Both sides ain't wrong & certainly a gray-zone.
Never underestimate a man's desire to be viewed as a hero, a provider & so, especially today where most men, including much of us, are so emasculated & soulless that most are confined to working cubicles, forced to abandon their wild desires to go out & chiong at animals that can kill you for a meal, instead only able to "chiong" at WLs in private rooms, sacrificing their next meal even.
How do you expect many of these guys to not be tempted, even i am, at the thought of being able to "贖身" (Redeem) a WL like in those ancient dramas, is undeniably both emotionally and sexually satisfying.
But at them same time, even if you can, are you sure you can keep her happy in every way, especially as mentioned, after she's been in a high libido mode almost daily. She's obviously gonna be in some way addicted to it and you expect her to turn into a virtue housewife right away without addressing that?
Can you, with your 9-5 job outside of the house, keep her sexually satisfied while you work? Of course one can, but are you willing to invest the time & money in say toys & other forms of sexual interaction during work?
Or at home? Are you still expecting her to serve you as usual like a whore while you do your bare minimum like you are still in that private room? I mean most of us know they are just making us feel good by 'cumming'. Are you willing to learn about her actual spots? Tease & treat her right for hours? Even if you don't get to cum/camed, if you are tired from work?
Then it comes to how are you going to deal with her past? Say she still fantasise about it, how are you going to react? Are you gonna make her suppress it? Or are you confident enough to take charge of her fantasises, engage her with it, even RP it without getting mad she's technically getting hot for another guy?
But then, I also think it is not the best way to advise people to just 'treat them as whores', nothing wrong, that is indeed their job, but you are not addressing the core issues of why some men feel that way in the first place.
And while i agree that many WL have a different view on 'love', can we also not pretend that most 'don't have any love' per se? They definitely do have crushes and likings like anyone else, and you can imagine many getting their heart broken when they try to reach out & find out the one they like is 'only just a client' because the guy ignore their private messages, nothing wrong either.
Like i've said it is such a grayzone that no one advice really sticks, it is a case by case basis and even then, unless we truly know what's going on in both the client's & WL's mind and heart, there's no way we can really help, it is 'up to fate' then for them, and their own decisions. Both side's perspectives are equally valid and complex. And personally, I can only wish for such cases to have happy endings.
(I've been forced to shorten my message so many points are missing
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