How to KC a WL without being KC-ed by Her - Page 47

muscleboi · #**691** 28-04-2013, 11:21 AM

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Originally Posted by ahpui99

Hi bro

I know the feeling what you faced.
Before mid 2011, i used to be sucker for this type of behaviour. But after going to china, you realize that there are tons of woman that want to please you and do not give you shit.

Dont get me wrong. Can get bad experiences in China or any other place.

But once u can control your heart, you can control your dick and you can play safer.....

yes bro. i agree. as long as the heart is locked, and the gun is armed, there will be cries of orgasm, real or fake doesnt really matter so long we happy with what we get and they get the money...there is no free lunch in this world, we will have to pay for it one way or another.

i just prefer a straightforward transaction..

sweetangel · #**692** 28-04-2013, 03:51 PM

i kinda think that this could jolly well be applied to girls too
esp when the emotional attachment for girls are even harder to break off

muscleboi · #**693** 28-04-2013, 08:26 PM

sis sweetangel, when a girl decides to take that as a profession, she long long ago locked up her heart deep within the abyss which i believe she herself wont even be able to find..

any bros wanna talk about real relationship with wl/fl/similar professions, have a read at this: http://sbf.directory/showthread....96#post6883596

even an innocent wife can turn into a dick-thirsty whore, that story reminds me never ever to trust girls...working lady or not. i just believe in transaction, money for service.

no feelings. just release.

ALonelyPerson · #**694** 28-04-2013, 09:11 PM

I very realise one thing .. there will be 0 love from a WL esp from other countries .....

oldnewbie · #**695** 29-04-2013, 03:51 PM

thanks TS,
i will rate this as the most important thing to read regularly throughout your cheonging career (even if it was started in 2009)

i was lucky to come across this thread at times when i needed a wakeup call

this thread should never be removed...

padaone · #**696** 07-05-2013, 07:46 PM

I want to share my experience with fellow bros here and also to clear my mind. Met this gogo girl a few months ago on my trip to bangkok. At that time didn't feel anything for her just liked her attitude. Got her num and arranged for her to come to my hotel on my next trip. Long story short she had great attitude and gfe. So being the horny baststard that i am, i decided to try and kc her.Told me she loved me on the last day and went with me to the airport. Didn't believe her but decided to play along. I gave her 9000 baht for the 2 days she spent with me. She said mai pen rai which means nevermind in thai. Didnt know if she meant nevermind noneed pay me or nevermind so little also ok.

Anyway back in sg she called me and text me everyday. And call direct never used calling card. She chalked up a 8000 baht phone bill. I thought this girl really tio kc liao. Anyway told her ill go see her on her birthday but I am not gonna pay her a single cent. She said ok only want my heart. At this point I only took what she said with a pinch of salt, I was thinking she will probably chut dunno what pattern when she see me. Continued playing kc with her for about 2 months. She claims she cant go with other customers. Didn't believe her but just played along. All this time I was still in control of my emotions, still can think with big head so no problem there.

Eventually went to bkk to see her for her bday. She came to the airport to pick me up. It was an enjoyable 1 week. For the whole week she never asked for a cent. She even paid her own barfine and part of the expenses excluding hotel of course. I estimate that she spend total about 8000 baht. Thats when I thought this girl really tio my kc liao.

Anyway she tells me she wants to stop working and get and office job. I gave her my moral support but made it clear that im not gonna give her a cent that she will have to make her iwn living.

On her payday she sent me a photo of her pay slip from the bar. She days she wants me to believe that she didn't go with any customers. She strategically left out the right most portion of her payslip which I assumed states the number of barfine for the day. What she forgot about was the total barfine for the month which says 26. Ccb I see liao damn dulan. Actually I dont even know why im pissed. I never believed her when she told me she didnt have a single barfine for a whole month. I guess seeing solid proof that shes been lying just pisses the hell out of me. Anyway I grilled her till she admitted. I was very dulan and broke it off with her.

All along I thought I was in total control of my emotions. But now I realized that im starting to miss her. Im considering taking her back as shes a good fuck buddy and of course foc plus she pays for part of the expenses. I am also scared that I end up kenna kc by her myself. Now still trying to decided what to do. Feel very sian.

Thanks for listening to me rant. Hope my experiences will be of help. Any suggestions and advice would be greatly appreciated. Now I also cant think straight.

justl00king · #**697** 07-05-2013, 08:10 PM

Bro,

Thanks for sharing your story. This kind of bbk tales very common.

If you think you can control and not be KCed, just keep her as fb whenever you go there. But you are already showing signs of missing her, meaning her kc trap is showing effect.

There are many kinds of kc traps they can deploy, some yield instant results while others may take some time. But end result still same, once you fall in will be difficult to recover.

These wl/fl can lock their hearts away once they start in this line, question is can you do the same?

muscleboi · #**698** 07-05-2013, 11:37 PM

does it mean we all should try being gigolos to master the act of locking heart

cos it can be really tough unless bros can be heartless..but then if really can be gigolo, i only wanna be gigolo to rich tai tai

padaone · #**699** 08-05-2013, 01:22 AM

I guess best way to lock heart is to play the game more. Kenna burnt a few times locked liao

justl00king · #**700** 08-05-2013, 02:40 AM

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Originally Posted by padaone

I guess best way to lock heart is to play the game more. Kenna burnt a few times locked liao

That's a good point you brought up.

You get to meet wl once in awhile and maybe only get to play such games when you meet one you fancy. So less chances to master the craft.

These wl meet loads of clients on a daily basis, lots of practice to play such games. Definitely more skillful and many levels up to play with you.

But one thing do holds truth for those yet to be on the receiving end. The person in kc will never listen to any advice till he gets burn badly. Sad thing is after getting burnt some still do not wake up and continue to live in fantasy.

Leo30 · #**701** 08-05-2013, 08:10 PM

Wow thank u senior members for the advices
Im new to this kinda thing after being so lonely for a long time.
Tried a really nice lady recommended by a friend and it was her who told me abt this site.
Haha... the situation TS told is exactly wat happened. I dont know what is real or honest anymore. But still an experience with her was a good kindness for me tat took away ky lonely feeling. Thanks TS. Ill keep a distance

ziwan · #**702** 21-05-2013, 12:59 AM

Hi bro, sounds that you already develop feeling for this girl, especially when you post this thread and ask for suggestion. I think best for you to stop contact her and move on before you fall into it.

Quote:

Originally Posted by padaone

I want to share my experience with fellow bros here and also to clear my mind. Met this gogo girl a few months ago on my trip to bangkok. At that time didn't feel anything for her just liked her attitude. Got her num and arranged for her to come to my hotel on my next trip. Long story short she had great attitude and gfe. So being the horny baststard that i am, i decided to try and kc her.Told me she loved me on the last day and went with me to the airport. Didn't believe her but decided to play along. I gave her 9000 baht for the 2 days she spent with me. She said mai pen rai which means nevermind in thai. Didnt know if she meant nevermind noneed pay me or nevermind so little also ok.

Anyway back in sg she called me and text me everyday. And call direct never used calling card. She chalked up a 8000 baht phone bill. I thought this girl really tio kc liao. Anyway told her ill go see her on her birthday but I am not gonna pay her a single cent. She said ok only want my heart. At this point I only took what she said with a pinch of salt, I was thinking she will probably chut dunno what pattern when she see me. Continued playing kc with her for about 2 months. She claims she cant go with other customers. Didn't believe her but just played along. All this time I was still in control of my emotions, still can think with big head so no problem there.

Eventually went to bkk to see her for her bday. She came to the airport to pick me up. It was an enjoyable 1 week. For the whole week she never asked for a cent. She even paid her own barfine and part of the expenses excluding hotel of course. I estimate that she spend total about 8000 baht. Thats when I thought this girl really tio my kc liao.

Anyway she tells me she wants to stop working and get and office job. I gave her my moral support but made it clear that im not gonna give her a cent that she will have to make her iwn living.

On her payday she sent me a photo of her pay slip from the bar. She days she wants me to believe that she didn't go with any customers. She strategically left out the right most portion of her payslip which I assumed states the number of barfine for the day. What she forgot about was the total barfine for the month which says 26. Ccb I see liao damn dulan. Actually I dont even know why im pissed. I never believed her when she told me she didnt have a single barfine for a whole month. I guess seeing solid proof that shes been lying just pisses the hell out of me. Anyway I grilled her till she admitted. I was very dulan and broke it off with her.

All along I thought I was in total control of my emotions. But now I realized that im starting to miss her. Im considering taking her back as shes a good fuck buddy and of course foc plus she pays for part of the expenses. I am also scared that I end up kenna kc by her myself. Now still trying to decided what to do. Feel very sian.

Thanks for listening to me rant. Hope my experiences will be of help. Any suggestions and advice would be greatly appreciated. Now I also cant think straight.

ziwan · #**703** 21-05-2013, 01:16 AM

The main driving factor for KC seem to be growing sympathy for the girls. It's always sympathy first then you fall for her, then KC by her, do whatever you can to help her. Always hear from my friend how he got gongtau by a WL, then spend his savings buying house for this WL girl. In the end what he get no true relationship but just bonk.

stillgottheblue · #**704** 21-05-2013, 09:57 AM

It is a norm for Thai women/ men to have multiple relationship at the same time. They are the mater of KC through living like that all their lives. My point is never put your trust in them, especially when they're in the flesh trade.

warbird · #**705** 21-05-2013, 11:57 AM

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Originally Posted by ziwan

The main driving factor for KC seem to be growing a sympathy for the girls. It's always sympathy for a girl then you fall for her, then KC by her, do whatever you can to help her. Always hear from my friend how he got gongtau by a WL, then spend his savings buying house for his non WL girl. In the end what he get no true relationship but just bonk.

Hi bro ziwan,

I couldn't agree w/ u more.

However, I don't understand your statement: "Always hear from my friend how he got gongtau by a WL, then spend his savings buying house for his non WL girl."

Did u mean that your friend kena 'gongtau' by a WL then spend his savings buying house for his non WL girl, but not for the WL?

In other words, the WL 'gongtau' your friend so that he would buy a house for his non WL GF n not for her. Why?? I guess she is truly altruistic.

Pls clarify.

Ths!

Bro WB