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Originally Posted by KangTuo
talking about house chores... today i send my bx to visit her friend. After work, i go fetch her back. She commented in abit chinese to me that her friend's husband "xiang nu ren"... come back from work only, sweep floor, mop floor, wash clothing etc... these suppose to be women's job.  |
My case a bit different. When i married my wife, she asked a relative to help us do housework at 700K VND a month. I obliged as i thought not a big sum. Then when my gals came along, also got nanny from province and maid also continued. Got a point in time when my business was doing quite well, my household in VN got 2 nannies, 2 maids to clean house and 1 cook. But the salaries of all these maids is only equal to 1 maid's salary + govt tax in singapore. All these years, my wife has maid to help her take care children and do housework. I remember got a period of time in Singapore, we sent our indonesia maid back to agent and got to wait for around 1 month for next maid to arrive. My wife everyday temper not good as she needs to do housework. I helped her also but still got kids to take care. Maybe i give my wife too good life from the start, she cannot do without maid. Nowadays my health not good, so i also cannot do without maid.
