How to KC a WL without being KC-ed by Her

[korean]

Originally Posted by a2014

Normally FL from these countries coming here, the smarter one will find a few here to sponsor them on monthly basis expenses plus plus. Then back home a local guy so call their local husband. After venturing into foreign

I think it is not the smarter one but greedy one who will do that. Two of the good one told me similar things, there is no free lunch n believe in karma, hence they will not take extra on top of their hard earn money.

[sbclove69]

Originally Posted by a2014

Normally FL from these countries coming here,

Just to clarify things, in case Mr Singapore Guy is reading, she does not FL here. She FL in Hatyai. Have not done FL in Singapore.

So I really don't understand how people, like Mr Singapore Guy, can expect something out of the relationship, since she is based in Hatyai all the time unless going home to Chiang Rai.
Unless to Mr Singapore Guy, its just a charity project as the poster had stated.

Anyway over the years,
have seen quite a number of the messages that Thai girls have shown me,
Really have had quite a few good laughs lol. They actually wanted me to help translate for them hahahahhaha

As to what the above poster has stated.
All I can say is whatever they say, its generally best to be one ear in one ear out.

Not saying that all the relationships are doomed to fail.
Do know a few that has succeeded over the years, but its really rare,
and are all cases whereby the Thai girl has actually moved to his country or he has moved to Thailand with a decent source of income.

Anyway, Mr Singapore Guy, you have been advised lol.

[a2014]

Originally Posted by korean

I think it is not the smarter one but greedy one who will do that. Two of the good one told me similar things, there is no free lunch n believe in karma, hence they will not take extra on top of their hard earn money.

Actually the greedy one are smarter, why I said that, smarter in the sense of their view, getting what they want in a short time and eventually last a longer term in their point of view. They are not talking about marriage, anyway they already married mentally to money and possibly a local guy.

Those honest one may tell you their story however they too have got no choice, if they had why they join the trade. That is why I said it's a give and take situation, it's an individual perception and preference.

[korean]

Originally Posted by a2014

Actually the greedy one are smarter, why I said that, smarter in the sense of their view, getting what they want in a short time and eventually last a longer term in their point of view. They are not talking about marriage, anyway they already married mentally to money and possibly a local guy.

Those honest one may tell you their story however they too have got no choice, if they had why they join the trade. That is why I said it's a give and take situation, it's an individual perception and preference.

To me greedy doesn't necessary mean smarter. Easy money come easy go as well, coz they felt money can be easily made by cheating. And if u believe in karma, they will get back the return. Those good wl is smart, why, becoz they don't wanna kena more bad karma even though they know they can get much more money in shorter time. Sometime they don't need to con ppl money or gift but their client buy them Hermes, diamonds, iPhone, big tips or even bao them for 300k. Easy money yeah, no need to ask ppl already give, but they don't take.

[sbclove69]

Originally Posted by korean

Easy money yeah, no need to ask ppl already give, but they don't take.

Looking at it from another perspective, in a normal BGR(non WL), have not met any girl who have not accepted gifts before. They might not say it directly, but they will drop hints and it was up to their boyfriends to buy loh.

So if the WLs didn't ask and they didnt hint, and ppl want to give but they reject.

1. They are really not into it.

2. They are let go long line to catch big fish.

Anyway 300k of what currency?

[korean]

Originally Posted by sbclove69

Looking at it from another perspective, in a normal BGR(non WL), have not met any girl who have not accepted gifts before. They might not say it directly, but they will drop hints and it was up to their boyfriends to buy loh.

So if the WLs didn't ask and they didnt hint, and ppl want to give but they reject.

1. They are really not into it.

2. They are let go long line to catch big fish.

Anyway 300k of what currency?

Sgd300k. Yes even for bgr, they may even hint or ask for gifts. So sometime non wl can be more greedy than wl, lol.

To be honest, diamonds rings, Hermes, iphone which gal doesn't like. The wl told me honestly she was excited to receive the gift, but cannot take as she didn't deserve for it.

[sbclove69]

Originally Posted by korean

Sgd300k. Yes even for bgr, they may even hint or ask for gifts. So sometime non wl can be more greedy than wl, lol.

To be honest, diamonds rings, Hermes, iphone which gal doesn't like. The wl told me honestly she was excited to receive the gift, but cannot take as she didn't deserve for it.

wah SGD 300k also she dont want.

Still feel the same :

1. She is not into it.
2. She is putting long line to catch big fish.

Anyway guys, another way to look at things.

Just imagine you are working in a environment where the pay is good,
time and effort put in is not that much and you can complete d workscope pretty much at home. Only conference calls required with head office(Company A) based in the US. Alot of freedom given.

If you have the opportunity to freelance other jobs/projects in the same environment, won't you also take up all the extra lobangs???

As long as the work required from the Company A is completed, and once in awhile you have to drop by to local office.

Honestly speaking, how many of you won't take up d extra lobangs?

[korean]

WwwYes it is hard to believe, I was abit skeptical as u until I met at least three of them. If the wl is greedy Enuf, she will 大小通吃，I will if I'm the greedy wl.

There is definitely ppl don't take up that offer, as:

- Prefer easy life, feel sufficient
- still illegal, scare kena find out and kena sue or loss both jobs
- pride in job
- value loyalty

Originally Posted by sbclove69

wah SGD 300k also she dont want.

Still feel the same :

1. She is not into it.
2. She is putting long line to catch big fish.

Anyway guys, another way to look at things.

Just imagine you are working in a environment where the pay is good,
time and effort put in is not that much and you can complete d workscope pretty much at home. Only conference calls required with head office(Company A) based in the US. Alot of freedom given.

If you have the opportunity to freelance other jobs/projects in the same environment, won't you also take up all the extra lobangs???

As long as the work required from the Company A is completed, and once in awhile you have to drop by to local office.

Honestly speaking, how many of you won't take up d extra lobangs?

[sbclove69]

Originally Posted by korean

WwwYes it is hard to believe, I was abit skeptical as u until I met at least three of them. If the wl is greedy Enuf, she will 大小通吃，I will if I'm the greedy wl.

There is definitely ppl don't take up that offer, as:

- Prefer easy life, feel sufficient
- still illegal, scare kena find out and kena sue or loss both jobs
- pride in job
- value loyalty

I agree with some of the points you have made.
In order to not go too much off topic in this thread will not be raising the counter-arguements.

But again just want to put across a different perspective.
Those who kena KCed big time then whine and whine in forum might read and use the scenario to ask themselves.

Or those who are in the process of getting KCed.

[a2014]

Originally Posted by sbclove69

Honestly speaking, how many of you won't take up d extra lobangs?

Well there are, if you don't encounter it you wouldn't believe it that's all. Most which I should say 99.99% will take the money and go, but if you said you will give 300K, most will be skeptical too but as times goes by 300K will still be use on her be it whatever mean.

I have encounter someone, buy her an iPAD happy happy, then one year down the road give her an android device to be able to view online movie worldwide, kena scolding say "why waste money to buy such things, I am happy for the iPad as it is my dream device, not waste money on something that I may not need. TAKE BACK, I don't want it."

So LL take home. Well what to say. She has a decent job now so and apparently grown up already and also pass 30 already, thinking should be more mature.

Because these people are not true FL/WL they came into this trade as they got no other alternative or in the hope of make one fast catch and go home but apparently got into feeling with someone during their routine task. If she value your present she will be moderate with your spending as she knew no matter what you will take care of her so taking 300k one go means touch and go, but if she don't take it will still go to her one day maybe wait long long kind of situation. Well they wouldn't mind if the have feeling for you. Anyway she is still young can wait.

This is just my two cents worth of thought and a true encounter.

[korean]

Sigh, remind me of her. I asked for her remittance account several times as wanna buy her small gift as Xmas present but she die die don't wanna give me, asked me to save the money and said she is happy with whatever she is having.

Originally Posted by a2014

Well there are, if you don't encounter it you wouldn't believe it that's all. Most which I should say 99.99% will take the money and go, but if you said you will give 300K, most will be skeptical too but as times goes by 300K will still be use on her be it whatever mean.

I have encounter someone, buy her an iPAD happy happy, then one year down the road give her an android device to be able to view online movie worldwide, kena scolding say "why waste money to buy such things, I am happy for the iPad as it is my dream device, not waste money on something that I may not need. TAKE BACK, I don't want it."

So LL take home. Well what to say. She has a decent job now so and apparently grown up already and also pass 30 already, thinking should be more mature.

Because these people are not true FL/WL they came into this trade as they got no other alternative or in the hope of make one fast catch and go home but apparently got into feeling with someone during their routine task. If she value your present she will be moderate with your spending as she knew no matter what you will take care of her so taking 300k one go means touch and go, but if she don't take it will still go to her one day maybe wait long long kind of situation. Well them wouldn't mind if the have feeling for you. Anyway she is still young can wait.

This is just my two cents worth of thought and a true encounter.

[warbird]

Originally Posted by korean

To me greedy doesn't necessary mean smarter. Easy money come easy go as well, coz they felt money can be easily made by cheating. And if u believe in karma, they will get back the return. Those good wl is smart, why, becoz they don't wanna kena more bad karma even though they know they can get much more money in shorter time. Sometime they don't need to con ppl money or gift but their client buy them Hermes, diamonds, iPhone, big tips or even bao them for 300k. Easy money yeah, no need to ask ppl already give, but they don't take.

Bro Korean,

Spending 300K sgd to BY a girl for how long? A month? A year? Five years?

A pretty SYT of my type in SG could cost around 150-300K a year to BY, if I add up everything, which includes monthly allowance, condo rental, school fees, air fare, gifts, meals...

So far I hv only one mistress who almost always refuses gifts.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[sbclove69]

Originally Posted by a2014

I have encounter someone, buy her an iPAD happy happy, then one year down the road give her an android device to be able to view online movie worldwide, kena scolding say "why waste money to buy such things, I am happy for the iPad as it is my dream device, not waste money on something that I may not need. TAKE BACK, I don't want it."

So LL take home. Well what to say. She has a decent job now so and apparently grown up already and also pass 30 already, thinking should be more mature.

You have met a rare minority.

Originally Posted by a2014

Because these people are not true FL/WL they came into this trade

What is a "not true FL/WL" or even "true FL/WL"?
To me there are all shades of grey in between black and white and its a large area of grey.

All I can say is that to each their own, but what I feel funny is that some jokers will come in whining and kbkp that they kena KCed despite the numerous negative cases already stated about the issue compared to the rare successful ones.

Again have witnessed some rare successful cases.

[korean]

Originally Posted by warbird

Bro Korean,

Spending 300K sgd to BY a girl for how long? A month? A year? Five years?

A pretty SYT of my type in SG could cost around 150-300K a year to BY, if I add up everything, which includes monthly allowance, condo rental, school fees, air fare, gifts, meals...

So far I hv only one mistress who almost always refuses gifts.

Cheers!

Bro WB

Hi bro warbird,

I dunno the duration as I just listened to her without further asking eventhough I'm quite curious to know the details. I will find out from her next time and share here if any.
She used to be baoed b4 coming to sg. Iirc taking sgd 4k~5k monthly allowance and a credit card with limit of sgd few hundreds thousands. Unfortunately she didn't save the money, probably still young n money come easily. Remind me of 北京遇上西雅图 movie

[a2014]

Originally Posted by warbird

Bro Korean,

Spending 300K sgd to BY a girl for how long? A month? A year? Five years?

A pretty SYT of my type in SG could cost around 150-300K a year to BY, if I add up everything, which includes monthly allowance, condo rental, school fees, air fare, gifts, meals...

So far I hv only one mistress who almost always refuses gifts.

Bro WB, good question.

Cheers.