this thread and the fact that quite easy to ID out the bro unless of course she swims with everyone else.
Time to move on from this episode and happy Sunday!