How to KC a WL without being KC-ed by Her

[ronckw]

i have been following this thread as it is very interesting on the view the TS & the rest of the bros here have...

Its valuable advise but seems quite hard to not get entraped.

I still believe its possible but it will only work if that person is mentally strong...as in the big head....

If a person is mentally weak & lets emotions get the better of the logical thinking...i tink KC will happen to anyone anytime without evening knowing like indicated earlier....

Overall...good to read to know & if possible use it from time to time at a basic level....if fall in too deep...hard to climb out....

Thanks to TS for the info....

[hoosdathu]

certified good thread

[voydoy]

hi .. i am a obvious noob here.. recently got hooked to wl in lorong 6 ... she`s a syt and the first few bonks were commercial transcations, till one time i told her i wanna ons her and she gave me her number.
. since then she keep calling me and sms me that she miss me..

Seriously. i tot of going to thailand to spend some time with her when she goes back .. but i`m not sure whether both of us have any future ...

i think i am in a love curse .. as my bonks for this year increase a lot ... wanna cut down but when always think of sex i will go geyland to find her.. and she`s very innocent in terms like she wont ask for tips. got one time i bought her chocolate and she said she like it very much


any brothers/ experts help ?

[lexus3rx]

Interesting read...

IMHO, there is no way 2 prevent being KC, unless u r a cold heartless creature. Wat u get from the girls r feelings n actions tat I dare say u can never get in the "real" world wif a non WL/FL.

[Panamera]

Speaking from own experience, many at times, I warned myself to be careful, tried to do $ damage control, be careful of traps or sweet offerings...and yet..as long as I am a willing party to play this game..I can avoid few cases but not 100% foolproof because we are creatures with emotions...too many restriction, deep thoughts on how to proceed on next step, not to fall into traps,,,, etc. does kills the joy and adds stress to oneself unnecessary sometimes...Total Foolproof Solution? I doubt there is any, unless you quit this game completely and be a good family man.

Just be careful and based on one's own judgement and experience and of cos, all the bros posting in this forum does help a lot...It is difficult and subjective to say kanna con or what, when relationship over, because "at that moment in time" it always does seems like "a best choice or decision" - A willing party, we are....

Some bros will post here asking for advice -to marry her or to send money or not...but 99% of the time, you have already decided on what to do, you just need the 1% positive motivation to make you feel better...Whatever bros advise here, you will not accept them because you will think that "THESE WONT HAPPEN TO ME" or "I AM NOT SO STUPID"....all it take for you is just 1 POSTING SAY ITS A GOOD DECISION, GO AHEAD..You will jump into it without looking back till many months later....

[colins]

Originally Posted by voydoy

hi .. i am a obvious noob here.. recently got hooked to wl in lorong 6 ... she`s a syt and the first few bonks were commercial transcations, till one time i told her i wanna ons her and she gave me her number.
. since then she keep calling me and sms me that she miss me..

Seriously. i tot of going to thailand to spend some time with her when she goes back .. but i`m not sure whether both of us have any future ...

i think i am in a love curse .. as my bonks for this year increase a lot ... wanna cut down but when always think of sex i will go geyland to find her.. and she`s very innocent in terms like she wont ask for tips. got one time i bought her chocolate and she said she like it very much


any brothers/ experts help ?

You should probably check whether there are any change in your life, esp in the area of emotions i.e more stressful, more outings with friends, more dirty habits, etc. Your love curse is only a reliance, it is not that when you think of sex you think about her, it is when you think about her you wanna go find her but the only thing you could do is to have sex with her.

If you start wondering if there is a future with a WL, then bro, you are fucked. Yes, thinking about it means black hawk down liao. People need to go into the war zone and pull you out of the wreck liao. This is the nature progression of KC thru self-KC, the moth going for the fire to 'light up' his life.

Take care and hold on to the ride man.

[BKnight]

Originally Posted by voydoy

hi .. i am a obvious noob here.. recently got hooked to wl in lorong 6 ... she`s a syt and the first few bonks were commercial transcations, till one time i told her i wanna ons her and she gave me her number.
. since then she keep calling me and sms me that she miss me..

Seriously. i tot of going to thailand to spend some time with her when she goes back .. but i`m not sure whether both of us have any future ...

i think i am in a love curse .. as my bonks for this year increase a lot ... wanna cut down but when always think of sex i will go geyland to find her.. and she`s very innocent in terms like she wont ask for tips. got one time i bought her chocolate and she said she like it very much


any brothers/ experts help ?

Please spend 1 week in Bangkok and hope it will change your view..Tons of SYT there not WL but OL .....

BTW, have you eaten or drank anything from her???? I just wonder.....

[ekemono]

Originally Posted by voydoy

she`s very innocent in terms like she wont ask for tips. got one time i bought her chocolate and she said she like it very much


any brothers/ experts help ?

have you heard of the chinese saying : "not the fierce dragon wont cross the river".

She travel all the way to SG with an innocent mentality? She can eat you up for breakfast you also dun know.

[voydoy]

Originally Posted by BKnight

Please spend 1 week in Bangkok and hope it will change your view..Tons of SYT there not WL but OL .....

BTW, have you eaten or drank anything from her???? I just wonder.....

Brother .. yeah .. her room got a fridge, got one times when i bonked her the weather is hot , so i got the mineral water from her ( haven`t open ) and of course drink it


Eating = no ...

But this girl seems to be always on my mind... shit leh .. i used to be a player too.. now jialat.. bonking on her only increased so much this year..

[voydoy]

Originally Posted by colins

Your love curse is only a reliance, it is not that when you think of sex you think about her, it is when you think about her you wanna go find her but the only thing you could do is to have sex with her. -- Yup but the gf feeling she gave me is 100%.. and she always say that she like me alot and miss me ..

If you start wondering if there is a future with a WL, then bro, you are fucked. <-- the reason why i think like this , is that she really gives me the feeling of being with her for my rest of my life... How to 4get her.. <-- i hope my work schedule will get me busy and 4get her..

Overall , Brother Collin ! thanks for the precious worth! Maybe i played too much feelings into her . i will try to be a better thinking samster these days ..

[BKnight]

Originally Posted by voydoy

Brother .. yeah .. her room got a fridge, got one times when i bonked her the weather is hot , so i got the mineral water from her ( haven`t open ) and of course drink it


Eating = no ...

But this girl seems to be always on my mind... shit leh .. i used to be a player too.. now jialat.. bonking on her only increased so much this year..

Bro, I just pulling your leg la..But on a serious note - I think its more lust than love la. Thread carefully la....

[fee3fow]

ya "不是猛龙不过江" even if they are really innocent girls when they first step on our island, a few weeks at GL will have change them tremendously. Even some of our most veteran cheongsters in their 50s or 60s are getting eaten up by them THINK carefully before you make any big decisions

[colins]

Originally Posted by voydoy

If you start wondering if there is a future with a WL, then bro, you are fucked. <-- the reason why i think like this , is that she really gives me the feeling of being with her for my rest of my life... How to 4get her.. <-- i hope my work schedule will get me busy and 4get her..

For the rest of your life uh...many ways of explaining this but the most common reason is, she possesses character traits similar to your mum. Anyway, you kenna KC-ed already, of cos you would want to spend your life with her. Where got say I kenna KC-ed but I only want to bonk her 2 more times?

Work schedule...come on, that is escape. You know it yourself, the more you engage into work, the more you stress, the more you want her. You are like, giving yourself one excuse to forget this KC issue. Then when you cannot tahan and meet her again, start to tell yourself yeah la I really miss her, miss her go see her cannot meh kinda bullshit. Everytime you promise yourself something, if you cannot handle it, dun anyhow promise. Cos the more you let yourself down, the more you become ill disciplined to get yourself out of this fix.

[warbird]

Originally Posted by fee3fow

ya "不是猛龙不过江" even if they are really innocent girls when they first step on our island, a few weeks at GL will have change them tremendously. Even some of our most veteran cheongsters in their 50s or 60s are getting eaten up by them THINK carefully before you make any big decisions

You're right bro fee3fow,

I love Chinese idioms.

"不是猛龙不过江"

"不是猛虎不下山"

Those foreign gals who come to SGP to work as WLs/FLS or in legal houses, HCs, KTVs n HFJs, etc. may be young, 18-23, but they are battle-tested, mentally tough n experienced professionals. Even veteran bros here are no match for them.

Most of them are masters of survival in a dog-eat-dog world. They are fast learners n often form cohesive groups n share info, strategies, pointers, ctc, etc. Their goal: Making the most money in the shortest possible time.

Goodnight!

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by warbird

You're right bro fee3fow,
Even veteran bros here are no match for them.

Most of them are masters of survival in a dog-eat-dog world. They are fast learners n often form cohesive groups n share info, strategies, pointers, ctc, etc. Their goal: Making the most money in the shortest possible time.

Well said bro, the minute you let your guard down, THAT'S IT!
Now that the financial crisis hits globally, the number of PRC MMs coming over also reducing liao, thus the demand and supply equilibrium will be tilted for sure and more SAVAGE means are expected to surface to get guys KCed to fill their pockets.......so guys, be very alert......on radar, on satellite, on surface to air, on air to air, on air to ground missiles........full battle readiness required!