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18-06-2009, 11:20 PM
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19-06-2009, 10:41 AM
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I believe that sex is one of the most beautiful, natural and wholesome thing that money can buy. 最浪漫的三个字不是“我爱你”，而是“在一起”。
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19-06-2009, 06:07 PM
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#424
21-06-2009, 08:51 AM
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Re: How to KC a WL without being KC-ed by Her
Mine is a really sad case. When my malaysian FB left me for home, i was really lost and confused. Had a few sessions with FLs from here till i received a call from a China girl, recommended by a FL i know. Fresh from abroad and
first time into FL, i fast hand fast leg made a session with her. Everything was normal and i ended up extremely sextified as it was like first blood. A few days later, a sms came from her telling me if i missed her. So i RTF. That was 1 over year ago. Today, i have lost heavily and had wanted out. Just wondering how i can get out of this trap. Through time, i have developed feelings for her and am stilling enjoying the sex romps every alternate days. The last 2 days, i have been ignoring her calls and sms. but i feel that is not gentlemanly and right. I also worried of her livelihood here and if she can survive. I really like to keep her but my finances is draining. Any bros here can help me with a nice way to break up the relationship? Really confused!
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#425
21-06-2009, 11:17 AM
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While you are spending on her and worrying about her, how many other guys you think are doing the same thing? Does she worry how much she has taken from you and how you feel? Not very likely. By feeling gentlemanly, by worrying about her fate and by wanting to keep her, it is your ego that is acting! There is no way other than the hard way. One road leads to financial ruin, if you continue to give and spend on her. The other is the road you will take to let her go, build up your resources again and stand tall again. Which road do you want to take? There is no such thing as being a gentlemen if you are cheonging. I am not sure about your marital status or even your financial status, but she will bring you to financial ruin and once you are spent, what makes you think she will not just drop you and go to the next guy? What makes you think she does or is not already fleecing the next guy? They come here to make money... Do you think they bother about feelings? Just some food for thought. I cannot tell you what to do and I do not presume to be able to do so too... It is up to you. I have been down this road before and I know that we have to protect ourselves.
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#426
21-06-2009, 01:14 PM
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Ok, minus all the love love sweet sweet stuff........... Forget all the gentleman shit...... You walked into fire and now is on fire.....survival instinct, what do you do???? RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Ignore all the way, trust me, she'll won't take it the way you do when it ends, only sadness is, where can i find my next money tree...or for all you know, there may be one already there but only u dun know...... Like many times mentioned here, its like taking drugs, no such thing as slowly cut down and such, cos it'll still kill ya...wanna kick the habit, STOP IMMEDIATELY and once purged and recovered, come out & play again....
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#427
22-06-2009, 10:42 AM
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It's such a simple mantra, yet many cheongsters commit the same sin over and over again... forget all that crap about gentleman conduct, worries over her livelihood, blah-blah-blah! The day you received her sms telling you she missed you and you RTF, the trap had been set. And she had set this trap over and over again for so many others, not only you, so what makes you think she will have any problem with her livelihood?!?!?!? So please leave your ego in your closet and let go. Unless you're prepared to go down the path of financial ruins and worse, depression over the lust for a woman who have no feelings for you in the 1st place!  Cheers!
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22-06-2009, 10:51 AM
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I believe that sex is one of the most beautiful, natural and wholesome thing that money can buy. 最浪漫的三个字不是“我爱你”，而是“在一起”。
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22-06-2009, 11:13 AM
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I believe that sex is one of the most beautiful, natural and wholesome thing that money can buy. 最浪漫的三个字不是“我爱你”，而是“在一起”。
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22-06-2009, 11:42 AM
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Wonder if it is our SG system that makes us vulnerable or 
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#431
22-06-2009, 12:10 PM
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Actually cheonging within our means is a very important and true mantra, however as many have mentioned before, it is a skill that is very difficult to master. Imagine if the SYT comes up to you and asks for a cute pendant today.... "Hmmm... pendant... okay lah... can afford lah.." Then tomolo another little something... It can all add up and at the end of the month, you tally up your bills and "Oh my god!!! I have over spent again!!!"
I personally have a cheong fund which is cash based (so that no credit card bills and so on, surface). I put aside some cash for cheonging and if I feel the need, I will use that for cheonging. Be it HC, KTV or whataver, it all comes from that fund. When I give to my local minah, it also comes out from that fund. In this case, funds for normal use is not mixed with funds for extra curricular activities and thus is not so easy to trace and also it sets a limit to how much I can spend. I keep the money in a safe place, and it comprises money that I do not spend on lottery and so on... So it is actually money considered spent anyway. Then if I feel and ache or a need to drink, I just take out some from it and use it for some fun. When there is no more... I stop for a while lor. I hope that this will help.
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#432
22-06-2009, 02:28 PM
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Re: How to KC a WL without being KC-ed by Her
Sharing my near 3 months experience KCing this gal and Kc-ed by her:
I met her at a KTV somewhere end of March. As usual, I always play KC game instead of pay, fcuk and forget. Being able to converse in her language, she is at ease with me so I dated her out the very next day for dinner before she goes for work. At dinner, she met my friend who was a regular customer of hers before. This makes her more at ease with me. My friend also confirmed that she is one of the better behaved girl in that KTV. This also makes me more eager to KC her in order to get better service from her. The dating goes on for 10 consecutive days in evening and after her work. Throughout the dates, we had some heavy petting and touches but not bonking. I bought her an air ticket and gifts to bring back to her home country. I also bought myself an air ticket to visit her at the end of April. I am to send her to the airport in the morning in the beginning of April. So as planned for, on the last night, I get her to the hotel to sleep together. This is the 1st time I bonked her and the experience is overwhelming. After the session, I am always looking forward to my trip in HCMC. While she is back home, we maintained contact through yahoo and calls. (amount spend by this time is about $500) I will leave out the details of my visit in HCMC. Overall, I had a wonderful time there and clocking the amount of ‘flying’ hours that I never thought I can ever do it. Looking for her in HCMC is to satisfy my bonking with her, but it somehow turn into a trap I setup for myself. When I came back to Sillypore, I miss her and also miss the lovely feeling of being together for few days. (amount spend in HCMC is $500 inclusive of $ for her). Fast forward… Knowing that she will be back in Sillypore in May and I have my house free for total of 8 days, I am so eager to welcome her back and let her stay over to accompany me as I miss the days in HCMC. On the day she arrives, I went over to her place and fetch. We live like a long lost couple for 5 days. Usually I bonk a gal few times, I get bored. In her case, 5 days and nights of bonking makes me want more and more of her. The few days she stayed over, she never go to work but accompany me wherever I cheong. I took my leave from work just to be with her. This was a plan to bonk her more, but it end up that I dig a hole too big. 2 weeks passed very fast with all the lovely things that can ever happen. Meet her for dinner after my work, meet her after her work for supper, on weekends we spend the night in hotel, beach, car, etc. Bonk or no bonk is alright. Sometimes she cooks dinner for me and we will eat near her place after my work. I told her that what she do during work, I can know but will accept it but I requested her not to do anything wrong after working hours. She agreed and I chose to believe her. Subsequently, I feel disturbed as jealousy starts to creep in. I started not believing her and always track her, call to see where she is, is she at home, did she go out in the afternoon with other guys, keep calling if she never answer the phone. I started thinking that she is seeing another guy whom is not her customer. Once awhile she did tell me who she is out with, where she is, what she is doing. Still I don't think that she is telling the whole truth. Some how I expect her to report everyday, every hour. I feel that this is getting out of control. (amount spend during her 3+ weeks stay in Sillypore is probably $800, inclusive of her lodging) So few days before she supposed to leave Sillypore, I hardened my feelings and started to find chances to quarrel, make her feel unease that I am tracking her. I am very determined to end the relation as I no longer believe whatever thing she says. I told myself that I had spent enough on her and the ROI is just nice. I spend about $1300 for so many flying hours that I lost count and 1 month of companion. However on the very last night, she came out a stunt (only for me to know). With this stunt that she did, everything that I thought that she is lying and everything that I don’t believe, started flow out of my mind. I believe in her again. We spend the night together at the beach to clear things out. In the morning, I send her to the airport to take her flight back. (I pass $500 to her as a gift) She reached her home country, she sms me to say that she is safe and sound at home. We maintained contact as usual. Since she will only be back here in 2-3 months time, I will be looking for her again in HCMC next month. Why I want to fly to HCMC to look for her again? Is it for the $500 gift that I want to get back the ROI or I really met “THE ONE”… One funny thing is that during the peroid of my internal struggle, I still believe that she did not go fcuk around with customer or this other guy. going around the loop again Last edited by KangTuo; 22-06-2009 at 02:38 PM.
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#433
22-06-2009, 02:31 PM
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Dun worry about whether she can survive... think for yourself first. You are her income-producing asset. If the asset cannot survive, how to produce the income?? There's nothing gentlemanly right or wrong in this matter... itz how you think that makes it right or wrong. And the RIGHT thing is to save yourself... the asset, first! Cheers!
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22-06-2009, 02:51 PM
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But now that you've shown a sense of CLARITY, yes, what answer you seek is in the last para above that you yourself penned down.
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The Choices We Make, Dictate The Life We Lead!!! The 4 Golden Rules in life: 1) 不要欺骗自己 2) 不要出卖自己 3) 不要背叛自己 4) 不要对不起自己 是你的，就是你的。 不是你的，不要抢！ 人之所以快乐，不是因为得到的多、而是因为计较的少 Officially Retired From The Nite Scene
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22-06-2009, 03:13 PM
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As one SBF bro commented...if my 'bro' no itchy, I will not end up in this way. However she is the best that i bedded so far. Through this peroid, somehow I feel that I neglected my girlfriend in Vietnam. So as to re-kindle the relationship with my girlfriend, I decided to fly to HCMC to look for my girlfriend this weekend. I believe I will be stronger after this fall... Lucky is that I am single though attached to a girl in HCMC. Bro who are married and hard some rocky relationship in the family, please do not fall into this trap. Not worthy...
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