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Old 12-05-2013, 11:32 PM
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Re: why would people are like that? im confused

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Originally Posted by sane View Post
Sorry to say but I wouldn't fall in love with a guy like that, it made me look down on him especially when the only reason is just he's plain lazy to look for a job.

I was sort of dating this guy during school days, he had the cheek to ask me to buy things for him when we were just friends. The impression of him change 360* though he's a looker. We remained as friends but nothing more.
hmm.. agreed also..
having a jobless father is enough for me and i dont want to have a jobless guy as my bf or (worst) hubby..

my guy dont have to work in a big company or have a high title in company and get a big salary per month.. and i dun care if he's just an o level guy or diploma guy or have no study background..
as long as he work in the right way, not a drug dealer, gangster or hitman), a dishwasher in a restaurant or a cleaning services is okay for me.. and he must be okay with me if I earn more than him..

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A woman have to be independent, don't appear too needy, yet maintain her charisma and mystery feel to capture her man's heart
i only have 2 tendencies.
1) be needy to someone whom i care about
2) not needy at all to those whom i dun really care about
and no choice in between.

so, when i care for my partner, i'll be having no 1 tendency. but when he dun response to those, i'll go down to no 2 tendency. and when i'm at this point, i really tired to care about him.

maybe jie can teach me on how to be in between?