Hi bro, I am also doing some sport to get some energy and attention off from my sexless marriage. I do not know about women, but I felt that men need to make love so that they feel wanted or loved by women. When wife does not even want you to touch her then that means she is no longer interested in you. Let alone communicating to you. Maybe she looked down on me or simply feel that no need to do so much already since has a family.
I brought it up once that maybe we should get some helps. She told me off dont be silly and waste money and waste energy keep thinking about sex and relationship. After that time, I did not bring up.
Now, we seldom talk and communicate, she is always watching her phone and I just do the same too. I sleep on floor and child sleep on the bed with her. There was once I sept on the bed, but she kept using her phone and i find it akward that I pretend to be asleep.
Like I said, no one I can talk to except putting words here in the forum.
I also do not want how to make myself not to think so much where our marriage is going to end up.
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Originally Posted by dodgekenji
We talked about it b4 and then agreed
HI bro,
Let's face the reality. Women is another breed from us men. With age and time, things get worse.
Ask yourself, is it abt sex only or are u also looking at more between u and your wife.
Having had to face this prob in recent time, I get to know many women thru the apps. Divorce was a taboo before however, I realise it is so common nowadays after meeting so many of them. One of the grunt that I get to know from women is, they blame us the men from ignoring them. Like u said, if they don want to even talk to us, how to show them that we care. Conclusion, they wanted us to be understanding, understand their need as and when, and give console when they need one, siam far far when they are not in the mood 🤣
Yes, key to the relationship is communication and we are suppose to endure. So it all depends on how u value your marriage.
For me, I differentiate between lust (sex) and making love. I have fail to have a love making session for many many years liao. So I go to WL at times to satisfy my lust and devote my energy to sports when I need to release my extra energy. For the family, since I had not been appreciated, I can't do much and just let it be.
If u are trying to save the marriage, talk to her. Together seek professional help. U cannot and will not be able to resolve this by yourself. U need her cooperation to over come it. Of course, this is provided your partner is able to accept it. Mine, is stubborn like a bull, as I understand all the prob but she wouldn't admit, less on seeking abt help.
Wish u luck
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